R/Outercourse

R/Outercourse

Outercourse is any sexual activity that does not involve penetrative intercourse. Abstinence and outercourse are not the same things.

Only you can define what outercourse means to you.

There are over 10 different types of outercourse couples can explore.

Outercourse has many benefits , and you can choose to practice outercourse with your partner for any reason .

Some types of outercourse have risks associated with them. You can contract STDs or HIV if you fail to use proper protection. Although remote, there’s still a risk of pregnancy involved.

August 18, 2021 by Eve Leave a Comment
Any time the word ‘sex’ comes to mind, many people automatically assume this means penetration. Outercourse (non-penetrative sex) is a credible alternative to penetrative sex that you can try out today. Not only is outercourse easy to learn, but it is also as enjoyable as sexual intercourse.
Let’s look at various forms of outercourse that you can practice, its benefits and risks below.
Outercourse is any sexual activity that does not involve intercourse [1] . It can mean different things to different people. While for some outercourse is anything that isn’t penis-in-vagina penetration, for others it means no penetration of any kind. Penetration can also mean using fingers or sex toys.
Many people choose outercourse as an alternative way to get intimate with their partners. It’s often a safe method for preventing pregnancies and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
There is no standard definition for outercourse. Only you and your partner can draw those boundaries, and only you can define what it means to you.
Outercourse isn’t the same thing as abstinence, although in both cases you avoid any sexual act that involves penetration [1] .
In simple terms, abstinence refers to an individual’s decision to avoid all forms of sexual acts. Abstinence may allow some outercourse depending on the individual.
There isn’t a cut-and-dry definition for abstinence as well. You have the freedom to decide what it means for you.
Let’s look at some ways you can explore and enjoy outercourse with your partner.
Talking about your fantasies with your partner can exponentially increase sexual satisfaction and spice up your sex life [2] [3] . A little dirty talk is an excellent way to practice outercourse and build intimacy.
Kissing is another simple form of outercourse. Don’t write off its potency. It’s an amazing way to build intimacy and has many health benefits [2] [4] . You can discover what turns both you and your partner on by kissing other parts of their bodies besides their lips.
French and deep kissing are some exciting non-penetrative sex ideas you can add to your sexual repertoire.
A sensual massage can be quite satisfying for couples who want to explore each other’s bodies [2] [5] . You can set the scene using mood lighting and rose petals. Scented candles also help set the mood for a massage.
You can tell each other which body parts you love getting rubbed and explore different sensations at the same time.
To some couples, sex toys are a valid outercourse option. With virtually hundreds of different types of toys in the market, you and your partner can enhance your sex life by using them for genital stimulation [2] .
A classic sex toy example is the vibrator. You can use it to stimulate your partner’s clitoris or head of the penis, helping your partner have an orgasm and reach deep sexual satisfaction.
Dry humping involves sexual activity that can stimulate a person’s sexual organs without penetration. A good example of this sexual activity is intergluteal sex [2] .
As a couple, you can grind each other’s bodies for pleasure. Also, you can test out different sex positions and role play. Besides that, you can grind to the rhythm of your favorite song and add a bit of dirty talk to spice it up.
Masturbating together can also produce an orgasm for both of you [2] . You can use this opportunity to show your partner where you like to be touched and what feels good. Besides that, you can add kisses and talk dirty to each other for added pleasure.
You can take turns in pleasing each other to orgasm using clitoral stimulation, fingering or hand jobs. Manual stimulation can be deeply pleasurable to people who enjoy it [2] .
To keep things spicy, you can use different lubes on your partner to see what sensations they enjoy the most.
Giving your lover a good blowjob or cunnilingus can be extremely pleasurable [2] . You can explore their genitals with your mouth and tongue, using different strokes and motions to see what they enjoy the most. You can also combine oral sex with kissing and nipple stimulation for even more variety.
This sexual act is deeply pleasurable, and yes, it involves some penetration [2] . People of all genders can find anal penetration to be pleasurable, including gay and heterosexual couples. Anal play creates an exciting opportunity especially for couples that want to try out new penetrative sex ideas and toys.
Anal play can go hand in hand with other activities such as kissing, oral sex and mutual stimulation to produce maximum pleasure.
You can also experiment and enjoy kinky activities that involve spanking, bondage, humiliation play and other forms of BDSM activities [2] . Most of these activities do not involve penetration. Having a fetish for a person’s armpit is perfectly fine!
You can discuss and plan kinky activities with your partner, including a safe word for when any of you need to stop. You can also combine BDSM with a sex toy, talking about fantasies and enjoying mutual masturbation.
Is outercourse worth the trouble when you could just have ‘real sex’ instead?
Well, yes. In some circumstances, outercourse can be a valid alternative for sexual intercourse. Anyone can practice outercourse, regardless of your sexual orientation or gender [3] . Besides that, you can also practice outercourse even if you’ve never had sex before.
Here are some reasons couples can consider for outercourse:
Many types of outercourse are safe. However, some of them bear health risks to you and your partner. Here are some examples:
Anal and oral sex involves contact with your partner’s genitals and the exchange of bodily fluids. Outercourse of this kind carries the same risks as vaginal sex. You can contract many of the same STDs as sexual intercourse if you don’t use protection [3] [7] .
Use barrier methods like condoms, dental dams or gloves to prevent contact with genital fluids [9] . Here is more information on how to get birth control and how to use non hormonal birth control .
Even where you don’t swap fluids, the risk of STD transmission remains. Skin-to-skin contact can still spread HPV and herpes.
Although remote, there is some risk of pregnancy. Sometimes during mutual masturbation and sexual stimulation, semen (cum) comes into contact with the vagina. To prevent pregnancy, you can use other forms of birth control besides condoms [8] .
If you want to enjoy having outercourse with your partner without having to worry about STDs, get tested regularly. Also, avoid genital contact and contact with each other’s sexual fluids where possible.
Here are answers to some questions you may still have about outercourse.
Outercourse is nearly 100% effective at preventing pregnancy. Non-penetrative outercourse prevents pregnancy by avoiding vaginal sex. Kissing, dry humping, oral and anal sex can’t cause pregnancy.
There remains a remote chance pregnancy can happen but under accidental circumstances. Although you may not have had vaginal sex, if semen accidentally comes into contact with the vulva, sperm can make its way up your vagina and fertilize an egg [8] .
To eliminate this risk, avoid all contact with semen and pre-ejaculate. Where possible, use spermicides after such an accident occurs. You can also learn how to do the pull out method to avoid spilling semen.
While outercourse has the lowest risk of transmission, you can still get STDs from it. Some types of outercourse that require any form of penetration carry the same risk of STDs as vaginal sex, anal and oral sex without using barriers [8]
Non-penetrative sex is safe sex, especially where you and your partner don’t spill sexual fluids. Kissing, massage, fantasies, kinky fetishes and other options that do not involve penetration are unlikely to spread HIV from one person to another [6] .
However, where anal and oral sex are involved, use a condom. Keep sexual fluids away from each other and your risk of contracting HIV is minimized.
Yes, you can have non-penetrative sex after miscarriage.
If you and your partner want to get intimate soon after a miscarriage, you can begin with outercourse. Doctors recommend you wait at least two weeks after your bleeding has stopped before any penetration, including tampon use [8] .
Outercourse provides some sensual options to try out with your partner before you can go back to having normal sex.
Outercourse is a thrilling way to change your sex life. However, it’s essential to remember that it still bears some risks of STDs, HIV and pregnancy. Ensure to use protective barriers and birth control methods to keep yourself safe.
After a miscarriage, take your time to get back into sexual intimacy with your partner. Give your body and mind time to heal from the loss before going back to your normal sex life. Until then, enjoy some stimulating outercourse to help you warm up.
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Outercourse is the new sex. Here are fun ways to try it
Getting it on with your guy doesn’t always mean getting it in. Here’s how to have a good time between the sheets without having sex.
So you’ve been dating someone for some time now and a discussion about sex has come up. While you’re in love with your guy and feel like the time is right to take your relationship to the next level, you’re not sure if you’re ready to have sex with him just yet.
There’s nothing unusual about wanting to delay intercourse. In fact, an increasing number of men and women are putting sex on the backburner for a variety of reasons – some say they don’t feel comfortable having casual sex and would rather wait for the right partner to come along, while others believe that sex is a major commitment that’s best saved for marriage. Many young people also don’t want to deal with sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy – two of the many consequences of having sex with someone.
There are no statistics for Singapore, but in the US, experts have found that sexual activity among young Americans is on the decline. One study, out of Indiana University and Sweden’s Karolinska Institute, and published this June in the medical journal JAMA Network Open , found that the percentage of sexually inactive 18- to 24 year-old men increased, from 18.9% between 2000 and 2002 to 30.9% between 2016 and 2018. Women were affected too, with the percentage of sexual inactivity most pronounced among those aged 25 to 34.
The researchers concluded that millennials and Gen Z-ers are delaying sex because they have other things to do at night, such as playing electronic games, engaging in social media and binge-watching TV shows. These young adults are also likely to still be living at home with their parents, which makes dating and having sex a little inconvenient.
But wanting to delay sex doesn’t mean forgoing it altogether. Young people are still getting intimate with their partners, except that instead of intercourse they are engaging in something called outercourse.
Outercourse is any sexual activity that doesn’t involve penetration (although some people might consent to their partners penetrating them with fingers and/or sex toys ). Kissing, heavy petting and mutual masturbation all count as outercourse.
Outercourse has many advantages. For one, because it doesn’t involve penis-in-vagina penetration, there’s a low risk of falling pregnant and spreading sexually transmitted infections (of course, if you engage in oral sex or allow your guy’s penis to come into close contact with your vagina, you should always play it safe with condoms and/or other forms of contraception ). Outercourse is also a chance for you and your partner to understand each other’s bodies better. Plus, it can increase the trust, closeness and intimacy between you and your man and thus make for more satisfying orgasms .
Here are five ideas for out-of-this-world outercourse:

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Yes, kissing can be super-sexy. You and partner can take turns giving each other little kisses around the lips and eyes and on the cheeks and neck, before indulging in some deep and passionate French kissing (clothes are optional). Let your tongues intertwine while you caress each other and run your fingers through each other’s hair. In between kisses, exchange sexy fantasies for a really hot and heavy makeout sesh.
Bring out the body oil and give each other a relaxing massage. Start with the shoulders and neck before moving down to the chest, abdomen and genitals. Then, work on each other’s legs and feet. Keep your strokes slow and deliberate, and pay special attention to each other’s erogenous zones – the breasts and nipples, the lower back, the genitals and the area right above them, the inner thighs, and the soles of the feet.
Invite your guy to explore your body – get him to run his fingers very slowly all over your shoulders, chest, tummy and legs. This will warm you up and get you both in the mood. Then, show him how you like your genitals touched. Most women enjoy clitoral stimulation using fingers or sex toys. If you don’t mind your partner penetrating you with his fingers or a sex toy then show him how to do it. Guide his fingers and hands so that he knows what kind of pressure you like and where exactly you prefer to be touched in order to climax . When he’s done, return the favour. Be sure to ask him how and where he likes to be touched. Tip: enhance your pleasure – and his – with a little lubricant.
Be sure to shower beforehand so that you’re both squeaky clean (shower together for extra fun!). Before getting down to business, spend a bit of time kissing, sharing your sexual fantasies and engaging in mutual masturbation. When you’re ready, show your man how to perform oral sex on you – depending on what you like, you may direct him to use the tip of his tongue or the flat of his tongue, or both. While he’s down there you could also get him to penetrate you using his fingers.
When it comes to going down on your man, be gentle at first. Use your lips and tongue and include some hand strokes to get him going. Build up the excitement by alternating between soft licks using the tip of your tongue and hard sucking motions.
Don’t limit yourselves to vibrators. Clitoral stimulators and vibrating penis rings and sleeves also deliver loads of pleasure. Feeling cheekier than usual? Dress up in sexy lingerie and role-play with your partner or play X-rated card games like strip poker.
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Non-penetrative sex, including dry humping , nipple stimulation, and stimulating other areas of the body such as the hips and behind the knees
Due to the pain she suffered from penetrative sex, he experimented with outercourse to give her pleasure
The act of grinding and cumming to completion without ever entering the body.
"Me and my girl had outercourse , man her jeans felt so good."
Dry humping or grinding. Sex is intercourse, as in the penis is put "in" the vagina. Fooling around without penetration and staying "out" of the hole is therefore outercourse .
I'm dating this christian chick who's saving herself for marriage . It's not all bad though. We get to have outercourse .
by heatseekerflex November 15, 2013
The closest intimacy that a man or woman can have without penstration being involved .
Yeah they were sexually intimate , but it was just outercourse and not " the real thing " intercourse.
The opposite of intercourse. Sexual outercourse with the creases of your body. "Under chin, back of neck, elbow , under knee, armpit , etc.."
"We just had some neat outercourse !!"
" I love me some outercourse!!"
by SMASHLEY GAYMENNN February 4, 2010
To have sex with clothes on and to deeply enjoy the feeling of c l o t h e s.
Bob: "I had some outercourse last night." Jimbo : "You're such a gay faggot ."

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