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20 year old college student still spanked at home
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Obviously using a throwaway here: I am a 20 year old who attends community college full-time and works a part-time job. I still live at home with my parents, who are generally very supportive and nice to me. They help me pay for college and let me live at home rent free. Their only condition is that as long as I live under their roof, I follow their rules and do my portion of the household chores. The condition for them paying part of my tuition is that I get good grades. That’s all fine and perfectly acceptable to me. It’s a pretty sweet deal actually. However, my parents are firm believers in corporal punishment: If I ever break any of their rules, don’t do my chores to their satisfaction, or receive a single poor grade, I still get spanked like when I was a child. Just yesterday I got my butt paddled for forgetting to take out the garbage can and recycling bin on pickup day.
Needless to say, I am very unhappy with this part of our arrangement. I find it extremely humiliating to be physically punished like that. I am technically an adult, after all! Really the only way to get away from this, is for me to move out and stop accepting financial support from them. This is something I don’t think I can currently afford. My part-time job pays just enough to cover my portion of my tuition, and I really don’t want to take out student loans (I plan on transferring to a four year institution after finishing up community college, so I possibly will need to take out a few loans in the near future, even though my parents have already said they’d consider continuing paying part of my tuition).
What can I do? Again, I love my parents and we generally have a decent relationship. I truly appreciate their support and really like living in their house for the most part. I just don’t want to be spanked anymore!
I think sometimes, ingrained patterns and cultural biases persist way longer than they should. I think if your parents are reasonable people, you can make them understand this. Here's what I suggest:
One night soon, at dinner, or some time when you are all together and attentive, you say something like: 'Mom, Dad, I love you and feel very grateful for the opportunity you have given me to live with you and pursue an education. I want to live by your rules and respect the things you ask of me, but I would like to ask you for something. I find I am too old for spankings and I'd like to be treated more like an adult so I was hoping we could come up with a more suitable punishment together. Perhaps I could e rounded or cut off from the internet when I don't respect your rules?'
I think if you approach this like an adult, they might be willing to treat you more like an adult.
I have tried talking to them before. Your points are way better than what I said at the time, though. I should bring it up again, like you said. Thanks for the advice!
And also the law in most places finds that I am legally too old for spankings, prepare with documentation.
The Parents are clearly not reasonable if they are treating their adult child like a kid still.
I am technically an adult, after all!
No technicality involved you are an adult. You may still be financially dependent on them but that is irrelevant. Simply don't let them hit you any more. This is domestic violence.
Yeah This is assault plain and simple Call the cops next time
You may just need to bite the bullet, take out some loans, and move out if that’s what it takes. It really isn’t a big deal. They’d be easily paid off and you can actually be deemed an independent student by having a social worker in your county’s human services division write a letter to your college’s financial aid department saying that due to abuse, you cannot live with your parents and therefore you need more financial aid, which means grants and scholarships.
I personally had to do that and that is why I get $12,000 a year in scholarships and grants, despite getting free tuition already.
Spanking your adult child is fucking sick and it is unhealthy for that to be a condition you have to accept in order to live with them.
Just remember that you need to take advantage of your resources!
Wow, I did not know about this! I will look into the human services division option. Not sure if that's what it is called here, but I can find out. I have been hesitant to talk to anybody at my college, because I don't want to destroy my relationship with my parents, and I don't want other people to know about it, if it can be avoided.
You are a 20 year old man. They start trying to spank you, you spank em back.
Really though, if they try and do this again, don't let them do it. Stand up, look them in the eye and say 'no, this isn't happening again'. You are a grown adult.
I appreciate your sentiment. Physically fighting back is not my style, and would be pretty futile, to be honest. I am a girl and physically no match for either of them.
THIS! I wouldn't voluntarily let any other adult human touch me in a way I don't want to be touched. Parents are no exception.
Dude honestly, sounds like a sexual pleasure for them. If it is your father who majority does the spanking, it sounds like he might get off to it. I’ve never heard of a 20 year old female getting spanked for stuff like that or in general by their parents.
I might bring it up like: “listen I realize if I’m not doing things the way you see fit that you believe in corporal punishment, but I’m way to old to be spanked like this. And to be honest with all the sexual incidents being reported now a days, I’m beginning to wonder if this is something to a similar degree and you’re justifying your perverted fantasy as ‘punishment’ for not doing my chores correctly.”
Tell them that it is physically inappropriate to be spanking you at this age and it feels sexually concerning to you given your 20 years old and being spanked is not something my parents should still be doing to me. They should definitely respect that if you explain like everything I said earlier.
Hmm. Yes, it is my father who does most of the spanking, but that's cause my mother makes him do it when he is available. I never got that kind of vibe though, and my mom is there when he does it.
Might be worth bringing up though, to see how they react. If it is even remotely a motivation (which I seriously doubt) they would surely cut it out after being "found out".
If it happens again, you need to report it to someone. Do you go to counseling? If not, most schools have counseling services set up. They are mandated reporters and can help you get on your feet and move out because this is abusive.
I see your point, and I agree to a point. I just don't want to get my parents in trouble. They do mean well, I am sure!
Also, I really don't want my friends and acquaintances to hear about this. I would die of mortification! Are councilors who are sworn to secrecy if I told them?
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My husband have been somewhat doing domestic discipline for a few years now but he is so on and off about it. It is so frustrating. For about a month he is really great about it. He is on top of punishments and life is so great we are both extremely happy life is amazing. Then he stops for a few months. Then I fell like a nag asking why he won’t. He said he can just never find the right time etc...... Then after a few months I get over it like okay guess we are not doing it anymore but then he buys new punishment toys and gets me all excited again makes comments like you deserve a punishment for that when we get home and I wait and wait and it never happens. Just so confused on why he keeps doing this. He wanted it, kept talking about it we sat done and made rules we both love when he actually does it but then why stop for months on end then say things about it start up again and then stop have been doing this for years and just so frustrated with it now. I told him a few days ago we either were doing it or not can’t keep going on this roller coaster with him.
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My husband and I have been in a domestic discipline /TiH relationship for several years.
Every Christmas, Birthday, or Anniversary, I give him what I call a "gift of submission". I don't mean submission in general - that's a given. What I mean is that I choose some tangible additional area that I commit to submit to him in going forward.
For example, this last Valentine's day I gave him the gift of submitting in my daily attire. Every morning, I ask what he'd like me to wear - sometimes the answer is "whatever you'd like", and other times it's something specific.
Another example - for our anniversary a couple years ago I gave him the give of submitting in what I order when we go out to eat. (Not just ordering for me - but deciding for me. I don't even pick up the menu).
Anyways, I'm wanting to think of some more ideas that I can use in the future. I'm especially interested in small acts of submission I can commit to 24/7, regardless of whether the kids are in the room, we are in public, etc.
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So I have been into the domestic for a long time now . But I actually never knew what it was called or anything . So when I got with my wife and she was showing it to me and what it was called. Well we have been doing it for 4 years now . My biggest problem that I have is that sticking to it and disciplining longer than just a week . Also coming up with rules for her to follow because the typical rules and more that one would set she does those anyways plus more . So it hard to come up with something. Any ideas ? Last but not least when there is a rule in place and she breaks it I have problem relying on my second instinct and not my first which is go over there and bust her ass but instead i second guess myself and tell her that she will get it when we get home and that never happens and that is not what she is looking for not wants and either do I . I need some help on this any tips or pointers that could or may help me out ??
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