Snuck In Her Room At Night

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Snuck In Her Room At Night
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She originally thought ghosts were haunting her, but it turned out to be her boyfriend's mom!
This woman on TikTok got an app that would record her at night to catch her snoring or making other noises at night. However, upon playback, she would hear a random voice saying hateful things to her while she slept. At first she thought there was some paranormal activity going on, but she later found out it was her boyfriend's mom sneaking into her room at night!

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My grandmother snuck into my bed whilst I was sleeping; my girlfriend and I ended up making our feelings known and... Yeah, it's pretty much all gone to hell.
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Sooo... I posted a thing awhile back on a different sub after being told that you guys might be able to help, but first things first; things have gotten worse. This is long so I apologize in advance.
I intended to post before I ended up confronting/laying out my boundaries in regards to the situation with my grandmother that I'll explain below, but unfortunately, she got to us first. The whole incident did not end well. I'm fairly certain that this is the worst family argument I've been involved in.
Some background is in order, I guess.
The problem here is my maternal grandmother ― and if the title isn't clear enough, she displays some very disturbing behavior; to the point that she climbed into bed with me while I was wiped-out-drunk.
It was the night of the Superbowl; me, my father and my half-brother (the reason why we weren't initially expecting her; he's the son of my father's first wife, and after years of her sidelining him, they no longer get along) were all getting drunk and watching the game. Standard stuff. She arrived half way through and while we didn't really care to make her leave, we didn't try to entertain her, either; we were drunk and preoccupied, and she made the whole situation awkward, alternating between trying to override our nonsensical drunken conversations and looking for fights with my father and half-brother. She'd complain about us drinking, about the food we ate, the game, the time, or she simply stared at us. In the end, we ignored her until she got up in a big huff and went into one of the guest rooms.
This is where... The Incident as I've ended up labeling it in my head, happened.
I spend my time equally between my girlfriend's apartment and my father's home. All three of us (me, my half-brother and my sister) all have permanent rooms, and the house is big enough that we're happy co-existing despite being fully grown adults. My bed, in my room, is against the wall, and I prefer to sleep near it. So when my grandmother (who was in the guest room on the ground floor) climbed in with me, she was effectively blocking me in and the only way to get out was to climb over the frame at the foot of it.
Now, someone suggested that it could be a form of illness; dementia, maybe, and I might have agreed if it weren't for the fact that she was also lying with her arms physically wrapped around my torso, under the covers. At first, being drunk, I thought that my girlfriend had found her way into the house and was in bed with me, it was that much of an intimate hold ― let's just say I had a shock when I turned around to find my grandmother and not my girlfriend of four years, who tends to sleep in roughly the same position when we do share a bed.
I actually thought I was hallucinating. When I got out of the room and slept on the sofa, I checked again after I went to the toilet and, sure enough, she was still there. I was confused; I didn't really know how to react, so I slept on and off in a different room until I could leave the house at six. I never confronted her at the time, or woke up my father, or my half-brother. I was upset, and confused.
I told my girlfriend; she suggested that we confront her. We did end up doing it unexpectedly when she "popped round" again and started sort of hinting that she enjoyed 'spending time' with me without fully disclosing with details; she told me my room hadn't changed since I was a teenager (it hasn't, really but she already knew that) and that I sleep like the dead. Like a subtle hint-hint-nudge-nudge. I think the fact that I never said anything at the time made her assume that I was too drunk to notice, or something. My girlfriend blew up at her, rightfully. When my grandmother backtracked, I confirmed what my girlfriend was saying and told her that it wasn't acceptable.
It was probably a mistake, all things considered, but we were angry and embarrassed and I just want her to stop , and we can't really take it back now so. Great. It wasn't how I wanted to tell her, but, fine.
My grandmother has always been difficult to have a relationship with; she "acted" like a second mother after mine died several years ago, against my father's wishes, and ever since then, what used to be a fairly unobtrusive, even non-existent relationship has turned awkwardly affectionate.
Like I said, this wasn't the first incident; she constantly refers to me as "her baby". She's clingy, and has been known to go on massive emotional tirades when I don't phone/text over a length of time. When I graduated, I could only reserve for two people during the ceremony and she tried to force my girlfriend out so she could have a seat ― the other having gone to my dad. When I first got my first job, she demanded that she check it out first beforehand and embarrassed me enough at the workplace that I eventually quit and worked for my father. When I started looking for houses (what a mess that turned out to be) she had to have a say. She tried to get in as my emergency contact. She had an argument with my girlfriend over who was "allowed" to buy me undershirts. God forbid if my girlfriend holds my hand or lock's arms with me; if she's there, my grandmother has to get in there, too.
I've explained it to her before; that I'm her grandson, and she's my grandmother ― my seventy-one-year-old grandmother, and I have a girlfriend whom I've been with for nearly four years. I've told her to back off, that she was making me uncomfortable, but all I get, every single time, is a massive emotional outburst where she cries and demands to know why I don't love her, which then causes several other family members to get involved, who then bombard me with texts and phone calls, and generally tell me I'm a bad grandson ― that I'm her only "real" grandson, how could I be so cold?! And so on and so forth. The pressure intensifies until I drop the situation and apologize.
The general reaction to me complaining about her behavior are several calls to "man up" and not to feel anything by it. My father is sympathetic, but practically everyone else in my family barring my half-brother have frequently told me that I'm making something out of nothing and that I'm being inappropriate.
And that is exactly what has happened; I told her that I was done, that I wanted a break and that we wouldn't be seeing each other for awhile.
Guys, we were thirty minutes away in the car when I got a text from my grandfather and at least three phone calls from one of my aunts (I have several ― my mother has three sisters and two brothers, and my father has at least seven other siblings who we never see ― for simplicities sake, this is FMAunt1 for Flying Monkey no. 1 because she's my grandmother's closest and most similar child, but the first out of two) and by the time I got home, I had several texts from various family members demanding to know what I did to my grandmother, because she was having a breakdown.
Phone calls keep on coming in; I've been told to haul my ass back across the county to apologize and make up for what I said to her, that I'm killing her, and all that fun stuff. My girlfriend has already warned me not to look at my facebook.
So, I guess I'm going to need advice as to how to go no contact and some general thoughts on the situation, because I'm fucking done, as far as they are concerned. On one hand, having a target painted on my back has made me panicky and distraught, but on the other, being the subject of her entire world is exhausting and humiliating.
Some things that have already been done, because I guess people are going to ask:
I've asked my girlfriend to lock down my facebook and sort out most of the messages on my behalf. Now, they can't see anything I post and she's taken the liberty of blocking my grandmother FMAunt1 and FMAunt2, their respective husbands (the other Aunt is okay; she's staying out of this) and my great-uncles, who are also abusive dicks.
I'm also staying at my girlfriend's for the foreseeable future because I know that I'd have "visitors" if I stayed at my father's. My father himself is fine; he cares so little for his MIL and SILs that I don't think it affects him beyond how it impacts myself and my siblings. He's already told my grandmother to leave both himself and me be. None of my extended family know where my girlfriend actually lives ― even my father, ish. He knows the street, thats it.
As for work, my father owns his own business; he's gracefully allowed me to work from home until I'm comfortable coming back.
I've started using my work cell for obvious reasons. My father, siblings and girlfriend are pretty much the only people who have it, aside from another co-worker who isn't related to me. My personal cell is still in the glove compartment of my girlfriend's car.
Can't really think of anything else, so if you got this far, thanks.
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Even if she didn't molest you, Google "emotional incest".
I'm sorry this is happening to you. Sounds like your GMIL is crazy.
Do you think you'll go NC with her and her FM gang?
Your father is amazing. Please at least take a few minutes to thank him for helping you.
You're handling this perfectly. Don't give in. Don't respond. You've got this.
Ohhh wow that is creepy and just wrong. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this, and the abundance of FMs on top of it.
You have a wonderfully supportive gf and father though, so you're on the right track :)
I've got a 40' shipping container full of Shun here, with your grandmother's name on it, and another full-up one for her flying monkeys
In similar situations a lot of people on this sub have sent out a mass email that details the reasons for NC and lays some boundaries about contacting you. You can write something like "please stop calling and leaving voicemails. If you want to contact me, do it through this email address. If you don't respect my wishes and continue blowing up my phone, you aren't likely to get a response from me." Seeing who respects and listens to your email will give you a lot of clues about who you can trust. In all likelihood, the flying monkeys are not interested in your side of the story and it will be a waste of time, but some of the family probably understands her behavior and wouldn't be surprised at what she did.
You mentioned you see a therapist, so maybe your therapist can help you devise a plan. It might be best to just ghost your FM relatives and let the fact that you've blocked them and ignored their calls do all of the talking. It all depends on whether you want to nip the smear campaign in the bud or not.
Remember that you're never obligated to engage when someone confronts you, even if they see you in person. Keep your cell phone near you so that you can call the police if you have to, and keep it fully charged!
Take this time to connect with your girlfriend! She's been targeted by Gropema too and you both deserve a nice break and maybe a date night. :)
Do you think her fixation is related to her losing your mother?
She's a little old lady so unfortunately people are going to take her side no matter how creepy and inappropriate she acts. Stay NC for a few weeks to a month with every one of the flying monkeys and try to wait for it to blow over or at least cool down. She's not treating you like a grandson or a son. She's acting like a crazy clingy ex girlfriend who came across the drunk and passed out person of their obsession.
Your gropma molested you. If someone ask, tell them that. She is expecting you to keep quiet because of some kind of shame or awkwardness. Fuck it. Make it uncomfortable for her.
I'd call one of those elderly check-in hotlines. She sounds like she needs me at health assistance.
And if it were me I'd delete my Facebook for the time being.
OP please get into counseling, this is abuse worse it is sexual abuse. Another person waited till you were inebriated and then crawled into bed and touched you without your consent and against your wishes SHE KNEW this was not ok which is why she waited till you were drunk. This is on the same level as someone waiting till a girl is too drunk to say no. SHE DID THIS TO YOU OP. Please seek therapy, counseling, etc.
Also it might be a good idea to look to the future with your girlfriend and think about moving states. The best way to get away from flying monkies is to make sure they 1)can't find you and 2)can't get that far out to you. AKA if you live in say Florida start looking at Maine or Washington hell Alaska is rather nice!
I havent read the other comments, but I just wanted to add that I think you are doing the right thing here. You need space from your grandma and she needs to respect that. Not respecting it and turning the rest of her family against you is abusive.
A normal grandma would have taken a step back and told you to contact her when you are ready for it, without telling the rest of the family.
If you can document or have your GF document the messages just incase you need proof later.
What the fuuuuuuuuuuuuck?! This is some grandJocasta nonsense right here. That's unbelievably creepy. You've got every right to cut her out of your life after this nonsense.
That's a Creepmother, not a grandmother. She probably has sexually assaulted other family members before.
I can only respond like this: AH AH AH AH
Ok imagine if this was an old man doing this to a young woman? She was drunk and in incapacitated and her level of consent was lower and he took the opportunity to go into her bed and touch her body. Phrase it exactly like that to any flying monkeys you want to talk to. Even better if they have kids and older relatives. Say would it be ok If "insert older man" did that too "insert their beloved daughter or cousin or sister?" Why is it ok for her to do it to me? I was drunk she knew that there was no reason for her to go into my room she crawled into bed with me it was creepy and sexual and I don't care whether you agree or not I get to decide who does sexual things to my body and my own grandmother is not one of the people on that list. Let her spoon your children or you if you think shes lonely. But she will do it to me no longer!
Everyone's doing fantastically with regards to the practical side of things - how to keep her from shitstirring and fucking with your life. But should she or her flying monkeys ever manage to confront you, you're going to need to have a calm way of diffusing the "You're the worst grandson ever and you're killing her and wah," accusations.
Grandma has repeatedly done things that I find inappropriate, and that I am uncomfortable with. Even if you do not think they're inappropriate, they cause me distress and I have made this known several times. Her behaviour has not changed, she has continued this pattern of knowingly and deliberately doing things against my express wishes and being more physical than I would like. This demonstrates that my feelings and the decisions I make aren't important to her, and she feels she can do whatever she wants to me, whether I'm okay with it or not. As such, she no longer has a place in my life not because I wish to cause her pain, but because I wish to save myself from it. She has removed her own access to my life by refusing to extend the simple human courtesy of taking my feelings into account. I have nothing more to say about this situation, and I'd hate to lose contact with you over the same issue.
Or.. whatever. Just, no arguments, no emotion, just a simple "even kids know not to touch others without their permission so she made her own bed, bye," and a change of subject. Shut. It. Down.
Here's hoping they never get to you, and you have my deepest sympathies. My grandma is like this with every man she sees. Took her to a restaurant a friend worked with and she stroked his chest seductively for like six seconds (which.. is actually quite long). And at lunchtime, too. Bleck.
I'll be honest, you're already doing brilliantly. If it takes going NC with the entire batty side of the family then it's probably worth it. If you do end up getting confronted by one of them in a situation where you can't really avoid it, all you can do is explain. All you can do is tell them what happened and what has been happenin, (bonus points if you can use the phrase 'emotional incest'). They don't have to agree with your reasoning. Don't let them press gang you into dropping this.
Idk man, sounds like you're doing pretty well with it yourself. Keep on persevering, you'll be fine.
Ick. I'd put a rope tripwire about 8 inches off of the ground or get one of those shrieking door alarms if you go back.
Killing grandma was supposed to be metaphorical...

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My sister sneaks into bed each night and wraps herself all over me, what do I do?
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My little sister is very cute and I normally don't mind cuddling her, but it's a little problematic when I wake up every day with her lying on top of me with our clothes in disarray and my condition isn't exactly 'decent' shall we say(you know how 'it' is in the morning sometimes).
it's embarrassing, I usually tuck her in my bed and sleep in her room if I happen to wake up in the middle of the night, but she then just follows me there once I'm asleep.
I'm not sure what to say to her exactly, She loves me very much apparently & I don't want her to feel that I'm growing distant from her or anything,
I've tried placing a pillow between us but it still doesn't help when I wake up to find her all over me.
I told my mom and she asked her to not do it since "she's becoming a big girl now" but she just had a tantrum and said she won't stop while clutching me in a death grip(mom had to let her sleep with me that night.)
my sister's 13, but still acts like a kid, she thinks it's cute.
What is the easiest way of telling her that i need my space and she needs hers. I really don't want to make her mad at me of anything.
edit: I knew it was really weird for her to be still doing this at her age but I just didn't mind it since she was always attached to me since she was littl
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