Sorority Rush

Sorority Rush

Sorority Rush 101:
How to Stand Out in Sorority Recruitment

A Guide to Standing Out in Sorority Recruitment

Are new members eligible for any kinds of leadership positions?
Why did you, personally, choose to join this sorority?

Does this sorority offer sisterhood events to its members?
Do you have a favorite memory since joining your sorority?
Has being in a sorority changed your overall experience in college? How so?

Going into college, the idea of joining a sorority can be an exciting prospect for many young women—and we definitely understand this eagerness. For college students of all different backgrounds, being a sorority member can be one of the most rewarding and beneficial experiences of their university years. Of course, before you’re actually a full-fledged sorority member, you’re going to need to go through rush first.
If you’ve never rushed before, it can be tricky figuring out some of the etiquette, as well as how to stand out and make a positive name for yourself. This is the earliest impression you’ll be able to make on your (potential future) sorority sisters, so it can feel pretty daunting going in. After all, first impressions aren’t something that can be redone—this can add a lot of pressure and make rushing an even scarier prospect.
Whenever you know what to expect, however, rushing won’t seem so frightening. So, instead of blindly heading into rush, it’s a wise idea to brush up on some of the basics. That’s precisely why we’ve put together this Sorority Rush 101 guide, giving you the jump start you need to have a positive and memorable rushing experience. In particular, we’d like to give you the rundown on how to stand out during recruitment, arming you with the best possible chance of getting into your top pick—whether you’re aiming for Kappa Kappa Gamma , Chi Omega , Alpha Delta Pi , or any other Greek organization.
We get it—figuring out what to say can be scary, and the idea of saying the “wrong” thing is something that makes many prospective sisters uneasy. However, in reality, it isn’t that difficult to say the “right” thing during recruitment. Why? Well, this is partly because there is no specific right thing to say. Instead, there are some guidelines that you should probably abide by whenever you’re talking to current sorority members during rush.
One of the most important tenets? Be open and honest with everyone around you. This might seem obvious, but some of the time, people feel like they have to put on a front. Some sisters-to-be will go out of their way to create (what they believe to be) a “perfect” version of themselves, free of uncertainties. Don’t try to fit into a sorority environment that doesn’t come naturally to you. Instead, you should be seeking out the sorority where you genuinely feel that you fit in without having to change who you are.
If you could really see yourself joining a particular sorority, you should voice this opinion openly. Or, if you were already dropped by your number one pick, don’t be afraid to let other sorority members know about this. After all, some of them could also have been dropped in the past, and they may know precisely what you’re going through. This isn’t a situation that you should ever feel the need to hide, just because the sorority you’re currently speaking to wasn’t your original number one pick. Sometimes people get dropped, and your future sorority sisters will understand that.
On that note, even if you were dropped from your top pick, make sure to keep an open mind —and let this show in your conversations with other sorority members. Try not to come off as bitter or standoffish if you ever find yourself in this situation. Instead, just try to stay in the moment at all times. Try to avoid “what if” thinking, as this can negatively impact your interactions with other sorority sisters.
In a similar vein, you should be asking questions to your potential sorority sisters. Not only will this give you better insight into potential organizations, but also, it will allow you to make a positive impression on current members. When you engage and ask questions, you’re showing that you have a genuine interest in the organization. This is something that current sorority sisters love to see during rush.
Not sure what you should be asking? If that’s the case, then we have some suggestions. Some potential questions could be:
Of course, if you think of any other questions that interest you, feel free to ask those! This is far from an exhaustive list. Try to feel out the conversation and figure out what you’d like to know about the sorority in question. There’s a good chance that the questions you ask one sorority aren’t going to be identical to what you ask another sorority—that’s perfectly okay.
Also, make sure that you’re prioritizing whatever is essential to you. Everyone joins a sorority for a different reason, and everyone approaches rush with a different level of sorority knowledge. No matter who you are or where you’re coming from, ask the questions that make the most sense, based upon your own priorities. In fact, asking specific (rather than very general) questions can make an even more substantial impact on the sorority members you’re speaking to. When you ask detailed or specific questions, it’s even more apparent that you have a genuine interest in joining—this sort of interest is guaranteed to stand out during recruitment.
If you’re currently stressing over what to wear during recruitment events, then you’re not alone. Obviously, there’s no perfect how-to guide on how you should be dressing during recruitment—everyone has their own sense of style, and this isn’t something that you should be sacrificing for the sake of conformity. In fact, whenever you attempt to conform in this way, there’s less of a chance that you’ll stand out to current sorority sisters.
When you’re figuring out your recruitment outfits, keep this idea in mind: It should be evident that you’re putting effort and thought into your appearance, whatever way this looks for you. When you throw on some sweatpants and a T-shirt, you aren’t showing sorority members that they’re worth your time and effort. This doesn’t mean that you have to dress glamorously and wear a full face of makeup each and every day—instead, find a comfortable middle ground. Dress nicely, but also comfortably. Let your future sisters get a good sense of your unique style, as well.
Basically, show everyone that you take recruitment seriously while also letting them see your personal sense of style.
Also, make sure to check if your college has more specific requirements when it comes to how you should dress during recruitment—for instance, maybe you’ll need to stick to a particular color. If you’re unsure, try taking a look at your school’s sorority recruitment guide. You could also check with a recruitment counselor.
Excited to begin repping your new sorority? Then it’s time to get in touch with the team at Emerson Coast. Not only do we offer an extensive selection of stylish designs, but we even offer a custom design option . That way, you can get sorority apparel suited to your sisters’ tastes. Questions? You can contact us by texting (479) 856-2140.

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Contact the office of Greek life to learn more about rushing. Call or refer to the website for the office of Greek life at your university to find out when rush will take place, how to register, and the registration deadline. [1]
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It is a good idea to do this at least 3 months in advance so that you have time to fill out any registration forms and gather together any additional requirements.

Some universities begin recruitment in the fall and may even begin before classes have started. Other universities hold rush in the spring or have a less formal rolling recruitment process. [2]
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Rush can last anywhere from a few days to several weeks. At most schools, going through rush will take up quite a bit of your time, so make sure that you research how long rush takes at your school and plan accordingly. [3]
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Make sure that you are aware of any prerequisite requirements that you will need to fulfill before your registration will be accepted, such as obtaining a minimum GPA.

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Register for rush. Register for rush online by visiting your school’s recruitment website. Fill out all any registration forms online with as much detailed information as you can. Sororities will be looking for members who will positively contribute to their culture and who will actively engage in social, educational, and charitable events, so list any extracurricular activities that you have participated in on your registration form.

There will likely be a registration fee, so make sure that you are aware of these costs and plan accordingly.
At some schools, the office of Greek life will require or recommend that you include letters of recommendation with your application. Ask for letters of recommendation well in advance as these can take some time for people to complete.

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Explore the different sororities at your school. Look into which sororities have chapters at your school. During recruitment, you will have the opportunity to talk with several members of each sorority. Researching ahead of time will make you aware of the types of social events and charitable organizations each sorority is involved in so you will know what to ask about during rush.

If possible, go to charity events or other extracurricular activities put on by sororities on campus prior to rush. This will give you an opportunity to get to know some of the members ahead of time.
After submitting your registration, you may be assigned a recruitment counselor who can provide you with some resources to help you familiarize yourself with the sorority chapters at your school. [4]
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Plan your outfits according to the dress code for each round. Refer to your school’s recruitment website to find out if there is a dress code for each round of rush. If no requirements are listed, ask your recruitment advisor or talk with experienced sorority members to assess the appropriate attire for each round. [5]
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At most schools, each round gets a little dressier, so it is a good idea to plan your outfits ahead of time. [6]
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The dress code for rush varies widely, but as a general rule of thumb, try to avoid wearing anything that would be inappropriate for class. While you want to be yourself and show off your individuality, you also want to make a good first impression and demonstrate how you will positively contribute to sorority life. [7]
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Visit several sororities during the recruitment rounds. Participate in all the rounds to help you narrow down which sorority is right for you. Usually, there are 3 to 5 rounds that are identified by a theme or activity, each lasting about 30 minutes to 1 hour. [8]
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As part of the first round of rush, you will likely attend open houses at several sororities. Some universities will require that you visit every open house during the first round to maintain rush eligibility, so make sure that you stick to a schedule and follow the rules. The first round is usually the shortest, meaning you will spend about 30 to 45 minutes at each sorority. [9]
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The middle round or rounds of rush generally focus on teaching potential members about each sororities’ social events and philanthropies. The middle round or rounds usually involve a skit that allows each sorority to express their personality and values. [10]
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The final round, often called Preference Night, tends to last longer than the earlier rounds (about 1 hour), giving you more time to get to know the members. This round is usually dressier and more serious in tone, providing members with the opportunity to share about their sorority experience.

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Get to know the sorority members. Talk to several members during each round and ask questions to get to know what daily life in each sorority will entail. Rush provides a relatively short period of time for you to determine which sorority is the best fit for you, so it is helpful for you to get to know as many members as possible, particularly in the later rounds.

In the first and second rounds, you may not have much time to talk to many members for any significant amount of time. As the rounds go on, however, you will be able to spend more time at each, learning more about the sorority and its members.
Ask members about the activities they are involved in. For example, find out if they are involved in any intramural sports, or how often they schedule social events. This will help you figure out which sorority will provide you with the types of opportunities you are looking for and will help you get a sense of which sorority is right for you.

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Rank your favorite sororities after each round. At the end of each round, reflect on your experience at each sorority and consider what you have learned about each to help you rank your preferences. Each sorority will be asked to do the same, and cuts will be made based on both sets of rankings. [11]
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At most schools, you will submit your rankings via email or on the school’s recruitment website immediately following the end of each round.
While it varies from one school to another, you will usually be notified via email, the recruitment website, or by your recruitment advisor whether you have been cut from a sorority or not. You will be notified before the next round of rush begins.

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