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My girlfriend keeps posting scandalous pictures on social media. What should I do?
You landed yourself a smokin’ hot girlfriend. It’s like she was pulled from the inner machinations of your mind—a fantasy. Congrats!
The only problem? She’s a little too keen to let everyone else know it, too. She posts at a fast-clipped pace—Instagramming her yoga-pants-clad butt mid-workout, uploading a car selfie that’s more chest than face (chestie?) on Facebook, rounding out the day with a Snapchat story of her fresh from the shower. Her intentions could be harmless, but that doesn’t mean your brain doesn’t short-circuit every time you see the post and the barrage of strange guys dropping fire emojis and who knows what else in her DMs.
You want it to stop, but have no clue how to broach the subject. You don’t want to go in guns blazing any more than you want to head into nuclear warfare with a water gun.
So here’s the gameplan, courtesy of psychologist and relationship coach Paulette Sherman, Ph.D.—and remember: your girlfriend is your girlfriend, so treat her with respect. (Here are 10 tips for arguing with your girlfriend without destroying your relationship in case things get messy.)
Few men ever talk about this, but you need to figure out why you’re upset because of your girlfriend’s pictures. Talk to a close friend or even a therapist to act as a neutral sounding board. Specifically, describe the situation and the emotions it’s conjuring.
Some hypothetical questions: “Do you feel turned-on? The need to be controlling? Insecure?” Sherman says. And do you know where these feelings are coming from? “If you’re feeling jealous or insecure, you could be worried you’re not enough for her and she’s needing the attention of others,” Sherman explains. If you’re feeling protective and angry, that could be a reflection of your values regarding “privacy, boundaries, and sexuality—as well as fear of outside judgment,” she adds.
This situation is tricky. She could have a few different reasons for all her online posting. Moreover, she may not be honest with herself (and/or you) as to why she’s posting what you deem to be inappropriate photos on social media.
First, the obvious: “She might need attention and is flaunting her sexuality to get it (which may not be about you, but can still affect you),” Sherman suggests. Maybe it’s her form of self-expression—which is to say, she sees nothing “scandalous” about the photos. (Remember, that’s a judgment call.) Or maybe it’s just part of her job (is she a model, spokesperson, or advocate for commercial platform?).
“You can’t assume her feelings or motives unless you ask, but you can intuit where she could be coming from instead of only considering your own feelings,” Sherman says. If you’ve seen some red flags that indicate she’s a bit insecure and seeks constant validation from you in order to feel content, that could point to her motives. If she has a strong understanding of who she is and is unwavering in her self-confidence, her posts can merely be an extension of that. If she’s a little immature relationship-wise and hasn’t had many serious relationships in the past, she might not consider how her posting could impact you.
All (and more) of these could be possibilities. It’s up to you to figure out which applies. And that brings us to our next point:
“Express your feelings using ‘I statements’ rather than making her the person in the wrong and attacking her,” Sherman says. If she posted a photo in a skimpy bikini or in a revealing top, try something like: “‘I felt uncomfortable seeing you in something so revealing on a public forum. I thought that was just for me,'” Sherman suggests.
The more you pivot around your feelings, the more open she’ll be to hearing them out. “Never say something volatile or judgmental like: ‘I don’t want my friends and family to think I’m dating a whore’ or ‘How dare you post inappropriate pictures like that. You’re my girlfriend.'” You’re completely out of line to suggest she belongs to you, or that her pictures suggest sexual promiscuity. She’s free to make her choices (and that includes breaking up with you).
This goes back to step two: Figuring out why she’s posting those photos in the first place. That way you can hone in on the core issue here—navigating your different attitudes about sexuality and propriety on social media.
Even if the two of you untangle her motives for being a little racy on social media as being innocent (say, she lost a ton of weight and wants to show off her hard work), you might still feel strongly about her toning things down a bit.
Sherman suggests: “You could say something like, ‘I know it’s your body and this is ultimately your decision, but I’d really appreciate it if your sexuality was only directed toward me and vice-versa. How would you feel about that boundary? Is that a deal-breaker for you?'” In the grand scheme of things, fine-tuning her pictures to be more PG should be a fairly simple compromise for her if your relationship is one of her top priorities. But if she pushes back and has no intentions to do so, you’ll have to confront a different question:
If she refuses to stop, then you need to dissect this situation to see if there’s a bigger, more deep-seated issue. The scandalous pictures are just a smaller window into a bigger conversation about how you feel toward each other. “This is a matter of respecting one another, finding areas you can compromise on, and seeing whether you have enough shared values to last,” Sherman says.
If your relationship is already on rocky foundation—you feel she’s not committed to you, your communication is poor, and you don’t feel like an equal in the relationship—then you need to decide how much this issue threatens your trust. This could signal larger problems in your relationship, and it’s best to figure out these flaws sooner rather than later.
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By Jenny Kutner
Published July 15, 2014 3:33PM (EDT)
If a young woman thinks she looks hot in that chesty selfie she just set as her Facebook profile picture, chances are another woman thinks she looks incompetent. Well, maybe not entirely incompetent, but certainly less capable than if she were wearing a buttoned-up button down, a cardigan and classic Levi's. According to a new study published on Tuesday, girls and young adult females who post revealing photos of themselves on social media are received by their peers as being less attractive -- physically and socially -- as well as less competent, in general.
"There is so much pressure on teen girls and young women to portray themselves as sexy, but sharing those sexy photos online may have more negative consequences than positive," Elizabeth Daniels, the study's lead researcher and an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Colorado, said in a statement. "We need to understand what [young women] are doing online and how that affects their self-concept and their self-esteem."
Daniels and co-author Eileen Zurbriggen conducted their investigation by creating two fictitious social media profiles, both for a 20-year-old woman whom they named Amanda Johnson. For the sake of finding common ground with other females in their character's age group, Amanda "liked" musicians such as Lady Gaga, the book "Twilight" and the movie "The Notebook." Both profiles contained all the same information, with only one difference: profile picture. In one profile, "Amanda" (really a young woman who agreed to have her photograph used in the study, as with the other profile picture) was shown wearing a low-cut red dress with a slit up the leg, revealing a garter belt and some cleavage. In the other profile, a second young woman was shown wearing a short-sleeve T-shirt, jeans and a scarf that covered her chest.
The researchers polled a total of 118 girls and young woman, 58 of whom were between the ages of 13 and 18 and 60 of whom were aged 17-25 and were no longer in high school. Each participant was shown one of the two Facebook profiles and then asked to respond to a series of statements about Amanda's appearance, such as "I think she is pretty," as well as statements about her social attractiveness ("I think she could be my friend") and her task competence ("I believe she could get a job done"). Responses were given on a scale of 1-7, with 1 indicating strong disagreement and 7 indicating enthusiastic agreement.
In all three areas, the "non-sexy" profile fared better, with respondents finding the covered-up Amanda prettier, friendlier and more qualified to complete a given task. Daniels and Zurbriggen found the largest disparity between photos in the category of task competence, indicating that "a young woman's capabilities are really dinged by the sexy photo."
Daniels and Zurbriggen believe the study raises important questions about the way we perceive females, like why we focus so heavily on girls' appearances and what this can tell us about gender. But the biggest takeaway, according to the researchers, is that young women should be careful about how they portray themselves online. "We really need to help youth understand this is a very public forum," Daniels said, calling her findings "a clear indictment of sexy social media photos." Her advice to girls and young women? "Don't focus so heavily on appearance ... Focus on who you are as a person and what you do in the world." Daniels also added that posting photos of women participating in favorite hobbies or sports and showcasing their identities is a better way to go.
That's all fine and good and, in most instances, solid advice. But Daniels seems to overlook the fact that for some young women, sexuality is a defining feature of their identity, and they shouldn't be diminished, reviled or rejected if that's the case. To suggest that young women conform to this misguided assumption that their sexuality is somehow linked to their competence doesn't do much for young women. It is important, though, for girls to consider why is it, exactly, that they want to upload that sexy selfie instead of a more conservative image -- still, covering up isn't for everyone, and that's OK.
And, in the instance that girls and teens are simply responding to a culture that focuses primarily on their physical appearance and all but demands they portray themselves in a sexual manner, the issue is less with the way those young women respond and more with the cultural expectations themselves. Sure, posing in a pantsuit instead of a string bikini is one way to subvert social expectations of how women should portray themselves, but it doesn't solve the virgin/whore dichotomy that Daniels and Zurbriggen call out in their study. Even with these findings, young women are still damned if they do and damned if they don't post a sexy photo -- so it's important that girls, teens and young adults consider how they want to represent themselves online and whether it's an accurate representation. Even if it's a sexy one.
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