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Once upon a time, the topic of orgasm was fairly run-of-the-mill. Basically, you do the sex, and you climax (fingers crossed!). But these days, orgasms are anything but ordinary and basic, with options ranging from forced to clitoral to skin orgasms . Also on the list? A ruined orgasm. That might sound confusing, but sex experts say it's the *lack* of orgasm that is exactly the goal.
"A ruined orgasm generally refers to an orgasm that is not particularly pleasurable," notes Jess O’Reilly , PhD, sexologist and ambassador for sexual wellness and sex toy brands We-Vibe , Womanizer , and Arcwave . But, she says, that doesn't mean a ruined orgasm can't be eroticized. For example, a ruined orgasm might allow participants to play with power dynamics and (loss of) control. This ties into the eroticization of emotions like humiliation, which can be an element of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, O'Reilly says.
Or, even if you're not into BDSM, this might be of interest to anyone who likes to engage in role-playing or themes including submission and domination, says Janet Brito , PhD, a clinical psychologist and sexologist in Honolulu.
Another potentially appealing aspect of the ruined orgasm? It does away with the socially dominant norm or expectation that you’re supposed to orgasm in one particular way, O'Reilly points out.
Ready to learn more and maybe even try it? Here are all the deets on a ruined orgasm, including why it's different than edging and how to achieve one yourself.
Meet the experts: Jess O’Reilly , PhD is a sexologist and ambassador for sexual wellness and sex toy brands We-Vibe , Womanizer , and Arcwave . Janet Brito , PhD, is a a clinical psychologist and sexologist in Honolulu. Donna Oriowo , PhD, LICSW, CST, LICSW is the owner and lead therapist of AnnodRight . Kate Balestrieri , PhD is a Licensed Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, PACT Therapist and Founder of Modern Intimacy, a group therapy practice in Los Angeles, Miami, NYC, Denver and Chicago.
A ruined orgasm is one that can lean on stop-and-start stimulation and teasing, and, in the case of BDSM practice , may involve a sexual act where the dominant partner provides enough stimulation to get the submissive partner to orgasm, but then stops, Brito says. A ruined orgasm may also include an interrupted orgasm.
O'Reilly agrees, offering the following scenario: "For example, if you usually stroke yourself right before or during orgasm to intensify pleasure, you may stop (or be told to stop) a few seconds early, so that you experience the muscular contractions (and perhaps ejaculation) that tend to accompany orgasm, but not the climactic pleasure."
Brito emphasizes that a ruined orgasm, or any power sex play, requires consent and for both partners to create guidelines, establish boundaries, and negotiate specifics before they begin to experiment.
While the name of the act itself doesn't sound pleasurable it can be for many reasons, explains Dr. Donna Oriowo, LICSW, CST. For some, it's about being in the moment and removing orgasm as the end goal. For others, it plays into the power dynamics between dominant and submissive and giving up control of your pleasure to someone else.
In the context of BDSM, a submissive can also experience pleasure from being denied, deprived by the ruined orgasm, adds Dr. Kate Balestrieri a licensed psychologist, CST.
With ruined orgasms, timing is everything, and it plays a big role in how it feels. Maybe you're thinking to yourself, "How will I know if I had a ruined orgasm?" Well, there's a slight chance you've already experienced something similar.
"If you’ve ever been close to an orgasm, and your vibrator dies just as you were about to surrender, only to have your orgasm peter out pathetically, that is a ruined orgasm," explains Balestrieri. Sound familiar?
Kind of, but it isn't. Edging involves being this close to getting the thing you want (in this case, orgasm) and having it repeatedly taken away juuuust as you are about to climax until, eventually, you do orgasm. The reason for it, experts say, is the resulting orgasm packs much more ka-pow as a result of the back-and-forth teasing. But that's not a ruined orgasm, O'Reilly says.
"Edging generally refers to building to pleasure via pleasure peaks and valleys," she notes. "It’s often part of building an undulating crescendo to a more powerfully pleasurable orgasm, so it’s quite different from detracting from the pleasure of orgasm as you might with a ruined orgasm."
Brito agrees, breaking it down into a simple comparison: Both ruined orgasms and edging involve the use of the start-stop method, but in the case of a ruined orgasm, the technique is meant to slow down orgasm and reduce build-up, whereas edging is all about elevating pleasure by prolonging it.
Like edging, a forced orgasm —when a person does not want to orgasm, but their partner stimulates them enough to orgasm—does not involve a pleasure limit, as in the case of a ruined orgasm. With forced orgasms, you still lack control (as in your partner might tie you up and stimulate you when you say you don't want it—after you've consented to this type of sex, of course), but forced orgasms actually end in orgasm whereas ruined ones typically don't.
A forced orgasm may involve a dominant and submissive relationship, Brito says, where a submissive does not "want" to orgasm, but the dominant partner continues to provide stimulation so they do. "It's a role play involving power dynamics," she notes.
Well, that depends on how you define orgasm , which, as O'Reilly pointed out earlier, has been stereotyped as that one big "O" that makes your toes curl. But there is no universal terminology for what a ruined orgasm entails, she says.
"I have heard people talk about ruined orgasms as orgasms that don’t happen, but even the experience of orgasm is subjective," O'Reilly notes. "If we define orgasm by a pleasurable release of tension that is often accompanied by muscular contractions, you might say that a ruined orgasm is not an orgasm, as you’re not experiencing a pleasurable release." But on the flip side, you might have muscular contractions (or ejaculation if you have a penis) and not experience pleasure, she says, countering, "So, does it count? Perhaps not!"
Some of the basics have already been covered, but if you're on board to try out a ruined orgasm, let's review. This type of orgasm typically involves the stop-start technique, whether it's in the hands of a partner or your own. That means initiating stimulation and then stopping stimulation. "Do not continue to provide stimulation, which will result in no orgasm," Brito says. "[You can also] provide interrupted stimulation, which could result in a 'meh' orgasm. If you're going for the ruined orgasm with a partner, make sure it is consensual, discuss your terms ahead of time, and consider sexual aids, like vibrators ."
Beyond the start-stop method, O'Reilly says you can also tie in the physical and emotional components of BDSM (e.g. you might experience or play with feelings of humiliation, frustration, loss of control, anger, or embarrassment) to "ruin" the orgasm. "For example, your partner might continue with the physical stimulation that brings you to orgasm, but then say something that makes you feel humiliated or embarrassed to create a dissonance that ruins the orgasm," she says.
"You might also have a ruined orgasm inadvertently due to distraction or intrusive thoughts," O'Reilly continues. "Perhaps someone walks in on you just as you’re about to orgasm and your body continues to respond, but you no longer experience the sensations or response as pleasurable."
According to O'Reilly? "There are many reasons why a ruined orgasm can be eroticized."
Before you give ruined orgasms a try, talk to your partner about what excites you and figure out how you want to approach it, says Balestrieri. "...Spend some time debriefing and attending to aftercare , especially if the ruined orgasm is going to be part of a BDSM scene, to avoid sub drop."
Oriowo also adds that a safe word is also highly recommended. And if you don't have a partner, no worries! Oriowo notes that taking some solo time to explore ruined orgasms can be a great opportunity to learn more about your body. "You have to know what takes you toward the stages of orgasm, but also know what is the point of no return for you," she says.

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This month’s update is almost solely focused on a complete rework of the game’s endings.
It’s been a bit of a sore spot for a while, but after a year and a half of development, I was confident I could make something that would be enjoyable to people interested in these kinds of experiences.
Endings are now split into two segments, teasing and finishing.
During teasing , you’ll be challenged to endure something to prepare you for the next step. It won’t be easy, and she may just try to make you fail on purpose here.
Finishing is where the real fun happens ; She’ll give you various instructions, but also give you permission to finish for a time. If you’re unable to do it fast enough, she’ll take it away and give it back later. This will continue until you’re capable of doing so, getting both easier on the finishing side, but more challenging on the teasing side!
Anal Endings function in a similar way; At first, you’ll get a relatively short timer, but after a few times, you’ll be given ample time to try.
If you fail too many times, you might get a chance to back out of trying for it… but she may or may not accept immediately!
Note that Chastity is now also optionally compatible with anal endings!
The optional CEI system has also been expanded to involve more CEI play instead of simple instructions. You may also choose to bring it back to a simpler state with a simple toggle in the endings menu.
That’s not all though! Practically all the systems involved in climax are now significantly more customizable and expanded. You’ll hopefully find a significantly more compelling finishing experience to top off your sessions with your Succubus! I look forward to your feedback to continue its improvement.
- Supports most anal toys (she requests you use one specifically to try achieving it, and will ask you to prepare it before teasing)
- Exclusively tries to make you finish using anal. After a few cycles, she asks if you're feeling capable. Each cycle, the possible duration increases.
- After several cycles, she asks if you're feeling capable. You can ask her to switch to regular endings, which she may deny to make you keep trying.
- A chastity setting is available to enable Anal Endings during chastity sessions. If you’re not capable, she will simply end it.
(Can cycle back to edging, plays low-intensity animation and soft moaning audio)
(Can cycle back to positioning, edging, cooldown, or permission. Plays mid-intensity animation and edging audio.)
(Plays high-intensity animation and orgasm audio, fading out once you’re done.).

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“Edge or Ruin (Leash Induction)”

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Edge or Ruin is an evil little tease and denial file.
Before you listen you can choose how many edges you have to have before you can enjoy your next orgasm. And then you can choose to edge or ruin. If you try to have your orgasm before you had all the edges you need, the orgasm will be ruined, leaving you incredibly frustrated and unsatisfied. All effects of this files end with your next orgasm, no matter if it’s successful or ruined.
Before you listen to this file you have to write the number of required edges (1-100) on a piece of paper. If you don’t write down a number of edges it will default to 5.

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As November is slowly drawing closer, I’m going to do a public NOvember trance next Sunday. This one is going to completely and totally take away your ability to have any (enjoyable) orgasm all November. And it’s going to be evil. I’m going to block your mental ability to orgasm. Sure, you can still try […]
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