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Missionary gets the shaft as the most boring sex position, but it might just be women’s new favorite after this scientific discovery.
Researchers at private gynecology clinic New H. Medical in New York found that the tried-and-true method — with the male on top of a woman whose hips are propped by a pillow — is the best way to get blood flow to the clitoris and achieve orgasm, according to a Daily Mail exclusive report.
Doctors used an ultrasound scanner to measure blood flow on a test couple as they got it on in five positions for 10 minutes each, including face-to-face with female above (“The Cowgirl”), face-to-face and seated (“Lotus”), face-to-face with male above, with and without a pillow (“Missionary”) and kneeling with woman bent over (“Doggy-style).
Additionally, according to the scans, face-to-face positions generally enhanced clitoral blood flow, leading to better orgasms.
Despite countless guides touting “how to please your man/woman” available in the media, the team of researchers, led by Dr. Kimberley Lovie, aimed to address a dearth of “scientific research that evaluates the association between different coital positions and their ability to produce female orgasm,” they wrote, per DailyMail.
“The kneeling/rear entry position produces the least amount of direct clitoral contact, and resulted in a negligible increase in blood flow compared to the face-to-face positions,” researchers wrote, per DailyMail.
The pillow was key to maximum pleasure as they achieve deeper penetration.
“Pillows marketed for this intention, often referred to as ‘sex pillows,’ or ‘positioning pillows’ are usually firm and wedge shaped, providing more precise and consistent pelvic angulation than conventional bed pillows,” they explained.
However, they noted that results among women may vary as they don’t experience the same level of stimulation in every sex position, due to men’s own unpredictable or inconsistent “thrusting forces.” Still, they hope that the finding will help inform clinicians and their patients with sexual dysfunction.
“Difficulty achieving orgasm, the causes of which are multifactorial, is one component of sexual dysfunction,” researchers concluded. “Clinicians can use these findings to counsel patients about which coital positions might help them achieve climax.”

Face Slapping 101: What You Need to Know Before Slapping During Sex
An introduction for slappers and slappees to be.
Have an open an honest conversation—and get some inspiration.
Place your hand on the other cheek.
Gigi Engle is a feminist writer, certified sex coach, and sex educator. As a sex educator with the Alexander Institute and Pleasure Professional with O.School, she teaches a variety of classes centered around pleasure, sexual health, and confidence. Gigi's work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, ... Read more
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Are you curious about slapping your partner or being slapped by your partner during sex? You’ve come to the right place. As a sex coach and educator , I’m often asked how to move into the realm of kinkier sex in the right ways. A slap across the face can be fun and super hot—you just have to be sure you’re doing it correctly.
When it comes to sexual spanking, slapping, whipping , we can get a bit uncomfortable. There are questions of whether or not slapping is abuse, harmful, a sign you’re demented, etc. Any erotic pain-play can stir up emotions in many of us. That’s OK! Sex comes with all kinds of emotions, both positive and negative.
Here is the bottom line: If you are both into it, have consented, are turned on, and are adults, slapping is totally OK. In fact, any sexual act between consenting adults is perfectly fine. You’re not a bad person for wanting to slap or be slapped.
For all the slapping beginners out there, we have you covered. Here’s everything you need to know before you land your first blow.
Before you do anything, you have to talk everything through. There should certainly not be any unexpected face slapping during sex. That is non-consensual play and a big no-no. If you’re going to slap your partner (or be slapped), everyone must be on board and into it.
If you’re wondering how to introduce the topic, no worries. First, ask them if this is something they’d be willing to explore. Slapping a face is a step up from spanking a butt. Slapping can be very empowering and sexy for some people, and not at all for others.
I find that the easiest way to introduce a partner to slapping is by watching some porn where slapping is an element. The key is to find a video where the slapping isn’t scary or seemingly non-consensual. Meaning, no going to Pornhub or RedTube.
Look for something on a female-focused site such as TrenchCoatX or Bellesa . The goal is to elicit excitement, not fear. Porn is a fun, easy-going way to get your partner chill with the idea of slapping before trying it.
Know your stuff! Do not go into BDSM, or kink of any kind, without knowing what you’re doing. You aren’t going to be a slapping master after reading some articles , but at least you’ll have some basics down on what is and what isn’t a good idea.
If possible, take a class on slapping. (Yes, that’s a thing.) There are plenty of places in major cities that offer free classes such as The Pleasure Chest and Babeland . It can very helpful to see things for yourself.
Watch YouTube videos. Here is a great video on spanking from sex ed genius Jess Wilde. This intro video , from Nina Pain, is basically face slapping 101. The point is, you want to know everything you can before trying anything yourself.
If you haven’t gotten good at spanking a butt , do not go slapping a face. Face slapping is basically butt slapping, only more advanced and with more risks.
No slapping until the spanking is on lock. Now, you might not be into butt slapping, but are turned on by face slapping. This is totally valid. It’s not so much about doing things that aren’t sexy to get to the sexy part, it’s about working on a meatier canvas before going to a bonier, softer one.
A butt is going to absorb a slap more easily than a face. There is generally less pain and greater surface area to work with. Practice on butts, and then move to faces.
Before sex, set up a word you can use if the slapping (or anything during the play) isn’t working for you. This should be a non-sexual word that lets your partner know they should stop and check in with you. I recommend something like the following: banana, red, sailboat, strawberry, etc.
Safe words are important because if you’re in a scene where you are being submissive, the words “no” or “stop” might be interpreted as a part of the scene. Your safe word is a safetynet. It gives you permission to pull out of the scene, even briefly, without quelling out the sexual charge. It’s important to remember that as the slappee, you are still in control of your body. If something isn’t working for you, you do not have to do it again.
Don’t begin your foray into slapping by full-force smacking the hell out of your partner. That’s probably not going to end well. You may end up with a bruise or a black eye . Not cute.
Start with gentler blows. When you’re making out, pull back and lightly slap your partner across the face. Rub the spot where you hit them to soothe the skin. You can also pull them out during oral sex for a slap across the face before you put them back to work.
Work your way up to harder smacks. Communicate and check in. Everyone should be into it every step of the way.
When slapping, never go for it willy nilly. If you slap someone across the face, you can wind up with whiplash or causing too much of a sting. Instead, place one hand on the opposite cheek of the person you’re slapping. This helps to both stabilize their head and to absorb some of the blow. If you or your partner would like to be slapped without the buffer, you can have that conversation, but I highly recommend you keep it in place for a while. It makes the slap far less of a stinging pain, and even perhaps a bit more passionate.
The face is a highly sensitive area that requires careful navigation. Always be cautious.
Stay away from places like the ears or eyes. Focus entirely on cheeks. If you slap someone in the ear, you can cause physical harm in a way that is absolutely not sexy at all. If you accidentally make contact with an ear, the nose, or an eye, stop immediately and check in. It happens.
Staying “on-cheek” does means you’ll need to have good aim. Hence, beginning with spanking and softer face slaps. Master the fundamentals first, then you can get slaphappy.
Gigi Engle is a certified sex coach, educator, and writer living in Chicago. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @GigiEngle.
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Arousal comes with all kinds of physical reactions: swelling, hardening, lubricating , shaking, even goosebumps. There's a lot going on in the heat of the moment, so you might not realize you have a sex flush (also called a "sex glow") until someone points it out, or until you're trying to cool down and your skin isn't getting the memo.
Sex flush is the "reddening of skin that becomes visible with arousal," like the kind of redness you might see after a hard workout, says Jess O'Reilly, PhD, resident sexologist at Astroglide . It occurs mainly in the face or chest, adds Jennifer Roelands, MD, board-certified ob-gyn and founder of Well Woman MD , but you might also see it around your genitals "due to the engorgement of the blood vessels there."
Sex flush is a totally normal reaction to arousal (nothing to be embarrassed about!), and it's typically more noticeable on light-skinned people. So why does arousal cause this reaction in your skin, and how can you help it cool down after you're (ahem) finished? Can it ever be a sign of something more serious? We spoke to a few sexual health experts to get the scoop.
Sex flush happens when your skin turns pink or red in response to arousal. There's a legit reason behind it, explains Lauren Haines, MSN, APRN, FNP-BC, a nurse practitioner specializing in sexual health for TBD Health . "Sexual arousal and stimulation causes a widening of the blood vessels in your body," she explains, "which allows additional blood flow to delicate sex organs, resulting in improved sensitivity and sensation." Blood vessel dilation happens all over the body, and the increased blood flow can create a red tinge in your skin, she explains. And for what it's worth, "it's super common," Haines adds.
Sex flush should resolve on its own within a few minutes after sex comes to an end. If you want to speed up the process, Dr. Roelands says, try turning on a fan, taking a few deep breaths to calm down, jumping in a cool shower, or just splashing some water on your face. "If the flush doesn't resolve within a few hours and you notice itching, pain, difficulty breathing, or something feels off, you should consult your doctor," Dr. Roelands adds. Importantly, if you experience difficulty breathing or significant redness, pain, and/or severe itching around your genitalia after using a condom, it may be a sign of a latex allergy , she says. In that case, it's best to go to the emergency room or call a doctor ASAP to treat your allergic reaction.
Sex flush is part of what's known as the sexual response cycle, a linear model of sexual functioning that dates back to the 1960s. For context, "more recent studies have shown that sexual responses do not follow a linear pattern but are more circular and fluid," Haines tells POPSUGAR. Newer versions of this model say that psychological factors may also play a role in desire and arousal, she adds.
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