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Allow me to introduce you to The Pretzel Dip.
ICYMI, penetration isn't the end all when it comes to sex. And while, sure, it can feel good to have someone (or something) inside you, penetrative sex simply isn't what brings everyone over the hump to, you know, orgasm . In fact, there are plenty of people out there who don't really enjoy penetrative sex. And even for those who do enjoy it, there's something to be said about dedicating time to exploring and experimenting with pleasure that isn't all about going in deep.
"Many prefer outercourse for various reasons," says Wendasha Jenkins Hall , PhD, a sex educator who specializes in the well-being of women and femmes. "For example, non-penetrative sex helps one explore their body or their partner's body more intimately ." Sex without penetration helps switch up the monotony of penetrative sex as well, and can allow people to engage in new kinds of sex-pleasure or sexual fantasies, Jenkins Hall explains.
Alternatively, you might also want another option aside from penetrative sex due to trauma, body dysphoria, or other medical conditions that make penetrative sex uncomfortable, says Jenkins Hall. That said, whatever part of the spectrum you fall on when it comes to your non-penetrative sexual desires, there are plenty of sex positions out there that will be perfect for you to try, either with a partner or all on your own. Each takes the focus off penetration and instead puts the emphasis on make-out sessions, clitoral sex toys , dry humping, and more, says Gigi Engle , certified sexologist and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide To Se x, Love, And Life. In the end, there's a good chance you'll have discovered new ways of getting off that you didn't even know were possible. Keep reading for the a list of 10 expert-approved non-penetrative sex positions out there that'll get you started.
Want to sit back and relax? Try the Pretzel Dip. "Have your partner sit back against the pillows or headboard with [their] knees up and legs spread," says Engle. "On your knees, stimulate [their] clitoris with your hand. Feel free to lean in. This is a great position for passionate kissing. You’ll also have prime access to each other’s breasts in this position for double-duty nipple stimulation."
Do it: Prop up some pillows or use your hand and lean back. Then, let your partner's hands and mouth do the rest.
If you're looking for an optimal angle for genital stimulation, maybe it's time to give the Spork a try. It's perfect for kissing their neck and reaching down to stimulate their nipples, perineum, or clitoris
When you're ready for round two, slide your body down a bit for some oral sex." Have your partner lie on [their] back, propping [their] elbows underneath [them] to tilt [their] pelvis forward," says Engle. "Lean in on your hands, knees, or stomach to go down on [them]." This position is ideal for easy access to the clitoris or penis and you can easily incorporate a sex toy whenever you need to come up for air.
Do it: Lie on your back and place your elbows and hands underneath you so that you're at a slight angle. Have your partner lean over your genitals and pleasure you.
"Outercourse can be done in the missionary position where both partners are close and kissing, touching, and rubbing bodies," Jenkins Hall says. Make the missionary position non-penetrative by having them grind on top of you, leaving you to sit back and relax while they show your clit some love.
Do It: Lie on your back while your partner straddles you on top and grinds up and down.
The bedroom? Been there, done that. Take things to the shower , Engle recommends; it's THE place to explore each other's bodies. "Have your partner turn around and let the water run over them while you give them a hand job or rub their clitoris [from behind]," she suggests.
"Standing behind your partner while using your hand on them sets up a seductive power-dynamic. You have them sandwiched between the shower wall and your body, the soap running all over both of you," she adds.
Do it: Hop in the shower and face the wall. Then, have your partner press up against you and let their hands touch your genitals. Bend over for easier access.
Did you know that most people with vaginas don’t orgasm from penetrative sex? "Some form or clitoral stimulation is needed, and outercourse provides an avenue for that," Jenkins Hall says. That's what makes The Chairman so great. You can sit on your partner, allowing them to scoop you in. (It'll feel intimate being sooo close.)
Then, you can grind on them as you please, and they can reach around and stimulate your vulva and clitoris from behind while kissing your neck, pulling on your nipples, and more, says Engle.
Do It: Your partner sits on the edge of the bed (or a chair) and while you sit on them, facing away.
"Partners can also sit facing each other or in front of a mirror and engage in mutual masturbation," Jenkins Hall explains. In the Magic Mountain position, each of you has great access to your own genitals for self-touch. If want to heat things up, you can reach across and touch your partner's parts, too, or just grind against each other by swiveling your hips in a figure-eight motion.
Do It: Both you and your partner sit with your legs bent. Inch toward each other until you you make contact.
Non-penetrative doesn't have to include a partner. Jenkins Hall encourages mirror play, so grab your handheld and start exploring the likes of your most personal places with a vibrator. "From running it along the labia, to using it on the mons pubis, to trying different motions around, up and down, or across the clitoral glans, there is no limit to vibrators. Vibrators are there to be your helping hand in self-discovery. And that is a beautiful thing," Engle explains.
Do It: Sit in a comfortable chair with a hand mirror. Try propping one leg up on the bathtub, bed, or couch so that you can get the best possible look at your goods. Here's the trick: Don't just focus on your sensitive clitoris, but also venture away to discover other erogenous zones.
Something to note: Outercourse allows people of all sexual orientations and gender identities to safely explore sex in a non-prescriptive way, says Jenkins Hall. That's why absolutely no one will judge you for doing the literal Couch Grind . Your couch, your rules, right?
It's a way to stimulate your clitoris in a non-abrasive way (full-on touching the clit can hurt for some people). Want to spice it up even more? Place a vibrator between you and the couch, Engle suggests.
Do It: Don't question it. Just ride the couch, edge of a table, or desk with a thick towel or blanket folded over to keep the surface soft to the touch. Bring a vibrator to grind on too if you want to take things up a level.

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August 26, 2020

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Outercourse is the new sex. Here are fun ways to try it
Getting it on with your guy doesn’t always mean getting it in. Here’s how to have a good time between the sheets without having sex.
So you’ve been dating someone for some time now and a discussion about sex has come up. While you’re in love with your guy and feel like the time is right to take your relationship to the next level, you’re not sure if you’re ready to have sex with him just yet.
There’s nothing unusual about wanting to delay intercourse. In fact, an increasing number of men and women are putting sex on the backburner for a variety of reasons – some say they don’t feel comfortable having casual sex and would rather wait for the right partner to come along, while others believe that sex is a major commitment that’s best saved for marriage. Many young people also don’t want to deal with sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy – two of the many consequences of having sex with someone.
There are no statistics for Singapore, but in the US, experts have found that sexual activity among young Americans is on the decline. One study, out of Indiana University and Sweden’s Karolinska Institute, and published this June in the medical journal JAMA Network Open , found that the percentage of sexually inactive 18- to 24 year-old men increased, from 18.9% between 2000 and 2002 to 30.9% between 2016 and 2018. Women were affected too, with the percentage of sexual inactivity most pronounced among those aged 25 to 34.
The researchers concluded that millennials and Gen Z-ers are delaying sex because they have other things to do at night, such as playing electronic games, engaging in social media and binge-watching TV shows. These young adults are also likely to still be living at home with their parents, which makes dating and having sex a little inconvenient.
But wanting to delay sex doesn’t mean forgoing it altogether. Young people are still getting intimate with their partners, except that instead of intercourse they are engaging in something called outercourse.
Outercourse is any sexual activity that doesn’t involve penetration (although some people might consent to their partners penetrating them with fingers and/or sex toys ). Kissing, heavy petting and mutual masturbation all count as outercourse.
Outercourse has many advantages. For one, because it doesn’t involve penis-in-vagina penetration, there’s a low risk of falling pregnant and spreading sexually transmitted infections (of course, if you engage in oral sex or allow your guy’s penis to come into close contact with your vagina, you should always play it safe with condoms and/or other forms of contraception ). Outercourse is also a chance for you and your partner to understand each other’s bodies better. Plus, it can increase the trust, closeness and intimacy between you and your man and thus make for more satisfying orgasms .
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Yes, kissing can be super-sexy. You and partner can take turns giving each other little kisses around the lips and eyes and on the cheeks and neck, before indulging in some deep and passionate French kissing (clothes are optional). Let your tongues intertwine while you caress each other and run your fingers through each other’s hair. In between kisses, exchange sexy fantasies for a really hot and heavy makeout sesh.
Bring out the body oil and give each other a relaxing massage. Start with the shoulders and neck before moving down to the chest, abdomen and genitals. Then, work on each other’s legs and feet. Keep your strokes slow and deliberate, and pay special attention to each other’s erogenous zones – the breasts and nipples, the lower back, the genitals and the area right above them, the inner thighs, and the soles of the feet.
Invite your guy to explore your body – get him to run his fingers very slowly all over your shoulders, chest, tummy and legs. This will warm you up and get you both in the mood. Then, show him how you like your genitals touched. Most women enjoy clitoral stimulation using fingers or sex toys. If you don’t mind your partner penetrating you with his fingers or a sex toy then show him how to do it. Guide his fingers and hands so that he knows what kind of pressure you like and where exactly you prefer to be touched in order to climax . When he’s done, return the favour. Be sure to ask him how and where he likes to be touched. Tip: enhance your pleasure – and his – with a little lubricant.
Be sure to shower beforehand so that you’re both squeaky clean (shower together for extra fun!). Before getting down to business, spend a bit of time kissing, sharing your sexual fantasies and engaging in mutual masturbation. When you’re ready, show your man how to perform oral sex on you – depending on what you like, you may direct him to use the tip of his tongue or the flat of his tongue, or both. While he’s down there you could also get him to penetrate you using his fingers.
When it comes to going down on your man, be gentle at first. Use your lips and tongue and include some hand strokes to get him going. Build up the excitement by alternating between soft licks using the tip of your tongue and hard sucking motions.
Don’t limit yourselves to vibrators. Clitoral stimulators and vibrating penis rings and sleeves also deliver loads of pleasure. Feeling cheekier than usual? Dress up in sexy lingerie and role-play with your partner or play X-rated card games like strip poker.
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