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Hollywood Forever • Los Angeles, CA
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Virtual Venue - Los Angeles via Zoom • Woodland Hills, CA
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Girls Night Out the Show at Club Bahia (Los Angeles, CA)
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ENTRANCE: A Kink Experience For Newbies
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"LOLLIPOP" " LOS ANGELES #1BRUNCH & DAY PARTY"
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Sat, Jul 23, 2:00 PM + 5 more events
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Girls Night Out the Show at VFW 8310 (Burbank, CA)
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VFW USS Gudgeon Ship 8310 • Burbank, CA
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BUMPs & JAMz*|DJ OnTheCLOCK|No Cover
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Sun, Jul 24, 9:00 PM + 79 more events
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Los Angeles Club Crawl - Guided Nightlife Party Tour
Los Angeles Club Crawl - Guided Nightlife Party Tour
Fri, Jul 22, 9:00 PM + 30 more events
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Sunday Boat House Pool Party in Marina del Rey
Sunday Boat House Pool Party in Marina del Rey
Sun, Jul 24, 1:00 PM + 6 more events
Marina Del Rey Hotel • Marina del Rey, CA
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Marina Del Rey Hotel • Marina del Rey, CA
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THE 20TH ANNIVERSARY \ CHRISTMAS IN JULY WHITE PARTY WITH A SPLASH OF COLOR
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Hyatt Regency Los Angeles International Airport • Los Angeles, CA
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Hyatt Regency Los Angeles International Airport • Los Angeles, CA
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Ryan O'Connell discusses JUST BY LOOKING AT HIM at B&N The Grove
Ryan O'Connell discusses JUST BY LOOKING AT HIM at B&N The Grove
Barnes & Noble The Grove • Los Angeles, CA
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Barnes & Noble The Grove • Los Angeles, CA
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BROWN SUGAR EXPERIENCE: MIDWEEK RNB VIBE FOR THE GROWN & SEXY!
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Wed, Jul 20, 10:00 PM + 6 more events
The Continental Club • Los Angeles, CA
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The Continental Club • Los Angeles, CA
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The Sober Show featuring Jim & Will !
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Sun, Jul 24, 1:00 PM + 9 more events
LeParc West Hollywood Hotel • West Hollywood, CA
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Whitefire Theatre • Los Angeles, CA
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Whitefire Theatre • Los Angeles, CA
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28348 Roadside Dr • Agoura Hills, CA
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IN PERSON | Create the Sex, Love and Romance of Your Dreams
IN PERSON | Create the Sex, Love and Romance of Your Dreams
Liberate Yourself • Sherman Oaks, CA
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Liberate Yourself • Sherman Oaks, CA
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Sun, Jul 24, 3:33 AM + 11 more events
8206 De Longpre Ave • West Hollywood, CA
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8206 De Longpre Ave • West Hollywood, CA
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What comes to mind when you think of a sex party? Is it a big club full of writhing bodies? Or how about two couples swapping partners? Maybe your mind goes to a cruise packed with people interested in rocking each other’s boats? Interestingly enough, a sex party can be all of the above, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., the founder of Sexpert.com . And a full nine percent of people have been to one, while 13 percent say they would, according to a March 2015 poll by YouGov and The Huffington Post . Here's everything you wanted to know about sex parties and how to figure out if you might want to try one out.

It depends on the type, but tons of sex parties allow couples to attend. If you and your guy are on the same page, it might even bring you closer together. “Sex parties can potentially improve your relationship," says Cadell. "The experience of having sex with new people can certainly satisfy a type of voyeuristic excitement, especially for the man, and they can enhance feelings of sexual freedom for the woman." Much like having an open relationship , you’ve just got to set some boundaries. “Clarify what you're looking for, whether it's a threesome, just watching other people, or having multiple partners," says Cadell. Then start searching for what you want on sites like Adult Friend Finder (clearly NSFW). After the experience, make sure to check in with each other to see how you both feel about the experience.
Most couples you see at a sex party have had an intense conversation about what’s off-limits. “Some people decide they can’t kiss other people or they can’t have sex in separate rooms or no internal ejaculation is allowed,” says Cadell. If you’ve decided to try out a sex party with your partner, you should both be in total agreement about what is and isn’t allowed. And safe to say, if either of you is the jealous type or way more interested in sex with other people, you should avoid sex parties altogether.
And they’ll most likely be gorgeous. “Most parties welcome single women but not single men, and many sex parties emphasize looks and youth,” says Cadell. Some parties even require an application with a photo first. “There are a lot of women who are sexually free, uninhibited, and truly are exhibitionists who enjoy having great one-night stands,” says Cadell. If you’re single and interested in attending one, be cautious. “Do your research," says Cadell. "Figure out the rules of the club, and I’d advise going there to watch before you dive in." And definitely bring your own condoms .
“It's an amazing world with options for every person on the planet,” says Cadell. For example, there are BDSM sex parties, where everyone involved is interested in some kink. There’s what’s called a Club 10 party, which is an exclusive party of hot, successful people. Some gatherings take place in what’s known as a "party house," which is someone’s home as opposed to a club. And there are some services like Topless Travel (NSFW), which offer trips for people interested in swinging.
Most sex parties have various rules in place to make sure everyone feels safe and respected. “Many clubs post their rules on their Web sites," says Cadell. "It’s really important to look at them because they cover things like substance abuse, never touching people without permission, and obeying condom rules." They often have someone in charge of enforcing those rules so that if anyone misbehaves, they get a warning. That level of care helps ensure that people feel comfortable experimenting. “Overall, sex parties are a great way to turn your fantasies into a reality,” says Cadell.

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"Nothing I can say will prepare you properly for it," were the exact words I was told before heading to my first sex party at the ripe young age of 24. While I did feel woefully underprepared at my first official group sex event, that's not because sex parties are mysterious and ineffable. They can indeed be described, and they should be for newbies looking to get into the scene.
The thing is, each sex party is drastically different, and therein lies the problem. I've been to parties where before getting down to business, all the guests sit in a circle, say their names, sexual orientations, pronouns, and what they're hoping to do sexually that evening, even specifying with whom. These parties are typically for people of all genders, and there's an emphasis on consent and creating a warm, welcoming space. They have moderators you can talk to if you feel unsafe or if someone is harassing you. If someone is being a creep, they get kicked out. Period.
Then I've been to sex parties where asking to touch is actually frowned upon, since it "takes people out of the moment." These parties are typically cruisier, black-lit, gay sex parties. I even went to a party at a club in Amsterdam where all the bottoms (receptive anal sex partners) agreed to bend over and be blindfolded. The whole "schtick" of the event was that these men could not see who they were having sex with.
Depending on your sexual interests, this either sounds incredibly hot or downright terrifying.
Obviously, the two sex parties I described above are very different. Being bi, I like to attend numerous sex events that fall on both ends of the spectrum (and everywhere in between). I like the chill, let's get to know everyone first type of sex party, but I also like that bend me over the desk, I don't know who you are, please God take me, Daddy type of sex party.
Recognizing the diversity of the sex party options out there, here's what you should know before attending a sex party, according to a guy who's both hosted and attended more than 100 parties.
If it’s your first time ever attending a sex party, you probably don’t want to go to a party where everyone starts fucking the moment they step through the doors. It might help you ease into things by attending a more social party, so you can talk to folks and get to know them before undressing. Many sex clubs have events such as performances or sexy games before all the actual sex starts.
To find one of those nights, simply Google “sex clubs [in your city].” From there, you’ll likely find a list of sex clubs. Go to each club’s site, see what the deal with membership is, and then head to their events page to see a list of their upcoming parties.
If this is an official play party, there will be clear rules about what you should wear, how you should behave, how to specifically ask for (enthusiastic) consent, and what happens if you violate those rules. ( Spoiler : You'll be kicked out and never be allowed to return, so don't be a jackass and respect people's boundaries.) Familiarize yourself with the rules before attending, so nothing catches you off-guard.
Note: you won’t find a sex party that allows you to take pictures of the folks inside without their consent. Most sex clubs ban photography altogether. If you meet someone and for whatever reason, just need to take a photo with them, go to the bathroom and take a selfie, just the two of you.
A number of mixed-gender play parties won't let single men attend by themselves. You need to have a sexual partner with you. Even if they don't mandate having someone, I highly recommend you attend with a partner. That person can be someone you're sleeping with or simply a friend. It can feel a bit awkward walking around by yourself at these parties, and some folks may unwittingly judge you—assuming you're a creep—if you're out on the prowl by yourself.
Also, sex is not guaranteed at these parties at all. By going with someone you're sexual with, there's a lot better chance you'll get laid, both by your partner but also by others. Most folks at these parties are coupled up and are looking for another pair to swing with . They're not (often) looking for the rogue stallion.
If you want to go to a party and are open to any and everything on your first night there, good for you. To be honest, I was somewhat like that, but I know this isn’t the case for everyone. Some folks don’t feel comfortable having sex their first time. Whatever your decision is, that’s fine, but make it prior to attending. You can easily get “swept up” in the moment, and you may end up doing something that you later regret. This is also why it’s great to have a buddy. You can hold one another accountable.
(I once attended a sex party with a friend of mine who drinks alcohol when she feels uncomfortable in social situations. Alas, she finds she gets sloppy and makes bad sexual decisions when she’s drunk. She made me promise to stop her if she was drinking. So when I saw her taking a shot of tequila, I promptly ran up to her, said “Nope,” and pulled her away from the bar. She thanked me.)
If you’re hitting up a party with an existing sexual partner, then you need to have a conversation about what you’re allowed to do sexually. Are you two allowed to have sex with other people, or only as a unit? Or would you rather not have sex at all, and just take in the scene? There are no wrong answers; it’s simply whatever agreement you and your partner make. Once at the venue, you should stick to whatever you agree to.
If, by chance, an opportunity does come up and you both feel comfortable, you can re-negotiate with your partner
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