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Posted by Kevin | Feb 8, 2019 | Christian Living , Counseling , Sex | 0 |





What is the motivation for good sex? No doubt many would speak immediately of pleasure. Getting some. Being fulfilled. Climax or orgasm. Maybe your answer is the crazy-good brain chemicals that come from it. All of these things are incredible blessings of good sex. However, none of these should be your motivation for it.
Solomon says to enjoy the wife of your youth and immediately follows his instruction with “ Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might;” ( Eccl 3:9-10 ). In this verse you may say that two good motivations for sex would be to enjoy your wife and to go for it with all your might. Certainly enjoyment of the marital relationship plays a role in good sex, as does both spouses putting all their energy into it. 
But as good as all these things are alone, none of them captures the biblical motivation for good sex.
Love is the primary motivation for everything good in marriage and life according to the Bible. When Jesus summarized the teaching of the Bible, He said:
37 Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” ( Matthew 22:37-40 )
Therefore, any good thing – including sex – needs to have as a motivation to love God first and then love your neighbor.
Paul talks about love in a slightly different way. He writes:
14 For the love of Christ compels us, because we judge thus: that if One died for all, then all died; 15 and He died for all, that those who live should live no longer for themselves, but for Him who died for them and rose again. ( 2 Corinthians 5:14-15 )
Paul does not highlight the command to love; but, instead, highlights how Christ’s love for us motivates everything we do. He uses the term compels us, which simply means that the love we receive from Christ controls our thinking and desires. Specifically, we observe the sacrificial love that Jesus demonstrated for us and we determine to live for Jesus and not for ourselves.
If we are commanded to love and we are also motivated by Christ’s love, then we must understand how Christ loves. There are a few key elements of the love of Christ that are helpful to us. To summarize Christ’s love for us that motivates our living, consider again Paul’s reminder in Ephesians 5 .
“And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma” ( Eph 5:2 ).
Jesus demonstrates a fundamental component of love – it gives. Throughout the New Testament, agape love always gives. This is a fundamental component of loving others; that is, love gives. Dr. Bob Smith describes what this love is like:
Love seeks to give in order to satisfy another. Scripture shows that the primary definition of the word love is “giving.” John 3:16 says that “God so loved the world that He gave His only Son.” Galatians 2:20 tells that Christ “loved me and gave Himself up for me.” Ephesians 5:25 says that “Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” The focus of love is on giving to others. In fact, according to Acts 20:35 , Jesus taught that the greater pleasure that we receive is through giving: “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (CCNT). If love is the basis for sex, the goal of the sexual relationship is giving, not getting.
Did you catch the implication for good sex? He writes, “If love is the basis for sex, the goal of the sexual relationship is giving, not getting.” I’ll discuss this more in just a moment.
Paul continues to describe the kind of love in which we are to walk when he refers to it as an offering and a sacrifice. Not only is love to be giving, it also must be sacrificial. What does it mean then to be sacrificial? Essentially this means that you put God and others before self. This has two implications. Toward God, you make it your goal to honor Him in whatever you do. In relationship to others, you make it your goal to please the other person rather than yourself.
This kind of love makes the needs, desires, and concerns of the other person more important than personal ones. In other words, as it relates to sex, the needs, desires, and concerns of your married partner must be greater than your own. Why? Because that is the way we love as we have been loved by Christ.
There are two key implications of how the love of Christ motivates us and provides for us a proper motivation for our sex as well.
Therefore, for the couple who understands the command to love and the motivation for love, good sex is the outcome. What kind of good sex? Sex that leaves the spouse satisfied that he or she personally has done all that he or she could physically, emotionally, and spiritually do to satisfy the other in love. Love has provided the motivation to serve the other person sacrificially. This, in turn, provides benefits to both spouses.
So, in preparation for the next blog on sex, ask yourself this question, “What are the benefits of good sex?” Talk with you then.
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Kevin Carson pastors Sonrise Baptist in Ozark, MO (www.sonrisebaptist.com) and is the Department Chair of Biblical Counseling at Baptist Bible College and Theological Seminary in Springfield, MO (www.gobbc.edu). You can follow him on Twitter at @kevincarson.
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