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We haven't talked about this for a really long time, and I thought this was a good time to bring it up again since we have a lot of new people. What do you think of "domestic discipline"? It's also referred to as HOH or "head of household. If you've never heard of it, here is an about.com article I found that should be safe for work (no pics or language): http://marriage.about.com/cs/domesticviolence/a/domesticdisc.htm Here's one specifically about using it in a Christian marriage: http://ddchristianmarriage.com/ Basically, the man is the 'head of the household' and the woman is subservient to him. If she 'misbehaves' she is punished, usually by being spanked to tears. It's (supposedly) not sexual at all, it's meant to 'teach her a lesson'. Often, after being spanked, she is sent to a corner, or some other time out. Some men take it further. What do you think? 
Wow. That would never happen in my house. Ever. I'm not a Christian, so that route is canceled. As far as the spanking, or worse, he better be willing to get his ass beat, before I call the police.
I don't know that there are adequate words to express what I think about this.  I can't even stomach the whole Promise Keepers subservience concept, and that's without bringing in the whole disciplinary bonus.  Don't even get me started.
To quote my mother talking to my father, "If you ever lay a hand on me, you better not ever go to sleep." I tell my husband "I know which knee is the bad knee and I know where the cast iron pans are..." So called "domestic discipline" does not comport with my definition of marriage, which is an equal partnership. I also don't agree with "time out" for adults. I believe in conversation, discussion and compromise. So does my husband, so I picked well.
F that. and that's all I have to say.
Same here. Last time I brought this up, I had found a blog written by a man who was a self-proclaimed expert on the whole thing. I couldn't find it today...maybe it was taken down. But he laid it all out there - if your wife isn't crying when her punishment is over, then you haven't punished her enough. Yet, this isn't abuse? I wish I could find it, you should have seen some of the comments by women in these relationships...scary brainwashed stuff. 
That is just horrible. I wish you did have it, I'm wondering who thinks like this? I wonder if anyone on the boards do? I hope not. I'ts sad.
HA! That's exactly what I'd say to my husband if he tried to pull this crap on me....right before I walked out the door.
I have seen this before. I am convinced it started out as a joke and some people are using it as some kind of masochist lifestyle. There is absolutely no way these people are sane.
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We've got two kids and a shared schedule for dropping them off to school and picking them up. It was the wife's turn to take the kids off to school with her when she left this morning. She didn't. She got up early and left for work before any of us woke up.
This meant I'd to get them dressed, feed 'em and drop 'em off. So, instead of getting into the office at 8.00am like I normally do on a Friday, I was in at 10am.
I texted the wife - "did you forget something this morning?"
Her - "OMG, fuck - I totally forgot it was my turn today, sorry"
Normally, when she drops them off, I collect them and vice-versa. The school closes early on a Friday. She has a conference call on Friday evenings in work.
So I texted her back - "That's OK. You can pick them up when school is finished".
She fucked up my morning, so I'm fucking up her afternoon.
This - I have to say - doesn't feel 100% natural to me and previously, I would have just picked them up and waited for her to apologise when she got home.
Trying to reframe my thinking that not rewarding / punishing her thoughtlessness is the right thing to do.
Do you guys punish your wives / LTRs for this kinda thing? And if so, how - any examples?
No this is a perfect example of you being butthurt and complaining about OYS. I’ll be the first to point you to the side bar on this one
What would you have done in this situation?
I texted the wife - "did you forget something this morning?"
Passive-aggressive approach to bringing this up, m'lady.
She fucked up my morning, so I'm fucking up her afternoon.
Beta point-scoring mentality. Whether or not this was the right action depends on more backstory and history than you've given us, but your mindset from which you made it is all wrong.
I've been avoiding that book, thinking it didn't apply to me but you're not the first person to tell me to read & digest it.
I won't ignore the advice a second time. Thanks.
I just tell her to put her hands on whatever might be near me, and she pops out that ass knowing whats coming. It's very straight forward... piss me off and you get spanked. Sometimes, she comes to me and confesses she did something and asks to be spanked. It works.
What you are doing is passive aggressive bull shit that drys up her vagina. Plus, not to mention all the time you lost, now you are losing energy on trying to some backhanded stuff. Not only did she ruin your morning, but you ruined your afternoon. As my oldest would say, "Congrats dad, you played yourself".
"Congrats dad, you played yourself"
this line is really growing on me. considering the wisdom of giving this to my son so he can say this to me when i occasionally do just that
Not only did she ruin your morning, but you ruined your afternoon.
Zen Poon master level shit right there.
You were being petty. Her making a mistake once, is a mistake. More than that and it's a problem. You failed to lead.
My leadership style is hands off and stoic. So I would have waited to talk to her face to face. "hey so why did you rush out today?"
Maybe it was a resource issue. Maybe she just flaked. I'd rather address the behavior and why it happened, not punish her for what may have been a simple oversight.
I don't like using "punishment". I lead with the idea that we all have choices. Its my job to be clear about what those choices are and the consequences of actions.
I texted the wife - "did you forget something this morning?"
That's a weak way to start that conversation.
She fucked up my morning, so I'm fucking up her afternoon.
That's a weak way to think about it with some score-keeping bullshit.
You're being passive-aggressive as fuck.
Do you guys punish your wives / LTRs for this kinda thing?
Man you are one passive aggressive faggot.
If your wife thinks any of this is punishment, you are mistaken.
We have no context, is this the first time, or the 50th time this has happened?
Tit for Tat, that is a great way to make a relationship work.
My wife takes our kids to school 95% of the time, and you know what? I am still up before everyone else in the house.
You sound like you need to stop playing call of duty all night, get some proper sleep and man the fuck up.
I wouldn't text my wife. She gets a txt when:
I'm going to be late for dinner, "Running about 60 mins late, you guys start without me"
That's about it. I'll use it as a courtesy message. I treat my wife like I treat the weather...something to be celebrated or ignored.
That's an insane outlook. I think I might love itbb
The only punishment my wife gets is in whichever room the kids are not in at the moment.
Captain awesome finds a way for it not to happen again.
Your “she fucked me so now I’m a gonna fuck her” is cringe worthy.
You are the captain. Always (or almost always be the first one up.
Stop keeping score and pick up your fucking kids.
Punishing your wife like this is what a female would do. Does your wife fuck females?
You are the captain. Always (or almost always be the first one up.
Nah, man, the captain's muse is at her strongest after midnight .
There’s a string difference between acting like a petty bitch and handling your shit like a boss. How else can you handle this? She made a mistake. If it’s a one-time deal, just mention it in passing and tease her about if she screws up again you’ll take it out of her ass - as in anal. If this is chronic behavior, it reflects your lack of leadership and frame. But his passive aggressive crap you’re pulling only creates more problems and does nothing to establish your leadership.


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Domestic Discipline - How to punish my wife
My wife of 7 years has mainly been in charge of our home, during that time she has lied , cheated on me, she is lazy often dirty and no longer exercises.
I am sick of listening to her complaining and nagging and have been reading about CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline).
I have decided to start punishing my wife and making her more obedient and dutiful to me.
Please help me decide what to do with her

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Ordered nudity or partial nudity as a form of punishment has been a practice for hundreds of years. Exposure and vulnerability inspires submissiveness. And when the order is delivered by her husband, it makes the wife want to seek her husband’s approval through obedience, affection and proper self-subjugation to her sovereign. It reinforces the roles and reminds her that her body belongs to her husband to pleasure and punish at his will. The costume of a submissive such as a diaper, little girl dresses or a maids uniform is equally or more effective.
That is the husband’s responsibility: to instil submission, obedience, dependency and the proper respect and deference to her husband.
My husband dresses me in clothing that keeps my bottom exposed while we’re home alone. When he enters the room, I bend over presenting myself out of submission and always get a hard smack. I take off his shoes at the end of the day and sit at his feet while he plays with my hair. I use submissive language never calling him by his name, only Sir. I present the implement for punishment. And of course, I ask permission for everything.
When he has me strip to my underwear for punishment or a lecture, I hand my clothes to him and he tells me I can have them back when he decides. Our friends have never seen him spank me, but they have heard him order me to the bedroom to strip, bend over and wait for the paddle. Though just being around us its obvious who makes the rules and who follows them. I still call him Sir and ask permission for everything.
I never disrespect or disobey my husband. But I do get punished for not getting off the phone as soon as he walks in the door, sub-standard housework, and cursing or using language he finds unladylike. But because of our way of life, I rarely get punished.
This is the husband’s responsibility. If he instils submissiveness and obedience in a loving but firm manner, he is almost certain to get a submissive and loving wife.
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I am a disciplined wife who has studied the psychology of punishment in order to be the wife God meant me to be.

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