Romantic Fingering

Romantic Fingering
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There are a lot of underrated sex acts , but here’s a big one you’ve probably been ignoring: fingering. Most adults tend to forget about fingering, but I’m going to show you why I think this act deserves a place in any couple’s sexual repertoire, and give you some tips for how to do it properly.
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Before we get into the details of how to become a fingering master, allow me to convince you why you should even bother in the first place.
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We tend to start our relationships being much more sexually creative and varied, but there’s something about having intercourse that seems to make people forget that other sexual activities are possible. Most established heterosexual couples have long since abandoned fingering. If they do it at all, they do what I call the “let-me-just-pop-my-finger-in-here-real-quick-to-make-sure-it’s-wet-enough-for-my-dick” move. Intercourse can be incredible, but it can also start to feel a little boring and predictable if it’s all you’re doing.
Having an entire sexual session where all you’re doing is fingering her can feel so refreshing and unexpected. Most women haven’t been thoroughly fingered in a very long time. For some, it might even date back to their junior high or high school days, furtively hiding in the back of the movie theater or behind the school gym. Fingering her will instantly breathe some new life into the bedroom, and will remind her that getting fingered used to feel—and can still feel—thrilling.
Every woman is different, of course, but I think many would agree that getting fingered feels phenomenal. Fingers can give much more focused, deliberate, and intense stimulation than any other body part. You can also use one hand inside of her and the other on her clitoris. The combination of internal and external sensations can feel incredible.
70% of women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Getting clitoral stimulation during intercourse is possible , but a lot of my female clients tell me they have a hard time focusing on their own pleasure during intercourse. They may feel too embarrassed to ask for clitoral stimulation, or too shy to reach down and do it themselves, and it’s logistically difficult in a lot of positions. Fingering is quite simply one of the easiest ways for women to reach orgasm. You can give her the exact kind of stimulation she needs.
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It’s so rare in life that we get the opportunity to just receive. Being able to soak up all of the attention without having to worry about our partner in that moment can feel like such a gift. Plus, being giving and generous towards her may evoke some warm fuzzy feelings for you, and may inspire her to reciprocate next time.
Now let’s get into the real nitty gritty of how to do the deed.
Ask her if she’ll let you finger her tonight. Build up some anticipation by sending her this article, or a sexy text. Let her know that tonight it’s going to be all about her, and her only. Tell her how excited you are to lavish attention on her gorgeous body.
Make sure your nails are trimmed and filed, and that you don’t have any bothersome hangnails. Do not cut your nails right before doing the deed, as they’ll be too sharp!
A good fingering requires good lube! I recommend high-quality silicone lubricant like Pjur Eros Bodyglide Original . Silicone lubes feel best against the skin. If you don’t have any on hand or can’t stop off at your friendly local sex shop, coconut oil can do the trick.
Spend plenty of time kissing her, slowly removing her clothes, and running your hands all over her body. Leave her underwear on, and trace your fingertips lightly over the fabric. You want her to be squirming with anticipation before actually getting down to business.
Get in a comfortable position that gives you good leverage with both hands. You can sit between her legs while she’s flat on the bed, or have her drape her legs off the edge of a bed or sofa while you kneel between her knees. Use your dominant hand on her clitoris, and your non-dominant hand inside of her. Since the clitoris is so sensitive, you’ll want your more dextrous hand on the job, but you can always switch if you want more power for the hand doing the thrusting. A safe place to start is drawing circles around her clitoris with your thumb, and using two fingers to pump in and out of her vaginal canal. Start off slow and gentle, and gradually build up to more intensity.
If you’re not sure what she likes, demonstrate two different techniques, and get her feedback about what she likes best. Ask her, “do you like it better when I fuck you with two fingers, like this… or three fingers, like this…” Here are some other techniques to try:
Fingering your lady can be an awful lot of fun. You’re completely in charge of her pleasure, and can watch her respond to your every touch. If she knows you’re enjoying yourself, she’ll have a better time too.
Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist (#78931) specializing in sex therapy. It’s her mission to take the intimidation out of sex therapy and bring the fun back into the bedroom. Have questions about sex? You can reach her at vanessa.marin@lifehacker.com , or at VMTherapy.com.
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Can You Get Pregnant After Accidental Contact With Sperm, Without Sexual Intercourse?
I don't want to be one of those girls who get pregnant at 13 help I just want to know so if we went any further I wouldn't get pregnant.
He's not one of those guys who force's me into stuff. He doesn't make me do anything I don't want to. He respects me and doesn't want to ruin my life by getting me pregnant before I finish school

Well I can kind of relate to you. I'm 16 and I already had a kid. She's 5 months now. Well fingering and eating out wont get you prego. But once you let his penis in, you might. Like if he jizzes(clear stuff) or cums(white stuff) in you. Yea then your screwed so. dont take things to far. Take is slow I wish I did... So please be careful.

yeah cuz jus use a condom but they can break so donr get too carried away

I'm 13&ive thought about having sex but I dunno after reading this !!

had you ever been fingered before ?

Did you ask if I've been fingered? If you did then no I haven't been fingered. Me and my boyfriend speak about it on bbm.&were both 13 he wants to finger me but I'm not sure. He's a lad that has respect for girls. I'm not sure if I should let him finger me because of puberty if u no what I mean ...

STOP STOP before you get ahead of yourself. im 25 yrs old n my words may not seem useful now, but im a young mother of two beautiful boys, but if I couldve things differently I woodve. save your virginity for later in your life. babies are expensive and take up all your time. stick to making out n dry humping with clothes on.. no need to rush it youll regret it I promise

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