Prostate Orgasm Instruction

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Prostate Orgasm Instruction
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If you’ve ever spent some time on the internet looking at a decent amount of porn, you may have come across the phenomenon of prostate orgasms in men. Whether you’re sexually attracted to men or not, the spectacle of a man’s body shaking around in orgasmic pleasure is surely a sight to behold. “How can that be me? I want to feel sexual pleasure that intense!” I hear you say… Prostate orgasms can cause men to have multiple orgasms , something which we thought was limited to women for the longest time. Not only can prostate orgasms occur several times in a row, but they can be continuous and lengthy too. You know that moment just before you ejaculate where your legs go weak and pleasure washes over you? It’s like that feeling but extended for minutes at a time. Yep. I recently wrote a lengthy guide on our website about prostate milking entitled The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Milking which is definitely worth checking out if you want to get into the finer details of prostate play. However, for the purposes of this article, I’ll be touching on the basics of prostate orgasms and how they can be achieved most easily.
We get that some people are not big into the idea of putting things up their bottom, and for heterosexual men, there’s also the obvious stigma of ass play being “gay” or unmanly in some way. I could talk for days about how ass play isn’t intrinsically gay, but that’s a story for another time. External prostate play is not as effective as internal prostate play when you’re looking to stimulate this sensitive gland , but it’s a good starting point for newbies nonetheless. For example, you could try using your fingers to massage your perineum, the area between the testicles and butthole sometimes referred to as a “taint” or “gooch” depending on where you live. Next time you’re masturbating or lucky enough to be receiving a blowjob, try clumping 3 of your fingers together and gently making circular movements on your perineum – if you’re lucky, you’ll stimulate the prostate and feel an increased intensity in the sexual pleasure you’re experiencing. This is the power of the prostate in your fingertips. If you want to take it up a notch from there, you could try using an Emojibator bullet vibrator toy or similar sex toy to massage this area with increased intensity once using your fingers is no longer good enough! The vibrations will be significantly more powerful than the sensations provided by manual massage, so you can slowly progress up the prostate play ladder until you’re ready to go further. If you’re working your way up to insertion but you’re not quite feeling brave enough yet, using a vibrating bullet toy on your perineum is a brilliant middle ground.
If you’re okay with the idea of anal insertion, then it’s time to give some fingering a try. You could finger yourself or ask your partner to finger you, depending on your preference. Do bear in mind that it will be easier for a partner to finger you, as the location of the prostate is a little tricky to reach with your own fingers. The prostate is located on the anterior side of your body (i.e. the side closest to your penis) about 2-3 inches inside your rectum. It feels like a walnut-sized “bump” inside your bottom.
Once you have found the prostate with your lubed-up finger, proceed to gently rub or “tap” the bump, massaging it and causing pleasurable sensations throughout your body. Some describe the gland as a “pleasure button” which you can press if you know where to look for it. For some people, this direct contact with an intimate part of the male anatomy can feel a little strange, so it may be helpful to wear a glove or condom over your finger in order to feel less like a surgeon and more like a person who’s looking to orgasm.
If you’re prepared to make way for something to go up your ass which isn’t a finger, then perhaps it’s time to have a look at vibrating toys. Websites such as LoveHoney, SheVibe, and Babeland contain a wide range of vibrating prostate toys, giving you a lot of size options and vibration settings to choose from, catering to various budgets and desires. Rest assured that most prostate toys are not huge dildo-like objects – you only need to travel a few inches up the ass to find this gland… we don’t need menacing veiny 12-inch dildos. Vibrating toys, once properly positioned, provide the prostate with unique stimulation which can send pleasurable waves of sexual desire throughout your body, sometimes referred to as “p-waves” (with the “p” referring to “prostate”). These are great when combined with penile masturbation, sex, or blowjobs; they serve as a brilliant way to spice up your masturbation/sex life and enhance regular orgasms, although they are unlikely to make you cum hands-free from a purely anal orgasm. This is because the vibrating nature of the toys eventually “numbs” the gland and the prostate becomes less sensitive to the vibrations over time.
If you’re really looking for a mind-shattering otherworldly kind of orgasm, this is the place you wanna be. Aneros is a sex toy company which actually originally started out making prostate massagers for medical reasons before quickly realizing that their products were being used more for sexual pleasure than anything else. Today, Aneros devices have a cult following of sorts, with forums such as the Aneros subreddit discussing various toys and techniques for achieving Super Os (super orgasms). You see, these sex toys are not vibrating – they don’t use power for anything at all. No, they are completely manual. I have to admit that when I first purchased one, I naturally assumed that there would be a battery compartment, and I was baffled when I couldn’t find one! These well-shaped pieces of medical grade silicone have the power to change your sex and masturbation life forever if you’re prepared to put in the time, patience, and technique required to use them properly. These manual prostate sex toys are all about learning to contract the muscles in and around your prostate, namely the sphincter muscles (the ones you use to hold in a poop) and the PC muscles (the ones you use to hold in a pee). By contracting and relaxing these muscles in the right way, they will eventually become tired and start to “flutter” and “wobble” when you relax, a bit like when you’re lifting weights at the gym and your arms start to shake as they get tired. With any luck, you’ll be able to time these muscle spasms in such a way that they begin to cause involuntary orgasms. It’s easier said than done, and it takes a lot of concentration and meditation, but if you play your cards right, you could cause a chain reaction which leads to the elusive mind-blowing Super Orgasm . In our ultimate guide to prostate milking, we talk about the techniques used to achieve these orgasms in more detail, and there are also many online forums where you can find out more tips and tricks for male hands-free orgasms.
Prostate milking is a bit like hacking your own body – you’re taking advantage of a natural pleasure spot inside you which happens to be quite easily accessible if you have the right equipment/knowledge behind you. If you can get past the fear of putting things inside your bum (if you have that fear) then you’ll be able to harness the power of multiple intense male orgasms emanating from your anus. I’m willing to bet that if the prostate was located on the forehead, men would be massaging it like there was no tomorrow. Still, prostate play requires knowledge and preparation, so don’t rush and make sure that you spend plenty of time reading up on toys and techniques which work for you. Once you’ve mastered the art of prostate orgasms, however, your sex and masturbatory life will never be the same again. The only downside of prostate orgasms is that they make regular penis orgasms seem a little crap… I personally seem to have spoiled regular orgasms for myself.
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Ah, orgasms ! Who doesn’t love them? There are so many ways to achieve the big O, from jacking off to intercourse to playing with sex toys (hi, vibrating cock rings ). But your penis isn't the only way to experience such pleasure. In fact, if you're looking for a toe-curling, mind-blowing orgasm, you might just find it...in your ass.
The prostate —a.k.a the P-spot or male G-spot—is packed with nerve endings, making it an extremely sensitive pleasure point. Stimulating the prostate can lead to powerful orgasms, but only if you know what you’re doing. Jabbing your finger into your butt won't necessarily do the trick; it's all about nailing the right angles and techniques—not to mention using lots of lube.
When you do figure out what works, the pay-off can be sweet. "Prostate orgasms will be subtle at first and foreign, because it’s new," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness. "Eventually, it feels more like a full-body sensation that radiates through the body. It feels like your entire body is orgasming. Learning to experience this can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." (FYI, some experts compare prostate orgasms to internal G-spot orgasms in people with a vulva, and penile orgasms to external clitoral orgasms.)
If you’re ready to experiment with yourself (or your partner), read on to find the answers to all your questions about how to have a prostate orgasm.
There's a problematic yet persistent notion out there that you can't be straight and enjoy butt play. This is false—a complete myth.
“Anyone who has a prostate can potentially have a prostate orgasm, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation,” says Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast , and member of the Men's Health Advisory Board.
As with any new sexual activity, learning how to have a prostate orgasm takes preparation and practice. Here are some expert-approved tips, techniques, and other important things to know.
If you’re new to anal play , the first step is finding your prostate . The walnut-sized gland is located underneath the bladder and in front of the rectum, and you can stimulate it by putting fingers or toys (anal beads, dildos, etc.) about three inches into your butt.
Kenneth Play, sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series , suggests experimenting with yourself (if you can!) before trying with your partner. “I recommend masturbation rather than partner play to start this exploration because you have a direct feedback loop," he says. "Without having to instruct someone else or worry about being comfortable, things are much simpler and more effective."
Now, we know you might be scratching your head in confusion, wondering how there can be an external prostate orgasm when the prostate is located inside your anus. But here’s a quick bio lesson: an external prostate orgasm is when you stimulate your prostate “externally, by applying pressure between your anus and your testicles,” Saynt explains (in other words, by massaging your perineum). No insertion required.
Internal orgasms, on the other hand, involve massaging your prostate (with the help of fingers and/or sex toys and lots of lube ).
Ready to experiment with external prostate stimulation? Start off by taking two fingers, dousing them with lube, and then applying repeated pressure to that area between the anus and testicles.
The most sensitive you are, the easier it is to orgasm, Saynt says. If you're having trouble achieving that big O, Play recommends stimulating your penis with a vibrator or other sex toys while you knead your perineum. Not everyone can climax solely from prostate stimulation, and that's okay.
Going through the back door can be lots of fun, but you'll also need a lot more preparation. Start off by taking a shower and douching your booty , so you don't end up accidentally touching poop, Saynt says. (That said, it helps to accept that a little feces contact comes with the territory of butt play!)
Once you're done cleaning, get the party started by getting yourself turned on. You could watch porn or listen to some erotica while you start to stroke your penis. Just remember, you're not trying to rush to a penile orgasm—this is all about warming yourself up for prostate play. "Start stimulating your penis to get to a certain level of arousal before anal penetration, ‘cause otherwise it can feel like a medical exam," Play says.
Unless you’re into pain (no judgment here), please, please, please use lube. Lehmiller recommends water-based or silicone . Lube up your middle and pointer fingers before slowly—emphasis on slowly —penetrating your anus. “Move your fingers in a come [hither] motion, and you’ll begin to build up the pressure needed to orgasm,” Saynt explains.
Prostate massagers are vibrating toys that are specifically designed to go up your butt and stimulate your P-spot. "They have different vibration intensities and settings, so that you can sort of customize it for the right type of prostate stimulation for you," Lehmiller says. "And some of those prostate stimulators also have other attachments to them, such as a cock ring so that you can provide penile stimulation and prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some also have an attachment that stimulates the perineum, so you can massage the prostate internally and externally at the same time.
If you're using a toy, make sure you lube it up, too; just beware of mixing silicone lube with silicone toys, as the lube can cause the toys to erode.
Continue jacking off your erection and stimulating your prostate until you feel a build-up of pleasure coming from deep within you (it'll feel different than the build-up to a penile orgasm, which is more localized in your junk). Once you feel like you're nearly at the point of release, let go of your penis and focus entirely on your prostate until you climax.
Don't be scared if you notice some fluid coming out of your butt—that's just mucus, and it's totally normal! (Think of it as male W.A.P.) You may also notice ejaculate coming out of your penis, even though you're not having a penile orgasm. It's all natural, though it can be a bit messy, so remember to use a towel.
A prostate orgasm may be unlike anything you’ve felt before, so it's important to relax afterward and process what you just experienced. If you played with a partner, check in with them and see how they're doing. “Chill out!" Play says. "Don’t rush into cleaning and trying to make everything tidy. Make sure to honor any feelings that come up and take time to cuddle, drink tea, etc."
When you feel ready to move again, experts recommend showering, douching, and cleaning off any lube or sex toys so bacteria doesn’t cause an infection.
As Lehmiller notes, there is limited research on prostate orgasms, so personal experimentation is important.
That trial and error process can be time-consuming. Some prostate owners achieve the big O on the first go-around, while others have to have a bit (or a lot!) of practice before finding what works, Saynt says. It also doesn’t help that some prostate owners feel ashamed or less manly when partaking prostate play: “The internalized shame and feelings of inadequacy could cause mental blocks which prevent the free release of the natural sex drugs our brains release when we are at our most heightened sense of pleasure," he says. "This fear is a trauma which many men will never get past, making enjoyable and healthy practices like prostate orgasm impossible.”
Thus, it’s important for partners—especially vulva-owners—to be supportive. If you're helping your partner achieve a prostate orgasm for the first time, take it slow; don’t use toys or fingers until your partner is ready, and have frequent conversations with your partner about what they do and do not like. You can even ask them to demonstrate how they masturbate with their prostate.
Be mindful that your partner will not always achieve a prostate orgasm, and that's okay. “There’s a vulnerability that comes into play when men are being penetrated,” Saynt explains. “Unless you’ve been fully [transparent] in your conversations leading up to P-play, there may be lingering traumas or experiences which make the situation uncomfortable. Respect the time it may take for some men to be fully comfortable with prostate stimulation with a partner.”
Sex should not be painful , and that goes for working toward a prostate orgasm. With lots of lube and patience, the most you should feel is a little discomfort until your body familiarizes itself with the sensation of prostate stimulation, Play says.
Once you get to the climax, the feeling of a prostate orgasm can be other-worldly. "It feels more like a full-body orgasm, and is very different from the kind you’ve had from penile stimulation," Play says. Pretty powerful, eh?
Unlike penile orgasms, prostate orgasms don't come with a refractory period , making them ideal for penis-owners who want to experience multiple orgasms. "To my surprise, what I’ve found is that after I have a prostate orgasm, my penis stays hard and is still responsive to sexual stimulation," Play says. "If you continue to masturbate by touching your penis, you can immediately have another orgasm. Eventually, you can have more and more orgasms. So, all in all, I think that prostate orgasms have the most potential for accessible multiple orgasms."

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