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Some young women can be pretty inorgasmic in their 20s. The good news is their sex drive picks up in their 30s and 40s... My partner had a big problem when she was younger. Also, it can be a question of letting go, and just enjoying yourself. If you don't have a misplaced guilt complex about p*rn or vibrators it does help, I feel... For a guy, cumming is more mechanical!
If I'm masturbating my partner, it could take me 5-10 minutes... and that too it depends which day of her (menstrual) cycle she is on. There are some days where she's wet, wants to come, and manages it after awhile. On other days, she's more dry and edgy, and just doesn't want to clamax, asking me to focus on my own fun. The reason I need to use my hand, mouth or a vibrator on her is that some women -- I think -- are slower in coming.
Also, it's tougher for both to claimax when you're into straight, plain vanilla sex... so one-at-a-time works fine for us... You need patience and faith for this~!
Rub around the clit, by using the clitoral hood. that should work, helped my girlfriend out a lot.
How do you masturbate? If you rub your clit it should feel good, if it doesn't you should figure out what you're doing wrong or if there's something wrong with you down there. Maybe you're not touching the right spot. Because almost every girl feels something when they touch their clitoris, its just HOW they get off.
:S I always expected that I couldn't orgasm
NO almost everyone can orgasm or come when thejust masturbate.. maybe you need to watch p*rn or something.. if you're touching your clit and you don't feel anything you might have to ask a doctor or someone. I'm not sure, I'm no doctor, but I do know that plenty of girls come when they masturbate.
It's one of the things that turns me on the most to be honest If I'm trying to go fast, it would take me a while tbh but building the pace up wouldn't take me longer than five minutes Oddly enough, using my right hand helps me finish faster than using my left hand
for me, like 2-5 minutes, but everyone is different, you have to see what works for you, have you tried toys?
I only have to rub it for about 4 minutes! Some girls take a lot longer though!
what does it feel like as you're rubbing. for the most part I feel nothing.
why does rubbing the clit make a woman feel good?
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Hear me out: Rubbing your clit is vastly underappreciated. It is, by far, the easiest way to masturbate (you only need your fingers!), it’s quiet (unless you’re moaning, in which case, good 4 u!), and it’s 100% free—no purchase required. But it’s easy to forget about the benefits of clitoral rubbing when we’re so delightfully spoiled by vibrators . And although vibes really do just hit different, knowing how to rub your clit in a way that works for you should be a top skill in your masturbation tool kit. (What else are you gonna do when your trusty vibe runs out of battery mid-masturbation sesh?)
Remember: The clit is the star of the show. 82% (yes! 82!) of vagina-owners can’t orgasm from penetration alone, so for most of us, it’s the key to cumming, and often, the key to good sex. ICYMI, the clit is the nub at the top of your vaginal opening, and it holds around 8,000 nerve-endings (a lot!). And even though it’s tiny, the clit is mighty.
“The clitoris is made up of erectile tissue (and has, on average, as much surface area as a penis when engorged),” says sex and intimacy coach Irene Fehr .”When fully engorged, it actually enables the woman to enjoy sexual contact and stimulation to the fullest—and that includes penetration. That’s because the clitoris is part of a system— an orchestra if you will—of internal organs that allow the entire act of sex to be pleasurable. With sensual stimulation of the entire body and the clitoris itself, the blood rushes to the organ, and it begins to thump with pleasurable sensations such as tingling, swelling, and heat, and it allows for the whole orchestra to burst into music.”
Told you the clit was the star of the show. Here are some expert-approved tips for how to make sure you’re giving it the attention it deserves, so you can feel exactly the kind of pleasure you deserve, too.
According to Fehr, sensual stimulation is a way to tease and awaken the body, so that arousal builds and builds “until it’s ready to overflow into an orgasm or into the desire to have penetration.” She suggests using slow and sensual touch on the entire body (not just the clitoris) and starting from the outside in. “The clitoris and the vagina should be the last in the order of what gets stimulated.” She suggests moving from the underarms, to the chests and breasts (“without touching the nipples”), to the inner thighs. Once you reach your genitals, “start with the external labia and move inward.” Fehr also suggests varying the level and speed of your touch, from light to firm, or slow to fast. “By going slowly, you allow the body and the clitoral network to awaken, to come alive, and to become engorged at its own speed. It allows the nervous system to settle, feel safe, and open up to more.”
This genius tip comes courtesy of Carmel Jones, sex and relationships expert . If you have a very sensitive clitoris, touching it directly can feel like over-stimulation, Jones explains. For folx with ultra-sensi clits, put two fingers up like you’re making a peace sign, and press the peace sign just outside your clitoris, on your outer labia, Jones suggests. From there, you can either move your fingers up and down (imagine you are playing two keys on piano), or gently massage your fingers together and then apart. Both these motions can stimulate your clitoris without direct contact, Jones says. For even more of a buffer, Jones also says you can also try doing the peace sign method or other masturbation techniques over a pair of undies or a light blanket.
Your clit is like an iceberg — there are a ton more nerves under the surface, and the part you can see and touch is really just a small portion of it. Your clit actually extends around your vaginal opening and is shaped kinda like a wishbone. “Most vulva owners are only aware of the top of the clitoris that is typically rubbed to reach orgasm,” explains Malika O’Neill , sex expert and owner of The Pleasure Collective . Massage your labia and the area right above the clit wishbone legs for even more stimulation. You can also extend your touch even further and massage your vaginal opening, perineum (between your vagina and anus), inner thighs, and anus, O’Neill suggests. If you want even deeper sensation, O’Neill recommends using an external vibrator on those areas to try to get even more zuzh out of your anatomy.
The skin that covers your clit is your clitoral hood, and it’s essentially like a foreskin for your clit. You can work the clitoral hood into your masturbation sessions as well. O’Neill suggests gently gripping the skin between your thumb and pointer finger and experimenting with pressure until you find something that feels pleasurable for you. From there, you can try different motions like moving your hand or fingers up and down. To help you visualize it, you’re essentially giving your clit a mini-hand job, as O’Neill explains.
To “rub” your clit is a pretty broad directive, so sometimes it can be helpful to know exactly what to do and how to move your fingers or hands. O’Neill suggests experimenting with diagonal movement for more pleasure. “Take two to three fingers, flatten them, and gently rub your clit back and forth in diagonal motions, increasing in speed and intensity as you desire.” This can be great if you have a sensitive clit or if you’re just looking to change things up.
Sex and relationships educator Kate McCombs suggests putting a quarter-sized drop of lube on your fingers and using it to gently massage your clitoris. You can also put your fingers on either side of your clitoris and move slowly up and down your inner labia, AKA the folds of skin immediately surrounding your clit. The lube lets you slow down and really focus on smooth, continuous motions so you can figure out what feels good. Not everyone likes friction!
Some women find that consistency, rather than increased pace, is what gets them off. To test this theory, use one or two fingers to make steady circles around or on the top of your clitoris. You can vary up the speed, but once you find something that feels good, try and stick with it for a few minutes and see what happens.
A twist on the above: still steady, but this time, make it a tapping motion! This can tire out your hand after a bit but it allows you to play with pressure. Do you like taps that feel a bit heavier, like a rub, or lighter, like a cool ocean breeze here to deliver you bomb-ass orgasms?
This strategy comes courtesy of OMGYes , a site devoted to understanding how women get off. Try using both hands . One hand slowly circles the entrance of your vagina without penetrating, while the other draws circles on your clitoris more quickly. The increase of sensation variety might be exactly what you need
Put your thing down, flip it, and reverse it. If you're someone who's into rubbing your clit against a surface (#TBT dry humping), you might want to see what happens when you masturbate face-down on your bed. That way you can still use your hands, but you'll also be free to grind against your mattress or a pillow for a little extra oomph.
At the end of the day, vibrators are a great option for people whose hands get tired or, let's be real, if you happen to have long fingernails. Basically, vibrators are for everyone. They're A++++ for experimenting because most toys these days vary in both speed and pattern of vibration. You can find a stellar list of clit-centric vibrators right this way . (Just make sure yours is fully charged before you start going at it.)
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Additional Stimulation Use lube: Dry fingers will probably irritate your clitoris. Apply a dab of your favorite personal lubricant to your fingers before rubbing your clitoris for a more comfortable experience. Add a tingling cream: Apply a drop or two of scream cream to your fingers and add a buzzing, cooling, or warm sensation to your rubbing. Use a vibrator: If you want to ensure you orgasm quickly or just need more stimulation, press a small vibrator against your clitoris during intercourse.
Two-thirds of women can’t have an orgasm from intercourse alone. While intercourse feels great, most women need more than that to reach orgasm. Button Rub is an intercourse technique that is an excellent, simple way to get the clitoral stimulation she needs to reach orgasm during intercourse.
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Your clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings; that’s twice as many as your husband’s penis . The single purpose for your clitoris is to give you pleasure . God created you this way. Clitoral stimulation is the most common avenue for a woman’s orgasm.
So, do you see where I’m going with this? You or your husband need to stimulate your clitoris during sex. The easiest and most effective method of stimulating your clitoris during intercourse is to use a few fingers to rub your clitoris while making love to your husband. The missionary position while your husband holds his upper body up with his arms is the easiest sex position to try the button rub technique in.
I know, I know, you might have been taught not to touch yourself down there because it’s masturbating. Or, maybe you feel that touching yourself like that is dirty. But God gave you a clitoris to provide you with pleasure, and it’s not in your vagina. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you or your husband stimulating your clitoris while making love or during foreplay for that matter. God created you with a clitoris for a reason. Enjoy it with your husband.
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