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From the infamous scissoring to a nice little spooning posish.
Once you've got your basic lesbian sex tips (or vulva-on-vulva sex tips, depending on how you identify) down - from how to finger someone to how to eat someone out and even how to make someone squirt , you may want to try some good ol' fashioned lesbian sex positions that work for anyone with a vulva, regardless of your gender identity or sexuality.
Even the most seemingly basic can be super pleasurable. No matter what you're into, here are sex positions of varying difficulties that are well worth trying. And, as always, if you're trying anything new and you're not totally sure your partner's into it (whether that's penetration or rimming ), ask them first.
These sex positions come recommended by LELO 's sex expert, psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle.
Kate says, "Mixing up positions is a great way of introducing different elements to sexual play. I often talk about the idea of changing one thing whenever you have sex, and that one thing doesn't need to be anything complicated e.g. it can just be the difference between having the lights on or off. Have one partner sitting on a chair, and the other kneeling on a cushion on the floor. This offers the receiving partner a great view of their partner giving them oral sex, which can be an additional pleasure boost."
Kate says, "Spooning can be a great position for all couples incorporating additional elements like sex toys if you desire. A strap-on can make penetration possible for female and vulva-having couples with the 'big spoon' partner being the wearer. A vibrator can also allow a clitoral focus with the behind partner using it to stimulate the 'small spoon' partner clitorally. For male and penis-having couples it's a great position for anal sex, and as always lubricant is a really useful addition to all types of play."
Kate says, "You can use this position for whichever stimulation you like, with one partner standing with their hands against a wall, and their back against their partner's front. This means that the behind partner can touch them by reaching around their hips for penis, clitoral or vaginal stimulation or for nipple play. It is also a great position for anal play and for having your bodies pressed against each other and for kissing down the back and side of the neck which can be very sensual. You can then swap around at any point, or mix up your type of play."
Kate says, "So often the focus of sex is on penetration and intercourse, which for many reasons is problematic; the primary being that it's very heteronormative, which is unhelpful for couples who aren't [cis and straight]. Building up anticipation, desire and arousal are key parts of all sexual play, and a great way of doing this is by taking all forms of direct genital touch off the cards for a period of time. Set a timer for 20 minutes and touch each other all over your bodies, getting close to but not touching genitals or nipples. Teasing and building up anticipation can be a real turn on. You can also incorporate other elements into this like ice-cubes for temperature play or a handheld vibrator like LELO's Smart Wand , or Mia 2 Bullet Vibrator to add in vibrations. When the timer or clock goes off then you can take your play wherever you like. You can also try different textures like a feather teaser."
Kate says, "Mutual masturbation is a great way for all couples to experience pleasure together, whether it's stimulating each other simultaneously or touching yourselves in front of or beside each other. You can also use your partner's hand to stimulate you by holding your hand on top of theirs and guiding their touch. Witnessing your partner being turned on and enjoying themselves, can be a real turn on for some people, even if it's not their touch that's doing it. We rarely get a glimpse into other people's desires and sex lives, so you can also treat it as an opportunity to learn something new about how your partner likes to be touched."
Kate says, "LELO has remote controlled sex toys for partners [of all genders]. For [people with penises] the Hugo can offer prostate stimulation which could be added to partnered touch, or for [people with vulvas] the Tiani 3 is a bestseller. This allows you to both give up control to the other, which can add to the anticipation of not knowing when the next pleasure surge will come."
And these positions are classic Cosmopolitan UK recommendations:
Yep, this one's kinda infamous. Some queer people see it as a 'joke' and something they'd never do, others swear by it. If you want to try it out, here's how to perfect vulva-to-vuvla scissoring .
Get into a position on a bed or soft carpet that allows you to be comfy. One partner's on the bottom while the other straddles them, positioning themselves so your vulvas and clits are within touching distance. Remember: everyone's bodies are different, so it may take some movin' around to make it work. Once you're good, grind away to your heart's content. Not gonna lie, it's a pretty intimate position, so make sure you're comfortable.
Tip: With this one, you don't necessarily have to use lube . Sometimes (and in moderation) friction can feel pretty good.
Another simple position but uhhhmagod it's a good'un. The receiving partner lies down on a flat surface with their legs apart, knees bent and feet flat on the surface. Their partner gets down in there and goes to town!
Tip: This is a great position for edging . Bring your partner just to the point of no orgasmic return and then stop. Leave them to cool down for a few minutes, then bring them right back up again. Repeat a few times. When they do finally orgasm (IF that's your end goal - which FYI it doesn't need to be), all the built-up climactic tension will be released and it'll be intense af.
This one's super hot because whichever partner isn't on all fours gets a full-on view to appreciate, in all its glory. The 'receiving', kneeling partner spreads their legs slightly, so the other can get in there from behind. From this angle, you can stroke their clit, eat them out and even try rimming - if you're both down for it.
Tip: While giving them the best ever oral, you're also in the perfect position to gently spank ye olde butt cheeks. Just make sure your partner doesn't mind, first.
I know what you're thinking: been there, done that. Well, the 69 is a classic for a reason! It's all about mutual, simultaneous pleasure. The 'bottom' partner lies down and opens their legs, while the 'top' straddles them, facing the opposite direction. You can then both give and receive glorious oral sex at the same time - it really is that simple. Just be sure to keep your own movements in check and don't get carried away (it's meant to be fun for both of you). If you want to take it to the next level, here's how .
Tip: Try it with you both lying on your side.
Recently voted the most scariest sex position of all time (don't let that put you off), the Standing 69 isn't for the faint-hearted. It does, however, require a fair bit of strength. Like the classic 69 but way harder, one partner (the stronger one) stands up with their feet apart to remain balanced. The other is... well... upside down, legs around the other's shoulders for support. Yeah, it does sound impossible. But if the stronger partner sits on the edge of a bed or chair, and the lighter gets into position, you can both stand up from there.
Tip: Both of you should wrap your arms around each others' waist for support. You'll probs need it, plus it's nice to cuddle!
Aka facesitting . One partner lies down while the other straddles them and faces the opposite way, lining up their vulva with their partner's mouth. Even if you're wanting to explore your dominant side while in this position, remember never to actually fully sit on their face. They need to breathe! If you're receiving (you lucky person!), try gently moving your hips back and forth, so you're riding your partner's face like a queen.
Tip: If you're the bottom, give your partner's nipples and butt some attention with your free hands.
This may seem simple af but honestly, it's anything but boring. One partner lies on their back at the edge of a piece of furniture (bed, chest of drawers, it's up to you!) and opens their legs wiiiiide. The giving partner kneels on the floor in between those open legs. The giver then can then get right in there at the perfect angle to finger, tease the clit and give 10/10 oral loving.
Tip: If they're up for a blended orgasm , use your mouth to give the clit all the attention it deserves, while using a G-spot vibrator to put pressure on/stimulate their G-spot. It'll be intense, FYI.
Spooning is nice, everyone knows that. But what if you could enjoy some lovely vulva-to-vulva sex from the safety of your comforting spoon? You totally can! The 'big spoon' wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates their partner from behind. Their hands are also free to reach around the front, and their nipples and clit some attention.
Tip: Lube is your BFF here! Popping some water-based lube on the toy will make it a) more comfortable and b) more enjoyable for your partner.
September 23, 2021, 8:14 PM · 8 min read
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Maybe you want to make Katy Perry's "I Kissed A Girl" your personal reality. Maybe you've started watching the recent The L Word: Generation Q and are feeling inspired. Or maybe you and your boo are ready to get down and dirty. Whatever the reason, odds are you're here because you've got some questions about lesbian sex or are looking for some lesbian sex position recommendations . Lucky for you, as a queer sex educator , I am here to help.
Read on for a list of six sex-educator-recommended lesbian sex positions below.
Defining "lesbian sex" is no easy feat. Most commonly, the phrase is used as a porn search term to help people find content featuring two (or more) cisgender women .
But this is not an accurate conceptualization of lesbian sex. Why? Well, for starters, it suggests that only cis-gendered women get to participate in lesbian sex, which is untrue. Lesbian is not defined as cisgender women interested in cisgender women, but as non-man who loves, dates, and fuck other non-man. So any non-binary person, transwoman, agender, and a gender-expansive person who claims the label "lesbian" can have lesbian sex—not just cisgender women.
Second, it implies that everyone engaging in certain sex acts or with certain bodies or gender(s) is a lesbian, which is inaccurate. Because again: The only thing that makes someone a lesbian is that they self-identify as lesbian. Someone who is bisexual , omnisexual, heterosexual, asexual , or of any other sexuality, could enjoy, in theory, sex acts labeled "lesbian sex acts."
For the purposes of this article, we are defining "lesbian sex" as sex between two (or more) non-men of any sexual orientation exploring their bodies together for the sake of pleasure.
Walk into any lesbian bar and you'll find some beer-drinking hotties debating the existence of scissoring. But trust the queer sex educator here: Scissoring is, in fact, a sex position, and it's one some people really do enjoy.
A sex position usually involves two people touching their genitals together, scissoring is colloquially known as such because it looks like what two scissors do when you spread their legs (or, blades) and bring their crotch (or, apex) together. Like many other sex positions, whether or not scissoring is accessible to—or feels good for—a couple depends on their personal pleasure preferences, as well as their body shape and abilities.
Generally speaking, scissoring works best for couples where both partners have more exposed clitorises, and include at least one partner who is super flexible. Because the position can be demanding on your hamstrings, I recommend a hearty warm-up ahead of play.
Hands, as the saying goes, are the lesbian sex organ. And for good reason: Your hands allow you to tease, tickle, penetrate, pound, finger, flick, rub, or rock your partner.
Exactly how you choose to use your hands to make your partner say your name will depend on your partner's preferences. Regardless, long-time sex educator, Searah Deysach, owner of Early to Bed , a pleasure-product company in Chicago, advocates for starting slow, exploring places like your partner's inner thighs, pubic mound, and outer labia before revving up the intensity and touching their clit or cock head-on. "You might, for example, lightly stroke their outer and then inner labia before stroking next to the clitoris," she says. "You could also try cupping your whole hands over their vulva or cock and making small circles with your palm can also be an enticing beginning to hand play."
To make play even better for your partner, Deysach recommends using lube and trimming your nails."Dry hands on genitals can be painful and friction-y, so grab some lube before you start your strokes," she says. And sharp nails and hangnails can puncture or irritate the delicate genital tissues, so trimming and filing your nails ahead of play is a must. "Another option is to wear latex gloves and stuff cotton balls in the fingertips if you have long nails," she says. The more you know!
Following external hand play, you may decide to explore penetrative hand play (AKA fingering). Fingering involves using one or more fingers to penetrate your partner's genitals. Your fingers allow you to hit a variety of internal hot spots—including their G-zone, A-spot, C-spot, and P-spot —depending on the angle of your fingers, as well as how many of them you choose to use.
Before you begin, start by figuring out which hole you'll be exploring. Anal fingering, after all, is very much a thing, and something many people, including non-opp transfeminine lesbians, enjoy.
Next, grab some lube and start slowly. It's best to start with one finger at a slow tempo, then gradually add fingers, increase speed, and temper with technique as desired, says Deysach. Some techniques you might try include making a come-hither motion, inserting your fingers deep, then pulsing them up and down, and stroking in large circles from the inside. "Remember that not everyone likes to be fingered the same way, so check in with your partner asking questions like 'Does this feel good?' and 'Can I touch you here?' as you learn to navigate the landscape of your lovers' pleasure center(s)," she explains.
Once you get comfortable navigating your partner's body with your hand, you may choose to bring your mouth in as well. "Using hands and mouth together can add layers to pleasure in ways that either of them alone just can't," says Goody Howard MSW, MPH, the resident sex educator for Royal , a vegan-friendly condom and lubricant company.
Fisting can be incredibly pleasurable—especially for people who enjoy taboo sex acts and/or the sensation of being stuffed. But neither vaginal nor anal fisting is for beginners or even intermediate penetrative sex-havers; fisting is an advanced sex act that should be reserved for couples who have a ton of experience with penetrative play, as well as sound communication skills.
So, how do you do it? "Go slooooow and use a lot of lube," says Deysach. Rather than entering the area with your hand in a "fist bump" formation, you enter one finger at a time, allowing the hand to make a "bird beak" figure inside the area to start. When all of your fingers are inside, the hand will naturally curve into a fist.
For some fistees, the sensation of an unmoving fist is adequate for experiencing pleasure. Others enjoy a gentle pulsing motion or a rocking motion that allows the fister's knuckles to press up against the nerve-dense internal hotspots.
Strap-on sex is a broad term used for any sexual act that involves a dildo and harness, that can be used to reinforce power dynamics, affirm gender identities, assistant with feelings of fullness, and encourage sexual exploration. "They're something you may consider trying if your partner or you enjoy being penetrated," says Howard.
The first step in having strap-on sex is getting the prerequisite pleasure tools. "There are many different shapes, sizes, textures, and materials of dildos," she says. Before you purchase, you need to figure out what length and girth, as well as what color and texture, will best meet your pleasure needs. (As a general rule, it's better to start smaller than you think you'll need). "The wearer of the strap-on will have to be clear on what kind of pleasure they prefer because if they enjoy internal fullness, they can opt for an insertable, or double-ended, dildo," she says.
Once you're geared up, take your time to experiment with different positions. Missionary is a great option for people who enjoy the intimacy of face-to-face contact, while doggy style is the better option for a receiver who enjoys depth. And rider-on-top can be fun for receivers who want to be in control of depth, tempo, and angle.
Anal sex is commonly mistakenly thought of as a sex position for only gay men, but it can be enjoyed by people all across the gender and sexuality spectrums. "Everyone has a butt! And the butt has thousands of nerve endings and when they're stimulated the right way," says Howard. "So it makes sense that lesbians may want to add anal play or anal sex to their bedroom play."
Her recommendation: Enjoy external anal stimulation with a tongue, finger, or anal-safe vibrator to start. Eventually, you may choose to incorporate penetrative anal play into the works. "During penetrative anal play, the main things to remember are to use lube, relax your body, communicate discomfort and pleasure with the same ease, and toys used in the anus CANNOT be used vaginally (and vice versa)," says Howard.
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