Rope For Bdsm

Rope For Bdsm
Aliyah Moore January 23, 2022 May 12, 2020
• color variety • soft and smooth • easy to find • no allergies
• durable • breaks in quickly • bends well • nice sheen • feels great against skin • maintains shape
• durable • cheap • easy to find • easy to clean • moderately flexible • low stretch
• cheap • easy to find • smooth and soft on the skin • easy to clean
• flexible • low stretch • high durability • very high strength • good grip • good for suspension bondage
• poor tooth (friction) • not quite as strong as other ropes • not good for suspension • susceptible to friction damage
• more expensive than other synthetic rope • more slippery (you will need to use knots to make sure)
• knots compact • slippery • stiff compared to other ropes • not as soft as other synthetic rope
• hard to dye • bad tooth • slippery • rope burns likely • a lot of stretch • knots compact
• quite stiff • plastic-feeling • limited color • quality varies widely
• flexible • holds decorative knots well • great sheen • pretty good grip • strong • lightweight • easy to dye • traditional shibari rope
• expensive • not so durable • needs time to be broken in • washing degrades fibers • slower to tie with • needs care and attention
• great grip • strong • super flexible • smell earthy (good for sensual play) • machine washable • soft feel • variety of colors • traditional shibari rope
• lower sheen (not as aesthetically pleasing) • expensive • quality can vary greatly • can shed fibers • washing weakens the rope • can be a little scratchy on the skin
• good tooth • easier to tie • soft but will leave rope marks (a pro if you want marks!) • flexible • good strength • no need to break it in
• expensive • harder to clean • not as durable as other natural fibers
• cheap • decent tooth (friction) • washable • pretty strong • soft on skin • possible to dye it • lightweight
• knots can be impossible to untie • gets dirty easily • needs softening after washing • can stretch over time
• flexible • soft texture • moderate friction • low stretch • shine – looks great! • bamboo silk has natural • antibacterial properties
• quite expensive (luxury choice of rope) • not as durable
• cheap • moderate friction • low stretch • fairly durable • moderate strength
• stiff • splinter easily • harsh texture • not considered strong enough for suspension
Itching to find out the best rope for bondage that will give you the most satisfaction? Saddle up because you are in for a treat!
Ever since my first serious girlfriend bound me with my own pantyhose, I’ve been fascinated with restraint play.
But when I started exploring the world of ropes I suddenly found myself tied in knots…
I’m pretty impatient and wanted to get started with the best bondage rope.
I soon realized that there isn’t just ONE best rope for bondage , but ropes better suited for different types of rope bondage experience levels.
At the end of the day, learning the ropes (yep, rope puns!) takes time, effort, and patience.
But where there’s a will, there’s a rope!
So, whether you’re a rope bondage beginner or Shibari master, a rigger or top (rope giver) or a bottom (rope receiver), we’re here to help untangle the details.
Doc Johnson Japanese-Style Bondage Rope
DeGiotto Bamboo Silk Bondage Rope Kit
Comfortable with your beginner ropes and ready to take it up a notch?
Bamboo silk is a popular progression choice. It’s super soft with a very low tooth (friction) which makes it really easy to tie.
AND it feels amazing as it glides over the body… I just got shivers!
For the best silk rope, hit up deGiotto ropes . Giotto Shelton has been a rigger, Shibari educator, and rope maker for almost 10 years and is a bondage household name.
His bamboo silk bondage rope kit includes 4 x 30ft ropes and 2x15ft ropes, handcrafted from 70% bamboo and 30% silk to combine strength and sensuality.
The kit is a little on the pricey side at $200 so you will need to weigh up how much you want to spend on such delicate ropes. With moderate use, they will last about six months.
If you only bring out the bondage gear every once and a while to spice things up, then they should last longer and will be well worth the price tag.
BUT, if you want more silk time for less cash …opt for a Silk Binding Sash . While it’s not technically ‘rope’, it’s sexy, it’s silky, and gives you plenty of bondage options.
This rope is a great option when you want quality at value.
This rope is super soft, feels luxurious yet the knots stay in place so it should keep both top and bottom happy!
The 10meters length is plenty for bedroom bondage for beginners and more experienced rope lovers.
It is just one rope though, so if you decide to cut it to give more bondage options, just be aware that it will fray .
But you can easily sort that out by taping, whipping, or knotting the ends (more on this below).
If that isn’t budget enough, then you can also pick up your own length of rope from any hardware store. If you do, stick to a braided cotton rope .
Because it’s cheap, it’s strong, has decent friction, it’s washable, and if you want to get fancy, you can also dye it.
Shibari is an exact art and if you’ve made it to this level of bondage, then you take your rope choice super seriously. As you should!
Shibari literally translates from Japanese as “decoratively tie” and the traditional rope for this ancient art is jute.
Hemp is also widely used but shibari purists will say this is Westernized fusion bondage and not strictly Shibari!
But jute isn’t the Shibari rope of choice just out of tradition. It’s lighter, more flexible, and holds knots extremely well.
Of course, jute ropes don’t come cheap but buying a full kit can save you some cash for your kink!
Check out Esinem Rope; they offer quality specialist rope without the specialist price tag.
They have a variety of jute rope kits including an “Extra Kit” for the shibari veteran ready to take their ropes off the ground (suspension!):
Bear in mind that the Esinem jute ropes can be a little stiff at the beginning . But this is pretty standard for jute and they will soften with use.
Update : Esinem wasn’t available so linking to the next best option:
A great go-to rope for beginners in bondage use is cotton .
It’s affordable (so you won’t waste money if you decide it’s not your thing), it’s super soft and strong.
Cotton also holds knots well– a little too well at times! But it’s also really easy to cut with scissors , giving you added peace of mind as you start out.
The Curiosity Cotton Kit from is a great place to start your rope journey as they come with a pair of safety scissors and a Getting Started DVD .
Of course, you can always go the DIY route…
For a DIY Rope Bondage Starter Kit, you’ll need one length of 30ft rope and two 15ft ropes. And a good pair of scissors.
Believe me…you will get yourself into a few tight spots in the beginning!
With just these 3 ropes, you’ll have plenty of options for a variety of ties.
For you kinksters looking to ‘edge’ up your scene, you can easily do so by choosing a rougher rope with a smaller diameter to increase pressure – great as a BDSM rope.
You can go for cheaper natural ropes such as sisal or manila, but what you save in cash, you lose in tooth and strength.
So, for the best quality rope and extra pain, reach for a 4.5mm jute rope .
It’s the perfect diameter and surface coverage to dig into the skin just enough to leave those pretty rope marks… such a delicious playtime reminder!
Jute is also a good choice for those into the more torture bondage (restraining the receiver in uncomfortable positions for long periods of time, often in suspension).
Jute is strong enough for suspension and the rougher texture heightens discomfort.
If you are suspending with jute, use a thicker diameter of rope to make sure it can support the receiver’s weight.
And while we are on the subject of suspension…
While jute is often used for suspension, hemp rope is stronger and since the suspension is one of the riskier rope type for bondage…factor in safety reasons first!
Thinner rope types can cause circulation problems and nerve damage.
Many riggers like hemp for the flexibility and tooth while rope receivers like it for its natural scent and the fact that it’s softer on the skin.
An 8mm hemp rope size is ideal for critical support lines but for other ropes, you can use the easier to maneuver 6mm hemp rope.
Twisted Monk has a great collection of hemp in a variety of colors and lengths so you can create your own suspension kit.
Get yourself 8-10 a long hemp rope (30ft) for a body harness and vertical lines. Then add a few shorter ropes (10ft or 5ft) for smaller body parts and utility lines.
Some people can be allergic to hemp, so if this is a concern for either top or bottom, then synthetic hemp or a reinforced jute will work.
Before you go rope shopping you need to think about what it is you want from your rope.
Do you want the ropes to simply look pretty?
…or something more functional in restraining?
If you’re a rope receiver, do you want a softer restraint?
…or something a little rough around the edges?
You need to ask these questions, because…
Shibari, the Japanese art of ‘decorative tying’ is restraining a partner for aesthetic purposes, such as erotic photography or for one’s own pleasure.
Best Ropes: Jute, hemp, or silk rope
Floor work is bondage which keeps the rope receiver in a submissive position on the floor, while bedroom bondage can be anything from light bondage to edge play.
Best ropes: Silk rope, silk sash, cotton rope or nylon rope
(For edge play – jute, or smaller diameter ropes)
Rope receiver is tied and hung, either completely or partially, from overhead suspension points.
Some rope purists out there will swear by one rope or the other. But to be honest, it really comes down to your personal preference and the type of bondage .
Generally, if you are a bondage beginner, start with nylon rope or cotton rope. They’re cheap so you won’t break the bank as you practice.
As your passion for rope grows, you’ll likely want to jump to the more specialized natural ropes of jute and hemp.
As mentioned earlier, you can pick up cheap ropes in local hardware stores. But if you want something that looks sexier than your garden rope, then you need to go online!
Luckily, there are loads of websites selling bondage rope for rope rookies and rigging pros alike.
The decision of rope should be made by both the rope giver and rope receiver.
The rigger may be the one in control of the rope but that should never override the receiver’s wants or needs.
They are giving up their body to you and the ropes, and that demands respect!
You’re just starting out, go for 5 x 7-8 meters for some body harnesses and sexy corsets. Plus a few shorter pieces, 3 x 3-4 meter ropes.
If you’re creating your own shibari kit or suspension kit , then you’re going to need a lot more. Basically, having more rope is better than not having enough.
You can always cut the rope, but you can’t magically make it longer!
Most synthetic ropes can be easily cleaned with a damp cloth or wet wipe.
Cotton and silk ropes should be hand-washed in cold water or on a delicate/lingerie machine wash. Then let them dry by hanging in loose coils.
Hemp ropes can be deep cleaned by popping them in a pillowcase and into the washer for a cold wash.
For looser weave jute ropes avoid the washing machine. This can open them up too much. Use a dishwasher instead!
After washing jute or hemp, dry them strung out like a washing line. Then treat them with a little rope oil to keep it’s conditioning process at a premium level.
New ropes are like new shoes, you gotta break them in otherwise, not only will they be tough to handle but they will cause rope burns when dragged across the skin.
To soften up your rope you can boil it for no more than a few minutes.
BUT never boil your jute as it will break down the weave. Work your jute ropes through your hands for a while and they will soften with use.
You can also break in polyester ropes by popping them in a wash/no-heat dry cycle. While synthetic hemp will soften with use.
There are various ways to avoid fraying or unraveling : but the main two are to whip it or knot it.
Whipping the ends leaves them flatter, allowing for a smoother flow when pulling the ropes. Other riggers prefer the knots as they are just sturdier and won’t come off mid-play.
No one wants to start a ‘scene’ by untangling ropes. But just as there are many different ropes, there are just as many ways to store them!
There is the Daisy Chain method , which is good for longer lengths but ropes stored for long periods of time in this way will get kinky…(and not in a good way!).
The best way to store jute rope is to hang it as this will let them air and keep them straight.
There are also easy to follow How-To videos on YouTube for correctly coiling Shibari ropes .
But I particularly like this coiling (or hank) method as it allows you to snap the rope out dramatically when it comes to the next playtime!
Rope play can be an absolute delight! But having the best rope for bondage can be the difference between bondage bliss and a nasty accident.
Choosing the right rope to add to your collection of the best bondage toys will mean maximum pleasure and just the right amount of pain!
Aliyah Moore (she/her) is our resident sex expert at SexualAlpha. She’s a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in Gender & Sexuality Studies. Aliyah is a proud Black, bi-sexual femme passionate about empowering minority voices to embrace their sexuality and identity. She loves to write about everything sexual wellness and gives no-nonsense sex and relationship advice.
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There are a variety of ropes which can be used for bondage, each with their own advantages and disadvantages. Natural fiber ropes such as cotton or woolen ropes are the best choice for bondage, as they are soft, pliable, and easy to handle. However, they do not have a lot of stretch so they may be less forgiving if tugged on too hard.
Nylon ropes are a good option for those who want something that is slightly more durable than natural fiber ropes, but still have a good amount of stretch. They can be slippery though so extra caution must be taken when using them. Polypropylene ropes are the most durable type of rope, but they lack both the flexibility and the stretch of natural fiber and nylon.
Different ropes have different characteristics and work better or worse for different things. Some bondage ropes are softer and more forgiving, making them good for beginners. Others are stronger and more durable, making them better for suspension.
When choosing a rope for bondage, it’s important to consider the following factors:
This write up is meant to guide you through buying your first rough sex ropes.
There are so many types of bondage ropes out there and you might have a rough time trying to figure out the best one. I will also review five of the best ropes for bondage that you can purchase online. I hope this post will come in handy when you are ready to shop.
If you are new to bondage sex, this is the type of rope you should invest in. You will be surprised by how soft the rope is. It is braided in a way that it won’t burn your skin or hands.
The durability of the Bontime rope is assured especially because it is pre-tied using a yellow thread on the ends. The good thing with this rope is that it is available in a variety of colors which include black, red, purple, brown, grey, navy blue, rose, beige and mixed colors.
Other than bondage sex, you can use this rope for art & craft projects, pet toys and outdoor activities. Bontime has a length of 32 feet and a diameter of 1/3 inches.
If you’ve tried different kinds of bondage ropes and none seems to work, you might consider the Fetish Fantasy Bondage Rope . This rope has been designed for bondage purposes only; this means that all its properties are perfect.
The Fetish Fantasy Bondage rope is made using Japanese silk to give it a smooth and soft touch. This rope is ideal for those who simply want to tie their lover’s hands and feet. You can also use it to create a strong body harness especially because it is 200 feet long and 1/4 inches thick.
In case you are looking for a rope that you can use to suspend your partner, the fetish fantasy bondage rope is not a good option. This rope was created for BDSM beginners which explains why it is not that strong. You can cut this rope into various sizes without experiencing any problems. Moreover, its fabric makes it easy to wash.
Doc Johnson is a reputable brand and when it comes to the adult world, it never disappoints in any way. The Doc Johnson Japanese Bondage Rope is a major contender in my list of the best ropes for bondage. They’ve created something that will allow you to show your partner the porn star side of you. Doc Johnson bondage rope is exactly the kind of rope you would want to tie your partner with.
Doc Johnson features a pleasant rope texture that does not irritate or chafe if used properly. Besides, It has been designed to retain its flexible strength. This rope allows both beginners and experienced BDSM players to enjoy the awesome pleasures of restraint.
There is no doubt that Shibari is one of the best ropes for bondage in the market. This rope has been made from natural hemp. Shibari has a braided design that prevents the rope from opening when contorted.
Moreover, the design gives the rope superior strength and most importantly, it prevents the rope from stretching. At least, you can use the rope to suspend your partner without worrying about breakage. I can assure you that Shibari is one of the most secure bondage ropes you can buy.
The quality and thickness of this rope allows you to suspend your lover without stretching or breaking. Moreover, it will serve you for a long time without having to replace it. You can count on the Shibari Hemp rope for all your bondage fantasies.
Sexy Slave also happens to be one of the best ropes for sex. This rope provides you with the opportunity to explore new positions and ideas.
Good news is that the package comes with 3 ropes and each is 32 feet. I bet you will have a lot of ideas to execute using this rope. Moreover, Sexy Slave is ideal for simple bindings and also complex bondage setups.
I like this rope because it so soft, non-slippery and pliable. At least you can tie this rope on bare skin without leaving burns on your partner. You can use this rope for restraint play, beginner rope bondage, role-play scenarios and erotic practices.
Well, not all ropes are good for bondage, some are rough and others are too weak.
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