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“Aye, there’s the rub.” Use your hand, fingers, or a sex toy to slide up and down or back and forth across your clitoris and clitoral hood. “Tap dance.” A gentle tapping motion on your clit and hood can help you slowly build to orgasm. Speed it up as you wish. “Get in the grind.” No hands required, and no need to take off your clothes. (It can be better if you leave those jeans on!) Straddle a pillow and grind your pelvis to get yourself there. “Peace pinch.” Use your first two fingers like a peace sign to softly pinch your clitoral hood and gently tug up and down, or slide your fingers in a back-and-forth motion. “Orbit the planet.” Use your finger to trace slow circles around your clit and hood, touching your labia in the process. “Fun zones.” Because of the unique shape of the clitoris, you may become aroused and even achieve orgasm by massaging other erogenous zones, on their own or along with the clitoris. Try your labia, vaginal opening, inner thigh, perineum, and anus. Lie on your belly and reach backward for easier access to everything, including the clit. This is also a great position to get your grind on while touching the rest of your sexy self. “Penetration station.” The internal structures of the clitoris encircle the vaginal canal, so penetrating your vagina with your fingers or a sex toy can bring bliss. Combine with any of the above external stimulating techniques for a double delight. “Good vibes.” You can use a vibrating sex toy to enhance or practice any method mentioned above. Vibrators can be especially good for those who need to put minimal movement on their hands or wrists. Use the lowest setting first and rev as desired.
Glans clitoris. This is the external nub we think of when picturing the clitoris. Even though it’s ‘the size of a pea,’ it holds thousands of nerve endings. Clitoral hood. We all like a good hoodie, and the clitoris is no different. The labia minora connect to form the clitoral hood . When you’re aroused, the hood retracts slightly to expose the glans. If you have a hooded clitoris, don’t worry, its normal. Clitoral body. The clitoral body is internal. It connects to the glans and is suspended from the pubic bone via a ligament. Corpora cavernosa. The clitoral body consists of two corpora cavernosa that become erect during arousal. Paired crura. The clitoral body branches off to form two appendages. These “legs” straddle the urethra and the vaginal canal and become engorged with blood when you’re turned on. Vestibular bulbs. The vestibular bulbs form an upside-down heart shape, with the urethra and the vaginal canal at the heart’s cleavage. The bulbs reach through and behind the labia, around the vaginal canal, and toward the anus. They also swell when you’re hot and bothered.
Switch the direction of your rub. Add or subtract pressure. Alter or mix techniques. Speed or slow the rhythm. Change the number of fingers. Add or change toys. Switch between external stim and vaginal penetration.
Medically reviewed by Janet Brito, Ph.D., LCSW, CST — Written by Jennifer Chesak — Updated on November 28, 2018
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And if you have a clitoris, the more you know about it, the more options you’ll be able to explore en route to achieving satisfaction. (Or, if you’re aiming to please someone who has a clitoris, you can work with your partner to discover the techniques that take them to tingle town.)
We’ve reached out to experts and research to put together a guide for flying solo and giving or receiving some seriously satisfying clitoral stimulation. After all, getting busy with your own bod can help you chuck unwanted inhibitions.
Plus, find out the truth about clitoral anatomy. It’s more than just a tiny hotspot.
Throw out any taboos or guilt surrounding masturbation right now.
You won’t go blind. You won’t get addicted. And, no, it’s not cheating on a partner. It’s more than about feeling great, too.
Pleasuring yourself has health benefits that go beyond the body — it can help untangle shame that affects confidence with yourself, partnered sex, or in a relationship.
“It’s hard to know what to ask for from your partner if you don’t know what you like,” says Diana Sadat , a sex therapist and clinical counselor in Vancouver, British Columbia.
“Masturbation is a chance to explore what feels good. You may notice that stimulating in round patterns feels better than up and down, or that you enjoy stimulation using your inner labia over your clitoris rather than direct clitoral stimulation.”
Start out soft and slow and then apply more pressure or speed as your body asks for it.
A little teasing yourself can also amp up the pleasure and save on hand cramps. Begin, stop for a few seconds, and then delve back in. Repeat as necessary.
Different techniques can elicit different types of pleasure, and how you go about stimulating yourself is completely up to you.
Sadat just has one universal tip: Give your bod a chance to warm up.
“It takes your clitoris some time to get aroused and for blood to begin to flow,” she explains. “So begin to stroke around your clitoris, touching your labia without directly going for the clit for a bit until you feel ready for that type of stimulation.”
Before we go any further on this stimulating topic, we’ve got to debunk the inaccurate concept that the clitoris is just a mini, pea-sized version of the penis.
As reported by the Atlantic , the clitoris is actually shaped more like a wishbone.
But even that comparison doesn’t come close to celebrating its glory. The full anatomy of the clitoris looks like an upside-down flower with large petals extending inside the body that embrace the vaginal canal. It can even become erect when aroused.
So in that regard, don’t focus only on what you see and can touch externally. If we touched penises based on that mentioned myth, we’d only be touching the tip and missing out on bigger pleasures.
That elusive ‘G-spot’ is not hiding inside the vagina like a secret unicorn.
Research indicates that it’s likely the place where your clitoris meets the anterior (front) vaginal wall. This is where the clit’s bulbs form a heart shape that hugs the canal.
So for people who have vaginas, the orgasm probably really is all about the clitoris, but we can stimulate it indirectly from inside the vagina, directly from outside the vagina, or both .
If you’re wondering how to find that spot internally without turn-by-turn directions from Siri, you’re not alone.
According to Our Bodies Ourselves , you should try reaching about a third of the way from the vaginal opening and playing with a mix of pressure and stimulation on the front (or upper) wall to see what feels good. It may take some practice and experimentation to locate.
Don’t get frustrated if vaginal penetration doesn’t make you come, even if you’ve found that extra sensitive internal trigger spot.
In a recent study on the female orgasm, only 18 percent of American women said that vaginal penetration alone could give them the big O. Other respondents in the study said they either needed direct clit stim (about 37 percent) to get them there, or that it greatly ramped up their climaxing pleasure (about 36 percent).
Knowing every part of your clitoris is kind of like putting together a unique outfit. Each of our bodies and the makeup below is different.
For some people, playing with the clitoral hood brings pleasure, while for others, the vestibular bulbs bring on all the sensation. You don’t have to address every part, just the ones that work for you.
And that may change as you age or explore, and it may be different when you’re with a new partner.
If you’re the clitoris owner, don’t be shy about letting on about your stimulation likes or dislikes. There’s also no shame in making all the contact you want with your own clit during a sexual encounter!
If you’re dating someone with a clitoris, don’t be afraid to ask about your partner’s desires too. Frame the question around how invested you are in discovering their pleasure points and taking the time to do so — without placing pressure on them to perform.
Experimenting (with consent), vocalizing (no, you don’t have to be a screamer unless you want to), and listening to desires are all equally important when it comes to having sex with someone.
That go-to spot that felt good last week? It may have moved two inches over to a new spot!
You just never know, and that’s why we’re giving out all the options on giving and receiving clitoral stimulation.
Many penetrating positions (whether using a penis, hand, or toy) allow for either a partner’s hand, your own hand, or even both, to play with the clitoris and clitoral hood.
Grind your clit on an artfully placed pillow or bunched-up blankets while your partner penetrates your vagina with a penis, toy, or fingers from behind.
Use the furniture for support, especially when you want to stimulate yourself with your hand during a from-behind penetration.
Kneel on a pillow on the floor and lean your bod against the mattress so you don’t have to balance with one arm. A headboard or sofa back work well too.
Your partner’s pelvis is a great tool for clit stim. It can help if your bae is in a seated or slightly reclined position when you straddle them and slide up and down, rubbing your clit and hood on their pubic bone or belly.
For added oomph, you or your partner can place a lubed-up finger or thumb beneath the clit. Vaginal penetration with a penis or toy is optional but can heighten the fun.
The reverse cowgirl position has you straddling your partner, facing away from them. If you and your partner both have a clitoris, slide several pillows under your partner’s pelvis to do the ride and glide in reverse while also tilting their clit toward you for easy hand or even oral access.
If your partner has a penis, opt for vaginal penetration. Your partner can also reach a hand around and stimulate your clit, or you can do it the way you like best.
This is a twist on the reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling both your partner’s legs, straddle just one.
Your partner should bend their knee so you can ride up and down the thigh. Vaginal penetration with a penis, hands, or toy works well here.
Try oral action, with the tongue gently circling the clitoris and hood with a mix of pressure.
If a certain technique doesn’t get your headspace on cloud nine, alone or with a bed mate, don’t stress.
Clitoral stimulation isn’t a one-size-fits-all ritual. Mix it up until you find the position, pressure, and rhythm that feels good to you.
Keep in mind that we’ve only had 3-D imagery of the full clitoral structure for about a decade when researchers finally produced a sonography of it. That means before 2008, not much was understood about the clit’s really cool internal parts and how they interact with the rest of the genital area.
And we’ve still got a lot to learn about it.
Scientific research may lag behind on studying the clit, but that’s all the more reason for you to do your own independent (or partnered) study on what gets you off!
Last medically reviewed on November 15, 2018
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Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole?” Then read this…
T ransforming yourself into the sissy of your dreams can be one of the more exciting and erotic adventures you will ever embark upon. It can also seem overwhelming at times. I mean, here’s just a partial list of things that go into the making of a sissy:
All this can make a pretty girl’s mind become blurry behind a cloud of disarray.
And of course, we want all of those sissy things right NOW!
At some point though, your sissy fantasies will come face-to-face with bare-knuckled reality.
The truth of the matter is that your sissification will be a process. A sometimes intense, frequently challenging, but extremely satisfying journey that isn’t going to happen overnight.
Becoming a serious sissy will give you a healthy appreciation as to how much work is involved for a genetic girl to look as good as she does. As a sissy, since your starting off with a boy’s body, you’re gonna have to work even harder than your female counterparts.
The proper sissy perspective is to learn to accept and enjoy the entire sissification process.
When you see a photo of a drop-dead gorgeous crossdresser, it can be illuminative to view her as an iceberg. You are only seeing the top 10% of her, the part that shows.
What isn’t readily apparent is the time she’s spent dieting, exercising, applying make-up, enduring laser hair removal treatments or how many cocks she’s had to suck in order to afford the expensive lingerie and high heels that she’s wearing.
It’s the same with you. Snapping your fingers (with their prettily polished nails I hope), and magically transforming yourself into the perfect sissy would take all the fun and excitement out of things.
It would be like showing up before the start of a football game and have the PA announcer proclaim that instead of playing the game, the final score will be 24-20… everyone can go home now. Both the players and the fans would exit the stadium feeling frustrated and cheated out of experiencing the excitement and drama of how that final score came about.
So, in the spirit of appreciating and enjoying your sissification , let’s take a brief look of how the process might play out, for each of the above checked items.
Keeping your body smooth and sexy typically starts with shaving your legs. Many male athletes shave their legs on a regular basis so this will not draw any unusual attention to yourself. It only takes about five minutes… once you get good at it.
The next logical progression would be to shave your entire body. This is becoming much more widely accepted now-a-days so any hang-ups you have about it are in your head and no one else’s.
We’re talking anywhere from ten to fifteen minutes to shave all over but as your sissification process intensifies, it’s a commitment you’re more than happy to submit to. Once every week or so will be often enough, but going longer in-between shaves can definitely turn it into a chore—as well as increase the time it takes.
I eventually began to shave two or three times per week. The shorter the hair, the quicker and easier shaving becomes. By shaving more often you can enjoy having a silky smooth body most all of the time.
Many sissies will stop at shaving but the next step in the process would be to remove the hairs from their follicles by either waxing or epilating. I have personally moved on to the epilator.
Epilating will take some getting used to, especially for the chest area. Hair grows in cycles, so when you’re shaving, all of the hairs are front-and-present at the surface of the skin. Once you begin to epilate though, you will only be dealing with around one-third of them at any one time.
That’s the reason that in between epilating sessions, the hair that grows back will be less dense. Also, since you’re no longer blunt cutting the hairs off with a razor, the hairs will be and feel finer since the virgin, un-cut tips will be pointier and thus narrower.
If you choose to epilate , the first time is the worst as you will be pulling all of the hair from their follicles at once. Subsequently, things get much easier as you’re only dealing with one hair growing cycle at a time. Plus, your skin (and follicles) will adjust appropriately, making the procedure much more bearable.
Don’t believe in the myth that using an epilator will leave your skin hair free for two to three weeks at a time. In my experience, that’s not the case. I have settled into a routine of epilating once per week and then shaving afterwards.
Epilation doesn’t get every single hair, plus you won’t want to let that devious device come anywhere near your private parts, so shaving is still a necessity. Still, my once every week epilating/shaving ritual pretty much leaves my skin smooth and silky for the whole week.
The final step in the sissy hair removal process would be, of course, undergoing a more permanent procedure—either laser treatment or electrolysis. If you’ve got the money, that may be the best way to go.
Other than makeup, nothing will make you look more beautiful and convincing as a sissy than a slim, trim and sexy body. Like everything else about becoming the best sissy you can be, losing weight is definitely a process.
A really great way to begin that process is with this program . It shows you a different method of eating that is an extremely effective way to shed unwanted pounds. It’s the way I eat now.
Look, just about any sissy (or anyone else for that matter) can lose 20-25 pounds in two or three months buy eliminating all crummy carbs from their diet. 99% of the time however that weight WILL eventually come back on. Why? Because to keep the weight off permanently, the image you have of your ideal sissy weight must match (be in vibrational alignment) with what you really think is possible for you.
It can be incongruent for your inner-self to bridge the reality gap between a 185 pound macho man and a 135 pound svelte sissy. It’s problematic to reconcile that large of a discrepancy between your current weight and what you would like to tip the scales at in a more feminine form. The psychological term for this is ‘cognitive dissonance’.
Instead of trying to radically change your inner-most held beliefs about your body weight (which closely coincides with what you weigh right now), it’s much wiser to make it a long term—are you ready for this?—process.
Numerous studies have shown that if you can manage to stabilize your weight for a year , that weight will become your new norm and will likely stay off permanently. It works because you now hold a justifiable inner-belief that this is what you’re supposed to weigh… because that’s what you actually have weighed for an entire year!
Being able to compartmentalize your weight in 10 pound ‘stages of stability’ seems to work well. Allow me to use myself as an example… again. In 2017 my scale showed me in the 150 pound range. Most of 2018 saw my weight in the 140’s. 2019 arrived and I now weigh-in at 135. For my 5’7″ height, I think I’m looking pretty damn good! By the time the end of 2019 rolls around, I’ll hopefully be a perfect (for me) 127 pounds.
If you want to be a slim and sexy sissy, you may want to adopt the mentality of Kate Moss:
“Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels”
Sissies and super models have something in common. They’re both willing to starve themselves down to achieve the desired—and required—look.
If there’s one thing that can make-or-break a sissy it’s her makeup.
If there’s one thing about sissification that screams ‘process’, it’s makeup. If you’re not working on perfecting your makeup skills on a consistent basis, then your results in that department will be marginal at best.
Think of it like this… if genetic girls are practicing putting on makeup everyday for years, how are you going to get really good with a once-a-month routine?
Start regularly watching makeup videos on YouTube. Take notes. Buy more makeup. Decide on the sissy image you want your face to project. Promise yourself that you will practice getting that sissy face of yours all dolled up once a week for a year. Do this and you will be amazed by how hot you will become!
Most sissies start off with a cheap, costume type wig. They then graduate to a more expensive, synthetic—maybe already styled—hairpiece. It’s fine to stop here as there are a multitude of moderately priced synthetic wigs now available that are truly stunning.
The next step up with the hair process would be a human hair wig. I recently bought a Remy Hair wig on eBay and didn’t realize that many wigs that don’t come pre-styled will need to be ‘cut-in’. The bangs may be too long for your liking or there may just be too much hair, especially in the front, that makes styling it impossible or at the very least, unmanageable.
If you don’t know what you’re doing, please don’t try to cut your new wig yourself! Make an appointment with a hairstylist, preferably one that has some experience with cutting wigs, and let them take care of you. I had to climb out of my comfort zone to make an appointment with a stylist to cut-in my wig-with-too-much-hair… but it turned out to be no big deal. Allowing yourself to be uncomfortable at times is just part of the process of being a sissy.
If you want to feel ultra-feminine on a daily basis, upgrading your nails will add an extra—and necessary—touch of class. Push the cuticles back and then let them grow out a little longer. Then file the sides so they look narrower and more lady-like. Finally, shape the tips to your liking.
Having a bit of white showing beyond the tips of your fingers—french style—looks oh-so feminine. If your daring, put a coat of clear-matte polish on them and… dare someone to say something.
As a sissy, one of the most important requirements you should have for yourself is to foster an addiction for high heels . Ideally, you should become so comfortable wearing them when standing, sitting and walking, that you feel weird not wearing them.
There is no article of feminine attire that is more gorgeous than a sexy pair of high heels. But then you gotta be able to stand up and walk in them.
Many women advise a process of starting off small, with a 2 inch heel. Then gradually working up to 3 inches. Finally, when your ready, graduate up to 4 inch heels. But remember, these are real girls doling out this advice.
To begin with, no sissy worth her shapely shaved legs should ever put her pretty little feet into a pair of heels anything less than 4 inches tall—and I’m not talking platforms sweetie!
Also, I’m going to turn conventional high heel wisdom on its heel. I recommend starting off with 5″ heels, and then practice walking in them like there’s no fucking tomorrow. Your ‘stiletto skills’ will improve faster than you would think, if you strut around in them on a regular basis.
Concentrate on perfect high heel posture:
Once you’ve mastered a 5 inch heel, wearing 4 inch pump will be like taking a stroll in the park—which you will be able to do—if you follow this process. For an exemplary example of impeccable high heel form, watch Claire Underwood (Robin Wright) in Netflix’s “The House of Cards” confidently strut about the oval office in her heels.
Your goal is to learn to walk better in high heels than 90% of genetic girls. To be blatantly blunt, that won’t be too difficult for you to accomplish.
Dressing the sissy part is mostly a process of consistently adding to your girly wardrobe. Buying bras, panties, nylons, heels and dresses; not to mention accessories such as jewelry, purses and what-not is an expensive proposition, if you haven’t already noticed.
The fun part about acquiring feminine articles of clothing is that the more you buy, the more you want. One pair of panties leads to a pair for every day of the week. Bras beg for breastforms—one of my most cherished purchases ever, BTW. A pair of high heels can, and should, lead to at least a dozen more. Pretty dresses are to die for and you will want several in your closet.
Speaking of which… the inside of your closet will take on a process of metamorphosis. At first your male clothes may outnumber your girly stuff by 10 to 1. But that’s gonna change sweetie. That ratio should constantly be tilting toward the feminine. Begin by getting rid of all male clothing that you haven’t worn in a year. You won’t miss it.
Now you have plenty of room for your new sissy wardrobe. That ratio—male-to-female— will even-out at 50/50 before too long. Eventually your closet will be 90% filled with with ultra-feminine sissy things. Your panty-encased clitty should be twitching at that thought.
I hate to bring this up, but along the way—unfortunately—you will most likely go through a ‘purging process’ where, in disgust, you hide/put away and maybe even throw out or give away your girly clothes.
Don’t you dare do it sweetie! Purging is a normal part of the sissification process. It will pass. The overwhelming urge to be the sissy you were born to be isn’t going anywhere for long—it will return—usually with a vengeance.
Try to maintain a sense of maturity about the matter, and be ready to resume the process of buying even more gorgeous clothes when your sissy desires return… as they always do.
Sounding and acting like a girl is a process all of its own. Girls stand, sit, walk, cross their legs and eat differently than boys. As a sissy you’ve got some catching up to do. Perfecting a girly posture and adopting feminine mannerisms will take some time. Moving and acting as a male for most of your life will take some informed education and conscious re-wiring on your part… but it’s definitely doable.
Talking like a lady will probably be more challenging, but just like everything else about becoming a sissy, if you’re serious, you’ll find time to watch some of the awesome vocal feminization videos on YouTube.
If you really desire to stay in the ‘sissy fast lane’ you will want to start limiting your male masturbation/orgasm habit. After a male orgasm, your sissy desires will typically wane… and that’s not a good thing, not if you aspire to be a serious sissy.
One way to proceed with this process is to start limiting your orgasms to once per week, and then allow yourself to cum only like a real girl. It’s called nubbing. Here’s how you do it:
Put on a pair of panties and tuck your limp sissy clitty down between your legs. I always buy panties where the crotch lining is open at the top, forming a pouch of sorts. I can then tuck my sissy clit down inside that pouch. It’s a tight fit, which is what you want. Then put on a bra and insert your breast forms. Finally, slip into a pair of sexy heels and lie down on your back.
Now that you’re properly prepped, began to lightly rub/nub the head of your panty encased clitty with one manicured finger—either the index or middle—only. This will take awhile, anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes, but eventually you will experience an extremely satisfying orgasm… kind of like a real girl would have.
It will build slowly, culminating in a very intense, long lasting climax. Your sissy juice will be deposited inside the pouch of the panties. Your sissy clit will most likely stiffen up a bit during the nubbing, but eventually you will train it to stay limp all the way to the end (aka limp clitty training).
By becoming a sissy, you are voluntarily forfeiting your right to manly ways of orgasm. Consequently, this will be your default way to achieve orgasm; cumming just like a girl does. No more fucking girls. Sissies don’t fuck… they get fucked! No more jerking off. That’s NOT what sissies do!
This is how you will cum from now on… once per week at the very most. Over time, extend the interval to two weeks, then three and finally, stay chaste for an entire month.
If you’re weak, a chastity device—coupled with a keyholder—will ensure that you don’t cheat. You want to maintain a constant state of low-level horniness which is the normal and preferred psychological place that you, as a sissy, should become extremely comfortable with. Having sex on your mind 24/7 will only enhance your sissy experience. Being denied for a month will also properly prepare you for the next step in the sissification process.
All sissies should aspire to reach this advanced level of sissification, which is training/programming yourself to cum by stimulation of the prostate gland only. What this means is that you will be moving past the point of needing any direct stimulation of your sissy clitty to cum… ever again!
This is gonna take some time princess, so be patient with yourself. To achieve this lady-like level of femininity, you will need a dildo or a prostate massager. I have a Nexus Revo—like the one pictured below—but it is a bit pricey. TooTimid.com has a fairly extensive selection of prostate massagers .
Although I have yet to cum this way, I’ve heard that prostate orgasms are of the toe-curling/pure-ecstasy variety. Sissies that have experienced these girly-girly-cums say they would never go back to their manly ways of getting off, as those types of O’s pale in comparison.
The ultimate sissy orgasmic experience might be to cum this way with a man inside of you, if that happens to be your thing.
If you would like to read more about how to delicously cum like a girl, then you might be interested in my article, A Guide to the Elusive Sissygasm .
As you’ve figured out by now, there’s quite a lot involved in becoming a sissy. Each area can make for an intensive study on its very own. Becoming sissified requires patiently following a sometimes scary, but always adventurous, path.
One thing that’s becoming very clear to me—once you arrive at a certain point in this sissification process—it will be too late to turn back.
Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole? ”
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