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Prepare for a full-body experience like no other.
Ah, orgasms ! Who doesn’t love them? There are so many ways to achieve the big O, from jacking off to intercourse to playing with sex toys (hi, vibrating cock rings ). But your penis isn't the only way to experience such pleasure. In fact, if you're looking for a toe-curling, mind-blowing orgasm, you might just find it...in your ass.
The prostate —a.k.a the P-spot or male G-spot—is packed with nerve endings, making it an extremely sensitive pleasure point. Stimulating the prostate can lead to powerful orgasms, but only if you know what you’re doing. Jabbing your finger into your butt won't necessarily do the trick; it's all about nailing the right angles and techniques—not to mention using lots of lube.
When you do figure out what works, the pay-off can be sweet. "Prostate orgasms will be subtle at first and foreign, because it’s new," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness. "Eventually, it feels more like a full-body sensation that radiates through the body. It feels like your entire body is orgasming. Learning to experience this can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." (FYI, some experts compare prostate orgasms to internal G-spot orgasms in people with a vulva, and penile orgasms to external clitoral orgasms.)
If you’re ready to experiment with yourself (or your partner), read on to find the answers to all your questions about how to have a prostate orgasm.
There's a problematic yet persistent notion out there that you can't be straight and enjoy butt play. This is false—a complete myth.
“Anyone who has a prostate can potentially have a prostate orgasm, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation,” says Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast , and member of the Men's Health Advisory Board.
As with any new sexual activity, learning how to have a prostate orgasm takes preparation and practice. Here are some expert-approved tips, techniques, and other important things to know.
If you’re new to anal play , the first step is finding your prostate . The walnut-sized gland is located underneath the bladder and in front of the rectum, and you can stimulate it by putting fingers or toys (anal beads, dildos, etc.) about three inches into your butt.
Kenneth Play, sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series , suggests experimenting with yourself (if you can!) before trying with your partner. “I recommend masturbation rather than partner play to start this exploration because you have a direct feedback loop," he says. "Without having to instruct someone else or worry about being comfortable, things are much simpler and more effective."
Now, we know you might be scratching your head in confusion, wondering how there can be an external prostate orgasm when the prostate is located inside your anus. But here’s a quick bio lesson: an external prostate orgasm is when you stimulate your prostate “externally, by applying pressure between your anus and your testicles,” Saynt explains (in other words, by massaging your perineum). No insertion required.
Internal orgasms, on the other hand, involve massaging your prostate (with the help of fingers and/or sex toys and lots of lube ).
Ready to experiment with external prostate stimulation? Start off by taking two fingers, dousing them with lube, and then applying repeated pressure to that area between the anus and testicles.
The most sensitive you are, the easier it is to orgasm, Saynt says. If you're having trouble achieving that big O, Play recommends stimulating your penis with a vibrator or other sex toys while you knead your perineum. Not everyone can climax solely from prostate stimulation, and that's okay.
Going through the back door can be lots of fun, but you'll also need a lot more preparation. Start off by taking a shower and douching your booty , so you don't end up accidentally touching poop, Saynt says. (That said, it helps to accept that a little feces contact comes with the territory of butt play!)
Once you're done cleaning, get the party started by getting yourself turned on. You could watch porn or listen to some erotica while you start to stroke your penis. Just remember, you're not trying to rush to a penile orgasm—this is all about warming yourself up for prostate play. "Start stimulating your penis to get to a certain level of arousal before anal penetration, ‘cause otherwise it can feel like a medical exam," Play says.
Unless you’re into pain (no judgment here), please, please, please use lube. Lehmiller recommends water-based or silicone . Lube up your middle and pointer fingers before slowly—emphasis on slowly —penetrating your anus. “Move your fingers in a come [hither] motion, and you’ll begin to build up the pressure needed to orgasm,” Saynt explains.
Prostate massagers are vibrating toys that are specifically designed to go up your butt and stimulate your P-spot. "They have different vibration intensities and settings, so that you can sort of customize it for the right type of prostate stimulation for you," Lehmiller says. "And some of those prostate stimulators also have other attachments to them, such as a cock ring so that you can provide penile stimulation and prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some also have an attachment that stimulates the perineum, so you can massage the prostate internally and externally at the same time.
If you're using a toy, make sure you lube it up, too; just beware of mixing silicone lube with silicone toys, as the lube can cause the toys to erode.
Continue jacking off your erection and stimulating your prostate until you feel a build-up of pleasure coming from deep within you (it'll feel different than the build-up to a penile orgasm, which is more localized in your junk). Once you feel like you're nearly at the point of release, let go of your penis and focus entirely on your prostate until you climax.
Don't be scared if you notice some fluid coming out of your butt—that's just mucus, and it's totally normal! (Think of it as male W.A.P.) You may also notice ejaculate coming out of your penis, even though you're not having a penile orgasm. It's all natural, though it can be a bit messy, so remember to use a towel.
A prostate orgasm may be unlike anything you’ve felt before, so it's important to relax afterward and process what you just experienced. If you played with a partner, check in with them and see how they're doing. “Chill out!" Play says. "Don’t rush into cleaning and trying to make everything tidy. Make sure to honor any feelings that come up and take time to cuddle, drink tea, etc."
When you feel ready to move again, experts recommend showering, douching, and cleaning off any lube or sex toys so bacteria doesn’t cause an infection.
As Lehmiller notes, there is limited research on prostate orgasms, so personal experimentation is important.
That trial and error process can be time-consuming. Some prostate owners achieve the big O on the first go-around, while others have to have a bit (or a lot!) of practice before finding what works, Saynt says. It also doesn’t help that some prostate owners feel ashamed or less manly when partaking prostate play: “The internalized shame and feelings of inadequacy could cause mental blocks which prevent the free release of the natural sex drugs our brains release when we are at our most heightened sense of pleasure," he says. "This fear is a trauma which many men will never get past, making enjoyable and healthy practices like prostate orgasm impossible.”
Thus, it’s important for partners—especially vulva-owners—to be supportive. If you're helping your partner achieve a prostate orgasm for the first time, take it slow; don’t use toys or fingers until your partner is ready, and have frequent conversations with your partner about what they do and do not like. You can even ask them to demonstrate how they masturbate with their prostate.
Be mindful that your partner will not always achieve a prostate orgasm, and that's okay. “There’s a vulnerability that comes into play when men are being penetrated,” Saynt explains. “Unless you’ve been fully [transparent] in your conversations leading up to P-play, there may be lingering traumas or experiences which make the situation uncomfortable. Respect the time it may take for some men to be fully comfortable with prostate stimulation with a partner.”
Sex should not be painful , and that goes for working toward a prostate orgasm. With lots of lube and patience, the most you should feel is a little discomfort until your body familiarizes itself with the sensation of prostate stimulation, Play says.
Once you get to the climax, the feeling of a prostate orgasm can be other-worldly. "It feels more like a full-body orgasm, and is very different from the kind you’ve had from penile stimulation," Play says. Pretty powerful, eh?
Unlike penile orgasms, prostate orgasms don't come with a refractory period , making them ideal for penis-owners who want to experience multiple orgasms. "To my surprise, what I’ve found is that after I have a prostate orgasm, my penis stays hard and is still responsive to sexual stimulation," Play says. "If you continue to masturbate by touching your penis, you can immediately have another orgasm. Eventually, you can have more and more orgasms. So, all in all, I think that prostate orgasms have the most potential for accessible multiple orgasms."
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First of all, he’s got to be okay with butt stuff.
Butt stuff has been taboo probably for as long as there have been taboos. But thanks to a growing conversation on anal play ( hello, pegging !) you and your partner might find yourselves ready to, erm, enter new territory and attempt a prostate orgasm .
The prostate—a gland about the size of a walnut which sits deep in the groin between the base of a guy’s penis and his rectum—is to men what the G-spot is to women . For some men, it can potentially be a total pleasure center.
Biologically, the prostate produces semen, but “sexually and erotically, it can function to heighten pleasure,” says Jenni Skyler , Ph.D., founder of The Intimacy Institute in Colorado. “What prostate stimulation does is press upon the urethra in such a way that it can actually prevent ejaculation,” Skyler says—a.k.a. it can stretch out that just-about-to-orgasm feeling even longer.
Prostate (n.): a gland the size of a walnut, found deep in the groin between penis base and rectum.
“If your partner is comfortable with prostate contact and is able to relax and enjoy anal stimulation”—the only way to get to the prostate is by sticking your finger or a toy about an inch and a half into his butt—“it adds this sensation of fullness and pressure that maximizes the intensity of an orgasm for a man,” Skyler explains.
Aside from the prostate stimulation itself, the anal action that’s part of the process can also boost a guy’s pleasure. “It's hard to know how much of ‘prostate pleasure’ actually involves the prostate at all and how much is related to the fact that the only way to get to a man's prostate is through his anus,” says Stephen Snyder, M.D., a sex therapist and author of Love Worth Making . “A lot of people enjoy anal stimulation, which makes sense—like the genitals, the anal area is richly supplied with nerve endings and blood flow.”
That said, “Some men don’t enjoy it—it can be a psychological lack of enjoyment or it could be a physiological one,” says Skyler, adding she’s had patients in both categories. Or maybe he's just not interested in exploring (and that's okay). Either way, as with any sex act, it's important to communicate and make sure both parties are game—that includes you, btw.
If you're intrigued by exploring this new territory, Skyler has some tips for how to make a prostate orgasm happen.
If you are both jazzed to poke around his prostate, it’s important to start by getting super-relaxed. “The anus has two sphincters and they can tighten up and close,” Skyler says. “The way to get entrance and invitation is to really deeply relax the whole body."
Start with a sensual massage, the goal of which isn’t necessarily to turn your partner on, but to help him feel totally comfortable.
Once your partner feels chilled out, ease your way in. “If you’ve never done anal play, approach the anus respectfully and slowly,” Sklyer says. “Play with the full buttocks and inner thighs first and then move to play with the outer rim of the opening of the anus.”
“The anus is not self-lubricating so make sure there’s a lot of lube, no matter what,” Skyler says. She recommends picking up a lubricant that’s specifically designed for anal play since these formulas tend to be a little thicker and last a bit longer. (Here are the best lubes for anal , FYI.)
The best way to stimulate the prostate is either with your finger or a prostate toy (basically a slim butt plug). If you’re hesitant about using your finger (even if he just took a shower, it’s okay if the idea still makes you feel a little squeamish) a toy is an awesome alternative.
“Sex toy retailers like Adam and Eve sell a lot of beginner prostate toys,” Skyler says. “Most of them even have a rounded edge like a finger.”
To make a prostate orgasm happen, go super-slowly—especially if this is the first time you and your partner are trying the technique. Once you’re inside, feel for the prostate gland, which is about “one knuckle’s worth” into the rectum in the direction of his penis (as opposed to his lower back), Skyler says. “It feels like a soft pillow-y ball,” she says.
Once you’ve found it, apply soft pressure or try stroking it slowly, and keep communicating with your partner about how it feels. Take your cues from him on whether to stroke or apply even pressure, go slower or faster, press more or less intense, etc. Whatever way you do it: Prepare for a whole new type of O.
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"Penile orgasms are amazing, but there’s nothing like a prostate orgasm."
It’s not greedy to want the most euphoric sex imaginable. As long as you're making sure your partner is having a toe-curling good time too, then you should feel free to maximize your own pleasure—which is why it can be useful to get creative in the bedroom, either by bringing in some toys or getting your rear end involved.
Anal play isn’t for every man, and I understand why you might be reticent to try it. It's still a bit taboo, and it can get a little messy (but so, too, can life—doesn’t mean we stop living). But if you're down to do butt stuff, you might discover the wonders of the prostate orgasm , and it's like no penile orgasm you've ever experienced.
Prostate orgasms are difficult to describe and a unique experience for every man, which is we thought it would be helpful to ask a few men—who are no strangers to the experience—to describe the action in their own words.
Fred: I didn’t expect it, so it was a very new sensation. It was like feeling someone lighting a fire in my feet and feeling it slowly spread all the way up my body. Slowly moving through my torso and making me shiver. I was in shock!
Alan: My first prostate-induced orgasm felt like an out of body explosion. My head was dizzy for like a minute afterward, and I had this absolutely incredible rush of nothing but pleasure. Needless to say, I was hooked
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