Sand Bondage

Sand Bondage
Why Marvel's Karen Gillan Embraces Her Anxiety
Your New Must-Try: Sautéed Dandelion Toast
The Only Marathon Training Plan You'll Ever Need
Your June Horoscope: Communication Clarity

By
Claire Lampen and Sabrina Talbert

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
Claire Lampen
Claire is a freelance writer covering sex and gender.

Sabrina Talbert
Sabrina is an editorial assistant for Women’s Health.

This content is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this page to help users provide their email addresses. You may be able to find more information about this and similar content at piano.io

Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
How Women Asked Their Partners To Get A Vasectomy
The 28 Best Butt Plugs To Experiment With Tonight
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below
The Sexiest Plus-Size Lingerie Brands
These Are The 100 Sexiest Truth Or Dare Questions
You Don't Have To 'Prove' You're Bisexual
Sex Experts Swear By These Vibrators And Toys
14 Oral Sex Toys That Actually Feel Like A Tongue
These Vibrating Cock Rings Make Erections Stronger
These Massage Oils Will Upgrade Your Next Night In
What To Know About Cancer Zodiac Compatibility

Women's Health may earn commission from the links on this page, but we only feature products we believe in.

Why trust us?

Do you own a scarf? Then you’re ready.
If you're looking for a surefire way to spice things up in the bedroom, your mind might jump to handcuffs. But I'll do you one better: Try using rope.
ICYDK, if you're looking to dip a toe into kink , bondage is a great place to start. Most of the tools you need to fulfill your BDSM fantasies are lying around your house already. But, before you grab the nearest bandana and strap your partner to a kitchen chair, there are a few things you should know.
Establishing how to approach rope bondage might be an intimidating process if you've never tried it. Before you and your partner get into it, many experts suggest it’s a good idea to agree on your desired roles and boundaries. For example, figure out whether you'd rather be the dominant partner who takes on more leadership and control, or would you rather be the submissive one, who prefers to give up that control to their partner.
You should also talk to your partner about what you do/don't want done to you, how much pressure you’re into, and what safe word will signal when one of you has had enough.
If this isn’t your first time incorporating BDSM into your partnership, then this process might be second nature to you. But either way, preparation beforehand is always necessary. Here’s a few things to keep in mind before getting started.
Research is a must if it’s your first time using rope. Get familiar with what positions you want to try out and how to execute them properly. There are plenty of websites you can check out dedicated to explaining rope play. Elle Chase , CSE, ACS, a certified sex educator, recommends Remedial Ropes as a good place to start learning. Doing sufficient research will give you a better sense of where to tie, how tight, etc., says Chase.
If you’re interested in trying rope play or any other form of BDSM, consent should be an ongoing conversation. "Consent, communication, and trust are essential for a strong relationship—sexual or otherwise," says Chase. "Incorporating consensual bondage into sex play builds and fortifies essential trust between partners, and requires that communication be deft and clear."
Aside from doing your own research, there are also classes and workshops you can attend to get some real hands-on experience, says Francesca Gentille , PhD, clinical sexologist and professor at the International Institute of Clinical Sexology. Rope bondage is never risk-free as there is the possibility for nerve damage amongst other things, so it’s best for all participants to familiarize themselves with any safety issues that can pop up during practice. "Think R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)," says Gentille.
With safety being the priority, it doesn’t hurt to create some sort of escape plan in the event of an emergency. A good option is keeping the ties that bind the wrists and ankles loose until you get comfortable, says Chase. As you get better with the ties and make them tighter, you can also have a pair of safety scissors handy just in case, adds Gentile.
If executed correctly and with caution, a strong bond of trust can be formed between you and your partner. " When the rope tier, rigger, or dominant listens well, notices beautifully, and attunes to the one being tied, there is a sense of growing intimacy, anticipation, and arousal," say Gentille.
Aftercare is always needed after a scene and is usually negotiated before you start a scene. The purpose of aftercare is to make sure both participants level out mentally and physically. For scenes that can be physically depleting, Gentille recommends a blanket, snacks, and a bottle of water. She also adds that it’s a good idea to check in with your partner a few days after to see if anything other thoughts or feelings have come up. “Aftercare (done well), both immediately after a scene or session, and days later, is an opportunity to deepen your relationship, build trust, and hold space for any triggers and healing,” says Gentille. “If not handled well the opposite can happen. [You] can break trust or rewound and trigger feelings of abandonment [in your partner].”
Once the specifics are out of the way, then it's finally time to play. If you don't have any rope casually laying around your home, don’t worry. Plenty of other household items, like a scarf or a tie, can serve as great alternatives. Whatever tool you've got on hand, get ready to explore these 18 best bondage positions:
How to: Missionary is the easiest possible position for beginner bondage. Simply lie on your back with your arms above your head and your legs spread, then have your partner bind your wrists and ankles to the bed frame.
Licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin recommended Sportsheets’ under-the-bed restraint system ($29, amazon.com ) in a previous interview with Women's Health , because its velcro cuffs are easily removable for a quick escape if/when you decide you no longer want to be bound.
How to: Have your partner lie on their back and bind their wrists and ankles, either together or to the bed frame, with a silk scarf, a tie, or heck, even your own underwear. Once they’re adequately restrained, straddle them facing forward or away, whichever you prefer.
Because they’re tied down, you can switch it up as often as you see fit—playing with your clit, or maybe pulsing a bullet vibe on your partner's perineum, nipples, or clit (try the Tenga Iroha Stick, $20, amazon.com ). Basically, you get to do whatever you want—you’re in charge.
Whether you opt for standard or reverse cowgirl, woman-on-top positions provide a perfect opportunity for you to take complete control.
How to: Lie with your stomach flat on the mattress (or wherever you’re going to be having sex) and have your partner bind your wrists together over your head. Maybe have them blindfold you , too, because why the hell not?
Then, have them lift your hips to enter you from behind, keeping your shoulders down and your knees rooted while he (or she) thrusts.
How to: Bend over and have your partner bind your wrists to your ankles, with your feet anchored shoulder-width apart for better balance.
Have your partner enter you from behind, keeping their hands on your hips to make sure you don’t topple over. Try a hands-free couples vibrator, like the Eva II ($135), for added clitoral stimulation.
How to: Lie down with your back flush to the mattress and then lift your hips into the air, as if you were doing a bridge in yoga. Then, have your partner bind your wrists behind your back and grab your butt, so you can wrap your legs around their waist as they thrust. (This one is like the leap frog, but in reverse.)
How to: For this one, grab a sturdy chair and park your partner’s butt in it. Then, tie their wrists and ankles to the frame, and once they’re ready to go—after a little oral sex , maybe—straddle them and pump up and down. Whether you face them or turn away is entirely up to you.
How to: First, grab two ties, one for your eyes and one for your wrists. Have your partner blindfold you and bind your wrists in front of you, so they hang down by your hips. Once you’re all tied up, they can take the reins in foreplay, before rolling you onto your side and entering you from behind. As they rock into you, they can surprise you with nipple tweaks and strokes, keeping stimulation on your clit. The best part: You get to lie back and enjoy the feels.
A big part of what makes spoon sex such a winner: Easy access to the clit and nips.
How to: Have your partner kneel and sit back on their legs. Loosely bind their wrists together behind their back and sit with your back facing your partner's front. From there, straddle your partner's thighs, bending your knees so that your legs are alongside your partners. Your partner can then use their hips to thrust, without using their arms or legs.
How to: Have your partner sit in an armless chair with their ankles loosely bound together and their wrist tied together behind the back of the chair. Face your partner and straddle their lap. For extra leverage, hold onto your partner's shoulders while you ride.
How to: To best introduce bondage in a knees-to-chest position, have your partner bind your ankles and calves together. Then, while you’re lying on your back, drape your legs over his shoulder as your partner penetrates you. You can also make use of those restraints or even cuffs, and have your partner bind your wrists above your head.
How to: For this one, assume roughly the same position as leap frog, but have your partner handcuff your wrists behind your back and spread your legs. They should kneel between your legs and enter you from behind while your body is flat against the mattress, ground, kitchen table, wherever. Then, have them reach a hand around to stroke your clitoris —because to neglect it would be very rude indeed.
How to: Lying on your back with your legs spread wide, have your partner straddle you while facing your toes. Once they’re situated, wrap your legs around their waist and tip your pelvis up, allowing them to slide back and enter you.
Then, grab your anal toy of choice, lubricate it generously, and work it while your partner rides. (Please note, anal always goes better when the receiving party is really aroused, so preface this position with plenty of foreplay.)
Because the butt is right there, other teasing options include slaps and pinches. If your partner has balls, Snow Angel also gives you prime access: Consider some light testicular tugging, whatever your partner is comfortable with and enjoys.
How to: First things first, ready your restraints, whether that’s the aforementioned under-the-bed system or simply scarves or rope. Have your partner bind your wrists, either to the bed frame or above your head, while you lie in missionary position. Then, spread your legs in a V-shape and lift them toward your head. Have your partner help with this, pushing your ankles back (as far as feels good for you) and holding them in place while they thrust.
Easy to execute without too much maneuvering, the Valedictorian remains a classic because it offers solid G-spot stimulation in combination with a good stretch.
How to: For this position, bend over the bed and have your partner bind your ankles, and then wrists together. Have your partner stand behind you with one leg on either side of yours and enter. Your partner can use their free hands to stimulate other areas, like the nipples or clitoris.
How to: For a more advanced option, have your partner secure the leg tie so that both legs are locked together. From there, your partner can either spoon you while on the bed or can stand up for more leverage.
How to: Have your partner complete a simple box tie so that your wrists are tied in a horizontal position and then tied across the chest and shoulders to create a harness. From there, have your partner stand up or lean over the side of the bed for genital or anal entrance, says Amanda Pasciucco , a certified sex therapist in Connecticut.
How to: Have your partner tie you so that your legs are bent at the knees and your thighs are pressed to your chest (kind of like a fetal position). While this position may be trickier for penetration, it's a great option for other forms of play.
How to: Have your partner tie your ankles together. Then have them tie your wrists behind your back, and tie the wrists and ankles together.
This tie can be a great option for giving or receiving oral sex. ( Note: Beginners should opt for cuffs or clips that can be easily removed instead of rope as some people may struggle to breathe in this position.)

When autocomplete results are available use up and down arrows to review and enter to select. Touch device users, explore by touch or with swipe gestures.
Damsels bound and gagged movies & tv

If playback doesn't begin shortly, try restarting your device.
- We've been tryin' the whole trip to catch a lizard
join our family for some BEST DAYS EVER!!
this vlog is part of our family since years and years ago, you share our memories, and feel like part of the crew!

MEET THE FAMILY:
Dad, has a Spacestation and is always busy and always having fun!
Mom, is a Supermom that keeps our house together and somewhat normal!
Adley, is a ball of energy that keeps everyone in our family smiling always!
Niko Bear, is part dinosaur, part shark, part pirate, part the best brother ever!
Navey, our newest cutest toughest little sister :)

FUN WITH ADLEY:
AforAdley.com
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBJuxfqZuiibvcwSc8ViGsQ

DAD'S SPACESTATION:
https://shonduras.com
https://spacestation.com
https://spacestationgaming.com
https://spacestationintegrations.com
https://remarketingspace.com/

FAMILY INSTAGRAMS:
https://www.instagram.com/shonduras
https://www.instagram.com/jennymcbride
https://www.instagram.com/adleymcbride
https://www.instagram.com/nikobearmcbride
https://www.instagram.com/naveymcbride

FAMiLY of DADS for Fathers day!! Cereal Surprise and Present Treasure Hunt at pirate island for Dad
Videos you watch may be added to the TV's watch history and influence TV recommendations. To avoid this, cancel and sign in to YouTube on your computer.
An error occurred while retrieving sharing information. Please try again later.
WE ARE HOME!! Back with Baby Niko and ready to Build Toy Rockets in the Backyard! by Shonduras 1,779,717 views
0:02 / 12:59 • Watch full video Live

Thursday, Jun 30th 2022
12PM
23°C
3PM
25°C

5-Day Forecast

RELATED ARTICLES Previous 1 Next

Embed icon

Embed Most Watched Videos

By embedding this you agree to our terms and conditions

Cancel
Copy code
Tick icon

Code copied

Site
Web

Enter search term:
Search

5 Signs A 'New Iron Curtain' Is Forming Between Russia And The West
Ex-F1 boss Bernie Ecclestone says he'd still 'take a bullet' for Vladimir Putin
Flights cancelled from Heathrow due to 'higher passenger numbers than airport can serve'
Meghan Markle 'bullying' inquiry findings to be kept private
Prince Charles had 'very emotional' first meeting with granddaughter Lilibet
Inquiry begins into Captain Tom Foundation charity
Tesco shelves running bare of Heinz products in dispute over pricing
Paris trial: Salah Abdeslam guilty as historic trial ends
Little-known election in weeks that could pave road to Boris Johnson's downfall
GP exodus will leave a quarter of posts empty within a decade

Home

News

U.S.

Sport

TV&Showbiz

Australia

Femail

Health

Science

Money

Video

Travel

Best Buys

Discounts

Published: 15:28 BST, 13 April 2017 | Updated: 17:01 BST, 18 April 2017
This is the 'torture board' a woman was allegedly strapped to before being linked up to electrodes and having a 240 volt charge sent through her vagina during an S&M 'sex game'.
'Dominant' Keiren Batten, 43, who is allegedly obsessed with sadomasochistic sexual practices, is accused of sexually assaulting the 27-year-old woman while she was strapped to the wooden board and wearing a black gimp mask.
But Cambridge Crown Court he denied the charge and claims it was he who was electrocuted, with a jury told he 'liked to clamp his genitals'.
The court also heard today from a previous girlfriend of Batten, who told the court that she used to attach electric clamps to his genitals and nipples and plug the device into the mains.
Keiren Batten allegedly used this wooden 'torture board', pictured, to sexually assault a woman during an extreme S&M sex game
She said she also burnt his backside and nipples with a cigarette.
Batten, of Hitchin, Hertfordshire, is charged with sexually assaulting his alleged victim in 2014 by clamping the crocodile clips of a home-made electrical device to her vagina.
Prosecutor Simon Wilshire has described Batten as 'obsessed with sadomasochistic sexual practices' and having 'dangerous sexual desires re bondage, sadism and restraint'.
Today, the 6ft long, door sized, stained, wooden home-made board was brought into court and shown to the jury of seven women and five men.
They saw the leather belts, straps, chords, metal chain, hoops and sturdy fastening clips.
The board was found by police leaning against the wall of the woman's bedroom after she reported what had happened.
The court also heard that Batten had had admitted assaulting the former girlfriend who gave evidence today in 2010.
Batten, 43, allegedly gave a woman a 240v mains-electric shock on her vagina during an S&M sex game
In a written statement read by the prosecution, the ex-girlfriend said she and Batten had bondage sex, including using candle wax on her nipples, but that Batten never did anything sexually to hurt her.
She said she was never tied to the door but that she whipped and spanked Batten while he was tied to it.
She said she also attached crocodile clips to his testicles and nipples with one electrical device but didn't turn on the power as 'a tease'.
There was a second device with two prongs, which was turned on. She would attach it his testicles to give him an electric shock, she said.
In the current trial, the alleged victim claims Batten was controlling and that she agreed to his requests for '50 Shades of Grey' extreme sex because he said she was 'boring in bed'.
He is accused of whipping her and smacking her with a spiked paddle, tying her up with ropes, gagging her, dripping hot wax over her body, and making her wear a gimp mask and dress up.
She agrees she consented to him attaching the crocodile clips of the lamp lead to her nipples at first but then told him never to electrocute her again because of the pain.
But in
Kristen Deluca Naked
Sara Cosmi Nude
Bent Over Ass Spread

Sand Bondage

Report Page