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I recently moved back home to Michigan and I am looking for a SDR. The last time I had one was a few years ago but when I lived out of state for undergrad. Any SB’s in Michigan have any advice for me here? Like where to go, how to spot one’s here?
A little background~I was raised to be a Lady in Every way demure, graceful, polite, observant etc. I fell into the wrong crowd for far too long and now have stress acne and a permanent wheeze (don’t vape Ever) when I laugh hard. And unfortunately my voice is lower than was originally years ago 😢 I can hide the voice with a more sultry exotic voice that is a stark contrast to my ivory skin but still attention grabbing enough that I’m apparently remembered. My problem is asking for things. Or even just breaching the subject of needed money or preferred gifts. Due to how I was raised my factory settings are Never be blunt, Never ask what you actually want or need, Never tell a man anything he doesn’t want to hear-he as the man is ‘above you’ (not to say I don’t have a high caliber and SHOW it) essentially a lady should fit nicely beside or behind him but Never in-front of him etc.
I’ve heard and read that a SB should write down all their expenses and have them itemized/categorized which I have…but no one, that I can find, has breached how to use that knowledge to their best interest.
How would I go about asking? Might I please have an example? Please don’t just say ‘politely ask for money’, how do you even begin the conversation without being blunt? Perhaps an example of a potential conversion please? I’ve never been able to advocate for myself due to my strict lady training upbringing (probably why I gave way to peer pressure in the first place 😒). I apologize for any inconvenience, I am just at a severe loss and disadvantage, any advice would be much appreciated. ~Cit (pronounced Kit)
I have been sugaring for awhile, since I was 20 years old. Recently I had a couple of really good ongoing arrangements end and have been trying to find a new sd for the last three months. Usually I would be able to find someone new within 2-3 weeks and start something with them. Even just in summer of 2020 it was so easy.
However this is the first time I have noticed how basically impossible it is to find a new SD. Everyone I’ve talked to is trying to get free sex by saying they don’t want to have sex just see me strip for a super low gift or offering gifts of $300 for regular full dates involving intimacy. I am based in the DC area where $500 in 2015 was considered a normal gift amount.
What has happened to the sugar world and why is everyone so cheap now? I seriously don’t get it! Have you all noticed similar things?
I recently started looking on Eventbrite for local mixer events, and found some that looked promising. When you ladies freestyle, do you go alone or with a friend? I would love to connect with some SBs in my area to get dressed up with and go freestyle together! Let's be friends! 🤗
I have come across some SDs who first seem sweet as pie. They are romantic, generous, and emotional. They try to tap into your emotions quickly. They love bomb you and want everything quickly. You think you hit the jackpot.
They typically have abusive exes that they can’t stop talking about. Then they become too emotional and it morphs into controlling behavior. They are hypersensitive to any perceived rejection and have anxious attachment styles. Their wrath is unmatched. They are easily vindictive and brutal. They cause fights often over little things.
Just me?? I can sniff them a mile away now. At least they’re generous..
Tips and Red Flags for New Sugar Babies
Know what type of relationship you have and act accordingly
This post might be controversial and this is all my opinion but I’ve seen a lot of new SBs asking questions about this lifestyle and this is a blunt way to look at it to avoid being taken advantage of. I’ve mainly seen two types in sugar relationships. Spoiled girlfriends or discounted escorts. Absolutely nothing wrong with being an escort but here’s where the problem comes in. You’re either seeing a man who genuinely cares about you, takes care of all of your financial needs and doesn’t expect constant sex from you OR you’re seeing a man who will treat you like an escort for 1/8th of the typical rate. If you’re a spoiled girlfriend find that man that you enjoy spending time with that takes care of you and if you’re an escort charge accordingly. I’ve seen too many girls stressed out over salt daddies, if he’s not covering all of your bills at a minimum; move on. Men will prey on girls that are new to this lifestyle. Rant over.
Have you ever been a sugar baby? What was it like?
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Not me but my older sister (she’s a cam girl). Her sugar Daddy is actually someone she met online and she helped him through depression and a really bad divorce. He lives across the country and will occasionally send her gifts and amazon gift cards, but because he isn’t crazy rich we jokingly call him her Splenda Daddy. They actually have a nice relationship and he’ll even occasionally send my sister’s fiancé gifts too.
Throwaway account, but I'm doing something similar now. A cam girl I've known for for about 11 years has been seriously ill. I pay for her medical bills and living expenses. It's been rough for her, and honestly not always easy for me, but she had no one and I think she's a sweet woman. I've thought about setting up a gofundme account, but I know most people would think it's a scam. It's not. Hopefully this last round will get her back on her feet.
Who needs a sugar Daddy when in 2018 you will need a bitcoin daddy.
The splenda daddy part killed me LOL
Awww! He sounds like a sweet person.
How did she meet this person? Just on one of the cam sites?
TIL no one on reddit has been one but we know someone who was.
I guess they are too busy shopping to go on reddit.
I guess they have that entrepreneurial spirit.
You have to give up a lot and it's nowhere close to a normal life if you want to make a lot of money.
There's a sub for it but I can't remember the name
There's plenty on reddit, just not this sub (for some reason...)
My friend had a go at it, got taken to some fancy dinners, got taken down to London (from Scotland) first class for a shopping trip and a stay in a beautiful hotel but ultimately she thought it was a little awkward because in the end the guys are just waiting for you to sleep with them
Fucking duh. People can be so naive. Honestly, what would you have to be smoking to think your friendship is that valuable 🙄
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"It ranges from hand holding and cuddling to more mature stuff."
By now, we’re 99% certain that you’ve heard the term 'sugar baby' before, but there’s still a big grey area around it – so what does being one actually mean? Is it safe? How do sugar babies protect themselves from any potential danger that comes with being a sugar baby. What is being with a sugar daddy like? Well, luckily for you, we’ve sought out some real life experience to shed some light on all these questions and more.
Previously working as a sugar baby, this 24-year-old started a Reddit AMA threads and answered some pretty nosy questions from other users. Of course, this doesn't mean all sugar daddies and sugar babies’ agreements work this way. But this is everything that she experienced in her time as a sugar baby. So, keep reading to see what trodc1997 revealed about working with sugar daddies...
"Most sugar daddies want to feel like their sugar babies are attracted to them, so even if I'm not emotionally or physically attracted to them, I still have to fake it to some extent. I haven't had a situation so far where I got too attached to a sugar daddy, except in a friendly way because not all daddies have hustling 'pimp' types of personalities. But I do have a sugar baby friend who was in a sugar daddy/baby relationship with a guy who was married and she ended up developing real feelings for him. She confessed how she felt to him and he rejected her and she was totally heartbroken . It's hard to keep that emotional wall up all the time especially since you are going on dates and the whole shebang."
"It depends from daddy to daddy, also from how much they're willing to pay. On average, however, I usually assume a daddy wants a relationship the equivalent to a paid girlfriend. It ranges from hand holding and cuddling to more mature stuff . It depends on the mood of the situation. Before I even go out on the date, however, I always ask to make clear what it is they want so I'm not caught off guard. On first dates. I don't do sleepovers. It's always different every time and I never know what to expect with each daddy I meet. Most daddies do want "mature" stuff, if not immediately then eventually."
"I started out with sugar baby/sugar daddy exclusive apps and websites, (like Secret Benefits and Sudy) and a LOT of trial and error. It then expanded to regular dating apps like Tinder and PlentyOfFish, with the age set to find older males. I have to always make sure I make it clear I'm looking for a financially beneficial relationship , as to not waste anyone's time."
"I personally can't [envision] myself doing this, simply because I know it would probably be hard to find a boyfriend who would be OK with their girlfriend doing something like this on the side. Of course, there's the option of doing it and not telling your boyfriend you're doing it. That seems a little more realistic, but not ideal for me because I'm a very committed person and I don't know how I would feel being 'dishonest' . Then again, being a sugar baby isn't a full time profession for me, I'm doing it to help me out with my college funds, so it's not an absolute necessity for me."
"Yes, definitely! No matter how easy it sounds in theory, actually having to go out and give 'sugar' is harder than it seems ! I know ex-sugar babies who tried going out with some daddies and couldn't do it.
"Not everyone gets to have the middle-aged, attractive, nice and caring daddy"
"Not everyone gets to have the middle-aged, attractive, nice and caring daddy. You have to put up with some awful and boring dates, and some pretty old guys, bad hygiene, etc while acting like you're having a good time. Some sugar babies I know go through one bad experience and get so upset they stop doing it."
"How much I make ranges from time to time, sugar daddies come and go all the time, though some are constant. Some give me 'allowances' (by this I mean, I receive a fixed amount every week) and some pay by date, (by this I mean, I only get paid when we meet up in person.) At the moment, I have two daddies, one with each kind of pay method . In a good month, I get about $800 (around £560), if I'm busy and I can't pay as much attention to [them] as I would like, I get about $200-$300 (£140-£210). Again, these numbers vary widely depending on how devoted I am at that time and how often I can go out."
" Once I got $800 (around £575) to sleep over at a daddy's house for one night . It was absolutely at the last minute and I was with friends at the time, but for $800, I was out the door in minutes. My friends know what I do so they're very understanding, they just made me buy them breakfast the next day."
"I think there's an equal amount of both, honestly, but who you attract depends mostly on what kind of sugar baby you are. Of course, there are benefits to both kinds. A daddy who wants a companion will most likely be open to paying you regularly, (aka allowances) so long as you're good company. If you can tell, I seek out more of the companion kind. The other type of daddy are the ones who only want to meet up for 'dates' and they pay you per date.
"The benefits to this is that you're not tied down to any one daddy, and you can go on many dates with different daddies in the case that you need urgent money, rather than waiting for an allowance. Mainly all daddies expect some sort of sexual favour in the long run. Some want only the sexual favours and some want someone to be with in a little more romantic sense, like a girlfriend, or like you said, a companion."
" The best experience I ever had was with this daddy who was sincerely a great guy who just felt lonely because he was divorced. This daddy was very generous with his money. When I was a little more down on my luck, he would send me a little money to cheer me up. He also gave holiday 'bonuses' which I thought was a little comical. I did become attached to him in the way I would a friend, and I could find myself unloading my thoughts and emotions on him, and he did the same. I felt very at peace talking to him as he did with me, and we were very grateful for each other. The sugar baby/daddy relationship did have to end however because he decided to go back to university to obtain a master's degree and the busy schedule made us go out of touch, but we do still talk on occasion!
"I told him I didn't want to be treated this way and to delete my number"
" The worst experience was with this daddy who continued to string me along until I got so fed up I had to call it quits . He would come out of the blue and ask me to meet him immediately. I was very kind and I would try to say yes if I could, but if I said no and that I was busy, he would be upset and not talk to me for weeks and then come back again out of the blue and do the same. I got tired of apologising every time I said no, so I told him I didn't want to be treated this way and to delete my number."
"Aside from sexual favours, the thing I get asked to do the most is cuddling. A lot of daddies like cuddling at heart , and there's no shame in asking. Other than cuddling, there are also requests to hold hands, or hug, or walk arm-in-arm. I don't mind doing things like this at all. On the other hand, I do have to turn down some requests, specifically for daddies with fetishes who want me to fulfil their desires. I don't meet a lot of these people but they do exist, so that's something to be prepared for if you consider being a sugar baby."
"Originally it was for money. However, I realised I loved the security of being taken care of . Age didn't matter to me but older men are usually the type to be more mature and financially stable."
"My parents do not know! They're very conservative so if they knew what I did, they would be ashamed of me, for sure. If they did find out though, I don't think I would change anything. My brothers and sisters don't know either but I do tell my cousins EVERYTHING. They're like my best friends and I'm very open with them. As an extension, my uncles and aunts know also because they're very chill and understanding. I would rather my siblings know than my parents because I don't know a good way to phrase that I'm being paid to do stuff with people their age."
"In reality, only about 40% like to be called 'Daddy; , and of this 40%, only about 10% request to be called 'Daddy' outside of texting or private calls. (Aka, In public)."
"Many people have an idea of what a sugar baby is in their head. I'm not sure how I fall in line with that, but I've accomplished a lot and I'm doing very well for myself. I'm proud to be where I am now, regardless of what it took to get here ."
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