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My friend said she was horny and sad yesterday and I told her there was probably a German word for it (as they tend to have one for about everything). She then told me it was probably French. So now I'm trying to find who's right, if either but Google searching for horny and sad brings up a bunch of weird things, none of which is a word for it. Thought I'd ask here since I've heard those feelings can go together commonly.
Just make one up. How about... sorny? hornad? melonchorny?
It's more because she's a literary major and I want to be right than just having a word for it. I really like melonchorny though

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AKA, sadsturbating, mastursobbing, or whatever you want to call using masturbation to distract yourself, to feel better, or to straight up induce a cathartic cry by helping your hormones go haywire through a good ol' trusty orgasm.
It makes sense as a concept, sure, but I hadn't realized it was an actual, recognized, Urban Dictionary-defined behavior until not one, not two, but THREE of my friends responded to my complaints of crushing existential despair by telling me to masturbate.
OK, I thought, my friend is super in touch with her emotions and sexuality and has some highly specific coping mechanisms. But then...
OK, I thought, maybe this is just a symptom of having sex-positive oversharers for friends. Still doesn't mean it's A Thing.
After that, I couldn't help but ask around at work (y'know, straddling the line between HR violation and investigative reporting), and responses fell into one of three camps:
# "Yeah, sadsturbation is totally a thing."
# "Oh, huh, yeah I guess now that you mention it, that makes sense."
At that point, there was no denying it: THIS IS A THING AND WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT.
Obviously, masturbation feels good on a physical level, but there's a lot going for it that makes it a pretty effective response to sadness.
"It relieves stress, it helps you feel more relaxed, and it does boost endorphins and testosterone levels, which can improve your mood," Dr. Madeleine Castellanos , psychiatrist specializing in sex therapy and author of Wanting to Want , told BuzzFeed Health when I called for an #expert opinion on whether or not this was legit.
There are a ton of reasons this might happen and it'll be different for everyone, but according to Castellanos, when you orgasm, there's such a shift in hormones, oxytocin, endorphins, etc., that it can easily trigger a strong emotional reaction.
So, that response might be related to an emotion (like feeling happy, sad, lonely, overwhelmed, generally verklempt, etc.), or it might just be because you've been a little emotionally stuffed up lately and your body finally has a way to let it out thanks to that orgasm. So, tears.
And if the tears come, Castellanos definitely recommends letting it out and feeling your feelings because not only is crying itself a great stress reliever and cathartic AF, but also, suppressing emotions is good for NO ONE. "If you keep yourself from the full expression of it, you never really fully give it release, so it sticks around," she says.
If you find that getting yourself off is the only way you have to cheer yourself up, that's when it becomes a problem, says Castellanos. You don't want to wind up in a place where you can only deal with sadness via sadsturbation session, so, you know, make sure you're mixing it up when it comes to mood boosting activities so it's not all masturbation all the time.
Think Pavlov's dogs, says Castellanos: If you're masturbating every time you're sad, sadness might start to trigger some internal Marvin Gaye and your body will be all, "Oh, sad again? Guess it's time to masturbate! LET ME JUST GET HORNY REAL QUICK."
"If you use it for the purposes of making yourself feel better, it’s important to allow yourself to really celebrate feeling vital, feeling sexy, feeling powerful, feeling pleasure, and to understand that that feeling can be beyond masturbation," says Castellanos.
If you do all that — and enjoy in moderation — go ahead and EMBRACE SOME SADSTURBATION.
Anna Borges is a senior staff writer for BuzzFeed.
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Like when some girls cry they seam to crave intimacy and physical interaction. I've seen this notion predominantly displayed in movies, tv shows etc. So im just wondering how true is this in the real world? For example In the film "Wedding Crashers" they exploited this notion of women being more sexual during a funeral. I think it has to do with them being fragile, susceptible and them seeking comfort but what i dont understand why that goes as far as sex. Well im not too sure so if someone could clarify it for me id be pleased, thank you . And if you could can you draw your answers from experience, once again thank you ladies and gentlemen your answers are appreciated.
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Yes, when I'm sad that's the moment I need loooooooooots of intimacy. We get more emotional, and when my boyfriend is trying to cheer me up by hugging, kissing (aka. a lot of physical interaction) I Inmediately want to throw him to the bed and do him. X)
Yeah if I get sad or am watching a scary movie I get an urge to have sex. I think my boyfriend has picked up on it haha, not complaining.
I'm curious to know why that is. What about being sad or scared gives you the urge to have sex?
I have no idea. The other night we were watching 'I am legend' and I got really upset and I was like 'hold me' and then I just wanted sex. I don't know if it's because I like the closeness and feeling, not sure.
Of course, we jump on every penis that walks past in that moment
Pay attention: some corndog might believe you!
i guess when someone's sad isn't in the mood...
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