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She Blows Him
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I knew this day would come as I had been warned by those who had gone before me. He's going to ask someday. She's going to have questions. You need to get your story straight.
Jun 14, 2016, 04:53 PM EDT | Updated Jun 15, 2017
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I knew this day would come as I had been warned by those who had gone before me.
You need to get your story straight. You have to be *prepared* because you'll be caught with your pants down when the kids ask about the specifics of sex.
And, in a dark car, on the way home from dinner, it happened: my son and I had a whopper of a conversation.
While I've mostly recovered from the trauma, my friends are still reeling from the advice I gave him.
The evening started out innocently enough. After attending an event as a family, Hubby and I decided to take the kids out for dinner at one of our favorite watering holes (read: drink martinis as the kids consumed large quantities of fried foods and dessert). We spent that time talking to each other, visiting with friends who'd also gone to the restaurant and joking with our favorite bartender. It was a picture perfect moment: warm sweaters, noisy atmosphere, a family smiling together. I had no way of knowing that my son had questions brimming and he'd decided he was going to get some answers on the way home.
As we had taken two cars,my son opted to ride home with me. I should have seen this as a SIGN, people. Of what, I don't know, but I should have seen SOMETHING coming.
Once in the car, and about two seconds after I navigated the car away from the curb, he dropped a bomb on me: there was a sexting scandal at school and he was upset.
Let me repeat that: MY TWELVE YEAR OLD WAS UPSET ABOUT A SEXTING INCIDENT. Twelve. As in, they don't even have the word "teen" in their ages yet, bitchachos.
Pardon me as I try not to drive this people mover right into a tree.
While he was not involved (THANKYOUSWEETBABYJESUS), he was upset about the consequences, the children involved and the general implications that this kind of thing brings. He wondered what would happen if he received salacious texts, who he should tell, why kids would do such a thing. Heavy topics weighed on his mind and he wanted to talk about all of it. WITH ME. As I was driving heavy machinery. In the dark. Without Hubby as a back up.
I'm not going to lie: I was caught with my pants down and I swear, the deer we passed on the road did not look nearly as surprised as I did when I was driving.
But, I made a choice to keep driving, to take the longest way home possible because my tween was talking, openly talking to me about sex. I didn't know when, or if, this situation would ever present itself again. I don't know if it was the dark, country roads I slowly drove, the fact that we weren't facing each other or if the stars just magically aligned to make him open up, but it happened.
As we quieted from the sexting discussion, he coyly and shyly said, "I have one more question" and the tone of his voice made me realize I needed to brace myself.
"Well. You know. Some of the boys, they talk about this thing that involves blowing. And work. Blow work, is it? Something that is like a job and involves blowing. I don't know what that means. Can you explain that to me?".
I'M NOT GOING TO SURVIVE THE TEEN YEARS, YOU GUYS.
Here I was, in a car, being asked a specific question about a sex act from my twelve year old. In the split seconds that followed his question, I debated: do I tell him? Do I push it aside and tell him that's for grown ups? Do I pull over on the side of the road and call Hubby to take over? How hard will I have to junk punch Hubby when I get home? I honestly didn't know what to do and, as I gripped the steering wheel and tried to keep myself from driving into a cornfield, I made a decision.
I told him. I was honest and forthright. And, then it was HIM wearing the deer in the headlights expression.
As the reality of the answer set in, and, realizing these moments with tweens are fleeting, I took it one step further: I told him a committed relationship is a two way street and when you are intimate with someone, it's never one sided. If he's alone with a girl, it's to be enjoyable for both of them and it's never okay to let a girl please him solely.
I told him that if you get one, you give one. Plain and simple. Because no daughter in law of mine is going to stand in my kitchen and wonder why he's such a greedy asshole in the bedroom.
And, judging from the looks of horror on my friends' faces as I've recounted this story, I seem to be in the minority when it comes talking openly with kids about sex. I've been accused of condoning pre marital sex. I've been told I crossed a line by explaining the specifics of a sex act to my child. And, I've been told that I'm asking for trouble by telling him that his eventual girlfriend's needs are important, too. Mostly, my friends have cry laughed at the image of me driving down the street being asked about knob polishing. And, naturally, they all asked how soon I'd be blogging about my drive from hell....
But, for all the judgement, all the shocked outcry, I stand by what I told my son. I stand by my honesty and I hope, that in doing so, I've set the stage for him to want to come back to ask questions, to get good, solid answers from his father and I. And, in that moment, he trusted me with his thoughts and was open and honest with me. The least I could do was be honest right back.
Because if you get it, you give it, people.
Christine Burke is a blogger and freelance writer. Her personal blog is keeperofthefruitloops.com and she can be found on Facebook . Her latest book, "I Just Want To Be Perfect" is available on Amazon.
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I normally agree with TYT on a *lot* of things, but I really dislike how they’re trying to shift the blame onto the men here. She may only be 18, but she *is* 18; She is a legal adult that’s able to make her terrible decisions. No buck-passing allowed. No blame-shifting. She made a stupid decision that made her look like a whore, and she got duped. Nobody raped her. Nobody made her stuff 24 dicks in her mouth… The minute you start blaming the world for your mistakes is the day that you have a VERY difficult life. You can’t count on others to adjust your moral compass.
With prostitution both parties are promised something in exchange for that service. She performed the service and was not given the goods. That was a terrible bait and switch operation. While obviously not something 99% of women would have done even for a vacation it is quite disgusting that they would even have something like this in a dance club. Alcohol being involved makes it twice as shady.
It’s not blame shifting, it’s blame sharing. She was a complete idiot for sucking 24 penises, in public at that, for any type of compensation. But that doesn’t mean it’s ok for these men to objectify her. That’s the same kind of reasoning that blames break ins on people who leave their doors unlocked or blames rapes on women who walk home alone late at night. Are these smart decisions?? of course not but does that give someone the right to do these terrible acts? absolutely not. Now this young women is a little less than a victim but that does make these men blameless or not totally disgusting? No they are still PIGS any way you dice it.
It hurts to watch the videp. It hurts listening to you girls acting all self rightous. She likes sex big deal, however I do see the point of this affecting her future. Most people are stupid self rightous anyways.
I don’t think Gina said anything judgmental at all. She seems to be the most level headed person there. For a comedian Erin is not really funny on any of the videos I have seen and I get her plight but she would be hell to have a conversation with. Ana has her moments but Gina seems to be the most solid from the videos that have auto played through today.
At the age of 17 my mother was called to a party to pick me up after I had consumed copious amounts of alcohol and I was making a fool of myself. It was so bad that she took me to the Emergency Room at the local hospital fearing that I had o.d’d on drugs which wasn’t the case. Her punishment for me was to wake me early the following day and had me do housework and chores the entire day. I was hung over like I couldn’t believe, dry heaving, all I wanted to do was sleep or die (either one would have been good to me)…but no, she followed me around, made certain I didn’t fall back asleep and made me do housework the entire day. WORST PUNISHMENT EVER!!!!
Its interesting that TYT that normally supports porno and prostitution have an issue with this video. I have seen countless shows where its claimed that its always the womens own right to choose. Ana is angry about people judging others actions. Uhm well… in this case she is doing the same thing.
I am not sure, i wasnt there, but she is doing it with a smile on her face. She also dont look crazy drunk. It doesnt look like the guys are coercing her with physical means. Would that not mean its out of her own free will? Hypocracy?
Yes, that is so disgusting! So horrible.. yes it hurts to watch it. It was so horrifying! But I.. well I just had to watch the video several times… eh… because I could not believe how.. um… horrible…
In fact I would like to know where I can find that woman so I can tell her how horrible here actions are.
Say, can someone tell me where I can find this woman.. um.. so I can tell her in person how shameful she is!
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