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I'm going to kill my self for having a small penis and I hate having my feelings invalidated on this topic
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Having a small penis is basically why I'm going to end it all when my roommates are away on holidays soon but before I do I need to get a little perspective off my chest from the point of view of a pathetic small "dick" loser.
I have a small penis and it really is that bad to have one but what really gets me annoyed is when I read people (particularly women) say stuff like "size doesn't matter" "it's how you use it" "we don't care" and that annoys me because it invalidates my feelings over the issue and they don't know what it's like it to go through this. Now, I'm not on some anti-woman crusade at all I just need to set some things straight.
Firstly, it affects me in a non sexual way. I have to sit down when I take a piss because I'll end up dribbling piss all over myself if I don't. That's highly embarrassing. Have you seen a men's toilet at a bar or a club or any kinds of public venue? They are severe bioterrorism zones! It's impossible for me to relieve myself in these situations. I can only wear dark pants so if I do piss on myself at least you can't see it, you can probably smell it unfortunately. So size does matter there.
Now when it comes to sex of course it matters! I can't even perform basic positions because my dick isn't big enough. Something as simple as doggystyle is not possible for me. So the whole "it's how you use it" isn't relatable at all. Then in pretty much any other position it pops out so no amount of rhythm can be built up and sexual pleasure on her end doesn't exist. It's not manly to have a thumb tack for a sexual organ.
What annoys me is this failure for women to attempt to understand what it's like being inadequate as a man, what it's like to be a so called man but not even being a man. "We don't care stop talking about it" I don't care that you don't care because I care! I'm the one who has to live with it! I'm the one who can never be comfortable. I'm the one who can never jump over the mental hurdle of being an inferior male. It doesn't matter how many times you say "size doesn't matter" I'm the one who sees it in a mirror and realise that size matters. So stop getting angry at us guys who worry about it without even attempting to understand it. I'm not a man because my dick is the size of a thumb so don't piss in my pocket and tell me it's raining with the size doesn't matter stuff please.
So go ahead. Flame away at me and make fun of me, doing either/or is just helping me end it.
I am sorry that you are going my through this and from your words, your situation seems really difficult. I can't imagine the stigma that comes from your situation or the challenges you face on a daily basis. I am not here to tell you size doesn't matter or your problem is not significant. From what you have written, it is clearly affecting your life.
That said, I would suggest getting help and seeking options before doing something permanent. First r/SuicideWatch . You should head over there if you feel strong feelings that you want to end it. I would suggest a therapist as well.
I am sure there are people that love you because of who you are and they would be devastated if you were no longer around. You probably have an amazing personality and I hope you can find the help you need. If internet strangers care about you , imagine how your friends and family feel about you.
I don't like suicide watch because people just flood my inbox with fake care then you never hear from them again. I've got my parents and that's it, once they're dead there is literally nobody :-)
I am a girl and my best boyfriend of my entire life also probably had the smallest penis. We had amazing sex. I miss him.
How does saying "to me personally, it is not an issue" invalidate your feelings? The intention is to let you know that there are a lot of people in the world who genuinely don't care. You're right, you're the one that has to deal with it. My tits are small and I learned to get past it. You have to stop thinking in terms of "I'm inferior," that's the base of it. I hope you manage to find some peace.
I don't have boobs so if I told you that having a certain size of boobs didn't matter when one time it bothered you it would be invalidating your concerns, right? I don't know what it's like to go through that. So to me it becomes that my concerns are invalidated because others are saying it's no big deal but it's a big deal to me and it's incredibly shameful and embarrassing.
My last bf had the smallest penis of all the men I've ever hooked up with. It wasn't a big deal. He knew how to use it. He was the only guy I was with that has ever made me come through penetrative sex. It's really not about size.
I don't care, nobody is crushing on me. It destroys ME having a small dick and that's all that matters
Why not get plastic surgery to fix it? You might have to save up for it, but it sounds like it'd be worthwhile.
"once you find someone" I'm 28 and have never found anyone lol it's not happening

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What Happened When I Told My Man He Had A Small Penis
By amanda younger — Written on May 16, 2017
I told him he had a small penis ... Well, if you're looking for accuracy, I actually told him that his junk probably couldn't hit my sexual "spot" — which isn't much better, I suppose.
For the record, the equipment on my month-long friend-with-benefits was a perfectly acceptable size and shape . And yes, I knew exactly what I was doing when I blurted out my verbal castration. It probably wasn't my brightest moment with the opposite sex .
But this Matt Damon -esque hottie, who was by far the most attractive guy I'd had sex with thus far, had pissed me off so royally that the only suitable comeback was to attack his nether region. I knew that insulting his little soldier would be the ultimate ego-crusher for a guy who had boasted about his man-whorish past. Cut me some slack; I was angry.
My outburst hammered the final nail in our little hookup's coffin, as my boy was completely distraught by the idea that his penis possibly wasn't the massive instrument of sexual pleasure he had imagined. He would later tell me that on top of frantically Googling and Wiki-ing average member sizes, he carried the uncertainty of his manhood into his next relationship (and it certainly didn't help that his next girlfriend made a small penis quip , too!).
But how could the most alpha dog, self-assured, cocky male be completely emasculated by any hint that his junk wasn't up to snuff? Why are men so sensitive about penis size?
Dr. Russell Eisenman, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Texas-Pan American ( who conducted a study showing that women were more satisfied by penis width than length) believes that it has a lot to do with symbolism.
"Cultures value the penis as a symbol of maleness , strength, and potency, so to be insulted about one's penis is probably seen as a threat to all of these things," he said. And it's not only women who judge. " Men may value it and its size more so than females [do]." 
There are certainly plenty of pop culture moments reinforcing dong symbolism.
From Kate Hudson dubbing Matthew McConaug-hottie 's member "Princess Sofia" in How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days to John Mayer comparing his one-eyed snake to a white supremacist, the penis and its size are constantly pushed into our consciousness. Kate Gosselin embodied every man's worst penis nightmare when she likened Jon Gosselin's member to that of a 9-year-old boy , and tweeted pictures of his teeny-weeny wang (compared to her vitriol, my penile faux pas seems not so bad).
The problem is no doubt made worse by the fact that the male anatomy isn't nearly as quantified as the female, and many don't accurately know how long their penis is or how it relates to other men's.
According to the Kinsey Institute (and Wikipedia ), the average erect schlong is between five and six inches. This opens the door both to mystique and doubt, something women don't have to deal with since people have dissected, calculated and commercialized their sizes (there's no Victoria's Secret for jock straps).
In an article on penis size , columnist Jack Murnighan admits that he's "gone through the gamut of perceptions" regarding his endowment.
"[But] as the apparatus itself never really changed, these opinions obviously have more to do with my sense of self and my relationship to my own sexuality than anything you could measure in inches."
He concludes, then, that the penis for a man is "a consolidation of his sexuality as a whole. No wonder we worry."
Another man I spoke to, whose ex-girlfriend had made a joke about his penis while they were still dating , said that "despite her insisting that it was 100 percent meant as a joke and not true, it still struck a chord. I think most guys are a little self-conscious about it, so even a tiny jab can open up a big area of self-doubt."
Apparently, it's so bad that men are less likely to buy condoms in their actual size if they fall on the lower end of the endowment spectrum. This has prompted manufacturers to consider labeling condoms size "large" and up — might I suggest "grande" for small, like at Starbucks? — so men aren't bashful about buying the smaller sizes . 
All I can say personally is that my former beau and I eventually became good friends, and he told me that my comment seriously screwed him up. I assured him that his disco-stick was perfectly fine, but he still had doubts.
I felt bad. I hadn't meant to crush his ego, just deflate it a little. In the future, will I strike below the belt? Probably not, now that I know they're more self-conscious than we think.
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“I make fun of them. Who doesn’t? Small penises are hilarious! They’re a punchline all their own: Just say ‘small penis’ in front of a group of women, and they’ll all burst out laughing, because they’ve all known that one guy with a dick the size of a finger.”
“I had a boyfriend who was less than blessed in the genitalia department. He was very uptight about it, and I tried to reassure him not to be uptight about it, but in all honesty, he should have been uptight about it. If I had a vagina the size of a parking garage, I’d be uptight, too. People can talk all they want about body acceptance or whatever, but unless you have bad eyesight or are some kind of Goddess or Adonis, everyone has issues with their appearance. I did make fun of it, but only behind his back. So I guess that only makes me half a bitch.”
“Did you ever hear this joke about this woman and a man with a tiny penis were having sex for the first time and when he whipped it out the woman said, ‘Who are you going to satisfy with that thing?’ And the guy replies, ‘Me!’ I would fuck that guy, no joke. He has a good attitude. I can forgive a small dick, but to please me, a man has to have balls!”
“I guess I don’t really care. They can call me ugly, but that’s just a matter of opinion, you know? But tape measures don’t lie. You can prove someone has a small dick.”
“I’ve been with I think three guys who were severely undersized. I mean, we’re talking Tom Thumb if you know what I’m saying. Not only was it pitiful, but it was really gross. I tried explaining this to a guy with a rather large penis—about how small dicks are absolutely disgusting—and he thought that was funny. He said he could see how someone could laugh at it and think it’s funny, but he didn’t understand they’re revolting to even think about. Small weenies—ew!”
“What’s that saying about tits—‘Anything more than a mouthful is wasted’? Well, the opposite applies to cocks. Anything smaller than a mouthful is not going into any of my holes. Making fun of a man’s small penis is the easiest way in the world to destroy a man forever, and what girl doesn’t love doing that?”
“I feel like throwing up, that’s how I feel. I don’t care—it’s their turn for body shaming! I guess it’s mean, but mean girls rule! Hit him where it hurts! I mean, you have to aim very carefully to hit him where it hurts because it’s so tiny, but hit him there anyway…lol!”
“A long time ago I was with a man and let’s just say that in the chess game of life, this guy was a mere pawn—not a knight or a rook, and definitely not a king. Not only wasn’t he packing a suitcase, he hardly had an overnight bag, if you catch my drift. And I think he accidentally caught the look of disappointment/surprise on my face when I first saw him naked, and I could tell it cut him to the bone. I’m sure this was a lifelong pain for him. We wound up just kissing. I mean, I can’t imagine being with a man if he has a child-sized penis. But neither can I imagine being cruel to a guy just because Mother Nature already played a cruel trick on him.”
“I absolutely mock the living fuck out of guys with small dicks, no apologies, no questions asked, period. You know how immature kids think fart jokes are funny? Well, small-dick jokes are like fart jokes for immature adult women. They may be gross, they may be insensitive, but for a certain group of people, they will always be funny.”
“I fuck a guy with a tiny cock who turns out doing me wrong in some way or another, I will fucking mega-blast my iPhone cache of pictures of his pathetic baby unicorn dick all across the Internet until he moves to a new country under a new identity.”
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