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If you’re here you probably know what it means to ruin an orgasm, denying my boyfriend that pleasure is an art form and something that drives him wild and turns me on. If you don’t know a ‘ruined orgasm’ is exactly as it sounds, getting your partner to the brink of an orgasm and then stopping right before they blow, this is in turn usually makes them squirt of cum without the orgasm and leaves them feeling dissatisfied and absolutely unbelievably desperate for that release.
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Everyone does things differently but this is how my boyfriend and I do it. I try and get him to the point of orgasm once a day, but I only let him cum once per week and it takes me hours of play before I let him actually have that release.
The poor thing must do as I say or risk not being able to cum until I say so. Bringing him to the point of orgasm and then stopping is pure torture for him but he loves it secretly and it keeps us both on our toes.
I like to dress up and tell him today is going to be the day he can cum, I get him so excited, I eke out his pleasure by blowing him and riding him until he just can’t take anymore and at the very last second, I stop and giggle, ruining his orgasm and making him wince and moan in desperation.
It may not sound like it but we both take great pleasure from doing this and my boyfriend does thank me after, he is too worked up to thank me during the process but I know it gets him off, even more, knowing I am denying him his orgasm, laughing at him and taking total control over his pleasure and making him totally submit to me and my desires.
I also love making him get me off and if he even leaks one tiny bit of cum boy does he get in trouble, he knows the rules and if he tries to not play ball he gets a severely ruined orgasm for weeks.
If he tries to cum before I am ready to allow him to cum I just stop all play and ruin his orgasm as a punishment. I stop all movement and I don’t let him cum. He knows the rules, he knows that I am in charge of when and where he cums if he tries to be clever and tries to move his hips to make me do it faster, if he makes any noise or if he cums before I have said he can these are all grounds for punishment and he knows it’s not worth the risk.
On another note if you are thinking about ruining your partner’s orgasm talk about it thoroughly beforehand and let me know this is something you are looking to do, don’t catch him by surprise, it’s not cute unless you have worked it all out.
I started in the morning, I woke up horny and decided today was the day for a good old-fashioned cock milking. I grabbed his dick, it was already hard, and I got him to the point of orgasm just to start the day off right. Just before he was about to cum I stopped, yawned and got out of bed.
Walking to my closet I picked out his favorite outfit and I dressed up like a little slut. We had a whole day at home today and I knew I was going to use it to my advantage.
I was dressed up, walking around the house, teasing him without a bra on and bending down so that he could see up my skirt and my panties. I could see he was so hard through his sweatpants and I knew he wanted that release but he knows he only gets it when I am good and ready.
All throughout the day I would tell him that this was it, he was allowed to cum and then I would let go and stop, he would just lay there, panting, his cock twitching and spilling out cum. It was racy and very hard-core.
When the sun started going down, I started to feel bad for him, his cock was harder than I had ever seen it before and he had to close his eyes whenever I walked past because he just couldn’t take it anymore. I decided one last tease was me playing with myself on the couch, I opened my legs and began playing with my clit, pushing my fingers into my pussy. He couldn’t take his eyes off of me but he knew one wrong move and he would have to wait even longer to cum.
I went over him to him and told him this was it, he could cum. I wrapped my lips around his cock and soaked his shaft with my spit, his cock was rock solid and as he was about to cum I stopped, his cum spat all over my face but there was no orgasm insight. I stood up and giggled, walking away.
I told him to go upstairs, he was allowed to cum now after a whole day of teasing and milking but he still didn’t really believe me. He lay down on the bed and I restrained him, this is so he can’t suddenly grab his cock and get himself off. I then used all of my best tricks and began teasing his cock carefully, using my tongue and my hands I was making his entire body tremble.
I then straddled him and lowered my pussy onto him, he knew not to make one noise or it would all stop. My pink wet pussy wrapped itself around his throbbing cock and I began riding him at the pace that I liked, squeezing my own tits and moaning, I could feel my own orgasm building, he had to wait for me to cum. Once I was satisfied I told him that it was okay to cum now, he didn’t believe me so I kept on thrusting, he was telling me to stop that he was going to blow so I kept on going, I didn’t stop riding him until just as he started cumming, I yawned as he filled me with his sperm, he got his orgasm in the end but he wasn’t good enough for me to keep moving as he came. I ruined it whilst he was inside of me and there was nothing he could do about it.
I love teasing him, it’s such a thrill. What shall I do to him next? Let me know in the comments below and I’ll let you know how it goes.
edge him like 10 times then just yawn and walk away.
Edge him a lot. Get him to confess kinky fantasies while all riled up. Then tell him you have a fantasy… for him to clean up his mess. Ruin it, rub your feet in it, then force him to lick, kiss or otherwise worship them. Lots of fun for both!
I would love to have a gf like you that ruined my orgasm, so hot.
Have him kneel down in between your legs, with his hands behind his back. Then, give him a nice, slow, teasing edging kind of handjob. As you stroke him tell him that you’ve always wanted to see a guy eat his own cum. Tell him that if he cums, he has to lick it off your stomach. When he cums, do not stroke him hard or fast, continue stroking him softly and slowly. Then, remove your hands and order him to lick up his cum. Remind him that if he does not lick up his cum, he will not be allowed to cum for an entire month. After he licks it all up, tell him, “Good boy, now, while you’re down there, lick my pussy”
Order him to lick your pussy while you have phone sex with a guy.
Brag to your girlfriends that he is your sex slave and that, when it comes to sex, you call all the shots. If you find that one of your girlfriends does the same thing with their boyfriend or husband, suggest that you two swap boyfriends/husbands for a night.
Another idea, suggest that your buy and her man MUST give each of you a 3some! And when you do, make the guys take turns eating each other’s cum. Have sex with one guy and make the other watch. After one guy cums inside of you, make the other eat you out afterwards.
Another idea: Give one guy a blowjob, when he cums in your mouth, instead of swallowing it, French kiss the other guy, with a mouthful of cum.
Another idea, make him pleasure you all day and not let him cum until late in the evening. Throughout the day, tell him your fantasies (in great detail) about being a 3some with two men. Tell him that one of your fantasies is to watch two guys put on a show for you. You want to see two guys suck each other off. Tell him, in great detail how you want to see it happen. Make him watch pornos showing guys sucking each other off. Later in the evening, tell him that you’ll allow him to cum on one condition, he has to agree to fulfill your fantasy to suck another guy off, right in front of you!
I’ve discovered several ways in which I can eat my own cum:
With her giving me a handjob and collecting my cum in her hand. Afterwards I have to open my mouth, stick out my tongue and let her pour it into my mouth.
After giving me a blowjob, instead of swallowing it, I have to allow her to French kiss me afterwards
With me on top, after she allows me to cum inside of her, I have to eat her out afterwards
With her on top, after I cum inside of her, she quickly gets up turns around and makes me eat her out.
She gives me a slow teasing edging kind of handjob. When she finally lets me cum, she makes me kneel down in between her legs so I can cum all over her stomach. Afterwards, I have to lick it up, ALL of it.
Same thing except she aims my cum onto her pussy and then makes me eat her out
She gives me a handjob while I’m laying on the floor. When she finally lets me cum, she brings my legs up over my head so that my cock is hanging right over my mouth. When she gives me permission to cum, she orders me to open my mouth and stick out my tongue, When I cum, she aims my entire cum shot right into my open/waiting mouth. Then, she makes me swallow it, all of it!
This isn’t going to sound as good as I think it is but after he’s worked up until it’s all purple grab the base of it and wag it back and forth while tapping it in the palm of your hand. You can also do that using your index finger-so cute!
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Edge him till hes screaming to cum then gag him and keep edging him make him suffer for at least 2 hours a day for at least a month
I would say a longer denial period would be the next step. What about making him beg and plead for you to ruin him. Or maybe make ruin it himself. Possibly by fucking you and pulling out at the last second.
I have trained myself to ejaculate fantasizing about a goddess like you totally hands free. You should train him to do it through the sound of your voice. Let him know you own every orgasm
Have him tied to the bed. Give him a footjob until he cums. Take some of his cum from his ruined orgasm and make him suck and lick it off your feet. Give him a light kick in the balls and sit next to him. Take some more of his cum and slap it on his face. Rub his own cum all over his face. Have him eat the rest of his cum. Then yawn and get up and walk away, leaving him tied up
To make his orgasm even less pleasurable you can tickle him (if he is ticklish) while he has is ruined orgasm.
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The three-year anniversary of my “indefinite” chastity caused me to reflect on a fading memory — orgasms. Before chastity, i orgasmed when i felt the urge – about twice or thrice a week. i really do not remember those days, (as You like to say Mistress Ayn: “Mission Accomplished!”). Then, as Your chaste slaveboy, i would look forward to the days whenever You would permit an orgasm.
Recently things have changed – orgasms are permitted whenever You wish to have them happen and under Your control (“Mission Accomplished!”). And, a new twist – they rarely involve my stroking to a satisfying orgasm. Your plan seems to have me orgasm JUST often enough for me to remember what You have taken away from me (“Mission Accomplished!”). Orgasms are now just another one of Your many ways to control me, sometimes reward me, and even sometimes they are used to punish (“Mission Accomplished!”).
There is no pattern, for that would allow me to anticipate. At the end of 2020, You had me orgasm at the stroke of the new year. The next year You casually signed off in Your last email, informing me that “I am off until Monday.” No orgasm to end the year, keeping me unbalanced and submissive (“Mission Accomplished!”).
In 2019 and 2020, i was permitted “release” 19 times and 18 times, respectively. For 2021, that number plummeted to 12 – a 35% drop. i see where this is going: fewer releases, farther and farther apart, making it harder to remember orgasms, and You exerting more control (“Mission Accomplished!”).
And a new element, merely 12 releases, yet only FIVE “real orgasms,” when i was allowed to touch Your cock and bring myself to a satisfying orgasm. THREE times a ruined orgasm, stroking but stopping just short of a satisfying release. THREE times a forced orgasm – release but no physical touch Your cock, but using a vibrator. And, ONCE a forced, ruined orgasm – no physical touching and stopping before ejaculation. You are a creative Mistress and apparently One with a plan – fewer releases and even fewer the old-fashion way = jerking off to ejaculation (“Mission Accomplished!”).
Is there a lesson here? Yes. You are in control, it is not about me, my needs, or my pleasure (“Mission Accomplished”). It is about Your pleasure. My less frequent releases seem to please You, with new twists and turns, and less satisfaction. i gladly embraced this new training. You have trained me well, oh wise Mistress. – slaveboy jaime
The Submissive Male’s Guide to the Perfect Self-administered Ruined Orgasm
A ruined orgasm for a submissive male is one of the most intensely pleasurable, toe-curling, sweat-inducing, back-arching, fist-clenching, teeth-gnashing, brain-bending endeavors a submissive male can experience to drive him into an animal sexual frenzy. One of the biggest misconceptions about ruined orgasms comes from the word “ruined.” It sounds like torture or something a submissive male might do to himself only for punishment. But, it could be a way to experience ecstasy, delight and have one of the biggest and best orgasms he has ever had in his entire life.
The name is misleading in that a properly ruined orgasm is STILL an orgasm! Yet, it does feel profoundly different to the submissive male, but it still feels great, yet in a different way than a normal orgasm. The perfect ruined orgasm is a special kind of climax, achieved in a very specific way that triggers a different sequence of physical, emotional, and hormonal reactions in the submissive male’s body. To a male accustomed to and expecting normal orgasms, the sudden surprise of new and different sensations might be confusing in his hyper-aroused brain by causing unexpected disappointment. The submissive male is expecting one thing – a powerful climax, but at the last second, he gets something different. A ruined orgasm does not tell the submissive male’s brain to release any of the hormones associated with the post-orgasmic “afterglow,” such as prolactin and oxytocin. Dopamine levels remain elevated throughout the body. Instead of feeling sluggish and exhausted after an orgasm, the submissive male remains aroused and sexually frustrated after ruining the orgasm.  Rarely would a male ruin his own orgasm, but a submissive male, under the strict control or directions of a Mistress, different sensations and motivations occur.
There are a few important things that enable a submissive male to have a “perfect” (or as close to that as possible) ruined orgasm.
First, often associated with the perfect ruined orgasm is extended pleasure.  One possible path for the submissive male to take is to perform, possibly at the direction of a Mistress, repeated (four to six consecutive days), prolonged (from 15 to 30 minutes) stop-and-start stimulation. This is commonly known as edging. This seems to charge up the submissive male and his cock to a higher sensitivity and definitely a greater yearning for an orgasm, any orgasm.
Second, unlike a normal orgasm, with a ruined orgasm all stimulation stops as the ejaculation begins to build. And this is the tricky part, the stroking of the cock toward an orgasmic explosion needs to terminate at a critical moment. If you wait until the sperms starts its path through the urethra, it’s too late. Stopping at the height of the build up but before you teeter over that edge is critical and this is where many would be “ruiners” fail, by stroking too long, either out of ignorance or lack of control.
To achieve a “perfect” ruined orgasm, keen attention must be given to the signals from the submissive male’s body, particularly as his stroking leads to what could be “THE” climactic end to the edging, but making sure to stop the stroking before the climax actually occurrs. There is a critical point when more stroking would achieve orgasm. It takes all of the submissive male’s willpower and desire to please his Mistress to submit and follow Her orders – when a ruined orgasm only is permitted.
The submissive male needs to train himself to give himself a perfect ruined orgasm. He needs to know his body very, very well. He needs to study his specific sequence of escalating physical pleasure signals, to identify the first possible moment in the sequence where he can let go and cause himself to still cascade through climax. Arched back, tensed muscles, grunts, whimpers, pulsing cock, retracted balls–every submissive male has his signals. Leaking pre-cum is an excellent signal for the submissive male to become aware of if hoping to achieve a ruined orgasm. Instead of letting go “at the last second,” the submissive male actually wants to let go as early as possible. He needs to hang, untouched, on the verge of climax, for as long as physically possible, before his body reflexively sends him over. If done correctly, the perfect ruined orgasm results in his sperm to just dribble out, under weak contractions, if at all. The submissive male should desire and seek to extend that “hangtime” just before ejaculation to be as long as possible.
Sadly, but understandable, the submissive male typically misjudges his own point-of-no-return. It is probably long before he says it is. The problem is he is in a mindless pleasure-trance when stroking toward orgasm. The submissive male is not the most reliable person at that point but needs to train himself to become more sensitive and attentive to achieve the perfect self-administered ruined orgasm.
Ample loads of sperm may be released from the submissive male’s cock during a ruined orgasm, especially if not allowed to orgasm for an extended time, but not with the intensity of a normal orgasm. If successful, the male’s sperm is only released through a dribbling out of the cock (not a powerful spurting like a normal orgasm) or by “forcing” the sperm out by firmly but gently squeezing the cock by forming a circle with his thumb and forefinger and running his two fingers from the base of his cock to the tip in a milking action.
Why is a ruined orgasm so special? In a normal orgasm, the male hits his peak of pleasure, then comes crashing down in a wonderful, violent torrent of release, followed by an involuntary rest-and-recharge time called the “refractory period.” He feels a warm, satisfying wash of hormones. Then his cock goes limp and his entire body instinctively commands him to rest and recover.
In a ruined orgasm, the submissive male hits his peak of pleasure, tips just barely over the edge, but the violent crash is not triggered. It is not triggered because the expected physical stimulation is absent. Weak muscle contractions struggle to squeeze the cum from his body. He feels an electric tremor throughout his body, distinctly different from the warm wash of a normal orgasm. Importantly, the sense of satisfaction never triggers. The submissive male had an orgasm and he unloaded some cum, but he feels “unfinished.” Despite having released his load, the submissive male is exceptionally horny and frustrated, not exhausted and satisfied as with a normal orgasm, and is likely still erect. While his balls are drained, he did not have the sensation of having an orgasm.
There may be many reasons why a submissive male would attempt to hav
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