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Whether you realize it or not, there are many situations in which knowing how to convert household items into homemade sex toys is a real plus. Maybe you’re away from home and realize you’re without your favorite sex toy ; maybe things have gotten heated and you don’t have time to hunt for a vibrator ; maybe you’re looking to try a new kink without investing much money. Or maybe you just want to surprise your partner (or yourself).
Whatever the reason, Barbara Carrella , a certified sexologist and author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, says a DIY sex toy (which she calls a pervertible) is never far: “Pervertibles are every day, non-erotic items that can be easily converted into sex toys. They can be found absolutely everywhere, and once you start finding them, it’s hard to stop seeing the erotic potential in all sorts of everyday items.”
We spoke to a variety of sex educators and experts about their top picks for unassuming everyday objects you can bring into your sex life, either with a partner or by yourself. While there’s no true replacement for a body-safe sex toy , Rae Chen, sex and beauty editor of TheNotice.net , tells SELF: “There are a lot of household items that can double as sex toys for the brave (or very, very horny). Ideally, I recommend using only new, clean items."
From spatulas to throw pillows, Carrellas says once you start looking for pervertibles, “you can expand your erotic imagination and increase your pleasure possibilities.” (And save money too.) Below, we’ve rounded up a few of the best homemade sex toys, as well as expert recommendations for how to safely enjoy them. 
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Ice cubes are a great gateway to the DIY sex toy game because they’re not messy and can easily be tossed down the drain if you’re not feeling it, Gigi Engle, resident sex educator at 3Fun and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life , tells SELF. 
As for how to employ the ice cubes, she says: “The nipples are a hot zone (pun intended). Run the cold object around your partner’s nipples and then over each one, taking note of how they respond. If they’re clearly enjoying themselves, move down their body. Focus on the inner thighs and hip bones.” And if they’re into that sensation, engage their penis or vulva last. 
Be sure you always have fresh ice cubes ready to go—a task made easy if you own a useful refillable silicone ice cube tray like this one above. (Before you ask, they’re molded like coffee beans , we promise.) For more traditional shapes, try these freezer trays from Amazon .
“A wooden spoon is an excellent toy for spanking when you’re ready to move on from a flat palm,” Engle says. She advises that the spoon be on the newer side and finished, as you wouldn’t want to give your partner splinters in their rear. Once you’ve pulled the spoon out of its drawer, use the back of it as a paddle, but(t) don’t hit with full force. “Work your way up to more intense strokes,” Engle adds. “As beginners, it can take some time to get your bearings. Remember, always ask your partner if something feels good or is too rough.”
You don’t have to invest in a full-on BDSM kit to incorporate some light bondage into your play. Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations , recommends pulling out a bandana, which you might already have lying around (or maybe now’s the time you buy a cute scarf like this one from Madewell, which comes in an Afterglow Red colorway). 
Crucially, avoid bandanas made of fabrics as slinky as silk or satin, as those materials get dangerously tight when you knot them. “Fold or twist a cotton bandana or scarf, however, and you can tie wrists much more safely,” Queen says, adding that you should still be able to slide one finger between the scarf and skin.
Another way to use a bandana? As a blindfold, tied to the side so the wearer doesn’t have to place their head on an awkward knot.
“Swishing around mouthwash (or sucking on a mint ) before or during oral sex will create a pleasurable tingling sensation which will feel amazing for your partner if they’re into that type of stimulation,” says sex and relationship therapist Malika O’Neill , LPC, and founder and CEO of The Pleasure Collective, LLC . This homemade sex toy has the added bonus of freshening your breath too.
“ Humping items like pillows , blankets, and sofa arms can be perfect for external stimulation,” Chen says. “Just be sure to cover them with something you can launder.”
Given its length and rod-like curves, the phallic hairbrush handle makes for an easily accessible and dildo-like sex toy . Experts don’t recommend you insert anything that isn’t an actual sex toy inside of you, but if you must, Chen says: “Insertable household items like the iconic hairbrush, toothbrush, or cucumber should be covered with a condom to prevent yeast and bacterial infections.”
Be sure to wash and dry everything before and after use, and, most importantly, “For the love of the emergency room, don’t put anything without a flared base up your butt! That means yes to the hairbrush, but no to the cucumber.” Experts also recommend using a water-based lube .
Speaking of lube , a good go-to item is coconut oil , which Chen calls an “amazing lubricant you can find in the kitchen that’s safe for use on skin and sex toys and makes for a great massage oil too.” In fact, Chen says, any neutral vegetable oil (like EVOO) is safe for use just as long as it's not flavored. One more thing to know is that oil doesn’t mix with latex condoms—so if you’re getting kinky with coconut oil, be sure to pair it with a non-latex (polyurethane) condom.
Another fantastic spanker? A silicone spatula. “Make sure you choose a well-made spatula,” Queen says. “The danger with a cheap one is that the flexible end might fly off the handle when you’re using it.” To avoid accidents, we’ve got our eye on this lovely lilac model from Williams Sonoma, which has a cool stainless steel handle that you can personalize with whatever text you like. Go ahead—get creative.
“A bathrobe is something that lots of people have sitting around, and its tie can be used as a blindfold and for bondage ,” Jenn Mason, the owner of WinkWink Boutique , tells SELF. Just pull the tie out of any robe (or, hell, a wrap dress ) and use it to tie wrists together or to a headboard.
If a bandana isn’t nearby, another reliable blindfold stand-in is a good old cotton T-shirt, which Engle calls an ideal blindfold. “While spanking and wrist-tying is fun, start with the blindfold alone,” she says. “Once it’s secured over your eyes, have your partner kiss you and massage you with essential oils. Then, the sexy stuff can really get underway.”
Yoga and meditation lovers, put that bolster to uses other than back stretching. Bolsters are excellent for humping, Queen says, as they’re a bit like bunched-up pillows but firmer—meaning you’ll get better stimulation from rubbing yourself on them.
If you’ve got a foam roller on hand (or were looking for a reason to buy one), Queen notes that the more slender variety can be used for impact play (as can pool noodles, although they’re a bit on the long side).
“There’s nothing more erotic than getting oiled up for some sexual fun,” O-Neill says. Pro-tip for parents: The baby oil you keep around can be dual-purposed as a massage oil in a pinch.
One more blindfold option is a sleep mask . We’re partial to this soft, silky mask from Blissy, which is as great for hair and skin as it is at allowing you to try bondage play.
If you’ve got a penis and a plush toy nearby, “cut a hole so you can insert your penis into the interior and do your thing,” O’Neill advises. The stuffing and pressure should create an enjoyable sensation. While we’re not recommending that you go looking for your children’s stuffed animals, maybe you’ve got a plush prize from a county fair hanging around the house somewhere. Either way, O’Neill recommends wearing a condom in case you want to use the toy again.
Of course, if you don’t own any plush toys, a throw pillow works just as well.
Here’s a homemade sex toy idea that’s seasonally appropriate: “Those cheap-y thong sandals that so many people have for summer can be great for spanking,” Mason says. “They’re a bit stingy, and you want to make sure they’re not too dirty, but they make a really great spanking device.”
“If you want to have a ‘messy’ sexual experience that may include bodily fluids and don’t want to ruin your sheets, a shower curtain may be the thing you need,” O’Neill says. Opt for a plastic curtain over a fabric one, and cover your existing bedsheets with it before you get down and dirty.
At the bare minimum, you at least have a pair of socks somewhere in your house. While not especially glamorous, if you or your partner have a penis and are looking for a simple feel-good fix, O’Neill recommends filling a sock with lube or (unscented) lotion and masturbating away. “If partnered, have your partner give you a hand job, or you can use your own sex toy and join the fun,” she says. And if you’re short on sex toys, well, read this article again.
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If the phrase "homemade sex toy" makes you immediately imagine a trip to the ER, you might be surprised to hear they're not necessarily as questionable as you'd expect...if you choose wisely.
DIY toys for sex and masturbation can be a great option if you're just beginning to (literally) play with your sex life—solo or with a partner. They're a low-cost, convenient way to experiment with what you like in a sex toy in terms of length, girth, texture, and more. Or, maybe you've exhausted your drawer (or closet, or room) of sex toys and want to try something new. Plus, some options are even disposable, making cleanup a breeze.
If you're hesitant to try something mechanical, man-made, or explicitly created for sex play, going the DIY route may make you feel more comfortable, according to sexuality and relationship consultant Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh , PhD. "Homemade sex toys featuring everyday objects are accessible," she says. "Plus, they can bring lightness and laughter to the dynamic, which is priceless." Just imagine never looking at a wooden spoon or cucumber without getting turned on again.
That being said, it can be difficult to know where to begin when you want to branch out from traditional sex toys . It's important to not just grab any old household object for bedroom play. Luckily, your search for the perfect bedroom accessory (that you probably already own!) ends here. These 27 homemade sex toys are all expert-approved—so you know they're both fun and safe to use.
Unless they're crotchless, you have to take off your nylons to have sex, so why not involve them in the fun instead of tossing them on the floor? 
If you have consent from your partner, use these to tie their wrists and ankles, or to blindfold them while giving them a lap dance or grazing parts of your body on their lips, says psychologist and sex therapist Rachel Needle , PsyD.
"Remember, all other senses are heightened when sight is deprived, so blinding them with something silky or sexy to the touch is ideal," she says.
"Get a clean PVC pipe with the circumference and length that fits his penis," Laino says. "Lube the inside and have him penetrate it." That gives an all new meaning to the word hardware, eh?
"Underwear can easily be used as a gag," Matatas says. "Just be sure to fold the underwear from its corners into the center, so that if it unfolds, the bulk of the material will fold out of the mouth instead of back into the throat."
Sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas recommends pressure point massage rollers. This one could easily be used in solo play to rub along your clit, nipples, or bum.
Chokers are super versatile in the bedroom, Morgan explains. Of course, they're a good option for people interested in collaring. 
But even if that's not your style, Morgan says that just the act of putting a choker on can be exciting because it signals "'if you give me permission to collar you, now we're in active play, and you're going to take the submissive role.'" 
"Some men will use a sock filled with lotion or lube and masturbate away," says Debra Laino , a sexologist as well as couples and marriage therapist. And, there’s no reason you can’t do that for them or have them do it next to you while you watch and stimulate yourself with your own toy of choice. 
"Both partners using their own sex toys to mutually masturbate can add some diversity and spice to a couple's sex life," Laino says.
Sure, you can attempt to hold an ice cube in your mouth while delivering oral sex, or even swish ice-cold water in your mouth beforehand, but the thing about ice is that...it melts. 
Instead, create that same effect by swishing your mouth with mouthwash before giving oral, says sex educator Laura McGuire. "It’s going to give off that tingling sensation that a lot of people really, really love," she explains.
But if you don't mind a little mess, ice is a great way to try out temperature play, says Tyomi Morgan , a certified sexologist and pleasure coach. "You can put it on any part of the body, any of your erogenous zones," she says. 
She suggests using an ice cube to make trails on your body or your partner's body and then using your breath to emphasize that cool feeling. 
This ice cube tray makes large squares that won't melt right away, so you can keep the party going all night long. 
If you want to take your blow job game to a new level, this tool—er, jewel—is for you, says Laino.
"Slowly wrap it around your partner's penis and jerk them off," she suggests. Added pleasure bonus: Kiss and suck on the tip while you’re at it. 
"The texture of the pearls gives the penis a very different and unique sensation," Laino says.
A wooden spoon is perfect for spanking because you can go soft or hard, depending on your partner’s preference, Laino says. Just make sure to have an open conversation about your sexual boundaries beforehand. 
For another effect, Morgan suggests a silicone spatula. "It creates a different sensation," she says. The stinging effect and lighter impact, she adds, just can't compare to plain old wood. 
Rubbing against a stack of pillows can stimulate the clitoris and serve as a stand-in for a partner, says Needle.
Pillows can also be great co-masturbation tools, says McGuire, who encourages everyone to think outside of the penetrative sex box. "People forget that a lot of pleasure can be derived with just friction," she says. Noted!
Don't want to mess with your expensive pillows? Needle also recommends using towels. The texture can feel great and the material is versatile enough to use it in any number of ways. 
Things heating up too quickly? Use a fan to cool off, or use the rotating blades as another form of texture play, Morgan explains. Just make sure your fan has softer blades, like this pocket-sized one. 
Morgan also recommends using a fan to cool off the part of the body that you're focusing on. "That way, some of the redness goes down," she explains. It's a win-win. 
If swishing mouthwash pre-oral isn't as convenient as you'd like it to be, McGuire also recommends popping some mints before giving oral. It'll give the same tingling sensation without having to run to the bathroom mid-foreplay.
Want to get dirty while getting clean? Easy. Just use your shower head as a vibrator by pressing it up against, or directly spraying, yo
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