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I showered with my mom and things got awkward
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I broke my hand a couple days ago and I can't shower with my broken hand so my mom decided to shower with me to help me. She take all her clothes off and take my clothes off and went to the shower. My mom was washing me and i was trying to not have a boner but I can't help it and I got an erection right in her face and I said I'm so so sorry she said “That’s okay it just means you’re in good health!” so then she was washing my penis and balls she wash it just like she was trying to make have an orgasm then I can't help it and let it all out right in front my mom! she was a little shocked but then she said “I’m glad you’re enjoying this” then she cleaned the mess and washed my penis and then we finished the shower. Since then I haven’t talked to her and I don't think i can get myself to talk to her ever again. What do I do now?
Reading your post history... clearly a troll.
What you do next is r/quityourbullshirt Per your history you have killed people including family members, 3-ways with teachers, fucked your dad, sister, mother while camping and you're clearly a fucked up troll.
Found Sigmund Freud’s Reddit account.
Put a waterproof bag over your busted arm and wash with the other good hand / arm for fucks sake.
According to his post history he has sex with everyone who exists
She is very fat , he thought the rolls on her leg was her pussy.
Shower with her again, but tell her you read online that mouths clean better than hands.
Now you should tell all your friends and relatives
Well well boy aren't you lucky what are you do? Should you even have to ask if she did that enough and you allowed it to make you come then both of you were enjoying it. So do what you want to do because that's what we should all do. Instead of what some book or some other person said it isn't okay if you liked it then ask her to help you with the shower again. Just cuz people say it isn't okay it doesn't mean it isn't do what makes you feel good do what makes you happy whatever it may be

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DEAR NAHWH: I'm so glad to get this question because I think handjobs are criminally underrated. So many people have this idea that a person can touch their own penis better than anyone else can so bothering with them is useless, but that’s a silly reason to avoid what can be one of the most pleasurable techniques in your arsenal. Once you’ve mastered the basics, there are plenty of fun ways to take it to the next level.
First, I recommend experimenting with new hand motions. The basic up-and-down movement can work pretty well when you’re first getting started, but once you’ve figured out the pressure and speed that your partner enjoys, it’s time to explore new techniques. Here are a few to try:
You may also want to get other parts of your partner's body involved. Most people go straight for the shaft of the penis, but you can try paying attention to other areas as well. Try playing with the testicles — take them into one hand and very gently squeeze, or try very gently pulling the entire scrotum away from the body. Lightly scratch your fingertips against the skin of the scrotum. (Notice how I keep using the words “gently” and “lightly”? You want to be careful with the balls.)
You can also try playing with the perineum, which is the strip of skin between the balls and anus. This area is super sensitive, so your partner might enjoy some light stroking or pressure with your knuckle. If they're game, you may also want to try incorporating some anal play . You can gently press a fingertip against their anus or slide a finger up and down the butt crack. If they want more, make sure to add lube to your finger before gently sliding it in. Go slow and keep checking in about what feels best.
Speaking of lube, that can be another way to up your handjob game. I think lube is nonnegotiable for handjobs, but the reality is that most people just don’t use it. If you don’t already use lube, start now. It will make the act so much more enjoyable. If you already use it, try experimenting with different lubes. Silicone-based or even anal-sex-specific lubes can feel awesome with a handjob.
Another idea is to use a toy to assist with your handjob. If you have some sort of regular relationship with your handjob recipient, you could try investing in a male masturbator together. Even though these kinds of toys are called “masturbators,” they’re still a lot of fun to use together. Check out Tenga's Flip series or egg series .
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So your patient got an erection, is that right? He covered himself and you left the room, how do you feel harrased?

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I feel so embarrased to share this story, but I can't stop thinking.
I was helping a young male patient to take a shower. He was washing himself, and I was just helping his back, but suddenly he grabbed the towel, covered the area, and told me that he has something. I didn't see or realize anything until he told me so.
I just told him that it's okay and will bring a male nurse to help. I left the shower and brought the male nurse to finish the job. I took care of him until the end of my shift.
I know that it was out of his control, and he was apologetic, but I feel like I got harrased somehow and can't stop thinking about my behavior. I try to be nice and sweet to my patients, but I don't do anything special to male patients. I'm not sure and kinda feel down...

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So your patient got an erection, is that right? He covered himself and you left the room, how do you feel harrased?

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Did he make a pass at you, a comment, a gesture??
I do not mean to be harsh, but if he did not, then you will need to develop a tougher skin, because as a bedside nurse, I assure you, you will encounter similar situations in the future.

Edited Jan 15, 2012 by Nccity2002

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Yeeeahhhh.....um...No. Not harassed at all. The poor guy was embarassed it sounds like and wanted you to not only not see it but wanted you to leave. How does that make you harassed??

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I have to say when I worked in Urology I saw more than my fair share of erections.. Believe me, most of the men were more embarassed than I was. He did not harass you. He was embarassed to. This will happen. You will have to learn to deal with it.
Men can have reflexogenic and psychogenic erections, a man can experience a reflexogenic erection in response to touch when washing himself, or a psychogenic erection in response to erotic thought. When a patient experiences a reflexogenic erection (as was the case in the situation you describe), reassure him that it is a reflex response and is nothing to be embarressed about. Either carry on with what you are doing or ask the patient if they would like to be left alone for a moment. There is no need to send a male nurse in to take care of a patient who has experienced a reflexogenic erection. Once you become better informed about sexual health, you will feel more comfortable in these situations.

Edited Jan 15, 2012 by dishes

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You need to realize that as a nurse you will have to deal with all bodily functions. Some voluntary, some not. You should act professionally, not take it personally. You were not even close to being harrassed.

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Girlie, the man was more embarressed then you..harrasing would *not* be covering up and making a pass at you. You have to act like penises don't exist when you're a nurse...you unfortunately cannot be a blushing flower. When ya put in a catheter, ya gotta grab hold of it, you can't think that you're the cause of it...like the other nurse said, it was an accident, just like when a man gets an erection in the morning...just..happens sometimes. I woul dhave just plowed through, he probably felt bad he embarresed you enough to have to get a male nurse. I would have just said, "I'm sorry, we're almost done" Or "I'm sorry, we're done anyway I'll leave you a moment and get your clothes ready" and just ended the shower a bit short.
it's not because he's a male and you're a female, he could have gotten an erection if a man was washing him down too. Has nothing to do with the fact you're a girl and you "did something special"
Besides the fact you left a patient, however stable, in the shower alone......

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Harrassed, no way. Men get erections if the wind blows, I commend the patient for covering himself and letting you know he was uncomfortable.
The way you described it, sounds the opposite, like he tried to establish modesty, rather than harass you. I can assure you, you would understand the difference, had he really attempted to harass you.

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Really not following how you were harassed.. Is english your second language?? Maybe you are confused as to what harassed means.. I am sure he was more embarrassed.

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Poor fellow. That's embarrassing for young men/boys. Trick is to just be professional and put his mind at ease by carrying on. I would have said something like "no worries, it happens to around 50% of the population" and kept going.

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