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Imagine waking up and finding out your wife of seventeen years is cheating on you with another guy. A Redditor found himself in a similar situation when he opened a Snapchat notification on his wife's phone and read an intimate text from her boyfriend.
It takes ages to build trust and a few seconds to break it. The feeling of betrayal is painful. It will take time to overcome the painful feeling and often leaves scars.
For many, after they recover from the betrayal, the next step is to seek revenge. The idea is to inflict the same pain they are feeling on the person who caused it. This Redditor developed a savage revenge plan to confront his cheating wife.
A man posted his revenge story on Reddit to ask other users what they thought about it. The 43-year-old man married a 49-year-old woman 17 years ago. The woman was divorced and already had two daughters, who he happily accepted and helped raise.
The couple had a strong marriage, and the family had excellent communication as they were open about their feelings. This prevented unnecessary misunderstandings, but the OP (Original Poster) mentioned that they recently started spending less time together due to work commitments.
He worked as a medical practitioner and often came home late while his wife worked from home and spent the entire day in the house. They only interacted on weekends, so they made sure to stay close to each other during this time.
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One fine day, the OP decided to change the fan's filter in their bedroom. After changing the filter, you need to update it on the app, so the man asked his wife to give him her phone. His phone was on the charger, so it was more convenient to use hers. As soon as he tapped on the screen, the phone asked him for a passcode.
Even though he wanted to ask about the phone being locked, he decided to ignore it. While he was swiping on the screen, searching for the fan's app, a Snapchat message notification popped up. The Redditor reveals he felt a lump in his throat as he read the message from an unknown person saying, "I'll bring the special toy."
Her wife asked if he was OK, and he replied that he was looking at the IP and router information on her phone. He pretended like he didn't read anything, but deep down, he was shocked. He couldn't believe that his wife of 17 years would cheat on him.
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The OP decided to keep an eye on his wife and find out more about the unknown person. He took a few days off from work to focus on the issue. While investigating his wife's extramarital affair, he discovered they had exchanged more than 15,000 text messages and photos.
Reading the messages, he realized his wife had been in touch with the guy for more than a year, and they initially spoke via text messages before switching to Snapchat. The OP also uncovered who the man was and realized he had met him twice.
To his horror, his wife was cheating on him with her married coworker, who was a father of three. He even discovered that they were exchanging sensual messages while she was rubbing his back a few nights ago. He explained that she had bad-mouthed him in some messages and revealed his insecurities to the other man.
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OP talked to his friend and decided to hire a lawyer as he could not forgive his wife for cheating on him. He wanted to take revenge, so he recorded all the messages and photos exchanged between his wife and the other man.
Part of his revenge saw him hire one of the best lawyers despite the hefty cost as he wanted to be sure he would win. In his Reddit post, he wrote :
"I just want to inflict pain at this point. I want to hurt her emotionally. I feel eviscerated, emasculated. I will not entertain an apology. This is the one act that is unforgivable. It takes SO many steps to cheat on someone. They all can be stopped until the sin is complete."
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The post says that his wife goes out of town for business meetings for five days every three months. However, he now suspects that it was her time to meet up with her boyfriend. This time, he wanted to follow her and break into her hotel room, but the lawyer advised against it.
Instead, he kissed her goodbye at the airport and let her leave for the trip even though he felt terrible inside and pretended everything was fine. He was waiting for the day he would confront his wife with the evidence he was collecting.
After his wife left, he met his lawyer to get guidance on what to do next. She told him about the contested and uncontested divorce options. He needed to confront his wife and tell her that he was filing for divorce. So OP waited for his wife to return to talk about it.
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He was ready to confront his wife when she returned and knew exactly how to start the conversation. He gave her a chance to confess by asking her if there was anything she wanted to tell him, but she claimed she didn't have anything to say and instead asked him what was going on in his mind.
He asked her what was the "special toy" doing inside her luggage and when her face immediately flushed red. She was stunned as she never imagined her husband would uncover her love affair. Her husband continued the conversation by asking about her boyfriend, and tears started to roll down her cheeks.
Knowing she was guilty, he asked her to leave the house and informed her that he would be filing for divorce. He also presented her with the stack of evidence he collected during the conversation, including the text messages and images she exchanged with her boyfriend.
OP threatened to tell their daughters about the affair if she didn't leave the house. He messaged the other man's wife on Facebook and exposed the fling to her in front of his wife. In anger, he searched through the stack of papers and started reading one of their conversations loudly:
"I just wish we could spend the day attached to each other. Just you inside of me.
You feel so much more intense than any other woman I've ever been with."
He explains in the post that he planned on telling everyone about his wife's affair because he wanted everyone to know how she ruined their long marriage for lust. However, he admits that even though he wanted to tell his stepdaughters about it, he was afraid of their reaction.
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After reading the post, some Reddit users suggested he should have followed her and caught her red-handed. Many told him he should have recorded a video for evidence against her. One user wrote :
"I have never experienced this, but I have to say I think you are handling this so well. I know it hurts, but you’re not letting your emotions control your actions. I believe you’re thinking clearly & have a great plan in place."
Like this use, many others commended OP for carefully planning his actions, and some admitting that they would have had difficulty thinking clearly in the same situation. Some praised him for not having a violent reaction to the information.
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Later, his wife apologized to him and explained that she didn't see a future with the other man. She was having fun with him but didn't intend to ruin her marriage; however, OP considered any form of cheating a deal-breaker and refused to forgive her.
Do you think the man should have done something else instead of calmly confronting his wife? Could he come up with a better revenge plan, or was his plan perfect? It takes courage to confront your cheating partner because things can go out of control within no time. Leave a comment to let us know what you think.
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Some married women have given frightening accounts of how they are cheating on their husbands.


The married women revealed their extra marital affairs to relationship expert, David Papa Bondze. The confessions have subsequently gone viral on social media.


"1. “My mother raised me and my sisters as LADIES. She did her very best to train us up well. I know a lot more women were brought up well too, however, women are just as bad as men in this cheating game, except – women get away with it more because we are more emotional, charismatic, and play victim more. In all though, men and women are the same. You can't give a guy any less respect in this aspect than a woman. I am cheating on my husband because I am no longer in love with him. I used to love him, but the love died, someway, somehow, along the journey. We’ve been married for 12 years, and I’ve been seeing this other man (who just happens to be the true love of my life) for Nine (9) years now. We are both married with kids.”


2. “I am addicted to fine, strong, men. If I see a man and he is fine, and looks strong, I begin to lust after him. I am blessed with a good paying job, so I very often pay less attention to that individual’s financial status. My educational background and working experiences have opened more opportunities to me, created more hunger to want and have everything, and has also made me less fearful, less careful. You just have to look fine and strong, and I will figure out a way to employ you for something worth paying for – for a brief moment. My husband travels a lot to do businesses, so I am always all by myself. We’ve been married for Seven (7) years.”


3. “I love my husband to death, however, if I am cheating on him today, it’s basically because I have an excuse: I was young (24 years) when he married me. I hadn’t had my fair share of fun. I was, and still am an idiot, even though I know how to act all innocent and ‘good’ in his eyes. It was my plan to quit this habit of cheating when I turned 30. I am 31 years this year, and I have fallen in love with the one I am cheating with. He and I have been seeing each other for the past Seven (7) years, and he’s one of my husband’s closest friends. He’s married. I really wish I could end this affair, however, my heart is already in it, full-time. And, he doesn’t try so hard to please me sexually. He’s just better than my husband in ALL angles. Dave, I orgasm, just at the mere sight of him. I think I am partly in love with my husband because he provides the security (financially) and comfort that I need as a woman (just ask any young woman married to a mature rich man). I spend almost half of it on my boyfriend though.”


4. “As a child, I heard on countless occasions, how my parents argued and ‘fought’ in the bedroom, because my dad was cheating on my mother. I saw how unhappy Mum always was, and how fast she aged and looked wrinkly even in her late 30s. While she worried daily and felt miserable, dad always looked good, and happy, and unconcerned, and handsome, and young, even as they both aged. There was a time someone mistook my mother for my daddy’s older sister, because according to that person, there was no way my dad could have been married to that ‘old’ lady; meanwhile, in actual sense, my father was about 10 years older than my Mum.


Dave that was the ‘turning point’ for me. I have been ‘living’ since – since. I am still in this marriage because I wanted kids. I have kids now. Their father takes very good care of their every need, and mine too. I am just being careful so I am not caught one of these days. An affair may not be a good thing, however, it has made me look young, and my husband is pleased with my fresh looks. In his head, I am looking good for him. Sex is awesome in my matrimonial home, thanks to the outside experience. What he doesn’t know wouldn’t hurt him in any way.”


5. “Mine begun after my first pregnancy. The gynecologist who TOUCHED me, during my pregnancy, touched a nerve in me that ‘did’ me something; something I had never felt with my husband before, ORGASM! The doctor realized I loved the way he had touched me. There was a nurse in his consulting room, but she did not see what was going on. A week to my due date, my husband had traveled to work outside Accra, and I needed to be touched, to feel that feeling I felt in the consulting room. I had the doctor’s mobile number, so he came over to check on me. He made passionate love to me, in my husband’s house, every time he closed from work, till I gave birth. I will be Three (3) years in marriage this year.”


6. “I have been in a long term sexual affair with one man for over 15 years. I don’t love him, but I love the sex. He gives me the greatest sex that I can possibly imagine. I have been married for Six (6) years. And yes, I love my husband very much.”


7. “I am married to a preacher. I love him, but he’s hardly home. Preaching assignments here and there. The little time we get to be together too is always ruined by visitors and phone calls from Church members and their ’wahala’. Dave, I can’t even compete for his attention, let alone, time. That’s why I am having an affair with my Ex-boyfriend. At least, he sees me.”


8. I am married to a very kind hearted man. Everything at home is peace and calm and normal… I mean, homey. I drive to work and take the kids to school. He drives from work to pick up the kids. Once a week or twice we have sex. But, Dave, it’s like we are not dying to see each other. There's no little note of love, no romantic gestures, no surprise gift. There's no suspense, no excitement. Rather, I can't wait to be alone and drinking with my girlfriends on our girls night out.


Ok, so on one of such nights out, I met this gorgeous looking guy, and I thought, I could so flirt if it weren't for my wedding ring. My girlfriends (who are all married, and also, parents) were all drooling over him, and I thought, it's just a bit of flirting, no harm there. I took off my ring, put it in my purse, and I walk to the bar where he was sitting. He turned to look at me, he smiled, and then offered to buy me a drink. Dave that was when I realized I wasn’t truly ‘happily’ married. I accepted, even though I shouldn't have led him on. But oh, god, the way I got to giggle and laugh with him, it was pure heaven. The spark was back in my eyes and I made plans to go out to dinner later in the week.


At a point, I considered taking back my “yes” to dinner, but then I got home, and my husband barely looked at me before turning back to his computer, and the kids were screaming for me to do this or that. Instantly, dinner with the hot stranger from the bar sounded like a great idea… And, it’s been a wonderful idea for Four (4) years. So many good moments have happened with him in the picture, and, my life has never been the same since. I am a very happy woman today. He makes me feel like the woman that I am.”


9. “Hello Dave, I am 34 years old, and have been married for Five (5) years. I did trust my husband a lot but he betrayed that trust by cheating on me about Two (2) years ago. I was angry and hurt and disappointed. He showed remorse, apologized and then, cut things off with the other woman, and again, went ahead to take some other actions to make things right again with us. I did forgive him as I felt it was a mistake, and he was genuinely sorry. The problem is, it’s been very hard for me to forget about it, and I feel the only way to get over this is to cheat too. It’s been two years now, and I still have the urge to cheat too.


To make matters worse – for a couple of months now he is hardly home and stays out late every night due to work. We are hardly having any sex because he is mostly tired and not interested. Again, the way he is constantly protecting his phone, I’m beginning to think there’s more keeping him out and not only work. The thing is, I am not going to sit down and lose my sanity and peace of mind if I find out he is cheating again so I gave in to one of my numerous admirers. Yes, I love my husband, and I do not want to leave him, and I know he loves me too.


This new guy is divorced and understands it’s only to satisfy my sexual pleasure and inner peace. It has been good and very helpful to my general wellbeing. I am a very happy person now and even my husband has noticed. He talks about how I have become very understanding lately, and even compliments my looks each day. So yes, I am happily cheating and do not regret it. I hope my husband never finds out but if he does I’ll understand what ever actions he decides to take.”


10. “My husband lost his job and was home for a long while. I watched him go for one unsuccessful job interview after the other. I watched him depressed and almost giving up hope. I knew of someone who could help him start all over again. That ‘someone’ is actually the father of a former school mate. That ‘someone’ is the person I am sleeping with, aside my husband. He gave my husband an opportunity to work again. My husband only believes he has the job because he is qualified for it. We managed to make everything look formal: as in, how he heard of the vacancy, the formal processes to application, etc. He has no idea about his boss and I. I am in love with both men, Dave. I don’t know how possible that can be, but it’s happening to me right now. And they both love me too.”


11. “I’ve been married for a few months (not even up to a year). I guess I’m cheating on my husband because he didn’t really meet my expectation. Don’t ask me what that means – because I am still figuring it out myself. He’s not enough for me in everything. My present worry is how secure (financially) I am going to be, with him. I don’t know why I married him. I know, it sounds foolish, but that’s the truth, Dave. I still can’t name one reason why I married him. Of course, I love him, but what kind of love it is – I don’t know. The man I am having an affair with, gives me GHs 2, 500, every two weeks. It’s been Seven (7) months now, and he’s still wiring that amount into my account. According to him, I deserve it. I deserve to be pampered. He makes me happy, Dave. Sometimes, I wish I could give him a baby instead.”


12. “Prior to meeting my husband, I was the side-chick of his friend (the same friend who introduced him to me as a potential ‘catch’. He told my husband I am a marriageable material). My husband is financially sound, so the deal was for me to get him to fall for me, marry me, and then, give him his share of the ‘cake = my husband’s money). One thing he did not know was, I was already in love with him, but because he was married, I had to go along with his plan to date his friend. I am happy at the moment in my matrimonial hom
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