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11 Men Reveal The Difference Between Good Sex And Great Sex
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By Elizabeth Z Pardue — Written on Oct 03, 2017
Most of us agree with the Mel Brooks quote: “Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s done bad, it’s still good.” But what differentiates normal, everyday “good sex” from Sex Worth Writing Home About?
We asked what men think about what makes sex good and what qualifies a bedroom romp as next-level awesome. Here's what they had to say.
1. She surprises me with something.
"It doesn’t matter if it’s a new position, a new toy, or even just a new dirty phrase she says — anything different and unexpected takes the whole session up a notch. Even if I don’t like it that much!"
"It really has a lot to do with her enthusiasm and participation. Even if I’m taking the lead on the pace or the moves , if she gives feedback or knows how to improvise with what I’m throwing out there, I’m going to be impressed."
"Men have to make so many moves when it comes to dating and sex. Any woman who puts in the effort to get on top and give even 75 percent is what makes sex good in my book."
"Pushing boundaries without much thought. Letting things flow passionately, capturing the moment as opposed to gong by the same humdrum blueprint."
"For example, even a partner who is average at giving a blowjob is amazing if they suck me like it's all there is in the world; like they have been poisoned, have thirty seconds to live and my testicles contain the antidote."
"I've learned this as I've gotten older. It is rare to find too, I think. There was a girl I messed around with from work once upon a time who drove me wild, and I drove her wild. Not to get to the gory details, but I have never been with a girl who got that wet. There was one time where I orgasmed moments after starting with her. Problem was, we didn’t have any connection other than the sexual one , so while it was great, that’s where it stopped."
7. There's an emotional connection.
"I feel good sex can be had by and with almost anyone who somewhat knows their way around the bed. But for it to qualify as great sex, there has to be an emotional connection between the two (or more) people doing it. There just does."
"When I feel like I’ve let down my pretenses and am free to be my honest, gross, not-glamorous, sometimes-playful, and very-irreverent self, that’s when sex is the best. If I’m with someone I feel like I have to 'perform' for, I’m not able to have any real fun and it seems like a chore. The best sex I’ve ever had was always when we were being immature and a bit ridiculous but felt safe that the other person wasn’t going to judge."
9. She knows where and how to touch my body.
"I don’t know how to describe it other than to say the type of connection where we’re anticipating each other’s needs. There’s no quantifiable way to define that sort of connection. I’ve been with only a couple people who seemed to know exactly how and where to touch my body when I wanted that exact thing, and somehow I was able to intuit the same in return. It’s basically magic."
"Spontaneous, no-holds-barred, anything goes sex is always superior to polite, fourth-date, getting-to-know-you sex. Why is it that it’s alright to have the first type with a total stranger in a one-night-stand, but proper etiquette says that doing that at first with someone you respect is wrong? That seems backward to me."
"Almost all of my truly great sexual experiences have involved one thing at some point: laughter. That’s right: laughter . It is the only time where you completely let go of trying to be something you are not and just enjoy the moment."
Liz Pardue-Schultz is a writer and activist based in North Carolina, where she overshares her bizarre journey through mental illness, recovery, parenting, and surviving Southern suburbia on her blog or anywhere she can get published. Her words have appeared in Huffington Post, Time.com, XOJane, Ravishly, ThoughtCatalog, and one time in the Letters to the Editor section of Playboy.
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Sex is a craving for men; yet, a negative occurrence like having a fight with their partner can spoil the feeling.
The moment their partner gets turned on is often the moment men describe as most sexually satisfying.
For men, sexual connection is often necessary to feel safe enough for emotional vulnerability.
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Over my career as a sex therapist, I have had the opportunity to sit with thousands of men as they've discussed their sexual feelings, sex lives, and fantasies . Obviously, I don’t know what it feels like to be a man, but I have had the honor of listening to the male perspective on sexual relationships. And while every man is different, of course, there are some common themes:
While women’s desire for sex may be prompted by their mind, memory , or emotional feelings of connection, for men desire is physical. Men have massive amounts of testosterone coursing through their bodies, pushing and driving them toward sexual expression. Erections spring at the slightest provocation in young men. And for an adult man, seeing his wife or partner coming out of the shower naked causes his body to react. It is hard to overestimate the way his body chemistry directs his mind’s psychology toward the sexual.
Yes, he wants to be full. But his craving for sex is like a craving for chocolates: Each sexual episode holds the exquisite possibility of a surprise-filled confection — maybe creamy smooth, or buttery rich, perhaps a little raw and bittersweet, or silky sweet. His mind is captivated by the thought of an opportunity to feel delighted and surprised. A day is hardly complete without dessert. Yet, the context of the relationship — for instance, a fight with his wife — can still spoil his appetite .
Sexuality infuses a man’s intimate relationships with potential and excitement. The hormonal energy gives him the drive and aggression to pursue his life’s purpose and work and to pursue his partner. He pushes through daily monotony, tantalized by the fantasy of a sexual reward at the end of a hard day.
It’s life's most thrilling adventure. His body is a great pleasure machine that he’d like to enjoy at full throttle. Since orgasm is usually reliable and easy, a variety of sexual acts, positions, and rhythms seem to be a fantastic way to explore and elevate his gratification. Every flirtation , smile, innuendo, shapely figure, or sexual image, whether fantasized or real, is a hit on the male brain. His brainwaves spike with elation just at the hint of something or someone reminding him of sex.
The moment his partner gets turned on is often the moment men describe as most sexually satisfying. It’s baffling to men when they are called selfish because of their preference for sexual connection. In their hearts, there is an expectation of mutual, exquisite bodily pleasure. He often concocts and fantasizes about how to make it better for her, begging for information about her erotic desires, just so he can improve as a lover.
Sexual release makes men feel like they are finally home. After the world’s hurts and challenges, sex embodies love and care and provides soothing and support. While he may be accused of “only wanting sex,” most men want and feel a much more emotional connection than a simple bodily release. Making love literally creates a deep feeling of attachment to his partner and spurs relational generosity , faith, and optimism . Being desired by his partner can be the single most reassuring part of his relationship.
While most women may wish for an emotional connection before having a physical connection, for men sexual connection is often necessary to feel safe enough for emotional vulnerability. Ultimately, male sexual drive in a relationship is a gift — it’s another path toward love.
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Laurie Watson is an AASECT certified sex therapist and the podcast host of FOREPLAY - Radio Sex Therapy on iTunes. She lectures at Duke and UNC’s medical schools and can be reached at AwakeningsCenter.org.
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What you can do to maintain a healthy and enjoyable sex life as you grow older.
As you age, sex isn't the same as it was in your 20s — but it can still be enjoyable. Unlike some myths suggest, sex isn't just for the young. Many seniors still enjoy their sexuality into their 80s and beyond.
A healthy sex life is both fulfilling and good for other parts of your life too — such as your physical health and self-esteem.
Changes to your body or lifestyle can make you feel vulnerable or uncomfortable — especially when it comes to sex.
You might be worried about these changes. But remember, they don't have to end your enjoyment of sex. Working with your changing body can help you keep a healthy and happy sex life. For instance, you may need to change your sexual routine to include more stimulation to become aroused.
Sexual well-being is closely tied to the rest of your health. How you're feeling, long-term health conditions, age-related changes or drugs can all affect you sexually.
Some surgeries and many drugs — such as blood pressure drugs, antihistamines, antidepressants and acid-blocking drugs — can affect sexual function.
Also, changes to your body — such as testosterone and sperm changes, nerve damage, bone and muscle loss, and low iron — can affect your sexual health.
And existing health conditions — such as heart disease, diabetes, cancer and prostate problems — can have an impact too.
But don't give up. You and your partner can try new ways to be intimate that work with your needs and abilities.
For example, if you're worried about having sex after a heart attack, talk with your health care provider about your concerns. If arthritis pain is a problem, try different sexual positions. Or try using heat to lessen joint pain before or after sexual activity.
Stay positive and focus on ways of being sexual and intimate that work for you and your partner.
At any age, emotional issues can affect how you feel sexually. Sometimes this is good news. With fewer distractions, more time and privacy, and no worries about pregnancy — many older couples report better sex lives.
But other adults may feel stressed by health problems, money troubles and other lifestyle changes. Depression can lower your desire for sex. If you think you might be depressed, talk to your health care provider or a counselor.
Sex may not be the same for you or your partner as it was when you were younger. But sex and intimacy can still be a rewarding part of your life. Here are some tips for keeping a healthy and enjoyable sex life:
Expand your definition of sex. Intercourse is only one way to have a fulfilling sex life. Touching, kissing and other intimate contact can be rewarding for you and your partner.
As you age, you and your partner may have different sexual abilities and needs. Be open to finding new ways to enjoy sexual contact and intimacy.
Change your routine. Simple changes can improve your sex life. Change the time of day you have sex. Try the morning — when you're refreshed from a good night's sleep and when your testosterone levels are likely higher — rather than at the end of a long day.
Because it might take longer for you or your partner to become aroused, take more time for romance. Try a new sexual position or find other ways of connecting romantically and sexually.
Don't give up on romance. If you've lost your partner, it can be difficult to imagine starting another relationship. But socializing is well worth the effort for many single seniors. No one outgrows the need for emotional closeness and intimacy.
If you start an intimate relationship with a new partner, use a condom. Many older adults don't know that they are still at risk of sexually transmitted infections, such as herpes and gonorrhea.
One final piece of advice for keeping a healthy sex life: Take care of yourself and stay as healthy as you can.
See your health care provider regularly, especially if you have long-term health conditions or take prescription drugs. Other conditions and drugs can affect your sexual health, but your provider can help.
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