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+ User-friendly design + Innovative technology + Good-looking toy
Good vibrations from this beginner butt plug
+ Vibrating options + Smooth and soft
+ Looks beautiful + Reaches deep + Basically indestructible
- Outrageously expensive - Presumably you won't be wearing those matching cufflinks for long...
A cock ring for those who like heavy metal
+ Long lasting + Well reviewed + Heavy weight
It takes two to tango, and this sex toy is designed for couples
+ Hands-free stimulation + Idea for couples + 9 vibrating patterns
Anal beads reimagined for extra comfort
- A range of different sizes would be good
A male masturbator designed to send you skywards
+ Realistic feel + Adjustable suction
A lux-feeling sex toy with a generous selection of vibration patterns
+ Lots of speeds and patterns + Sturdy, luxurious quality + Motors in the shaft and 'ears'
A sex toy that promises more than just hot air
+ Good choice of intensity + Comfortable to hold
The vibrating prostate pleaser that massages from top to bottom
+ Remote controlled + Medium size to fit most men + Waterproof
Exercise your pelvic floor, and have fun at the same time
Beginner: weight 47g, 4.3 inch girth
Intermediate: weight 78g, 3.9 inch girth
Advanced: weight 106g, 3.6 inch girth
+ Varying weights to try + Easy to remove + Soft, vegan silicone
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Whether solo or with a partner, this is the year to explore the wonderful world of the best sex toys
Thankfully, the days of skulking around in a clandestine fashion to look for sex toys are well behind us. This is the 21st century and the best sex toys can be purchased from the ever-burgeoning number of online companies, or in Boots, or in Sainsbury's when you're doing your weekly shop. You can also order online at the click of a button, and have a discreet, unmarked package delivered direct to your door.
Of course, interest in the colourful and vibrant sex toy market has been piqued in recent months as we've been spending lots of time at home, while other forms of entertainment (remember gigs and clubs?) have become more transgressive than an order for the latest vibrator, butt plug or whips.
This is a big and varied market, which can seem overwhelming when dipping your toe in for the first time. There are toys designed just for women, those aimed at the male market, and toys for couples. Whatever your penchant there will no doubt be a sex toy to satisfy your needs, whether that's solo, with a partner… or more if that takes your fancy. If you know what you're looking for, we also have dedicated guides to the best dildo , the best Fleshlight and the best vibrator . If you're wanting inspiration or an general overview of the kind of options around, read on for our pick of the best sex toys around.
Made for women, but usable whatever relationship you're in, you certainly won't struggle to find ways to use the Yuki to make things more exciting. It's a palm-sized blob that brings to mind stress toys more readily than it does sex toys, and indeed it has a certain level of squishiness to it. If you're not a fan of rigid toys, that's a big plus, and this is totally non-threatening and looks absolutely nothing like a penis – again, a plus for many.
No points for guessing that it vibrates, with Iroha packing in three different vibration strengths and a pulse mode to keep things interesting. While you can certainly use its semi-insertable tip to keep yourself happy when going solo, it's perfect for tracing lines of pleasure onto a partner in whatever spot they'd like. The whole thing is simple to operate, with two controls on the bottom, and it charges on a custom stand, included. Plus, let's face it, those looks don't scream 'sex toy' whatsoever: a bonus if you're employing the services of a cleaner...
It also makes use of the same SenseTouch technology as its predecessors, which means that the device responds to pressure – the harder you push, the more intense the sensations. The ergonomic design means it's comfortable to hold and move around as required. It looks pretty discreet, too, so no awkward reveal at airport security!
For those yet to explore the intense sensations of anal play, Lovehoney’s Butt Tingler is a petite, smoothly curved bulb that makes a perfect starter sex toy. If desired, the Tingler can also provide good vibrations as it can be used as a battery-powered bullet with three speeds and seven different patterns. The T-shaped flared end will ensure it stays in place and is easy to remove, with no risk of a red-faced trip to A&E. Remember to use a lube when exploring anal toys – check our guide to the best lubes if you're not sure which one to buy.
Lelo makes a lot of toys, but if you're looking to add an air of gentlemanly sophistication to proceedings, there's nothing finer than the Earl . It comes with a set of matching cufflinks, for goodness' sake. That's a new one on us.
Made either of stainless steel or, if you're really dialling up the opulence of your anal play, coated in 24-karat gold, the Earl is on the more slimline end of butt-play toys, and reaches 3.5 inches in, enough for it to be a great tool for prostate massage but equally viable for enjoyment by those without a prostate. The metal material makes it suitable for temperature play (you can pop it in the fridge, though we'd definitely keep it out of the freezer), and the outer ring means it can be pulled in and out with ease, or left in place with confidence.
The one downside is the price. Even in its stainless steel variant the Earl will set you back an eye-watering amount; thankfully the Lelo Bob is the same shape in a silicone form, with the same finger-friendly outer ring. Crucially, it costs a far more reasonable amount.
Most cock rings are made from stretchy rubber and are easy to pull on and off. Dominix’s stainless steel hoop, however, is an altogether more weighty experience. Once in position, tucked behind the testicles, the smooth surface and weight of the ring pushes the genitals forward creating a significant effect on the look, feel and duration of the erection. This ring is designed for those who already have some experience as putting it on takes some dexterity at first, but users swear by the intensity of the experience. Once worn, never regretted.
We-Vibe specialises in sex toys for couples and the Unite 2 is the latest in its vibrators designed for two. Unite 2 is inserted during sex to add intensity to the orgasm, and for hands-free clitoral and penis stimulation. Its non-intimidating size and smooth texture makes it easy to insert and incredibly comfortable to wear. There are nine vibrating patterns, which can be operated either by pressing the button on the front of the vibrator or by your partner using the remote control. An easy, fun way to enjoy sex toy play with your partner – just don’t over-lube this delicate toy.
Anal beads are a staple sex toy as it's a gentle way to start experimenting with anal play: less intimidating than a butt plug and with more control too. As a stalwart product for those familiar with sex toys, what's new about this version from Kandid? Well, take a closer look at the beads and you can see that, rather than the usual row of bulbous spheres, Kandid has produced a row of corkscrew-esque beads that are graded and twisted. The result is an extremely comfortable experience when inserting and removing. The ring is easy to hold, and for guys using The Beaded One it can also double up as a cock ring. Very neat!
At this juncture we could easily make a joke about joining the mile-high club, but we will resist. Instead we will let you know about the textured canal of the Fleshlight, which is lined with ridges and bumps for a realistic feel. The suction can be intensified or lessened via the twist base. An ergonomically designed, easy to hold exterior and good-quality construction help make this sex toy a best seller. It’s also pretty discreet, making it a good travel partner, and can be used hands-free with the Fleshlight Hands-Free Adaptor (purchased separately). Not quite right for you? Explore our rundown of the best fleshlights right now.
This range of sex toys inspired by the sexual adventures of Fifty Shades of Grey’s Anastasia Steele, has proved to be nearly as popular as the books. Despite a slightly cringey name, the Greedy Girl makes our list of the best sex toys thanks to its double-motor design – one in the shaft and one in the ‘rabbit ears’ designed for clitoral stimulation – and 15 speeds and patterns, which is more than many vibrators. It's also sturdy and we were impressed by the power of the vibrations. The texture of the toy feels luxurious, too.
Air vibrators are relatively new to the sex-toy market, having only been around for about five years – and they have been a revelation for women who are looking for alternative ways to orgasm using a sex toy. The clitoris has around 10,000 nerve endings and air technology aims to stimulate pretty much all of them via gentle suction while emulating oral sex. The KWESI is a new entry onto the market from The Pleasure Drum, a sex toy company that celebrates black culture. It has a sleek design and feels comfortable to hold and there are six settings that graduate in intensity. Every Pleasure Drum product comes in a traditional African cloth bag that bursts with colour and vibrancy so it feels like a real treat when this comes through the letterbox. It's great fun in the bedroom too.
Kegel balls are essential for women's sexual wellness. These small, weighted balls are inserted in the vagina and designed to strengthen pelvic floor muscles – the Kegel muscles grip the balls to keep them in position, while simultaneously stimulating pleasant sensations. This Je Joue Ami Kegel trio come in varying weights; you will naturally progress to the heavier weight as your muscles strengthen. This set is made with body-safe silicone, which is beautifully soft. The balls are vegan and the ergonomic retrieval loops make these nice and easy to remove.
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The Kama Sutra Lavani Vibrator has a sleek design and some seriously intense vibration patterns, along with easy-to-manage controls.
The Womanizer Premium utilizes an innovative air pressure technology for touchless stimulation on your clitoris, giving you the feeling of oral sex without actual suction.
The We-Vibe Chorus is a wearable vibrator with an incredibly slim profile, so you can wear it during penetrative sex for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.
Unbound Cuffies are the ideal cuffs for those new to bondage, thanks to their flexible design and body-safe material.
The Ahoy Cock Ring works in two different ways: It restricts blood flow to the penis and acts as a bumper against too-deep thrusting.
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I bought my first sex toy when I was in college and had absolutely no idea what I was doing. The world of internet product reviews wasn't exactly comprehensive at the time, and the pointers that were out there weren't necessarily pointing in the direction of sex toys.
So, I typed "sex toys" into Google, found one that seemed not-so-scary, and ordered it. Though my blind faith ended up working out positively, choosing a sex toy that's right for you doesn't have to be a puzzling experience and the sheer number of choices doesn't need to seem daunting.
The variety even allows you to experiment with several toys until you find one that suits your preference — and the industry isn't just a collection of vibrators, either. There are plenty of quality vibrator options , of course, but there's also a wide variety of other toys designed to cater to everyone and every style of pleasure.
Before getting into our recommendations, it's important to understand the benefits associated with sex and masturbation . For both women, men, and non-binary folx, masturbation can help relieve stress, boost your mood, allow you to sleep better, and help you relax. For partners, self or mutual masturbation can also be a great way to better understand each other's wants and needs and to have better sex.
It also has a significant impact on your health. As Dr. Barb DePree, gynecologist, women's health provider, and founder of resource hub MiddlesexMD told Insider that for females, "vulvovaginal health is maintained or improved with regular stimulation and activity."
"Genital activity promotes blood flow to the area keeping tissues more supple and elastic, and this also enhances the natural secretions that help maintain vaginal health," she said. "Penetrative sexual activity, with or without a partner, helps to maintain vaginal width, length, and tone, or as we say, vaginal capacity."
This is true for people of all ages, too. Dr. DePree mentions that if women in menopause aren't experiencing sexual activity, they're likely to have progressive atrophy of the vagina and labia. Their vagina may also grow shorter and narrower while becoming drier and less elastic.
One way to help this is through self or mutual masturbation — and sex toys, of any form or function, are a great way to do it. Not only do they help maximize stimulation but they're helpful in actually achieving an orgasm.
Dr. DePree likens their use to reading glasses: "When our vision is impaired, we don't stop reading, we get reading glasses. [Use of sex toys] should be encouraged as not only appropriate but important to maintaining or regaining sexual health and function."
To put it plainly: When our ability to orgasm is impaired, we shouldn't stop enjoying orgasms — we should get a sex toy.
Whether you're looking for a new toy or need a replacement for an old favorite, we've done the work to find the best currently available. I tested nearly all of these items myself, but since sex toys aren't limited to just one gender, I handed off any I was unable to use to friends who told me what they liked (or didn't like) about them. Find out more about how we tested the toys at the end of this guide.
Updated on 1/26/2021 by Rachael Schultz: Fleshed out How We Tested section; Currently testing more couple's toys, so check back for updates.
Pros: Easy-to-navigate controls, multiple vibration speeds and patterns, and a sleek design
Cons: Only holds a charge for two hours, and can get a little loud when both motors are going.
While plenty of rabbit vibrators are hokey looking (complete with a realistic-looking rabbit), the Kama Sutra Lavani Vibrator eschews that norm with a sleek, sophisticated design. It comes in three colors and has an ergonomically-designed tip that's the perfect size for G-spot stimulation.
The vibrating arm that extends from its handle isn't shaped like a rabbit but is instead curved with a flat head, so it lays against your clitoris instead of bouncing on top of it. This allows for more stimulation than a pair of rabbit ears. The format is also completely bendable, and each arm has its own motor for maximum sensation.
I loved how quickly the Lavani vibrator charged (which is great since the battery life is only two hours), and how easy it was to cycle through its different vibration patterns and intensities. Unlike other vibes, this one has up and down arrows — handy if you're like me, and you tend to accidentally skip your favorite setting on a regular basis. Instead of having to cycle through each pattern to get to your favorite again, you can just hit the back button and get back to business.
Pros: Innovative air pressure technology and a unique autopilot mode
Cons: It can be difficult to form a seal on your clitoris when not using lube
The Womanizer isn't the only clitoris vibrator that uses air pressure to mimic the feeling of oral sex, but I've found that it does do it the best. The ergonomically-designed handle flares at the base, where a little notch sits. All you do is place it over your clitoris so it forms a slight seal, and then turn it on to provide gentle vibrations against your clitoris.
The Womanizer Premium has a battery life of four hours, which is twice as long as most vibrators. It has 12 vibration modes you can cycle through, as well as an innovative autopilot mode. When active, it cycles through every vibration mode at random for a true variable experience.
The one drawback I found was that it needs a decent amount of lube to form a suction. However, once I worked that out, it was good to go. And since the Womanizer is quiet, you won't wake up any roommates while you're playing.
Pros: Great for long-distance couples, super slim and flexible, and can be used for partner or solo play
Cons: You can't control both heads at the same time
As the younger sister of We-Vibe's Sync , the Chorus is a total ringer of that fan-favorite. It's one of the slimmer couple's vibrators on the market and it's completely flexible, allowing you to adjust it based on your own body's needs.
It has a deep, rumbly vibrator that's nothing like your buzzy bullet vibrators, with 10 different vibration modes: four intensities and six patterns.
What I especially loved about this vibrator is the versatility: It works quite well during solo sessions to stimulate a female's clitoris and G-spot at once. But used as a couple's toy, the powerful motor also provides pleasure for your penetrating male partner on the inside, or for another female grinding on top.
The one thing I feel is missing from this vibe is the ability to control the vibrations on both arms separately. Your clitoris and G-spot don't always want the same thing, so being able to have one intensity inside with another outside would have given this vibe a full five stars.
Another great feature was the remote control, which is great for penetrative vaginal sex on its own. There's nothing worse than your partner and you fumbling around to try and change the setting. Instead of using the actual controls, you can simply squeeze the remote to cycle through its intensities.
I also enjoyed the We-Vibe Chorus ' companion smartphone application. If you're connected to the internet, your partner is able to control it from anywhere in the world (yes, you read that correctly).
Pros: Soft, flexible design that's easy to use and won't bite into your skin
Cons: Can be a little tough to break in, but once you do, the cuffs are super stretchy
While cuffs tend to be of the metal or velcro variety, the Unbound Cuffies allows you to play around with bondage without having to deal with knots or keys (or intimidating-looking devices). These silicone cuffs slip easily on and off your wrists — no keys required.
They're stretchy enough to fit a wide variety of body shapes but are strong enough to not snap if you pull on them a little too hard. Their small, uncomplicated design makes them great to take on a trip or perfect for dipping your toe into bondage.
I was impressed by how strong the Cuffie's silicone was, too. The one drawback is that these take a little breaking in to be truly stretchy, so you might want to try working them a bit before you actually using them. But once they're a little broken in, they restrain your wrists without biting into your skin.
Pros: Textured band for pleasure, acts as a bumper to prevent too-deep penetration
Cons: Some may find the thickness a little too intense for regular wear
While it doesn't have the bells and whistles of similar cock ring options, the Ahoy Cock Ring is still the best of the bunch. It does exactly what it's meant to do — restricting blood flow to the penis in order to improve stamina.
The Ahoy Cock Ring does this without being too tight or too restricting, too. It slips easily onto your penis with just a dab of lube and stretches to accommodate different sizes. The ring is also outfitted with deep ridges to act as clitoris or anal stimulation while you use it.
But the best part about the Ahoy Cock Ring is that it's thick, so it actually acts as a bumper to prevent too-deep penetration. This makes it ideal for folxs whose partners have a very sensitive cervix or anus, or for folxs with longer-than-average penises.
Pros: Easy to clean and to control the pressure of your stroke
Cons: Very large and cumbersome, not portable for travel
Most strokers have a fairly familiar design: There's a hard plastic exterior that unscrews at the top for cleaning, and a soft textured interior. The Tenga Flip Zero , however, takes that traditional design and, well, flips it on its head.
The hard plastic exterior is still there, of course, but the Flip Zero has a unique pressure band you're able to press down on, allowing you to control the pressure inside of the thruster. It also has a flip-open design (hence the name) that makes washing and drying a snap.
Regarding the interior, the Tenga is seriously textured, providing a ton of different sensations that change the deeper you thrust. This is one of the larger thrusters, though, so it's not exactly discreet. It does still have a sleek design instead of something anatomically correct, which means if you leave it out, it won't be immediately obvious that the Tenga is a sex toy.
Pros: It's an educational set that still behaves like a fun, kinky sex toy
Cons: The lube dispenser can get a little messy
I've long been a proponent of anal training kits as a go-to plug for anyone — whether you've tried anal play before or not. The b-Vibe kit provides everything you need for anal play and education, including three different sized plugs, ranging from small to large.
Along with the plugs, the b-Vibe Training Kit also has an enema and an internal lube dispenser, as well as a pamphlet teaching you the intimate details of anal play. For something so educational, the plugs themselves also behave like toys on the kinkier side.
While the smaller plug isn't exactly advanced, it is small enough for beginners while the medium and large plugs have a little extra. The medium plug vibrates, which allows you to stimulate your prostate, and the larger plug is weighted with two balls for extra fullness. It's almost as if you have three different toys in one, which makes this a seriously variable kit.
The silicone on the plugs is strong, yet flexible, and they slide in easily with the help of the lube dispenser. With the educational pamphlet, you won't mess up your training, too. It allows you to proceed through the steps like an old pro.
Pros: It's minimal, travel-friendly, and well-priced
Cons: Those who love a lot of vibrational patterns may find the Maude Vibe lacking
As someone who tests vibrators for work, I've found few toys as enjoyable and easy on the wallet as the Maude Vibe . At less than $50, it's a steal.
This vibe is sized somewhere between a bullet and a standard-sized buzzer, so it's great for travel. It comes housed in its own duster bag which is big enough for a small bottle of lube and a condom, making it easy for anyone to take on-the-go.
And for those who are overwhelmed by too many vibrating modes, the Maude is delightfully minimal. It has three speeds — slow, medium, and fast — with the fastest speed packing a serious punch. It's small enough that it feels great on the clitoris but large enough that you can massage other erogenous zones on the body, like the nipples, neck, or perineum.
What I really love about the Maude Vibe , though, is how sleek and minimal it is. Lately, vibrators have been moving away from being overtly phallic-shaped, which is perfect for people who don't necessarily want penises involved in their masturbation sessions. This cone-shaped vibe is incredibly discreet and, at just $45, it's one of the cheaper quality vibrators you can buy.
Pros: Perfectly-sized for beginners, budget-friendly, and super textured
Cons: Might be a little small for those more experienced with anal play
These Satisfyer Plugs come in a pack of three and provide a trio of sensations for just $15 — making them a great choice whether you're new to anal play or not. Each plug is made of flexible, hypoallergenic silicone, which is both body-safe and durable.
Since the kit comes with three different plugs, you're able to experiment with variety right out of the box. The duo plug has two bulbs in ascending sizes, starting with a smaller ball up top and flaring into a larger one.
The triple plug provides a similar sensation, but with three plugs in gradual sizes instead of two. These plugs are great for a heavy, full feeling that plug users often love, while also working to help train your anus for sex.
The third plug, however, is a corkscrew plug that's great for foreplay and delivers intense stimulation when you thrust it in and out.
All three of the Satisfyer Plugs are perfectly sized for beginners or intermediate users, too. However, those who have experience with anal play may find them a little on the small size. Just make sure to use plenty of water-based lube and since these plugs are made of silicone, silicone-based lubricants can break them down, causing them to house bacteria — and that's never a good thing.
I, along with a small group of testers of varying gender identities and proclivities, have used and approved of the items included on this list. But testing sex toys isn't just about how quickly it allows you to reach orgasm. There are several other features we also considered, including:
Design: Although the design of a toy isn't everything, it is what most people look at first when considering a purchase. I looked at whether a toy was ergonomic in its handhold and in how it wraps around the body; whether it was designed for pressure and vibration in the right places; and how versatile a single toy was for offering different types of stimulation. Also considered in design was the quality of materials (particularly if it is made with body-safe materials) and the versatility of a product to be enjoyed by different body shapes and sizes.
Battery life: Having a toy die on you halfway through playing is the worst, so one huge factor is how long can a toy last on one charge?
Power: For toys that were battery-operated, I looked at how strong the motor was and what kind of options there were for varying speeds, to both warm you up slowly as well as be soft enough or strong enough for each person's individual desires.
Comfort: This includes how natural and comfortable is the handhold, how the toy feels against skin, and how the toy feels on various body parts.
Discreteness: How quiet is the toy while using? How easy is it to stash out-of-sight?
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