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As you mature, you may start thinking about having sex for the first time. In addition to this, you may be wondering how it feels, how to handle any anxiety that may accompany it, and how to be safe.
There are probably lots of things going through your mind if you are thinking about having sex for the first time. You may be wondering if your body will change or whether it will hurt. Read on to find answers to some of the questions you may have about first-time sex.
Your body will not display any telltale signs after you have sex for the first time. The only way anyone will know you’ve had sex is if you or somebody else tells them.
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While having sex, you might breathe heavily and sweat, and your skin could become flushed. These changes are caused by the physical nature of sex. During sex, your vulva may also become swollen due to increased blood flow. After sex, your body will go back to normal, just like it would after exercise.
Most women are born with a hymen, which is a membrane in the vagina that can stretch or tear during exercise, first-time sex, or other activities. During your first time having sex, your hymen might stretch , and you may experience some bleeding if it ruptures. However, bleeding doesn’t always occur during first-time sex. Many people have already inadvertently broken their hymen before they ever have sex. If you’re worried about bleeding , lying down on a dark-colored towel or cloth can prevent stains.
Much of the anxiety surrounding having sex for the first time is centered on whether it will hurt. If you relax, feel comfortable, and pay attention to your body, there probably won’t be any pain. What you might feel is a bit of discomfort because this experience is new to you.
If you do feel pain, it is more than likely caused by friction. Friction during penetrative sex occurs when there isn’t enough vaginal lubrication to ease the entry of something entering your vagina. Engaging in plenty of foreplay can stimulate the vagina to become more lubricated.
Using lubricant can make intercourse more comfortable and enjoyable.
When you and your partner are figuring out how to have sex for the first time, you might believe that it will be as magical as it is often depicted in the movies. However, it’s possible that your first time won’t be nearly as smooth or well choreographed.
For many people, their first time is an awkward and somewhat uncomfortable affair. On top of that, both of you might be nervous. Under circumstances like these, it can be difficult to achieve an orgasm . This is perfectly normal. In fact, sex without orgasm can be quite enjoyable and might be a good way for you and your partner to connect further.
There’s a myth in some societies that you can’t get pregnant when you have sex for the first time. This is false. If you have already started getting your period, you can get pregnant if you have sex.
If you don’t want to become pregnant, you should use a birth control method whenever you engage in sexual intercourse.
If you’re having sex for the first time, you may feel anxious. This is common and completely normal. There are lots of things you can do to deal with this anxiety.
Some studies show that you are more likely to have both psychological and physical satisfaction when you have sex with someone you trust and with whom you have a steady relationship. Being with someone you trust can help you feel safer and more in control of the situation.
If you want to have sex but feel anxious about it, plan to do it in a place you find comfortable. An unfamiliar or uncomfortable location could make it hard to focus on what’s going on and enjoy what’s happening.
Anxiety about the first time you have sex is pretty common. However, foreplay may help reduce your anxious feelings. Foreplay involves a lot of kissing and touching, which can help you feel more comfortable with your own body as well as your partner’s.
A lot of anxiety can come from trying to rush sex to get to the next step. You might find yourself thinking about what you should be doing and what you should do next. If so, take a moment to center yourself and focus on the present, letting things happen naturally.
Some people are in a hurry to achieve orgasm. Taking your time and enjoying the journey can make sex a more relaxed and enjoyable experience.
It’s very common to have a less-than-perfect first time. However, that doesn’t mean that sex will always be bad. Any number of things can contribute to an experience that doesn’t quite live up to your expectations.
You can always try again later when you are feeling more comfortable. However, you’re under no obligation to commit to a next time, either. The best time to have sex is when you’re sure you want it, not just when your partner wants you to.
If you’re considering having sex for the first time, you should be aware of ways to protect yourself from unsafe sex. Having unprotected sex can transmit infections. It can also cause unwanted pregnancy.
The risk of contracting infections is much higher if you don’t use protection when you have sex. Some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) include:
While some of these diseases can be treated with antibiotic medication, some are incurable and can have serious health implications. HIV has no cure, but there are medications that can suppress the virus almost completely. Left untreated, HIV can develop into AIDS, which has no cure. Using condoms when you engage in sexual intercourse will greatly reduce the risk of contracting an STI.
Unless you’re planning to have a baby, you should use contraceptive methods to reduce the likelihood of pregnancy.
You can opt for barrier methods such as condoms, diaphragms, or caps. These stop sperm from reaching the egg. Other methods, like the birth control pill , alter your hormones to ensure that an egg is not released. Only condoms protect against both pregnancy and STIs, but it's important to remember that no protection method is 100 percent effective.
If you’re puzzled by how to have sex for the first time, that’s a totally normal way to feel. It’s common to be anxious, but being with the right partner in a cozy place and taking things slowly can help. Be sure to practice safe sex to avoid unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections.
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By Kelsey Patterson
- November 8, 2017 03:09 pm EST
With the mass amount of pressure put on 'losing' your virginity, it isn't shocking that many people view the day they handed over their V-card as a major life milestone.
Along with that comes pretty vivid memories of the first time you did the deed with a partner , whether you remember one or both parties crying, cuddling or fumbling for clothes just 45 seconds after ripping them off.
Whether your 'first time' was magical, regrettable or even hilarious, it's oddly comforting to know that other people experienced the same deflowering ritual you went through.
Luckily, some brave Reddit users spared no detail when recalling their first time between the sheets or in the back of a car, so keep scrolling to enjoy them all in their awkward glory.
You'd like to think that everyone's first time was rainbows and roses, and according to these sex-doers, it was.
1. Birthday surprise: "It was my girlfriend's birthday. She just turned 19 and I was 20. We had been dating for almost a year. I didn't know what to get her for her birthday, so I asked her 'What do you want for you birthday?' She asks me to come over to her place without answering the question.
She answers the door in her robe. I didn't notice her hair wasn't wet, and I just assumed she had just gotten out of the shower and hadn't gotten ready to go out yet. She reminds me I asked her what she wanted for her birthday, so I asked her again. She drops the robe, showing off her naked body and then says, 'you.'
It was nice. She was a virgin too, so I was gentle and after it was over she told me she loved me for the first time ."
2. My place?: "Basically, at the time I [M17] worked at the pub I lived next door to, and I worked with a girl [F18] who I got along with extremely well. We always used to just sorta flirt with each other and just have a laugh at work. On Tuesday nights, we were always the only two staff left in the pub to lock up and we had no customers in, so we was just stood talking, flirting, etc.
We sometimes went and got takeaway after work... She'd drive as I was still learning. I asked if she wanted to come back to mine to eat. She said yes and came back to mine.
After eating, I went to get a quick shower and when I came back to my room, she was asleep in my bed (which was the first girl ever to be in my bed, so I found it ridiculously hot), so I laid in my single bed and kinda cuddled up to her. She woke up, turned around to look at me and after that, we just couldn't stop ourselves . We were so mad for each other but neither of us wanted to admit it. 3 years later and we are still going strong!"
3. A drive-in dive: "I was 19 [M] and she was 20. Lost it at the drive-in movie theater . I am 64. Do you millennials know what a drive-in movie is? Great place for sex when you are young and the front bench seat of your car was like a bed. [The movie was] Summer of '42. Appropriate in that she was a year older than me. I do not remember the second movie as I was turning in my v-card at the time! It was in February and the windows had ice frozen on the inside due to the steamy activity inside."
Others had a less-than-stellar time losing their V-cards.
4. Romp for hire: "I'm 19, very good social skills, nice body... Long story short, I couldn't wait any longer and I decided to hire an escort . The main goal for me wasn't to have the best time of my life, but just to figure out what's like. Thing is, I didn't think I would have sucked so bad.
Let alone the fact that it was hard for me to maintain the erection, when I was inside her I didn't even know whatsoever what I was doing, my moves were just awkward and clumsy . We tried only two positions: missionary and her on top... The only thing which surprised me in a positive way was the time I lasted. Honestly, I thought I would have came wayyyy sooner, instead I lasted about 30-40 minutes."
5. Definitely no orgasm: "I was 16, my boyfriend was 19. It was his first time, too. Honestly, it was kind of boring and disappointing . It was special in the sense that we both chose to be each other's firsts, decided on that day... but the sex itself was not fun for me."
6. Caught in the act: "I was 23 [M] and lost it to a 41 [F] co-worker. We got wasted at a daytime bbq at her house and thought nobody else was coming. She initiated it. Turns out another co-worker was coming over and walked in on us."
And some stories are too wild to make up. Luckily, these people did the deed and spilled their experiences.
7. Bathroom blitz: "I was 16 and my girlfriend had just turned 15 a couple of days before hand. We're still together almost 25 years later, and married now 19 years and have 3 kids.We were laughing about our first time and the absurdity of it just a couple days ago. It was summer break we'd been 'seeing' each other for several months at this point.
Making out on the couch progressed quite rapidly to her asking if I had a rubber (poof, mind blown). She got up still partially dressed, grabbed my hand and lead me to THE BATHROOM (of all places) where we had fairly awkward short-lasting and slightly disappointing sexual intercourse.
Why the bathroom, you ask? Yeah me too! She said, 'Well I can't have friends upstairs in my room if my parents aren't home, the bathroom has a lock on the door, the bathroom was cleaned yesterday, and I thought the new rug in there looked comfy.'
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