Questions From a Non-Nudist Mom On Nudit Etiquette, Home Nudism, & Children
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A Non Naturist Mother Needs Our Help!
Here is her e-mail:
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I 'm writing to you hoping for your advice seeing a scenario in my life including nudity. (Poll your buddies, if you desire additionally, I am joyful to have more than one person's comments.)
I am attempting to determine whether my viewpoint on a situation needs to be examined.
Home Naturism And Conduct Etiquette
We recently received an e-mail that we feel would be interesting to share. She is searching for penetration and opinions so please be sure to leave comments on this particular website and not on Facebook (so she can see what people believe).
Here is her email:
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I am writing to you trusting for your own input seeing a situation in my life including nudity. (Poll your buddies, if you want also, I will be joyful to have more than one man's opinions.)
I'm trying to determine whether my view on a situation must be analyzed.
This really is the scenario.
Due to many awful conditions in my personal life before year or so, I 've become homeless. I 've a 12 year old son that is now living with my sister, which was my choice and I made it so that you can provide him with a safer and more stable living situation than I can currently provide (as I've been staying with friends in their own little apartment).
For backdrop, whether it is important or not, I was never exposed to much family nudity growing up. I recall seeing my mom unclothed on occasion, but not my dad (and I had two sisters, but no brothers). I never thought about it much, but raised my two sons and daughters in the same way since I never was comfortable just walking around the house completely bare. That said, I have been casual, yet private, about being nude in front of them.
http://www.momsarchive.com/cgi-bin/a2/out.cgi?id=169&u=https://beachspy.site told them that it was unacceptable to be naked throughout the house. I've told them that the human anatomy is natural and amazing, but largely it wasn't something I ever thought much about. Even now, with my youngest son (aforementioned twelve year-old boy), if we are in exactly the same room, and I would like to switch clothing, I will say something like, "I'm going to change now, just so you know, if you desire to pick to look the other way." The other day he was seeing, and he needed to change clothing, and asked me to leave the room. I lightheartedly dismissed his exceedingly modest request, and told him that I 'd look the other way if he desired me to, and I did. He was fine with that.
I've known that two of my friends are more comfortable with social nudity than I 'm and it hasn't been an issue. I view it as a personal choice. I was told the very first time I ever came to their house, that they have a clothing optional home. http://kensingtonlifeltd.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=freenudistpicture.net . The wife is more likely than husband to walk around completely nude. The husband has kids from an earlier marriage, and their policy has been that to avoid problems that could be caused by his ex wife. When his children are visiting, the wife will wear at least a tank top and panties when in view of his kids. When my son has come to see, the policy has been the same.
This couple is purchasing a big house. A few months ago they encouraged myself and my son to dwell there with them too and for as long as I wanted / needed. That was magnificent and generous and I have been really looking forward to being with my son again after annually of living apart.
A few weeks ago, the wife asked me whether I planned on talking to my son about living in a clothing optional environment, or whether I would just manage it as it occurred (such as seeing her being naked around your house in front of him). I was very surprised, as I had supposed the current policy regarding nudity around children would continue. That's what I was used to and hadn't thought about things potentially being different. I talked to the husband alone and he supposed the same.
After they spoke, the wife said that she never thought that straightforward nudity would be an problem for me or my son. That said, now that she's conscious of them, she said that while she'd like to promise that she'dn't be naked around him. http://general-levitation.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=nudistfree.xyz did not feel comfortable to promise that she'dn't forget to put on minimal clothes when he was around. To be http://galaxytechnovita.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=nudistclip.com , she said she would try and recall, but that she could not swear. She didn't need to guarantee something unless she knew she could do it. She said that there have now been times, she had nearly walked out of her bedroom naked when her husband's kids were seeing.
Since that conversation, I've been studying the nudist and naturist lifestyles. I have been reading views and whatever I will locate on the world wide web to help me better understand the scenario. This has led me to you.
I 've family members who wouldn't normally hesitate to call CPS (Child Protective Services) if they became conscious that my son was living in a dwelling where a female adult was nude around him. I could probably find myself in family court for detention problems over this and I'd like to get more info before I make any selection.
The issues that I 'm having trouble understanding are as follow s:
The idea that a person could somehow "forget" to put on clothes is extremely foreign to me. Is this something that some naturists have experienced in the past?
I have concerns about how challenging it'd be for my son to adapt into a clothing optional environment at his age (puberty).
I 'm surprised that she did not imagine that it'd have repercussions for me or my son - Is this common among the naturist community?
I want outlook and don't know how much my concerns are due to my cloth life expertise. Any feedback, thoughts, or opinions would be very, very much appreciated. I 'm hoping your experiences would be helpful in my experience in some way.
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So there you might have it. A non naturist is reaching out and striving to comprehend. Let's take an instant and attempt to help her!
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