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There are few pleasures in this life greater than getting a well-executed blowjob . The standard BJ involves one partner stimulating the other person's penis with their mouth, by way of licking, sucking, and bringing a hand or two into the mix. (Despite its name, there typically isn't any blowing involved.)
When you picture a blowjob—or take part in real life—you probably have the giving partner on their knees and the receiving partner either sitting on standing. But that's just a tiny slice of the spectrum of blowjob positions and variations out there, just waiting for you to explore (and enjoy) them. The receiving partner shouldn't just lie back and do nothing while their partner orally stimulates them. They can (and should) put some work in, too—when they do, it makes the experience better for everyone involved. After all, both partners should get something out of the experience!
Whether you're on the giving or receiving end (or a little bit of column A, a little bit of column B), you'll definitely find something you like in this list of blowjob positions. We came up with the 12 best BJ variations to take your next oral sex experience from a C+ to an A+.
This position is a winner for many reasons. First, the receiver feels dominant and in control since they're straddling their partner’s face. Second, the angles of the position help to facilitate deep throating. Third, it’s incredibly sexy to look down at the giver as they go to town, not to mention that the giver has a great view of their partner's junk.
There a few things hotter than having someone get down on their knees to service you. On the flip side, it can be hot as hell to get on your knees to please your partner. That’s what makes the Corkscrew position a classic. There’s also something different about receiving oral when standing vs. lying down that’s worth exploring.
While you may have joked about teabagging your friends in high school, it is a real sex position that's pleasurable because the receiver's penis and body really smothers the giver. If you're a submissive when giving, then this position is great for you.
Both the receiver and giver are on their knees in this position. The receiver can play with their partner’s nipples easily from this position, which is a big plus.
This a less intense BJ position, all things considered. In this position, the giver can easily take breaks and use their hands. It’s also a position where the receiver can lean over and make out with the giver to break up the BJ a little.
Sensory deprivation can take your sexual experience to a new level. When the receiver is blindfolded, they can focus exclusively on the wet, heavenly sensation of the blowjob.
This is another ideal position for deep throating. The receiver can really thrust into the giver. It's a great position if the giver is more submissive and loves to have their mouth full.
This side blowjob position is excellent because it allows you and your partner to both receive and perform oral sex, à la the 69 position .
In this position, the receiver uses a prop to raise themselves up to the giver's mouth height. This can help reduce neck and back pain on the receiver's end!
The giver lies with their head over the bed in this position, giving the top the opportunity to control the depth of oral penetration. The receiver can also play with their partner's chest and genitals.
With one leg wrapped around the giver, the receiver can actually thrust into their partner with this position. (Obviously, if you're the receiver, make sure your partner is cool with said thrusting before you go to town.)
This classic standing BJ position is similar to the Corkscrew, except the giver has a pillow under their knees. It can hurt to have your knees on the floor for an extended period!

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Putting a penis in one's mouth is not as simple an endeavor as one might assume it is. Learning how to give a blowjob is a complicated process that can be a source of anxiety, fear, and unexpectedly deep soul searching. While the person being fellated might not be aware, the person on the other end is being bombarded with a lot of blowjob-related mind garbage. But no one ever talks about these little nagging things that have to do with giving head. It's difficult enough to bring up blowjobs around the water cooler or at a dinner party, so getting into the dirty little details can be tough. Obviously, not so for me, since I'm broaching them right now.
Generally, conversations about blowjobs center around who can deep throat, how easy/difficult it is to get a penis in your mouth hole, and whether or not you should kiss after completion. But there are far more mundane factors at play, and all of them far more important than these racier questions. I don't know why we don't talk more about the minutiae of giving head. What I do know is that there are certain things I can guarantee most women are thinking when we go down on someone. Such universal thoughts deserve to be shared and commiserated over. Here are six things about blowjobs that no one ever talks about, but which I'm forcing you to listen to me talk about right now:
Blowjobs are scary - not because of what happens to you when you're giving them, but what you might inadvertently do to the person you're giving them to. For instance: suddenly, reflexively biting down for some reason. There are a lot of things I'd like to go through life never having experienced. Orally castrating someone is certainly one of them.
I envy anyone who can give a blowjob and retain sexy thoughts in their brain. For most of us, we're just trying not to choke on the chunk of our own hair that keeps slipping into our mouths. We're also thinking about the sweat smell of balls, making eye contact, the giant drip of our own spit smeared across our face, not biting down, etc.
Again, I have much envy for the sucker who has no gag reflex. Because for everyone else, when a penis hits the back of your throat, its all we can do to stop from vomiting. Add "vomiting on someone's penis" to the list of things I would like to go through life without ever doing. It doesn't exactly scream "sexy" - unless you're one of those fetishists I once saw on Jerry Springer (I'm aware that a Jerry Springer reference reveals my age, and I don't even care).
Look, I don't want to brag but, like, I work out. Even still, there's no workout quite like kneeling with no hands for support (one's on the shaft, the other's on the balls) while angling your face downward and bobbing your head up and down. There's no amount of yoga that will prepare your core for the exercise of giving head. It's a full-body experience that requires poise, concentration, balance, and abs and thighs of steel.
No matter how many blowjobs you've given, nothing can prepare you for giving your first one to a new person. Every penis is unique, and no two blowjobs are the same. The same can be said for all sex acts, but there's something particularly intimate about having someone's penis in your mouth. The whole experience can be quite discombobulating, what with all the balls you have to juggle (pun intended) with a new person.
It doesn't matter whether you're an established spitter or swallower, or how many times you've had a man cum in your mouth. There's always an intense anxiety when you feel him come close to orgasm. What is going to happen? Even though you know, you're still scared. For instance, every time it comes to that point, I start worrying that so much semen is going to squirt out so hard and fast that I will choke on it. This has literally never happened to me. But as soon as a guy starts clenching, I fill with fear. Even the most seasoned fellator has anxiety when it comes to finishing the job. Snap decisions have to be made, fast and in the heat of the moment, which can lead to embarrassing situations, like naked runs to the bathroom to spit up.
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