Rope Bondage For Men

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Build trust, learn about your body, and get a little kinky.
A lot of people find it super sexy to tie up a partner —or be tied up by a partner—in the bedroom. In fact, BDSM (the B stands for "bondage") is the most common sexual fantasy among American adults, with 93% of men and 96% of women having fantasized about some aspect of it in the past.
If your curiosity about sexy physical restraints has led you to the internet, it's possible you've come across Shibari, or Japanese rope bondage.
“Shibari is not inherently sexual,” explains Sydona , a Shibari artist and instructor. “Many practice it as a form of meditation, as a tool to create connection and intimacy with a partner, or simply enjoy it because it’s beautiful,” she says. Nevertheless, Shibari can be used to spice things up in the bedroom or to add to your kinky repertoire.
Shibari is a contemporary form of rope bondage that originated in Japan, explains Midori , a sexologist, educator, and author of Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage . Sometimes it’s also called Kinbaku or Japanese bondage.
Shibari literally translates to “to tie” or “to bind,” adds Sydona: “It refers to intricate and beautiful knots and patterns used to restrain and give sensation to the body.”
The visual imagery dates back to how prisoners and criminals were restrained in Japan during the medieval and Edo periods (1200s CE to late 1800 CE), Midori says. “This fed the darker erotic imagination of kinky Japanese people, much in the same way that European medieval prison tools inspired Western BDSM —think crosses, manacles, and chastity devices."
Binding would also appear in specialty porn, other imagery, and underground adult entertainment venues in Japan. In World War II, some American soldiers saw Shibari and surreptitiously brought it back to the United States, Midori says. Cut to the '90s, and it was all over the Internet. “Today, it’s developed into a 21st-century form of pleasure craft,” she says.
There are certain common terms and phrases for Shibari practitioners. Sydona provided a list of some words that are commonly used:
Rigger/Rope Top: The person doing the tying.
Rope Bottom/Bunny: The person being tied.
Floor Tie: Rope work that is done exclusively on the floor.
Suspension: An advanced form of Shibari that includes lifting the body off the floor using only ropes.
Self-tie: When a person ties themself.
Midori adds that it’s important to have mutual “safe words” or “safe signals.” “These are words or signals to indicate that either one of you wants to change what’s happening,” she says. Many people tend to use the traffic light—green for keep going; yellow for I’m reaching my limit; and red for stop at once—but Midori encourages you to come up with the safe words that work best for you.
There are various reasons why someone may enjoy Shibari. “It may have to do with the feeling of letting go of control—or the feeling of surrendering during sex,” says Midori.
Some folks like the tactile sensation of the soft (or rough) rope against their skin. It can feel like a comforting, tight hug, Midori explains. It can also be a great addition to dominance and submission fantasy play . For some, “It can heighten sexual sensations and orgasms because of body position changes and muscle contractions,” Midori adds.
Something that particularly draws Sydona to Shibari is the intimacy it creates between her and the other person. “As a rigger, I can create a whole range of experiences for my bottom depending on what they desire,” she says. “Often the feeling desired is simply to be restrained, but sometimes it’s to feel beautiful, to feel shame, to feel sexy, to feel pain, and so on.” A rigger can create those feelings for someone with just their ropes.
Midori notes that some people think that all men top and all women bottom. “The reality is that people of all genders enjoy being tied up and tying up their lovers,” she says.
Just doing Shibari alone won’t automatically strengthen your relationship with your partner, says Midori. “But the communication required to plan it before, enjoy it during, and savor it after can strengthen a relationship,” she says, noting that this is also true for any BDSM play .
Sydona adds, “Shibari is a tool to learn about your partner’s body, to build trust between you and your partner, and to discover new and exciting intimacy.”
TwistedMonk is an exceptional rope vendor; it has free videos on their site that will get you started, says Midori. Sydona recommends Shibari Study , which is an online, subscription-based, anthology of classes and tutorials for all levels, taught by internationally renowned Shibari experts. You can also read, Midori’s book, Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage . There are even conferences, such as Rope Craft , where people come together to learn about Shibari and socialize.

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Founded in 2011, the LA Rope Dojo is dedicated to providing safe and traditional training in the Japanese art of kinbaku. We offer regular classes, workshops, intensives, and events to help build the LA rope and kinbaku community. We have brought Grandmaster Yukimura Haruki and rope master Akira Naka to Los Angeles to offer seminars and workshops.
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This video is the first Japanese instructional video focused exclusively on tying men. With English translation and interpretation, this video teaches you how to tie men from the most basic fundamentals to more advanced technique. Suitable for all levels of tying, there is something in this video for everyone. The video features discussion, hands on demonstration, close-up video of each tie, examples of how to use each tie to dominate and control your partner, and a full rope scene demonstration, The video includes a special section of penis bondage, with close up demonstration.
This video is more than a simple “how to tie.” It will teach you how to create amazing rope scenes for you and your partner to enjoy.
Introducing basic construction, application, and play styles
Using Rope (Maete and Gote Shibari)
Using rope for maximum effect, rope handling and placement for maximum effect
Using small diameter rope for cock and ball bondage as part of your rope play
Putting it all together to create effective and memorable rope scenes
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