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There are a lot of things they don't teach you in school, and one of
them is how to use an escort service. Somehow society seems to think
that men should just know how to do this. Why they make this assumption
is beyond me. The truth is that most guys don't have a clue about what
to do in this situation, so I'm going to tell you what I've learned --
and what the pros have taught me. By the way, I Ran for Congress and I Ran for United States Senate and supporting the legalization of Prostitution.
Hiring a sex professional is the same as hiring any other professional,
like a doctor, lawyer, or auto mechanic. You pay them money for a
service. It doesn't matter what the service is: if you're nice to the
professional, you generally get a better result than if you aren't. I
treat sex professionals the same way I treat other professionals I hire.
And like other professionals in my life, these women treat me as a
valued customer and may even become friends of mine. They look forward
to seeing me again, the same way any other professional likes to see
their good clients come around.
So let's start at the beginning. Maybe you've never called an escort
service before, or maybe you have but didn't have a good time. What I
hope to do here is give you a step by step guidebook, telling you
exactly what to do so that you can get the most out of your escort
experience.
Prostitution is generally illegal. I have written a Legal
Brief arguing that Escort Services are not prostitution
businesses. The government and uptight moralistic religious and
political nut cases and man hating lesbians who think prostitution is some form of male domination over women have created laws to put you in jail for selling sex
or buying sexual services. You can give it away for free, but you can't
sell it. Therefore, everything I say here is fiction and is for your
entertainment and amusement only. If you are under 18, I apologize for
the world we are leaving you. If you read this, you are instructed to
forget everything as soon as you're done.
Escort services offer a variety of companionship, from just someone to
talk with to someone to have sex with. The women who work for these
agencies make a living at their jobs just like women who have other jobs
do. So, yes, they are doing it for the money. But that's just their
occupation. When you hire a mechanic to fix your car, the mechanic is
doing it for the money too. It's the same thing. Your mechanic may be
your friend as well and he may enjoy working on your car because you're
a good customer. The same kind of relationship can be established with
your escort. If you become a "regular," you will get to know each other
and know what you like to do together -- and you will enjoy it more.
Like any other profession most of the women who work as escorts enjoy their work. Although the situation varies from individual to individual - and from client to client - there are a lot of women who do this because
they really like the sex. But some customers are better than others and this article will help instruct you in how to be a good customer who escort look forward to being with. And you don't have to be great looking or
in good shape to please an escort. All you have to do is know how to treat a woman right. Hopefully you will learn from this web page exactly how to do that.
Free sex isn't really free. In order to get a woman to have free sex
with you, you have to find someone who is attracted to you and wants to
have sex with you. For most of us, this takes a lot of work.
If you start a relationship, you run into one of the biggest problems
with free sex: You both have to want it at the same time. You can't just
get it when you want it. And then you have to deal with "where is this
relationship going," and how you feel about monogamy and marriage (Which
I call "doing the "M" word"). Then there's the question of dealing with
her friends, her family, her lawyer, her religion, her spending habits, her television preferences, her moods, her shrink, her astrologer, her
dealing with your friends and family, and trying to adjust to each
other's grooming habits, musical tastes, money, property, children,
pets, ex-lovers, jealousy, anger, bullshit ... all this when all you really wanted was just to get
laid.
When you're with an escort, you're going to get laid. You don't have to
worry about "if" because that's not an issue anymore. You don't have to
deal with all the other bullshit because that's not part of the package.
And being with an escort doesn't mean that you have to give up free sex
or pursuing a relationship. In fact, being with an escort may enhance
your life so much that you get more free sex, have better sex, and are
so attractive to women that you will find your one true love, if that's
what you're looking for.
Maybe you just got divorced or dumped and you're hurting and need
someone to be with. Being with an escort is a great way to recover from
a lost relationship. No, it isn't the same as "true love," but it can
make you feel a lot better about yourself and help build back your
confidence so that you're functional and attractive to women again.
Women like men who are confident and they are repulsed by men who are
sexually needy. That's why when you need to get laid the most, women
don't want to be with you. And that's where escort services play an
important role in society. They help men who need to get laid, get laid.
And these men are far better for it.
To have sex when you want it, with whom you want it, and where you want
it is well worth paying for. It's just like ordering pizza delivered.
You're paying extra for convenience and service.
Movies and television depict prostitutes in a few limited and
unrealistic ways, mostly to the detriment of the women. There's the
drug-addicted street walker standing on a dark and dangerous corner with
a black pimp who beats her hiding in the shadows. Then there's the whore
who inhabits a giant Victorian brothel where a guy plays piano in the
parlor and the women are slaves to an obese madame and secretly hate
their work and their customers. In all the television I've watched, the
only TV show that seemed to come closest to accurately depicting the
relationship between and escort and her client was the TV series DALLAS
where J.R. Ewing had this ongoing relationship with a woman named
"Sabrina" that came in and out of his life over the years the show was
on the air.
Using an escort service means that you are dealing with an agency, just
like any other service agency. You don't pick up a street walker and you
don't go to a whore house. Instead, you call and arrange for
companionship, and a woman comes to your home or motel room and spends
time with you in your space. You get the advantage of not having to go
anywhere and of being in your own home where you're most comfortable --
or in your motel room if you are on a business trip or you're married
and can't do it in the home. It's that simple.
These days there are a lot of independent escorts who work for themselves and advertize on the web. Some of them have there own web sites. I keep a list of some here on my
site and there are plenty of others if you search google. And there are escorts that advertize in personal ads on personal ad sites. Generally they will advertize on adult person ad sites like
Adult Friendfinder where they word the ad in a way that if you pay attention - they are looking for a paid relationship. I tend to recommend the larger
adult matchmaking sites like Adult Friendfinder because the more women on the site the more you'll have to choose from in your area.
Escort services are listed in the yellow pages under Escorts,
Entertainment, or Massage. That's if you are in a larger city. If you live in a small town you might want to look online if you can't find it anywhere else. You might want to call several escort services in your area to
get familiar
with what is being offered. Understand, though, that they
might not be able to fully describe over the phone what they do because
they don't want to get busted by the law. In other words, if they say they offer
"full female companionship," or a "girl friend experience (gfe)" you're supposed to be sharp enough to
figure out that you're going to get laid.
There are some escort services that don't offer sex as part of their
product line and fail to make that clear. If you are in doubt you might
want to indicate that you are interested in "full female companionship"
and if the agency can't accommodate that they should let you know up
front. You don't want the escort to show up and there be a
miscommunication.
Typically, the escort service will tell you that there is an "agency
fee" that goes to the service and then there are "tips" -- which is what
you pay the pro for her services. On the phone they won't likely give
you a price list of what you get for what money, but you can ask
questions like, "If I have $200 on me, do you think that would cover the
average tip?" This will give you a ballpark idea of what you'll be
paying. I used to live in Springfield, Missouri, and around there usually a $100
tip and a $50 agency fee will get you laid. In San Francisco expect to pay between $250 - $400. Prices vary from area to area. Generally Escorts and Lawyers make the same hourly rate.
Usually the agency will describe the age, hair color, measurements,
and weight of the escorts. If that's all you want to know, this may be
enough description for you. But I encourage you to ask for what you want
in some detail. You may be looking for a personality type, for instance,
or someone with a specific ethnic background. In my case, I like women
who like their work; I like them really horny -- and that's what I ask
for. Some escort services won't give you that kind of information over
the phone -- or the person working the phones may not know much about
the personalities of the women. If you're interested in anything
unusual, like anal, bondage, costumes, or whatever, you should say what
you're interested in. The agency might recommend someone who specializes
in your interest. You might want to call several services, so that you
can find the agency that will make it their business to supply you with
the experience you desire.
If you contact an independent escort online you have the advantage of getting to know her personally through email and/or online chat. This is a safer way to do it because it allows you and the escort to get to know
each other first. You might get a picture and be able to interact first and know what each other likes. That way when she shows up she's not a "total stranger". And - if she knows you and what you like - she's going to
be more prepared to show you a good time. So - if you want to be whipped - she'll have her cat of nine tails with her.
Many escorts are moving to online escorting because its safer for them too. There's less law enforcement online and its not real different than dating. Its safer for them because they would rather know you more than to
show up and fuck whoever opens the door. Its well worth exploring the online services especially if you are new to this. If you're a cyber virgin - there's a lot of fun things you can do online that will prepare you for
your sexual experience. Writing hot email is great foreplay and its easier to get very sexual while you are still anonymous.
Here's an example of how this works: I was visiting in San Jose, California,
and I called a service there. They asked me what I was looking for. I
said, "Well, this is California and I want the California experience. I
want a woman who represents what the Beach Boys are singing about in the
song, 'I wish they all could be California Girls'." The woman understood
exactly what I was talking about and sent me this pretty little brunette
who called herself "Mindy" -- and she was just what I wanted. Mindy was one hot little woman who really enjoyed her work and we both had a great time. Years later - even after she got out of the business I can to San
Jose again and she still wanted to see me. And if I hadn't asked for what I wanted - I might not have met her. So don't
be shy about letting the service know what you're looking for and don't
be afraid to shop around until you get what you want.
Generally, the phone operator who takes the calls knows who's available
and will page the woman you pick. The escort will return the operator's
call and the agency will then call you back to confirm that she's on her
way.
Sometimes the woman you've chosen is not available. Don't be surprised
if the service calls you back and tells you that the one you picked
didn't answer her page. You might want to mention a second choice then,
or try another service. This business is imperfect, so don't expect the
same reliability you get from your doctor. Independent escorts that you meet online have less problems with scheduling because they do their own scheduling. So they are more likely to show up when they are supposed
to.
The best times to call escort services are from 5:00 PM till midnight.
This is the hours that most of them are working and you get the best
selection. Although many services are 24 hours, not that many are still
working at 4:00 am and are often rather wore out by then. I like to call
early in the evening because I like it "fresh".
If you meet an escort online through an online dating service such as Adult Friendfinder or
I Want You then you have the advantage of getting to know them first, and them getting to know you first. This is important - especially if you
are new at this - because it will make you less nervous when the time to meet in person comes. And she will be less nervous too. You have to remember that these women are women and even though they are "professionals"
most women are a little nervous when meeting a new guy that they are about to be intimate with. Email becomes a form of foreplay.
Email is a very sexually exciting way to communicate and at first stay anonymous. And - as to anonymous - you probably don't want to use your real email address that you use for everything else. There are a lot of free
services like Yahoo and Hotmail that will give you a free email account. Anonymous is not only safer - but its sexier. Its easire to get very sexual when no one knows who you are.
You've heard if online cyber sex - but - until you have experienced it - you have no idea how interesting it can be. I've found that you can easilly bring a woman to orgasm mearly by typing words. Its rather amazing
actually. And - when a woman is anonymous - she's a whole different person. Email and chat give you the anonymous experience.
Once you start communicating online with an escort - it can be very hot for both of you. And - you get to know each other really well - sexually that is. You don't have to worry about your looks or your body language or
what your voice sounds like or how you smell. Its all mental - and - you'll learn that the art of sex is mostly mental too. I describe that in more detail in my Nerd's Guide
to Sex . But trust me - its all about mental imagery - and online - its all mental.
Years ago I had a friend who did radio ads for me when I owned a couple of computer stores. We used to put together the most outrageous radio spots and he told be something that I'll never forget. He said that radio was
far more visual than television because you can use sound to paint any kind of mental image you want - where television was limited to what you can afford to create. Online sex is like that. I can use words and become a
nine foot tall slimey space alien - grey tentacles with lots of suckers and an appatite for swuirming female flesh and women picture that and are all over me, even though in real life I'm just an aging fat nerd.
You don't have to start out as a space alien - but you can talk about your sexual fantasies and see if you can find common ground exporing the common mental imagery that perpetuate the human race. If you can establish
this kind of online foreplay then by the time you get together physically - you're both ready for it. And it is something that anyone can do and its not hard to learn and it will help you understand women better.
Something that is worth understanding.
Many online dating services also have live online chat. Or you can download Yahoo Messenger and go to the chat rooms and explore online interaction. Its a good way to help you start communicating verbally about
sexuality. Understanding what gets women really hot is the first step to becomming an incredible lover. And escorts are looking for guys like you who are ready to learn how the game is really played.
NOTE: For escorts reading this or women who are interested in becoming escorts - I wrote an article about how to become an escort using personal ads called The Shy
Girl's Guide to Becoming a Whore . This is a step by step guide for women who want to explore that aspect of their sexuality. Many women have told me that they have always wanted the experience of being a whore.
This is how you can do it without having to actually take a job in the profession. Many women have written me about this and have tried it once just for the experience. Its can be something that's very empowing and
creates sexual confidence.
Which is better - escort service or online escorts. Well - that depends on where you live. In the bigger cities many local escort agencies have web sites so the you can see the escorts and read a little about them. The
more you know the better. If you call them on the phone then you'll just get a vauge discription. But - if you live in a small town you might not have a lot of choice. Online has the advantage of "cutting out the
middleman" and deal directly with the escort. And - an online escort at least has some computer skills which is somewhat of an IQ prequalifier. And - you can intereact with her to determine who is right for you.
On the other hand - many escort services has a long track record and a steady clientel and prescreen quality escorts. In this kind of situation - trust and reliability are important. Someone with a phone number in the
Yellow Pages might be less likely to scam you than someone without a permantent presence. So it really depends on your location and your needs. But the shift towards online grows every year as more and more women get
into this on a recreational basis.
I've written my Shy Girl's Guide to Becoming a Whore targeted at women who are not looking to be a full time escort - but are looking for an escort experience. Many
women look up to hookers as sexual role models and it has become somewhat of a goal for ordinary women to fulfill their "Whore" fantasy and experience what its like to do it themselves.
Women who often have self esteam issues and low self confidence about their atractiveness to men can get a lot of reassurance about themselves when a man is willing to pay them for sex. And what kind of man do these
women want to get together with to fulfill this sexual desire? Guys just like you - who are reading this article and know how to treat an escart right. You can be some woman's first time escort experience - and
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