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Real-life D/s experiences, opinions and photos from a lifestyle FemDom and sissy owner – Mistress Virago.
I’ve always been fascinated with sexual potential. In my early teens, I was reading Cosmo and some very adult novels (A Glimpse of Stocking is one I recall fondly) all of which gleefully educated me that I (as the owner of female sex organs) was a multi-orgasmic being, capable of intense, prolonged sexual pleasure, clitoral orgasms, g-spot orgasms and blended orgasms. And I’ve spent years exploring and exploiting this potential.
By contrast, I don’t recall the sexual or orgasmic potential of male anatomy being so widely or warmly discussed.
But I can confidently say that sissies have just as much orgasmic potential as any vulva owner, plus a whole extra dimension of kinky sexuality layered on top that can create intense and rare sexual experiences…some of which might be almost exclusive to D/s and sissification.
As I sit here, typing this today, I believe there are at least nine types of orgasm/climax/release that sissies are (potentially) capable of. I throw in ‘potentially’ because some of these climaxes can’t be achieved without conditioning – literally reprogramming your body to have a different sexual response.
No list like this will ever be definitive. If you have another type of sissy orgasm to add, please leave a comment – I’d love to hear about it.
Most sissies will have experienced this. Hard clit and throbbing ejaculation with short-lived sexual pleasure, followed by a refractory period where you either can’t or don’t want to get aroused and cum again.
As a Dominant, I don’t like this type of orgasm for sissies. It’s the type of orgasm that’s most likely to lead to a loss of interest in submission for a while. (I’m looking at you, jessie!) If I do permit this type of orgasm, ‘jerking’ is absolutely forbidden. Rubbing with two fingers or through panties and squirting into them is much more appropriate. (And as a Domme, I can always make it a ruined orgasm. *dark laugh*)
This is ejaculation through pussy stimulation alone with no clitty touching. Many sissies mistakenly call this a sissygasm. The clitty can be soft but is usually at least semi-hard. It’s usually followed by a refractory period, but some sissies can keep going and ejaculate again. Pleasure is driven by the prostate but the clit is involved in sensation during ejaculation. I like watching sissies cum this way.
This is a p-spot orgasm, where orgasm is decoupled from ejaculation, and ejaculation doesn’t occur. All the sexual pleasure is driven by the prostate, multiple orgasms are likely and there is no refractory period between climaxes. Sissies who have been conditioned to orgasm this way usually experience sheet-gripping, body-shaking super Os…rolling from one to the next, almost unable to stop cumming. I’ve watched my sissy in this state as I fuck her. It’s amazing. This type of sexual experience lets sissies experience a more ‘female’ orgasmic state and achieve multiple orgasms like a woman. It also means your clit is irrelevant – great if you’re in chastity or have any dysphoria. (I’ve written about sissygasms in more detail here .)
This is the same prostate orgasm, but with a release of fluid in spurts…sometimes prostatic fluid, sometimes pee, or a mix. The fluid is distinctive from cum as the bursts are far too drenching and watery to be cum. If you’re looking to squirt, start your session with a full bladder and let go of your inhibitions. Definitely pleasurable and no refractory period. (Again, I find this immensely erotic! I have such a kink for loss of control.)
These can happen when there’s stimulation of both pussy and clitty. Their distinguishing feature is that it’s hard to tell where most of the pleasure is coming from. With blended orgasms, there’s ejaculation and sexual pleasure. But there are mixed reports about refractory periods. This type of orgasm isn’t well known, or doesn’t seem to be documented much. Also, more confusion is caused by articles that use the term ‘blended orgasm’ to describe two types of stimulation that lead to orgasm, eg nipples and clit.
This requires a soft clitty. Press it back against your body, almost turning it inside out and stimulate it with your fingers and lots of lube, or a vibrator. You’ll reach a classic clitty-based orgasm with ejaculation, and encounter a refractory period. This is a very femme way to stimulate yourself and climax, as your clitty disappears – which can feel both emasculating and liberating. As a Dominant, I find it really erotic to watch a sissy cum this way. Proof soft clitties are sexy.
Want to see how it’s done? Here’s a fabulous video
This is a clitty-based orgasm, ejaculating when hard or semi-hard with little or no warning and no direct sexual touching/stimulation, (aka premature ejaculation, if it’s during a sexual liaison). This type of orgasm is usually pleasurable (to some degree), lasts the same amount of time as a normal male orgasm and is followed by a refractory period. For pain sluts, it can happen during pain play. Sometimes for ballbusting fans, it can happen with a kick to the balls. I’ve seen it happen when a Mistress ripped off her subbie’s public hair with hot wax. It’s a loss of control orgasm, so bad news if you don’t have permission to cum at that point.
This is a release that takes place totally unexpectedly, without any direct sexual stimulation. It’s a non-throbbing clitty orgasm that releases cum in a number of slow flows, over minutes, with no pleasure…to the point where you’re not sure if anything has really happened. It may even just feel like excessive leaking until you see the whiteness and realise you’ve cum.
In my one personal experience of this phenomenon, it happened to a sissy in a supermarket. She’d been kept chaste for weeks beforehand. That morning, she was instructed to remove her chastity device, put on satin panties and go out to do chores. Just as she was exiting the supermarket, she felt a lot of wetness, but wasn’t sure what had actually happened. But a quick check in a local park showed what looked like cum in her panties. And the leaks kept coming over about 15 minutes. She also had a lot of clitty sensitivity afterwards, suggesting a post-orgasmic state, yet within minutes of being told to walk around, she was worried she might cum again…so no real refractory period. This is the most mysterious type of sissy orgasm I’ve learned about to date. I’ve termed it a slowgasm/nogasm because there was zero sexual pleasure and no contractions like ejaculation but it was definitely a release. Another loss of control release.
This is not technically an orgasm, but it is a release through stimulation of the p-spot to produce fluid, but with no ejaculation. It’s done by insistent rubbing of the prostate and usually takes between 10 and 40 minutes to get the flow going. Many Dommes like to do this to their chaste sissy, sometimes for wellbeing, sometimes as part of a session. After all, it’s pretty belittling to be denied orgasm whilst your clitty drips in streams. And there’s no refractory period with milking, which is another bonus.
So, those are nine types of sissy orgasm that I’ve managed to distinguish. And it shows just how varied and amazing sissy orgasms can be. If you have experiences to add to this, I’m interested to hear them.
Last week I had a strange experience. I went out for a ride with my horse while wearing a sizable butt plug. It might classify as a number 8 nogasm. The prostate and or perineum were probably stimulated resulting in a serious flow of clear liquid (I’m sterilized) .
No orgasmic feelings only a mess in my briefs. Mysterious but happening for real.
I have for the past 12 months been practising edging while masturbating and i can get myself to a stage now repeatedly that is like have one orgasm after another with breaks in between, then when i finally allow myself to cum the orgasm is so intense. I would say to anyone give it a try it takes some practise but the results are worth the time it takes to gain the control.
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Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole?” Then read this…
H ave you ever watched one of those videos where the cute-as-can-be sissy is sitting back on her calves, riding a dildo for all she’s worth, when all of a sudden her limp—and possibly even caged—clitty begins to leak a little cum while she experiences one of those earth-moving sissygasms? Her post-orgasmic spasms appear to reverberate throughout her entire body?
I don’t know about you, but I become extremely envious while watching her achieve something that I’ve always considered an unlikely, if not near-impossible dream. These frustrating fantasies about having that elusive sissygasm is about to change for me—hopefully sooner, rather than later. I’ve decided I’m ready to have one!
Before we travel too much further down this feminine-like orgasm path, let’s define what exactly a sissygasm is. Over the past year or so I have, more-or-less, moved past masturbating like a male in exchange for cumming in a more lady-like manner.
With my limp clitty tightly tucked downwards into the open-ended liner of my panties—like it is situated 98% of the time anyway—I gently rub (or ‘nub’ if you will) the underside tip of my panty-encased clit with one, meticulously manicured finger.
Although this is an exquisitely feminine way to cum—much more erotic than just jacking it—it’s certainly NOT a sissygasm (as we’re defining it here anyway).
Most would define a true sissygasm as a hands free type of orgasm (aka HFO). The tricky part, is that there are different ways for a sissy to achieve a HFO. Nipple play is one way. Anal or perineal stimulation, without involving the prostate gland, is another.
By harnessing the sexual power of your kinky little mind, I’m sure it’s possible to experience a HFO in several different ways. Many GG’s have reported having a much-coveted whole-body orgasm simply by having their toes sucked on. No reason a sissy such as yourself couldn’t have that happen.
For the purposes of this article however, let’s focus on the more common type of sissygasm: one that is is achieved from anal (sissy pussy) penetration only—typically involving stimulation of the prostate gland/P-spot with a finger, prostate massager, dildo or maybe even a real, live cock.
Below is a conceptual introduction into the anatomy of a prostate orgasm—or sissygasm.
If you’re perhaps looking for a prostate stimulator that will help pull this off, you might find this article on prostate massagers interesting.
Many, if not most, sissies report that achieving a sissygasm is not so easily accomplished and… I can certainly confirm that. Still, with practice, we sissies have more than ample video proof that it can be done.
The consensus of sissies (and others) who experience these types of sissygasms on a regular basis is that once you have mastered getting off this way, the typical ‘manly’ methods of release are immediately moved into the ‘highly inferior’ category.
As I write this, I’ve yet to experience my first real sissygasm so… what exactly qualifies me to write on the subject? In the truest sense, I’m not qualified one fucking bit at all. But, I have read and studied-up on sissygasms quite a bit. If you’re reading this, maybe you have too.
But more importantly, I’ve made a commitment to having my first girly-girl O, sometime in the not-to-far-off-future. In any case, by the time you wind reading this article, hopefully I will have been lucky enough to have had my very first sissygasm.
To that pleasurable end, I’ve purchased a Nexus Revo 2 rotating prostate massager. In addition, I’ve made a vow to myself to remain limp—with the help of limp clitty training hypno —and chaste until I finally do have that first, elusive sissygasm. Keep those pretty little fingers crossed for me sweetie!
The idea behind achieving a sissygasm is to psychologically move your erogenous zone back, from the base of your sissy clitty, across the perineum, to your sissy pussy. It’s imperative to STOP thinking of your smallish—and hopefully shrinking—sissy clitty as your primary, or even secondary sexual organ.
Are you a man or a sissy? Sissies don’t jerk their clitty’s so it’s time to come to terms with who you really are. How are you ever going to be able to cum like a girl if you continue to think and act like a man? I realize that this major shift in sexual conditioning—from male to female—is not necessarily for every sissy. It certainly wasn’t for me until until I was further along in the sissification process .
If you’re not willing to give up jacking off and fucking girls, then that’s perfectly okay. All it means is that you’re not yet ready to fully embrace your femininity and learn to cum like a lady.
Once you begin to mentally relocate your primary sex zone to your pussified ass, it’s time to support and enhance that feeling with something physical. That means sticking your favorite toy up your sissy pussy while refraining from touching that, preferably limp and hopefully caged, sissy clitty.
If you wanna know more about anal toys, like dildos, then you might want to read this Sissy Dildo Guide .
Achieving a sissygasm is all about relaxing and letting things happen. Let’s be honest—most biologically-born males have spent the majority of their lives perceiving their assholes as anything but an erotic erogenous zone.
Both men and women have been socially conditioned to regard their poop-chutes as just that: a dirty, disgusting hole that nothing should ever be allowed to penetrate—no, not even a thermometer. Obviously, that narrative needs to change in order to fully express your rearward sexuality.
The truth of the matter is, who is anyone to authoritatively say what any hole on our body should be used for—or not? Sure, it typically hurts a little (or a lot) to have something inserted into your sissy pussy for the very first time.
The beauty of the human body is that it’s incredibly adaptable. To experience an anal orgasm, one must adapt their thinking to where your sissy pussy becomes a source of erotic pleasure. And with some time, along with proper training, it certainly can become exactly that.
Since we both know that our brains are the most powerful sexual organ, it makes sense that a sissygasm should begin in your pretty little head. Attempting to attack your P-spot with a dildo, trying to force an orgasm, rarely works. Starting things off with a sexy scenario is the preferred way.
I like to get all dolled up: full make-up, bra, panties, nylons and heels. I keep my clitty caged . Then I begin to visualize my most favorite erotic fantasy through my mind. You may prefer to watch a video. Only after I’m physically, psychologically and sexily set-up do I insert the Revo 2 into my pussy.
It typically takes a genetic girl some time to get warmed up… and then even more time to eventually orgasm. It’s the same with us sissies. Enjoy the pleasure you’re allowing your sissy pussy to experience without harboring expectations that you need to cum. Let your sexual fantasies run wild and see what transpires.
Achieving a sissygasm can be a challenging climb, especially while wearing heels. The first one may take awhile. However long it does take, my admittedly novice advice would be to just relax and thoroughly embrace, and enjoy the process. That’s how I’ve decided to approach my sissygasm quest.
Achieving a sissygasm on your first try is not the normal experience. For most sissies, and even real men, it takes a good amount of practice. That’s the first “P”, practice . Sissygasms should be treated just like any skill you would endeavor to master. It will take committed, consistent practice over a period of time to get good at having them.
As I alluded to in the previous section, some patience will also be required. Move on from the narrow-minded, unfulfilling male mindset of getting sexual relief as quickly as possible. As a sissy, you want to bask in patient, pleasurable, erotic excitement. Let your sissygasm happen—rather than trying to make it happen.
The third “P” to achieving a sissygasm is the P-spot that you will want to stimulate. Stick a finger up your pussy a couple of inches and you will feel a smallish, oval-shaped ball that is located towards the front (anterior) of the body. That’s your prostate gland. Every sissy’s P-spot will be in a slightly different place. With patient practice, you will eventually find where that seriously-significant spot is.
What you use to stimulate your P-spot is a decidedly very personal matter. It could be a prostate massager—there are so many to choose from—or some sort of regular dildo. Some sissy’s have luck using just their finger. If you’re into men, maybe you can find a boyfriend who can hit your P-spot with a perfectly placed movement or motion.
The consensus of sissies who have experienced sissygasms on a regular basis, is that after the first one, the second is much easier to cum by. That is very encouraging to hear!
If you’re the hopelessly impatient type, staying chaste for an extended period of time can speed up the sissygasm process.
Depending on your age, that ‘extended’ period will vary. One week may seem like an eternity if you’re younger. An older sissy like me—who also listens to a lot of limp clitty training hypno—won’t bat a fake eyelash at a month.
As many sissies will arduously attest to, remaining in chaste mode—preferably with the help of a chastity device for a prolonged period of time can create an undercurrent of unfulfilled desire that can be highly erotic in its own right.
Some would argue that this is the preferred state that any sissy worth her lingerie should be constantly striving for.
And when that elusive, mind-shattering sissygasm does eventually materialize, I’m fairly certain all that waiting will be worth it… and then some!
Since originally writing this article I’ve gained more understanding involving the process of achieving a sissygasm. If sissification is a process , then having a sissygasm should serve to re-emphasize that same word… process .
After years of perfecting the art of cumming like a man, I can personally attest that rewiring your brain and retraining your body to orgasm in a more feminine-like manner can be a daunting task.
When it comes to sissygasms, I’ve come to three conclusions…
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