She Loves Anal Sex

She Loves Anal Sex
A woman shouldn't be defined by her sexual preferences.
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I was in high school when Sex and the City premiered, and like many women of my generation and the generations that followed, that show taught me a lot about sex. Like, a lot: Things I didn’t even know existed were introduced to me every Sunday night—and one of those things was anal sex .
At the time, anal between straight couples wasn’t even on my radar. I knew that gay men engaged in it, but I held on to some pretty old-school notions when it came to why straight women would do it. Namely, as Charlotte put it so eloquently in Sex and the City ’s "Valley of the Twenty-Something Guys" episode, “Men don’t marry Up-the-Butt Girl. Whoever heard of Mrs. Up-the-Butt?" Back in 1998 I agreed—and that statement was the first thing that came to mind when my college boyfriend suggested we do the deed a few years later.
Even though I was determined never to become Up-the-Butt Girl, I was in love for the first time and figured one encounter with anal wouldn’t put me in whatever category a future Mrs. Up-the-Butt might reside. The experience was, for lack of a better word, awful. It was painful and uncomfortable, and as I would tell my boyfriend afterward, it felt like I was “taking a backward shit,” if that were even anatomically possible. But on top of the physical discomfort, I also felt ashamed. It was humiliating that this was what he wanted and humiliating that I consented. What did this say about me? What other so-called deviant things would I consent to in the name of love? I didn’t even want to imagine.
Even throughout my twenties, when I stopped taking such a hard line on what sex said about my character, I still didn’t really enjoy the few times I had anal sex and figured it just wasn’t really my scene. But then something happened in my early thirties. Perhaps it was the confidence that came with age and sexual experience, but I found myself having anal sex with someone I was dating and loving it. Really loving it.
But there was still shame—this time about enjoying anal, rather than just engaging in it. It went back to what liking anal sex said about me as a woman. Was I dirty? Deranged? Had I been dropped on my head as a child and this was the outcome of it, manifested decades later? It didn’t matter how many times I watched that Sex and the City episode in which Samantha praised anal—I couldn’t come to terms with it.
Though up to 25 percent of heterosexual men and women have tried anal sex, the taboo around it is often louder than the praise. It doesn’t matter how many stats come out on the topic, like how women who have anal sex have more orgasms (it comes with an orgasm rate of 94 percent, compared with the 65 percent from vaginal sex). It also doesn’t seem to matter that the majority of women who do engage in anal sex are well-educated with higher levels of income—information one might think would nix some of the negative stereotypes associated with women who enjoy anal sex. But, sadly, it does not.
There are plenty of reasons a woman might feel guilty about enjoying it. When Teen Vogue published a piece titled “ Anal Sex: What You Need to Know ” in 2018, the backlash was swift. Although writer and NYC-based sex educator Gigi Engle (who, full disclosure, is a Glamour contributor) wasn’t suggesting girls run out and have anal sex—merely introducing it as an option, with information on how to do it safely—there were some alarmingly conservative, potentially homophobia-tinged responses. It didn’t take long for the hashtag #pullteenvogue to make its way onto Twitter, or for articles and videos to pop up condemning the magazine for what ultimately should have been a conversation starter and a healthy eye-opener .
“Much stigma exists around anal sex, but for some women it is their arousal and favored erogenous zone,” explains Clarissa Silva, behavioral scientist and author of the relationship blog You're Just a Dumbass . “For women who know that they like anal and express it, we should [remind her] why she shouldn’t be shamed. She is simply making a decision for herself that she is interested in having better sex.”
And despite the alarmism, women who have anal are slowly but surely making their way into mainstream narratives. Lars von Trier’s 2012 film Nymphomaniac was the rare theatrical release that included anal sex (actually, there wasn’t much it didn’t include, sexually speaking), which seemed like a small but important step. Then, in 2014, both The Mindy Project and Broad City had episodes about the act. In 2015’s I Smile Back , Sarah Silverman’s character has anal while cheating on her husband. This kind of exposure just solidifies that anal is a sex move that people are engaging in, even if it’s still hard to talk about it sometimes.
With this in mind, I have been suggesting it more on my own accord to get more comfortable with the fact that I like it. My partner and I did it the third time we slept together, in fact, because it was important to me that I fully embrace my sexuality, especially the parts I was once ashamed of and which still remain taboo by society’s standards. I wanted to be the one who initiated it, thereby owning both the act and the fact that I enjoyed it. I’m starting to understand now that I shouldn’t allow archaic thoughts about how a woman should have sex (which typically means vaginal only), or the narrow-minded thinking of people who condemn it, to take up space in my mind.
While I don’t need other people or pop culture to validate my feelings on the matter, it does help in some ways to feel a sense of solidarity. It forces us to realize that human sexuality is complicated and there’s no “right” way to be aroused or to get off. Similarly, not being into anal sex doesn’t make you a prude or somehow less sexually adventurous.
It’s definitely not for everyone, but for those of us who do enjoy it, for far too long it felt like it needed to be a secret. Now I know how ridiculous a notion that is. A woman’s sexual proclivities don’t define her—knowing what you want is all that really matters.
Amanda Chatel is a sex and relationships writer splitting her time between New York City and Paris. Follow her at @angrychatel .
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I remember being in high school when my best friend’s mom told us a story of a young woman she knew that did anal for the first time. She had just started college and was in her experimenting phase. She met a guy, dated him, and gave up the butt—literally. Well, things took a turn for the worst and homegirl wasn’t able to go number two properly ever again; She had to wear a colostomy bag. That story was told circa 1999 and has stayed with me since. It freaked me out for dear life and I permanently christened my backdoor as an exit-only lane.
If you’ve been thinking about trying anal sex, don’t let me discourage you. There are a lot of women who love getting it from the back and haven’t had any horror stories to tell. A Cosmo editor spoke with a few gals who have laid out the blueprint of what you should and shouldn’t do before taking it in the rear. These women (whose names have been changed) describe what they wish they knew before having anal sex so you won’t have to.
Kelly, 23
“If you’re trying it in hopes that it will bring a spark back to your relationship, it won’t.”
Danielle, 21
“Basically, like, the more lube the better. You have to lube that sh*t up.”
Emma, 23
“Do not use cinnamon flavored lube. I found out the hard way after my boyfriend used the cinnamon kind without telling me. I screamed and immediately ran into the shower to try and stop the burning.”
Jess, 22
“After the initial pain, there is definitely pleasure…”
Abigail, 27
“That you don’t have to do it doggy-style. In fact, that was way too painful for me the first time I tried. It ultimately worked when we got into missionary with me lifting my legs a bit. That way we could look at each other and he could see my face even if I wasn’t talking. It helped me feel supported and comfortable, even though it definitely hurt the first time.”
Maggie, 26
“That it is mind-blowingly pleasurable. When done with care and open communication, it can be amazing. I had always approached the idea with this stigma, that it was something girls begrudgingly did for a guy, not for themselves. Also, that there should be no shame in a woman enjoying it (which I still feel sometimes)”
Tanya, 25
“Don’t trust a fart for a few hours afterward. You might actually need a bathroom.”
Brianna, 28
“That you don’t sh*t right for days afterward.”
Megan, 23
“He was super respectful and really nice like it was a mutual thing, and so when I hear that some people feel like it’s their asshole being set on fire, it makes me think of when I was a teen and everyone was like, ‘The first time you have sex, you’re going to rip open your hymen and you’re going to cry because it hurts so bad.’ But I had sex with someone who was respectful then as well and wanted me to have a good time too, so it was very much a process of making sure it was good for both of us. Like yeah, maybe anal sex isn’t for everyone, but I also think it’s for more people than we think.”
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Also, do you have any evidence on Christina, Ginnifer, or Caity? Because i would LOVE to read/watch it
Emily Hartridge: A treasure taken from us to soon

"I fucking love anal" - Emily Hartridge, 1984-2019 RIP

Her sister Jessica also shares her anal proclivities

ugh. Just spent 75 minutes sourcing all these girls with proof of anal, then my laptop fucked up.

Sorry
Here are some sources

Ali Wong - Baby Cobra comedy special she talks about discovering anal and dumping a guy because he wouldn't fuck her in the ass.
Katie Couric - On Jay Leno's show, while discussing Amy Schumer's anal prank, Katie revealed her and her husband do anal frequently.
Jessica Simpson - she dated John Mayer who later said she LOVES it in the ass.
Anne Hathaway - Leaks of an Esquire interview in which she said all her boyfriends have used her backdoor. This was before it was mainstream and due to the backlash, the article was pulled and Esquire then claimed they never had an interveiw with her.
Gwyneth Paltrow - has said everyone is doing anal and promotes it on Goop.
Charisma Carpenter - amatuer sex tape before she was famous includes HOT butt-sex.
Farrah Fawcett - She had anal cancer. This is different thatn colon cancer and is specifically caused by HPV. Someone was cumming in her ass.
Chyna - At the end of, and after, her wrestling career, she made several professional anal porn movies
Amy Schumer - Said in a book she never tried but wanted to. Later, on a game show, she admitted she finally took it in the butt.
Farrah Abraham - released Backdoor Teen Mom after she was on TV
Pamela Anderson - In a Playboy Q&A she said she loves anal, public sex, and fantasizes about fucking in an elevator.
Halle Berry - Rumored to be a freak down for anything (in Movie 43 she made guacamole with her tits!) Sources say during the Monster's Ball sex scene, a few time they started actually fucking including Billy Bob butt-banging her badonkadonk.
Kim Kardashian & Nicki Minaj - Duh, lol.
Lily Allen - Did anal as birth control (but still got pregnant)
Denise Richards - On the Howard Stern she said she really likes anal.
Courtney Cox and/or Jennifer Aniston - Lisa Kudrow was talking about an abandoned anal plotline in Friends, she mentioned some of her co-actresses were into to it. The host changed the subject before she could name either one specifically.
Lana Parrila - Known to be fun and playful, quoted as saying people shouold be able to stick it wherever they want, and wrote "anal" on her husband's forehead. Before you say it's her name backward so he could read it in the mirror, why weren't the letters backwards then?
Riki Lindholme and Kate Micucci - "Fuck me in the ass because I love Jesus" Nuff said.
Aubrey O' Day - Loves watching anal porn.
Khloe Kardashian - told a magazine her rules for anal sex just like her slut sis
Nikki Glaser - YMH Highlights she talks about doing it in the booty
Sharon Osbourne - Mentioned on her show that Ozzy used to put it in her rear.
Vivica A. Fox - documented to be butt-fucked by several rappers
Cardi B - hasn't done it in a while but she does it
Elizabeth Banks - Talked about taking in the ass in a interview
Gabrielle Union - outspoken advocate of up-the-ass.
Gillian Anderson - An interview was taking about alien anal probes in X-Files and how Agent Scully never got one. The host said, "now that the show is over, you will never get anally probed." She got a huge smile and bedroom eyes and said, "Oh, I don't know about that. Agent Scully won't on the show."
Freya Allen - Made actual anal porn before famous
Sophie Kasaei - Gave tips on butt-sex on a talk show
Olivia Wilde - "Wild" is right. She is reported to have sex marathons, invlolving every kind of penetration
Angelina Jolie - Numerous stories of her wild sex life also include blood, public sex, wearing her Malificent horns, etc
Lady Gaga - supports people's choice to do it. Also, said she avoids vaginal sex because it drains her creativity.
Tori Spelling - Did "everything" including anal well trying to salvage marriage
Nicole Maines - had to do it in the tushy before she had the pussy.
Tina Fey - "Great new! There's tons of anal now!"
Marcia Cross - Anal cancer
Meghan Trainor - She's all about that bass. She said she's going to give her butt to her boyfriend.
Bar Refaeli - real photos of her holding her ass open. That hole's has been used
Lindsey Lohan - leaked tape of her getting her stuffed.

YouTubers that mentioned liking anal:

Emily Hartridge "I DO LIKE ANAL!"
Jessica Hartridge "I'm going to have anal sex on your desk lady and jizz into your keyboard"
Tara Babcock "He fucked my ass so hard I had to scream into a scarf. But I didn't ask him to stop because...pain. Amiright ladies?"
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