Punishment Slut

Punishment Slut

By
Adrienne West ,
October 3rd 2014

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The trick is not to hurt her, at least not too much.
You want to excite her. The point is to make her see how much she wants you and how willing she is to behave in order to get you.
You should start by telling her, “I need to punish you.” This lets her know that you are in charge, you are not asking her, you are telling her what needs to happen next. What will happen next. A girl will respect you more for telling rather than asking — she always has the opportunity to say no and this way she doesn’t have to do all the work (she is already carrying her weight in the parts of your relationship you don’t notice).
Most girls don’t really want to experience pain, so that should be avoided. A tug on her hair or even a hard slap on the ass doesn’t hurt, the body wants that, it translates as pleasure.
Let her know you are doing what you are doing for her pleasure too. You like being treated this way don’t you? It’s all the social conditioning women get to be people pleasers, it makes us feel happy when we make you happy, even when you’re being kind of a dick about it.
If possible you should bend her over something and not let her know whether you are going to spank her or fuck her. Suspense builds the best orgasms. A desk communicates power — that’s an aphrodisiac. A couch or table are more casual and plain, but they’ll do if they are the only option.
You should continually compliment her, or the role play might get to be too much. Remember, she is doing this for you. Tell her how beautiful you think she is, how hot she looks in whatever position she’s in, how turned on she makes you.
Be rough and honest about what you want her to do. Don’t make her do the work of being a mindreader. Don’t say things you think will sound cool that don’t come from your own mind. Going too far can cause her to think you’re insecure and overcompensating, do what comes naturally, don’t try to act like someone else.
Pay attention to how she responds to your hands. If her eyes are closed and she is no longer interacting with you, she’s not into it. She should be making eye contact as often as possible, looking at your face to try to read your expression and see if you are pleased with her.
When she begs for you to let her cum, hold out for only a very small amount of time before you let her. This is her reward for accepting what you give her.
Hold her afterwards. The whole point is that you have to trust each other for it to work. There’s not many places in life left where we demonstrate actual vulnerability and trust — where we place our physical and emotional safety in the hands of another. It’s very luxurious to be able to trust someone and to feel trusted. Savor that feeling.
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It’s the wonder of the onesie. And it’s been added to the list of rules and policies I wear one every day without advanced request and permission.
The world’s gone so crazy, a man can’t even spank his own willing wife anymore without being accused of assault.
But Sean made me take off my skirt in the parking lot and shame, humble and completely owned by my husband.
He ordered one and was so happy, he ordered 10 more.
Spanking is easier. And he just had to leave it unsnapped and it shows my red bottom. But there’s more than that. Like I am more submissive, Sean is more dominating.
He almost never gives me permission to leave the room except to go to the bathroom. He corrects me if I don’t say, sir. And his lectures are totally different. He just says things like, “I am the HOH. That makes me the decision-maker, the rule maker and your disciplinarian. And you do what you’re told. That’s why you are a grown woman wearing a onesie I dress you in with your red bottom I just spanked showing. You’re going to stand in that corner and think about what you did”.
It’s not sexual. But our sex life has improved. He’s just so very manly. I didn’t even flinch when he asked me to model them for our DD friends.
I wouldn’t say no to my husband for anything!
Domestic Discipline Lifestyle For Consenting Adults
My husband is so proud of himself. He has found a garment that makes my bottom more accessible, is suitable for the shaming punishment I need, makes me feel utterly submissive 24/7 and can be used in public.

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It’s the wonder of the onesie. And it’s been added to the list of rules and policies I wear one every day without advanced request and permission.
The world’s gone so crazy, a man can’t even spank his own willing wife anymore without being accused of assault.
But Sean made me take off my skirt in the parking lot and shame, humble and completely owned by my husband.
He ordered one and was so happy, he ordered 10 more.
Spanking is easier. And he just had to leave it unsnapped and it shows my red bottom. But there’s more than that. Like I am more submissive, Sean is more dominating.
He almost never gives me permission to leave the room except to go to the bathroom. He corrects me if I don’t say, sir. And his lectures are totally different. He just says things like, “I am the HOH. That makes me the decision-maker, the rule maker and your disciplinarian. And you do what you’re told. That’s why you are a grown woman wearing a onesie I dress you in with your red bottom I just spanked showing. You’re going to stand in that corner and think about what you did”.
It’s not sexual. But our sex life has improved. He’s just so very manly. I didn’t even flinch when he asked me to model them for our DD friends.
I wouldn’t say no to my husband for anything!
Domestic Discipline Lifestyle For Consenting Adults
My husband is so proud of himself. He has found a garment that makes my bottom more accessible, is suitable for the shaming punishment I need, makes me feel utterly submissive 24/7 and can be used in public.

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