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Sometimes you just need to use your imagination
Sex role play is a such a fun way to dive into your sexual fantasies and even try your hand at a spot of power play, if that's what you're into. As society becomes increasingly open about sex and kinks, it's no surprise that more of us are exploring sexual scenarios and fantasy via acting and imagination – aka sex roleplay. Remember that when it comes to dipping your toes into new and exciting sexual waters, it’s a good idea to have a chat with your partner(s) beforehand. This warm-up discussion is a place to cover expectations, boundaries, and safe words . Making space for trust and open communication will help make sure you have a safe (and sexy!) time. So if sexy doctor, hot plumber or naughty builder roles turn you on, or a saucy ghost or witch fantasy is more up your street, here are some sex role play ideas to spark the imagination.
Role play often relies on breaking taboos and creating power dynamics . Therefore, unsurprisingly, work-based role plays are a bedroom staple. But, if you want to truly channel the office vibes, maybe leave the bed altogether and try having sex on a table or desk. While this can result in a slightly bruised bum or desperate fumbling as you try to move your laptop out of harm’s way, overall, it’ll be worth it. Just make sure you’ve moved any sharp pencils from the area...
This role play can have as much historical flair as you like. If you’re a keen historian and/or have watched Bridgerton's sex scenes (aren’t they roughly the same thing?), you might want to play at being a member of home help staff, obeying a master or mistress.
Given that massages essentially make someone as horny as possible without ever getting them off, a massage that takes you ‘all the way’ is a real treat.
But, if you’re playing the masseuse, make sure you pay attention to all the different parts of your partner’s body before you start to getting it on. That way the pay off will be even more satisfying. You can also try out lingam massage or yoni massage , if tantric massage is your thing.
Get your partner to approach you as though you’ve never met and are complete strangers, to treat your body like they've never seen it before, and to take you with all the frenzied lust that drives two people who don’t know each other’s names to jump into bed together. It’s the best of both worlds: all the fun of stranger sex without any of the anxiety that the person you’re sleeping with might be an absolute fckboy/girl/person who will ghost you tomorrow.
This role play's an easy one to accessorise with wigs , too.
The doctor/patient scenario is hot because it involves an authority figure. But this becomes still hotter when the authority figure has a reason to touch you – AND if you have a sexy doctor's or nurse's outfit .
Try giving your partner a ‘physical’ and explain to them that a normal side effect of such procedures is that they might start to really, really want to have sex with you.
By this I mean rural romps... I'm talking farm hand or milk maid based role play. Practice perfecting your southern American twang and pretend you’re rolling around in a haystack. Try your best to recreate the naughtiness of doing it alfresco as well as the romance of the wilderness – even if in reality, you’re only shagging with the window open and rolling about laughing at those dodgy accents.
Because, for most people, their real first time was either painful, embarrassing or unfulfilling, it’s fun to be able to recreate the event. Maybe put on a soundtrack that reminds you of your teens and try and remember that time of sexual frustration. Bring that extreme desire back to the surface and allow it to erupt all over again – but this time, hopefully, with a little more control and skill.
It doesn’t matter how flexible you are – anyone can make a yoga role play work. You can go pro, contorting your body into impressive yet erotic positions, or you can embrace being a total novice and simply waggle your bum in the air claiming it’s ‘downward dog’. Whatever your aptitude, pretending to be a yoga instructor can be a particularly fun, experimental role play, encouraging you to adopt ambitions positions and to serenely instruct your partner where to place their limbs.
Whatever your personal, political stance on the monarchy, regal role plays can be very hot. You may not fancy any of the royals, but that doesn’t mean you don’t fancy playing at being a princess or prince yourself. I mean, I reckon the only reason we haven’t abolished the monarchy is that we find the whole thing, well, sexy. But don’t let the royals have all the fun – bring the eroticism of dynasty to your one bedroom flat and command that your lover reveal their *ahem* sceptre.
If you've ever had a crush on one of your best mates, you'll know the sexual tension can be very very real. Play on that, with the stolen glances and uncertainty as to whether they feel the same about you. The push and pull and trying to figure out whether and when to make a move can be super hot.
If you've ever seen an old school porno, you'll know when the plumber, carpenter, electrician, handy man/woman/person shows up, things can get pretty heated. Maybe you're home alone and your kitchen sink has sprung a leak, you're all wet and you don't know what to do, when the plumber turns up to save the day...
Look, anyone who can drive (is that the correct verb?) a boat or plane is hot in my book. Imagine you're a passenger on a private jet, or luxury yacht, and over the intercom comes your pilot/captain's voice: Please report to the cabin immediately. What happens when you get there is up to you...

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There are so many wonderful perks that come with being in a committed relationship with the person you love. They know your preferences and your pet peeves . They probably even know exactly what you need in order to “finish” during sex — hello favorite sex position . Of course, knowing what you need doesn’t always work to your advantage, does it? Reaching your tipping point is an amazing feeling. However, if your partner goes straight for the launch button without trying other maneuvers first, your sex life can start to feel boring . Or worse. Rushed .
While you might feel the urge to just be grateful you’re even getting laid what with the kids running around, you still want more. That’s okay, Mama. Sometimes you need to slow things down and one of the best ways to do that is to add a little bit of fun. That can look like rolling some suggestion dice or adding some other kind of toys to your routine to spice up your sex life . It might mean starting while they’re at work with some risky sexts . Or, in this instance, it might mean changing things up significantly with a little bit of role-playing.
Adding role play to your sex life can take many forms. It might be as simple as throwing on that old Halloween costume . It could even start as innocently as grabbing your partner’s backend while they’re fixing the sink and asking for help with another set of pipes. The hardest part is remembering not to take it (or yourself) too seriously. If you’re looking for some ideas on where to start, we’ve got your back. These ideas run the gamut and ought to offer something your lover will get into.
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A classic kind of bedroom-based role-playing is the power struggle. This typically looks like cliches involving “ naughty schoolgirls” or subservient maids. If that works for both of you, then by all means try it. If you’re typically the boss of the relationship, though, why not let your more laid back SO take a turn calling the shots? Reminder: Just because many of these pairings are often played out in heterosexual relationships, doesn’t mean you can’t shake things up. Who says a woman can’t be president or a man can’t be a sex worker? Changing up the power dynamic will make things all the more interesting.
Losing your virginity is not always how they show it in the movies. But what if you could recreate it with a partner who could make it as hot and steamy as you wished it could have been way back when. With role play, you could!
Speaking of your first time… What was it like the first time you hooked up with your current partner? Was it amazing? Was it awful? Were you even sober enough to remember? One easy and fun way couples enjoy role-playing is by simply pretending they have never met. Next time you meet your partner at a bar, walk up to him and introduce yourself, again. See if you can keep it going all night until you eventually find yourself in a compromising position. Mumble about how you “don’t usually do this” while you two pretend to hook up for the first time. There are two ways to look at this: You’re either recreating a magical night or looking for a do-over to an otherwise forgettable night. Either way, it’s your chance to make some memories and have a little fun while still basically staying within your comfort zone.
Not all role playing needs to be about dominant or submissive partners. Sometimes it’s just as exciting to walk in late to a bar date and hit on your partner as if you’ve never met. No one lords over the other. You’re just pretending to be strangers and forgetting that you have mortgage payments or soccer practices. In these instances, the goal is to have fun and reignite your attraction to each other.
You might spend your week counting down until the second you can get away from work. But you know what? That’s a great reason to make the office part of your role play fantasies . It’ll be like having an exciting (dirty) little secret that makes you look forward to clocking in every week.
Who says you have to be a real person at all? Maybe you want your shaggy dude to pretend to be Thor while you channel your inner Black Widow? Or, maybe, you’ve watched every Star Wars movie and fantasized about a queer couple. Now is your chance to don your Poe Dameron and Finn costumes and finally see the hook-up you’ve been longing for. Whether the characters would actually ever partner up within their world is irrelevant. This is your world. Do you.
Ok, so before you roll your eyes— hear us out. Pizza delivery guys are sexy, or at least yours will be. Erase that grainy porno plot from your mind and be willing to create your own sexy saga. Tell your lover to ring the doorbell and then pretend you can’t find the money to pay for the pizza but you’re willing to compensate him in other ways (*wink*wink*). But if you don’t want him to be a pizza guy, make him a super secret agent, which is not only a great way to get your man in a suit but a chance to switch up the delivery storyline. Let’s say he has to deliver a top-secret file to you but there’s a storm outside, so you insist he waits it out and stays the night. Just don’t be afraid to get creative if you think the cheesy porno plot is overdone (pun intended).
If you don’t feel like cooking tonight and want to explore a new role play idea, this is your ideal scenario. Let’s say you order a meat lover’s pizza and you thought you had a $20 bill in your pocket. But when the sexy pizza delivery person arrives, it’s nowhere to be found. You ask if you can make it up to them another way, and well… you get the idea.
First things first, no, you do not need to role play in the bedroom to reignite your sex life with your partner. There are many ways to do that. But you can gain a valuable experience through this sexual activity. When you role play, it’s an opportunity to dive into each other fantasies which takes vulnerability and strength to show one another. When you become the character you fantasize about, you are giving your partner a glimpse of someone you want to be, which is part of who you are. The experience is incredibly intimate, a great way to connect, and another way to just have fun. You and your partner can also build a better foundation of emotional and sexual trust. There are also health benefits as it can serve as a great stress reliever from work, school, or just the daily stressors of life.
This article was originally published on 8.3.2020

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These are easy, fun, and definitely not cost-prohibitive.
Role play can be awkward . This is just a fact. You’re usually taking on a character radically at odds with who you are in real life, and chances are you’re not an Oscar-worthy actor.
Finding doable role play scenes and character ideas might be the most challenging hurdle of all . When you have no idea what you’re doing, how do you know who you should try to be? You don’t own $5,000 worth of leather, after all.
Here are nine easy and fun role play ideas for all you beginners curious about exploring different fetishes. (And you don’t have to buy anything!) Happy trails.
Why we love it: The housewife-handyman scenario has always been a crowd favorite (you can also be a househusband and handywoman, obviously). There is something so sexy about screwing the tasty man or woman who’s come to clean your pipes (hehe).
And since your apartment or house is already the perfect backdrop, you don’t need much to pull it off.
The gear: For the housewife, you’ll need a robe and some cute pajamas. For your handyman/woman you just need a regular belt to stick things in (like a vibrator or a makeshift crop). You don’t need a real tool belt, since no one's staying clothed for very long (unless doing it in a tool belt is a turn-on for you, in which case…)
Why we love it: Many of us fantasize about a teacher we wanted to hook up with (I know I have). Role play is about a power exchange and nothing says power like a naughty professor.
The whole student/teacher paradigm is very hot, but becomes problematic when you’re thinking in terms of age-appropriate consent. Falling prey to that pitfall is NOT sexy. Avoid the creepy feelings by being a college student and professor instead. You still get to go to “office hours” (your partner at the kitchen table) and beg for a better grade you’ll “do anything to get.”
The gear: College students wear normal clothes (if PINK sweats are considered normal), so just put on the most age-inappropriate thing you own and call it a day. If you’re the professor, wear glasses. But all you really need is a few books in front of you and BAM! Collegiate.
Why we love it: The hot single parent hooking up with the nanny has appeal for two main reasons. One, you’re having sex with someone you work for/works for you and therefore has control of your livelihood. And two, the single parent is broken-hearted and looking for love — just waiting for the wonderful nanny to come in and swoop them up. It’s very Jude Law, only without all the cheating on Sienna.
The gear: The nanny and parent fantasy is easy because you don’t need costumes. You just have to create a scene and go for it.
Why we love it: Haven’t you ever had a boss you really just wanted to bang, even though he or she was a total asshole? Oh, yes. A power exchange really does get the juices flowing. When someone is pissing you off, those feelings of rage are very akin to feelings of passion. Angry sex is HOT.
The gear: You just need a table. Imagine it’s a desk. If you want to dress up in business casual, go for it. If you’d rather set the scene at a startup, go for a t-shirt. The best accessory you can have in this scene is a good “angry boss” voice. (Is it hot in here or is it just me?)
Why we love it: This scene is about equity. You’re partners on the force, each other’s shields and greatest allies. Sometimes you have to rough up a certain criminal; you each have your role. After a particularly intense interrogation, you finally give way to your lust…
Sorry, got ahead of myself. But you get where I’m going with this.
The gear: If someone has a police badge or handcuffs from Halloween costumes past, that’s ideal. If not, you can always make believe. Instead of being one of the Boys in Blue, go the Stabler and Benson route: slacks and button-ups. Booya.
Why we love it: People get hard over sterilized hands and medical scrubs. It’s a thing. Being a medical professional is hard and sometimes you have to let off some steam with a coworker, probably.
It’s not a coincidence that naughty nurse and doctor costumes are so popular on Halloween. They’re seductive.
The gear: Put on any form of white clothing you have and pretend it’s scrubs or a lab coat. Use a metal kitchen spoon to “test your partner’s reflexes” and grab a thermometer to “check his or her temperature.”
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