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Prostate Orgasm
By Melanie Curry Published: Jun 8, 2021
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Prepare for a full-body experience like no other.
Ah, orgasms ! Who doesn’t love them? There are so many ways to achieve the big O, from jacking off to intercourse to playing with sex toys (hi, vibrating cock rings ). But your penis isn't the only way to experience such pleasure. In fact, if you're looking for a toe-curling, mind-blowing orgasm, you might just find it...in your ass.
The prostate —a.k.a the P-spot or male G-spot—is packed with nerve endings, making it an extremely sensitive pleasure point. Stimulating the prostate can lead to powerful orgasms, but only if you know what you’re doing. Jabbing your finger into your butt won't necessarily do the trick; it's all about nailing the right angles and techniques—not to mention using lots of lube.
When you do figure out what works, the pay-off can be sweet. "Prostate orgasms will be subtle at first and foreign, because it’s new," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness. "Eventually, it feels more like a full-body sensation that radiates through the body. It feels like your entire body is orgasming. Learning to experience this can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." (FYI, some experts compare prostate orgasms to internal G-spot orgasms in people with a vulva, and penile orgasms to external clitoral orgasms.)
If you’re ready to experiment with yourself (or your partner), read on to find the answers to all your questions about how to have a prostate orgasm.
There's a problematic yet persistent notion out there that you can't be straight and enjoy butt play. This is false—a complete myth.
“Anyone who has a prostate can potentially have a prostate orgasm, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation,” says Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast , and member of the Men's Health Advisory Board.
As with any new sexual activity, learning how to have a prostate orgasm takes preparation and practice. Here are some expert-approved tips, techniques, and other important things to know.
If you’re new to anal play , the first step is finding your prostate . The walnut-sized gland is located underneath the bladder and in front of the rectum, and you can stimulate it by putting fingers or toys (anal beads, dildos, etc.) about three inches into your butt.
Kenneth Play, sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series , suggests experimenting with yourself (if you can!) before trying with your partner. “I recommend masturbation rather than partner play to start this exploration because you have a direct feedback loop," he says. "Without having to instruct someone else or worry about being comfortable, things are much simpler and more effective."
Now, we know you might be scratching your head in confusion, wondering how there can be an external prostate orgasm when the prostate is located inside your anus. But here’s a quick bio lesson: an external prostate orgasm is when you stimulate your prostate “externally, by applying pressure between your anus and your testicles,” Saynt explains (in other words, by massaging your perineum). No insertion required.
Internal orgasms, on the other hand, involve massaging your prostate (with the help of fingers and/or sex toys and lots of lube ).
Ready to experiment with external prostate stimulation? Start off by taking two fingers, dousing them with lube, and then applying repeated pressure to that area between the anus and testicles.
The most sensitive you are, the easier it is to orgasm, Saynt says. If you're having trouble achieving that big O, Play recommends stimulating your penis with a vibrator or other sex toys while you knead your perineum. Not everyone can climax solely from prostate stimulation, and that's okay.
Going through the back door can be lots of fun, but you'll also need a lot more preparation. Start off by taking a shower and douching your booty , so you don't end up accidentally touching poop, Saynt says. (That said, it helps to accept that a little feces contact comes with the territory of butt play!)
Once you're done cleaning, get the party started by getting yourself turned on. You could watch porn or listen to some erotica while you start to stroke your penis. Just remember, you're not trying to rush to a penile orgasm—this is all about warming yourself up for prostate play. "Start stimulating your penis to get to a certain level of arousal before anal penetration, ‘cause otherwise it can feel like a medical exam," Play says.
Unless you’re into pain (no judgment here), please, please, please use lube. Lehmiller recommends water-based or silicone . Lube up your middle and pointer fingers before slowly—emphasis on slowly —penetrating your anus. “Move your fingers in a come [hither] motion, and you’ll begin to build up the pressure needed to orgasm,” Saynt explains.
Prostate massagers are vibrating toys that are specifically designed to go up your butt and stimulate your P-spot. "They have different vibration intensities and settings, so that you can sort of customize it for the right type of prostate stimulation for you," Lehmiller says. "And some of those prostate stimulators also have other attachments to them, such as a cock ring so that you can provide penile stimulation and prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some also have an attachment that stimulates the perineum, so you can massage the prostate internally and externally at the same time.
If you're using a toy, make sure you lube it up, too; just beware of mixing silicone lube with silicone toys, as the lube can cause the toys to erode.
Continue jacking off your erection and stimulating your prostate until you feel a build-up of pleasure coming from deep within you (it'll feel different than the build-up to a penile orgasm, which is more localized in your junk). Once you feel like you're nearly at the point of release, let go of your penis and focus entirely on your prostate until you climax.
Don't be scared if you notice some fluid coming out of your butt—that's just mucus, and it's totally normal! (Think of it as male W.A.P.) You may also notice ejaculate coming out of your penis, even though you're not having a penile orgasm. It's all natural, though it can be a bit messy, so remember to use a towel.
A prostate orgasm may be unlike anything you’ve felt before, so it's important to relax afterward and process what you just experienced. If you played with a partner, check in with them and see how they're doing. “Chill out!" Play says. "Don’t rush into cleaning and trying to make everything tidy. Make sure to honor any feelings that come up and take time to cuddle, drink tea, etc."
When you feel ready to move again, experts recommend showering, douching, and cleaning off any lube or sex toys so bacteria doesn’t cause an infection.
As Lehmiller notes, there is limited research on prostate orgasms, so personal experimentation is important.
That trial and error process can be time-consuming. Some prostate owners achieve the big O on the first go-around, while others have to have a bit (or a lot!) of practice before finding what works, Saynt says. It also doesn’t help that some prostate owners feel ashamed or less manly when partaking prostate play: “The internalized shame and feelings of inadequacy could cause mental blocks which prevent the free release of the natural sex drugs our brains release when we are at our most heightened sense of pleasure," he says. "This fear is a trauma which many men will never get past, making enjoyable and healthy practices like prostate orgasm impossible.”
Thus, it’s important for partners—especially vulva-owners—to be supportive. If you're helping your partner achieve a prostate orgasm for the first time, take it slow; don’t use toys or fingers until your partner is ready, and have frequent conversations with your partner about what they do and do not like. You can even ask them to demonstrate how they masturbate with their prostate.
Be mindful that your partner will not always achieve a prostate orgasm, and that's okay. “There’s a vulnerability that comes into play when men are being penetrated,” Saynt explains. “Unless you’ve been fully [transparent] in your conversations leading up to P-play, there may be lingering traumas or experiences which make the situation uncomfortable. Respect the time it may take for some men to be fully comfortable with prostate stimulation with a partner.”
Sex should not be painful , and that goes for working toward a prostate orgasm. With lots of lube and patience, the most you should feel is a little discomfort until your body familiarizes itself with the sensation of prostate stimulation, Play says.
Once you get to the climax, the feeling of a prostate orgasm can be other-worldly. "It feels more like a full-body orgasm, and is very different from the kind you’ve had from penile stimulation," Play says. Pretty powerful, eh?
Unlike penile orgasms, prostate orgasms don't come with a refractory period , making them ideal for penis-owners who want to experience multiple orgasms. "To my surprise, what I’ve found is that after I have a prostate orgasm, my penis stays hard and is still responsive to sexual stimulation," Play says. "If you continue to masturbate by touching your penis, you can immediately have another orgasm. Eventually, you can have more and more orgasms. So, all in all, I think that prostate orgasms have the most potential for accessible multiple orgasms."
Melanie Curry (she/her) is an editorial assistant at Hearst Magazines where she does a little of bit of everything in digital media. Her work has appeared in Men’s Health, InStyle, ELLE, and more. When not writing the day away, you can find her drinking a cold brew at Starbucks, reading a romance novel, or binge-watching the trendiest show on Netflix. 
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By Zachary Zane Published: Jan 4, 2021
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"Penile orgasms are amazing, but there’s nothing like a prostate orgasm."
It’s not greedy to want the most euphoric sex imaginable. As long as you're making sure your partner is having a toe-curling good time too, then you should feel free to maximize your own pleasure—which is why it can be useful to get creative in the bedroom, either by bringing in some toys or getting your rear end involved.
Anal play isn’t for every man, and I understand why you might be reticent to try it. It's still a bit taboo, and it can get a little messy (but so, too, can life—doesn’t mean we stop living). But if you're down to do butt stuff, you might discover the wonders of the prostate orgasm , and it's like no penile orgasm you've ever experienced.
Prostate orgasms are difficult to describe and a unique experience for every man, which is we thought it would be helpful to ask a few men—who are no strangers to the experience—to describe the action in their own words.
Fred: I didn’t expect it, so it was a very new sensation. It was like feeling someone lighting a fire in my feet and feeling it slowly spread all the way up my body. Slowly moving through my torso and making me shiver. I was in shock!
Alan: My first prostate-induced orgasm felt like an out of body explosion. My head was dizzy for like a minute afterward, and I had this absolutely incredible rush of nothing but pleasure. Needless to say, I was hooked and wanted to keep going.
Evan: My first prostate induced orgasm was because of a prostate toy I bought a few years ago. I never had one before using it. It was pretty hot because the toy got me really close to ejaculating without touching my dick. Then all it took was a little stroke, and I shot everywhere.
Drew: I remember the first time pretty vividly. I was having sex with a fuckbuddy and they repositioned me on my back with my legs up on their shoulders. They started pounding away at my hole and must've found just the right angle or something because a whole new wave of pleasure and sensation came over me. I've never looked back since.
Marcus: It was heaven. I almost didn't understand what was happening. That there could be so much sensation, throughout every inch of my body, was brand new to me.
Daniel: I remember first hearing about it on Craigslist under Seeking Arrangements. It was mentioned in some random post by a guy looking for someone to come over and "milk him." I didn't meet him, but it definitely sparked my curiosity and I looked it up, finding some random online story about it. I read all the tips and decided to try myself. I did it alone during a shower, taking a little shampoo and working my way up my bottom. The soap burned a bit, but I kept feeling around and playing. After my third or fourth time trying it I finally felt the sensation of orgasm. I was 16.
Dominus: I first experienced my prostate orgasm in my early 20s. Coincidentally, this was my first time with someone who did sex work on the side, though I wasn't a client. [She asked] me if I wanted to have butt play, since I was sexually open. (I identify as sexually fluid.) She set a massage table with sheets, paper towels on the side, lube, and surgical gloves. She had all the pro tools ready to go. She proceeded to work over what I never really got to access as easily, I mean, I tried many a time fingering myself in the shower to no avail, and within minutes of prostate play with a blowjob, I shot hot fire like I never had before.
Ryan: The first time I realized I liked it up the butt and really hit my prostate myself was when I was 16. I got my first vibrator and really went to town on my own ass.
Fred: They’re way more intense. Penile orgasms are quicker, and they don’t feel anywhere near as good. I love both, naturally, but for me, a penile orgasm is a quick release, whereas getting a prostate orgasm is a full “eyes rolled back” situation.
Alan: The obvious answer for me is the different location of the sensations. Oftentimes, with prostate orgasms, I have engaged my entire body. On top of that, it doesn’t have to mean an ejaculation, thus changing how we define what the “climax” of our sexual pleasure is. I often find, depending on the situation, that I can have sex longer with a prostate orgasm.
Evan: Prostate orgasms are a lot more full-body. I feel it more in my legs and torso, rather than just locally in my dick. Also, sometimes I cum kind of quickly from penile orgasms, and with prostate stimulation, I last longer in every way. The resulting orgasm is generally longer and "slower" than just stimulation from my dick.
Drew: In my experience, p-spot orgasms are really different from penile ones. When I cum via penile stimulation it feels like a quick and heavy punch to my pleasure center, followed by a really nice burst/release; prostate orgasms are much more intense and drawn out. At some point, I usually start oozing cum [with a prostate orgasm], which can go on for quite a while. I liken this all to an ocean wave on the beach, undulating between crashing up the shore and receding back down to the sea, only to come back once more.
Marcus: Penile orgasms give a sensation of pent-up inward energy releasing outwards, whereas prostate ones are the internal explosion of pent-up energy stimulated by an outside source. Prostate orgasms light your entire inside up.
Daniel: It's like the difference between seeing a movie in standard definition and then discovering IMAX. You can enjoy the movie in both formats, but one is noticeably better. A penile orgasm is quick; the waves of pleasure that come with it are standard and expected. You may have a low refractory period and can get back into play immediately after your first orgasm and may come again. With prostate orgasms, you don't have a refractory period. You can experience the immense pleasure of your orgasm and then extend it, continuing stimulation so that you experience multiple orgasms.
Richard: Penile orgasms are amazing, but there’s nothing like a prostate orgasm. It’s more than just the “uh-uh-oh-yeah.” It’s that toe-curling, internal, get my spot, own me, make my head go back, eye-roll sensation that only some folks know how to give you. Luckily, I know how to love my body just right when they have no clue what they’re doing.
Dominus: Yes, a prostate orgasm is extremely different than a pure ejaculatory orgasm. That first time I felt a huge rush to my face, my body got so warm and my heart raced like crazy. I felt like I was coming from the inside out and that a volcano was erupting. If an ejaculation feels like a 10, this was a 20. Yes, it was double the intensity.
Simon: I’ve had multiple [prostate] orgasms with significantly shorter refractory periods than with penile orgasms. Prostate orgasms before ejaculatory orgasms make the latter much more powerful. When I have anal stimulation while coming, those orgasms always feel more full-body.
Ryan: It’s almost uncontrollable. I’ve realized how strange a position I am in once I’m finished, and have even had to breathe myself out of a muscle spasm because of how hard it hits.
Fred: Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Occasionally I’ll shoot when I’ve gone through a prostate orgasm, but usually, if I ejaculate, I don’t even notice.
Alan: Most of the time I do ejaculate with a prostate-induced orgasm, but the first time I didn’t. It’s how I learned I could “climax” without an ejaculation.
Drew: I generally cum from p-spot orgasms, but it's more drawn out and less of a "shooting my load" type situation. The cum oozes out during the drawn-out orgasm and is usually accompanied by some really lovely spasming of my hole.
Marcus: Oh boy, do I ever. I have been told on multiple occasions that I need to do adult film work with the amount that I ejaculate when my prostate is stimulated. Fountain, hose, shower, drain spout—just a few of the words that humans have used to describe my cumshot when something is up my rear end.
Daniel: Many times when I'm enjoying prostate stimulation it's diffi
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