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Master/ slave or M/s is a part/ variation od D/s relationships , in which Master has complete authority over the slave. Before an M/s relationship, there is a period of consideration and a period of slave training. Both M/s and D/s relationships are part of BDSM .
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Here is one ingenious thought – slave is submissive to the Master but at the same time – both Master and a slave are of the same importance to the power dynamic. To have a Master without a slave is much like a captain without a ship (and the other way around).
We also have a Master/ slave contract – which you can find at the very bottom of this post.
Here are some general guidelines on how to approach:
All the ideas listed here are written from a perspective where a male is a Master, and a female is a slave. However, all the ideas can easily be turned around.
1. Set rules on how to address you in private and in public.
3. Engage in pet play occasionally. Put her on a leash, lube, and insert a tail butt plug and gag her with a bulb .
5. Reward her by fulfilling her fantasy.
6. Make her cook and serve while wearing an only apron and a collar .
7. Make her take pictures for you in any position or outfit you wish.
9. Caress her with a tickler . If she makes any sound, punish her.
10. Give her a task each day and make sure it is done.
11. Allow her to please you sexually. Use it as a reward.
12. Dress your slave. Servant costume is a convenient choice.
13. Her body needs to be shaven at all times.
14. Use ”slut”, ”pet”, when calling her. Read other dirty talk examples you can use.
15. Give your slave this sexy see-through skirt as a gift and then spank her. Remember, spanking is your slave’s reward.
17. Call her and make her masturbate for you.
18. Forbid eye contact unless you allow it.
21. Have her polish your shoes every week.
22. Make her keep a diary of her submission.
23. The slave has to wear nipple clamps while eating dinner. Alternatively, clamp her clit and nipples together .
25. Lube her up and insert her favorite glow-in-the-dark plug . When she thinks she is done for the day, ram her ass with the huge Tantus The Queen plug .
27. Make her call you every day at a certain time.
29. Choose her clothing combination for each day.
30. Interrupt her and use her sexually. Do whatever you want to.
31. Make her crawl to you or around you, showing you what is yours.
32. Deny her orgasms for as long as you want to.
33. Give her an occasional ride on the Cowgirl sex machine .
35. Buy a collar with a bell for your slave to wear. It is a constant reminder of submission.
36. Make her wear nothing but heels, a collar, and a leash .
37. Expose your slave’s holes with a spreader bar so you can use her sexually.
38. Buy an anklet and make her wear one every day.
39. Rstrain them properly with hog-tie restraints , and use their mouth.
40. Praise her if she pleased you well.
43. Buy a Jawbreaker ball gag and keep her quiet.
44. She has to ask you for food, drinks, and a bathroom.
45. Keep her in a cage occasionally.
47. After the punishment, have her kiss your shoes and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.
48. Experiment with Wartenberg pinwheel and sensation play.
49. Occasionally, make her eat from a bowl.
50. Teach her how to move gracefully.
51. Restrain your slave to teach patience or to use them (these cuffs are the perfect gift for your slave).
52. Allow the slave to accompany you by kneeling beside you.
53. Make your slave kneel while you collar them .
54. Punish her if she makes any sound while you please her.
55. Lock her in a chastity device. Reward your slave with an orgasm every now and then.
56. Give your slave a writing assignment. Write ”My place is on my knees before my Master” 100 times.
57. Use a riding crop to direct her or to punish her when she doesn’t obey.
58. Explore forced orgasm play with under the bed restraint system and a want.
59. Praise her if she pleased you well.
If you want to take it one step further – we have prepared a Master/ slave contract for you.
A contract is a great way to start the relationship as it brings many topics to the table, including the more difficult ones. This way you’ll be able to discuss your goals, expectations, wants, needs, and limits.
Contracts are a great way for beginners to start that conversation and no, the contract is not a way to make someone stay – the contract is a way to start a conversation and define your relationship.
This document is not legally binding and it should be used to improve your role play. And in addition to that, it can provide direction and a place to turn to when there are disagreements.
We created an 8 page long Master/slave contract, with the following table of contents:
1. Slave’s Role
2. Slave’s Veto
3. Master’s Role
4. Punishment
5. Rules of Punishment
6. Permanent Bodily Harm
7. Others
8. Alteration of Contract
9. Termination of Contract
10. Slave’s Signature
11. Master’s Signature
12. Witness’ Signature
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So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training…
You’ve come to the right place, my friend.
Sit down, strap in, and let me walk you through what I’ve learned in the past few years about owning and training a submissive slave.
I recommend reading this slave training manual in full from top to bottom for complete context, but I know there are some ADHD rebels out there.
If that’s you, use the table of contents to jump to a section which appeals to you the most.
Just don’t forget to come back and read the entire BDSM training guide at a later date.
This guide talks about a male heterosexual Master and a female submissive slave. That’s what I write about because that’s what I know. That said, these training techniques are still appropriate for any gender and sexual orientation.
Before we dive in, let’s make sure we are all on the same page regarding what slave training actually is.
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A BDSM slave is someone who is in a Master/slave (or M/s) relationship and enjoys serving the other person as part of their D/s relationship power dynamic (See a more in-depth definition here ).
In order to learn how her Master wishes his slave to act, she must undergo some form of slave training to learn his preferences.
Yes! BDSM slaves thrive on having a set of rules to follow in every type of situation. They enjoy knowing what they are supposed to do and when. They enjoy the feeling of having given up their power completely to their Master.
They no longer have to think, only act. This is extremely alluring for people who worry too much or think a lot. They get a sense of calm, a state of mindfulness, from not having to make decisions (similar to subspace or littlespace).
Nobody wants a sloppy slave. Each Master has their own unique way of doing things.
In order for the submissive slave to know what she is supposed to do, she needs to learn his rules.
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She may have had a previous owner who did things very differently, and needs time to learn to adapt to her new Master’s needs.
Slave training is also useful to determine boundaries and hard limits. During the training, the submissive may uncover things she doesn’t want to do and conversely stuff she really enjoys doing.
This is especially true if you or your slave are new to the kink world and starting to experiment. You won’t necessarily know exactly what turns you on or off at this stage, or exactly what style of Dom and sub relationship you are after.
The slave training process is also useful for YOU. A Master should constantly be figuring out how to improve himself. As you get deeper into your slave training exploits, you’ll need to work on yourself, improving your assertiveness, confidence, self-control, vocal projection, dominant sexual skills and much more.
This is a two-way street. You might be in charge, but you owe it to your slave to be a good Master for her.
First of all, you need a willing participant. For the sake of this article, I’ll assume you already have a partner you want to train, and they have expressed an interested in BDSM and being submissive.
Submissive training requires work, a good knowledge of yourself, and effective communication as well as a good training plan.
Below is a set of basic steps you can follow to get good results.
I’ll describe each of these training steps in more detail.
A submissive slave dynamic can take several forms depending upon what the Master wants and how the submissive finds pleasure.
Do you want someone who never speaks and obeys you with no regard for their own safety or pleasure? This is a big responsibility and not to be taken lightly – can you handle it?
Or do you want a bratty little slave who will answer back when you give her commands and require constant punishment for misdemeanours?
Or do you want your slave to only serve you sexually in the bedroom? The rest of the time you have a bog-standard couple’s relationship,
Here are a few ideas to get you started.
This is by no means a complete list. You should mix and match styles to create your own D/s relationship dynamic.
Protocol is simply how you agree to do things. What are the rituals, behaviours and routines you expect from your slave in the relationship.
There are two types you’ll hear referred to: high protocol and low protocol (although most won’t ever really say low protocol).
In a high protocol BDSM Master/slave relationship the slave is expected to carry out duties to an extremely high standard.
Think of it as the equivalent of going out for a meal with your mates down the pub, versus meeting the Queen of England for afternoon tea.
In the first scenario you’re behaving, but not as formally as you might. At Buckingham Palace you’re on your best behaviour and doing everything perfectly. If you don’t you’re likely to be escorted out or locked in a dungeon (funishment, anyone?).
Low protocol is a more informal style of Master/slave dynamic. You don’t expect your submissive to be in slave mode 100% of the time. You may have a code word that signifies the start of the dynamic.
I recommend starting with low protocol until you have a lot of experience under your belt. I find lower protocol much more enjoyable because I want a fun, happy and extraverted girlfriend. If they were a high protocol 24/7 slave you are stripping them of showing their personality, which isn’t my ideal relationship.
Decide how often you want you and your partner to enter the Master/slave dynamic.
Again, remember there is no right or wrong way to go about a dynamic, and this list isn’t complete. You’ll need to feel out the dynamic as you go, improving and refining it over time until you get to something which feels right.
If you need a recommendation, start with occasional, low protocol.
You’ve decided the type of dynamic you want. Now it’s time to talk to your partner to understand what they want. (Assuming, of course, you didn’t do step one with your partner).
Just because they are your slave doesn’t mean you can get them to do everything you want them to do.
Yes, there are some BDSM slaves who have no limits, but they are very rare. Your slave will almost certainly have some. As a responsible Master and human being you MUST have an in-depth conversation with your slave before submissive training begins to understand what they want to get out of the relationship with you.
Yes, you heard me right. Just because you’re a dominant doesn’t mean everything is about you and you can forget about the other person (read up on how to be a Dom ). As their Master, you are obligated to take care of your slave.
Start by sitting them down and having a conversation in a neutral setting, where you have time.
As a submissive, they may have difficulty expressing their needs. Make sure that your dominant personality is not pressuring them into agreeing with something just because they think you want it.
Explain that during this discussion it is important for them to speak their mind, in an authentic and truthful fashion, and that you are there to listen and not judge whatever they say.
Give them time to think about the questions.
If they struggle to convey their desires via words, have them write them in a notebook, or send them to you via text. Not having you in their presence may alleviate some of the pressure and will free their mind to be more honest.
Make sure you make a note of what they’ve said so you don’t forget and can refer to it in the future.
After the discussion (probably several discussions), you’ll both have a good understanding of:
By now you’ve discussed your desire to have a slave with your partner (or they have discussed wanting a Master) and you’ve both given consent to enter this type of relationship.
You also have a good idea of where their boundaries are and how far they want to take the dynamic.
Now it’s time to write everything up in a submissive slave contract so you are both clear what has been agreed.
A BDSM slave contract is a document which names the slave and their owner. It contains all the information detailing the Master/slave dynamic and upon what you’ve agreed.
Contract formats vary. It could just be one page with a few simple bullet points detailing what you expect from your slave. Or it could be a fully fledged long document with absolutely everything the slave needs to know.
A contract cements the relationship. It’s the equivalent of a business handshake. It’s not a formal or legally binding document, and neither person is under a legal obligation to follow it.
But it does make the whole deal seem a little more real.
Plus it acts as a reference, so you can check back in on what you agreed just in case you forget.
You can make your own slave contract or buy a template online.
I recommend you create your own in Google Docs so you can easily share it with your slave. Creating your own will also give you more flexibility. This is your slave after all, and there will be things you want to put in the contract that aren’t in a standard template.
Sample sections of BDSM slave contracts are listed below. Pick the ones that take your fancy, and leave out the rest.
Below are some examples of BDSM slave contracts to get you thinking about your own. Copy what is useful and discard the rest to create your own contract which works for your dynamic.
Don’t get caught in the trap of thinking your slave contract needs to be perfect. You can always refine it over time.
There’s no single correct way of creating a contract. Remember, it’s simply a document detailing how you want your Master/slave relationship to be carried out so everyone has clarity.
If you are not enforcing high protocol then you may not even need a detailed slave contract. A bullet point list of what you expect from them may suffice.
If you and your slave can read the document and know what each other want, and are enjoying your relationship together, then it has served its purpose.
Now you’ve agreed upon the boundaries of your BDSM relationship with your partner, it’s time to start the real slave training. This is the fun bit where you g
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