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Primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks civilization can fall away and to allow acting on urges and impulses more directly.

These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.

“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.

The term Primal may refer to a type of play , an identity , or a style of relationships and further primal play is often synonymous with pet play .

Primal tendencies often do not often conform to rigorous structures involved with protocol but often do have a d/s element which is often established through some for of dominance display.

Primal play is sometimes subdivided into preferred roles:

Primal play frequently contains elements of rough body play and fear play .

It is important to note that intentionally evoking raw and unfiltered emotions and reactions can sometimes lead to increased safety risks (emotionally and physically) due to loss of self control. Because of this potential, some may consider primal play to be a form of edge play .

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Many people often associate BDSM with violent sex acts like whipping, handcuffing, and chaining their partner. Others are reminded of that breakthrough book trilogy turned movie and the famous “red room.” But there’s also something called Primal BDSM, and it’s something completely different.
In this guide, we will discuss everything you need to know about primal sex and share our story on how we did it. Read on!
Like most other personal attributes, being primal is different for everyone. There’s no universal definition, sexual orientation, or behavior attached to it. However, being primal is described as the tendency to showcase animalistic behavior during sex and other interactions with your partner. Unlike conventional exchanges, primal play is a state of mind that strips off the civility aspect and instead employs ‘jungle-inspired’ antics like scratching, biting, growling, and wrestling to convey pain and pleasure. Most importantly, primal encourages both the dominant and submissive partners to explore their innate urges and act on impulse, ultimately promoting natural and raw fun.
So what does it mean to be primal? It’s all about letting go of your civilized behavior and bringing out the animal in you. You have to follow what your instinct tells you. One interesting sexual role play is identifying yourself closely with an animal of your choice. You can adapt the behavior of a lion and pin your partner to the bed or floor as you hover over them. Others also like to mirror the traits of mythical creatures like the unicorn or dragon.
While there are numerous similarities with conventional BDSM, primal play is more about taking up an animal’s role and acting on it. Unlike the former, which is built solely on a dom-sub relationship, the latter can take different relationship forms, including predator-prey and hunter-hunted. The Dom takes up the hunter role, and the Sub’s happy to be overwhelmed and conquered.
Note: Primal is not the same as pet play. Pet play involves more roleplaying, toys, and costumes, while Primal play most of the time doesn’t.
Do you know why some people feel awkward during sex? It’s because they don’t follow their instincts. They feel like they have to control themselves and satisfy their partner instead of simply letting nature take its course.
As long as you and your partner trust each other, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t let your raw emotion surface.
Some feel intimidated by looking at sex toys. Just the mere thought of having that leather whip making contact with your skin is enough to make you cringe.
The good news is you can do primal fetish with fewer toys or none at all. Instead, you’ll be using the power of your nails, teeth, skin, hair, and strength.
You can do whatever your instincts dictate to you. Expect a combination of hair pulling, biting, and even a wrestling match in primal play. There could also be mutual masturbation, massages, and licking each other, just like in the animal kingdom.
One of the most natural ways animals find a mate is using their sense of smell. Similarly, scents could play a vital role during primal play. Some feel aroused by their partner’s sweat or how their vagina smells, while others get sexual feelings by the smell of the hair or skin.
Since this is still BDSM, there’s power exchange involved as you and your partner struggle to gain dominance over each other. It’s normal to “fight,” but that doesn’t mean primals should spank so hard it leaves both of you bruised. Unless that’s what you agree upon beforehand, of course.
Primal sex is so much fun because you’re acting as wild as animals, and nobody will care at all. Thus, it’s normal to chase each other around the house or room before trapping your prey in a corner or by pinning them on the ground. It adds thrill to your role-playing!
Takedown is when the Hunter overpowers their prey, forcing a submission. Unlike in a typical BDSM scene, where the submissive partner takes a passive role, the primal Sub does not give up easily.
Instead, they put up a fight throughout the interaction until the Hunter’s might and tact become too much. Picture what happens in the wild – a cheetah corners a gazelle after a long and adrenaline-packed run, and after unfruitful attempts to get away, the Hunter overpowers her.
Of course, the entire interaction is consensual, and the Hunter will always bring ‘their kill’ home in one piece. It’s all about the mind fuck: pursuing your prey and highlighting your dominance like animals do in the wild.
To make your primal lifestyle more exciting and hassle-free, you should decide on the role you want to play. This way, you’ll be properly guided on how you would act throughout your sexual activity.
The dominant partner is the Predator and goes by other names such as Primal Dom or Hunter . This person loves running after and consuming their prey. Just like in the wild, they exude dominance.
The Primal Sub/Submissive is also referred to as the Prey or Mate . The opposite of a Primal Dom, they love being chased, acting bratty , and consumed by the Predator. Meanwhile, Mate is used to labeling someone the Predator is fond of and is willing to have intercourse with that individual.
Other terminologies used in BDSM Primal play include:
Note: If you don’t fancy being a lone wolf and want to join a pack, you must understand the hierarchy. Like in the wild, every pack has a ladder of command with the Alpha at the helm. In most cases, members have to challenge the present Alpha to get to the top, mainly through wrestling. Interested Doms must use their might and tact to climb the ladder, moving past all the set challenges.
So what kind of kink scenarios do you expect in a primal play? Well, your imagination is the limit, and you can be as creative as you want and get inspiration from animals. Here are some thrilling scenarios you’ll surely enjoy:
How can you tell if someone has primal instincts? Typically, they are sexually triggered with simple acts like wrestling, scratching, clawing, hair grabbing, or even scent. If your partner gets triggered by this, they may have a primal fetish. So, what happens when one partner is non-primal?
Well, the primal play doesn’t have to stop because your partner is non-primal. After all, suppressing the primal instincts only feeds into the inner animal. So, have an honest discussion to gain their trust and approval. Discuss safe words that the non-primal partner can use when the primal behavior becomes ‘too much.’
Basically, the non-primal partner allows them to enjoy their animalistic fetish while still keeping them on leash.
This role is ideal for couples who want to give it a try. One plays the Primal Dom’s role and does all the chasing, sniffing, and clawing, while the partner is the Primal Sub, who loves being chased, overwhelmed, and dominated over by the Predator.
In an ideal scene, the Primal Dom initiates foreplay by either smelling the Primal Sub’s body, pulling their hair, or biting a part of the body – you know, like how tigers bite the neck skin. The Sub will sometimes take off, triggering the Dom to chase and corner them. And even then, the struggle continues until the Hunter forces a submission and the prey gives in. The Primal Dom can now enjoy their prize.
Did you know that both of you can play Predators? This scenario is for couples who both possess Alpha personalities. And unlike in normal dom-sub relationships where the power-play dynamics flow in one direction, in Alpha-Alpha relationships, power and dominance are constantly moving back and forth.
It starts with one Alpha charging the other. Whether through aggressive sniffing, scratching, or biting, the other Alpha responds in equal measure, making the experience a never-ending struggle to regain dominance. Throughout foreplay and sex, you maintain the intensity, leading to supercharged sexual energy and, ultimately, powerful climax. Rarely does one Primal Dom will overpower the other, causing them to submit.
Unfortunately, some people don’t have open-minded partners regarding sex, especially in primal play. You have nothing to worry about because many individuals are into this kind of sex play while others are just as curious as you.
One of the best places to look for a primal partner is Fetlife . It’s a fun social networking site specifically for the BDSM community. It describes itself as somewhat like Facebook, only sexier, hotter, and strictly for adult kinksters.
Another option is Adultfriendfinder , one of the largest online dating sites. Here you can look for an adult “friend,” singles, and men and women who are interested in hooking up and having casual sex. SnapSext , another hookup site, is also worth mentioning.
So you’ve finally decided to give primal play a try. In this guide, we will provide you with everything you need to know to get started. After all, we want you to gain the ultimate satisfaction from this one-of-a-kind sex play, so here goes.
We have compiled our experiences into some easy-to-follow steps. Please keep in mind that these steps worked for us, and you may need to modify them to suit your exact situation.
Note: BDSM/Bondage are advanced sex acts, and you need to take great care when doing them. Any action you take upon the information on this website is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be liable for any losses, injuries, and damages. Learn more.
First and foremost, primal play is an advanced sex act that requires 100% consent from all involved parties. Not only in the beginning, but the master needs to continuously check in to make sure she’s ok at all times. Also, discuss boundaries and limits, especially for the pain part.
Trust and communication are essential, anything else is abuse and manipulation, and that’s not tolerated!
It won’t hurt you to know more about play primal, even if you’ve been doing it for a while. You can start learning what it is and how you do it.
Read articles, ask questions on sites like Quora, and watch porn videos. Eventually, you can get ideas from other couples who are also into rough sex.
Your partner may feel hesitant about trying, especially if it’s her first time. You can make them feel secure and comfortable by defining rules.
You can discuss what each of you can do and can’t do. Setting your safe words can also help. In our case, we are very consistent in using “red” for a stop. Having mutual respect and trust will make your primal submission fun and gratifying.
It’s best to incorporate proper aftercare after every edge play session because it involves pampering and nurturing your body and mind. The aftereffects of play primal can be draining, making aftercare essential.
Don’t rush into primal play. You must possess the right state of mind first. Make sure you and your partner are both ready for it. If you feel the least bit uncertain or afraid, don’t do it. Give it time.
Next is to find your ideal location. You can have it indoors or outdoors. However, we think the best way to do so is on the floor. The floor will make you feel in the mood for it. Just think about how animals do it on the ground.
Take it one step at a time. You can start with one role scene, then build more as you get comfortable. And as mentioned earlier, you have to let your instincts guide you. If you want to resemble a lion, make it known to your partner so they know what to expect. Once you get the hang of things, you can expand your role play.

To be primal is connected to primal urges, such as protecting oneself or others from harm. It’s often used as a means to talk about animals during hunting or evolutionary development.
In Latin, the word ‘primus’ is used which essentially means ‘first’. In this way, it refers to someone seeing themselves or others as the most basic and important part.
This definition, when it comes to BDSM , isn’t far off, and already one can gather what it may mean…
Primal, in the BDSM world, is when someone enjoys mimicking an animal or animals that they identify with during sexual activity. In other words, it’s about connecting with one’s most primitive, basic, and animalistic self, and is centred around raw feelings, actions, and natural impulses.
Primal is what many of us call ‘animalistic’ and can be characterised by intense sexual experiences. This kink is not exclusive to any gender or sexual orientation, and thus anyone can identify as being primal.
When one partner is primal, it often ties in with dominant and submissive roles, and a scene can include one lover being the hunter and the other, the prey. In this way, it could also include mating rituals, like that experienced by wolves or bears.
For that reason, primal play is oftentimes rough , which means that unhindering trust and communication is imperative between partners.
It’s also important to note that being primal is not the same as pet play . While most primal individuals do identify as certain animals, they don’t use leashes or collars, and there isn’t one dominant and one submissive partner.
Because being primitive means using one’s most carnal and basic instincts, this kink is often centred around the senses.
It involves intense listening and heightened scent which can transcend a connection between two partners. It can also include scenes of fighting, powerful intimacy, and tapping into one’s most carnal sexual desires.
This kind of play is oftentimes more so about the experience rather than the act of sex. It involves trust, self-expression, and a sense of freedom that’s hard to find anywhere else.
A big reason why primal play is so popular is because it allows individuals to free themselves of societal constraints. And by reverting to a more natural and basic version, primal individuals can experience a sense of intense freedom, arousal , and intimacy.
Our everyday lives are calculated and centred around abiding laws and societal norms, but being primal and practicing primal play is a way in which to go back to the basics. It’s a primitive experience where one can satisfy their lust by fighting or taking what they want or desire.
This can be soothing and freeing for many, as it can be a way to escape roles and responsibilities that everyday life brings.
In the animal kingdom, there is a sense of ultimate protection. Oftentimes, groups of animals form tribes, and within this dynamic their primal instincts allow them to do whatever necessary to get what they want, including when it comes to protecting their tribe.
This kind of behaviour is a characteristic of those who identify as being primal, and evidence suggests that being primal is oftentimes more prominent in the non-monogamous community.
Each scene will be unique, but some examples of primal play can include:
Within these kinds of activities, any physical pain inflicted should be agreed upon beforehand, and thus it shouldn’t leave one or both partners with discomfort.
Engaging in primal play needs to involve unwavering trust, respect, and communication between partners.
And while we know that this kind of scene involves animalistic, uninhibited, and impulsive behaviour, it does not mean that things are not discussed and agreed upon beforehand.
Just like a dominant and a submissive who discuss their likes, dislikes, limits, and hard limits with each other, a primal and their partner too should have an open dialogue to establish their scenes.
For both partners, it’s about diving into wild sexual play, yes, but it’s also about feeling safe, comfortable, and ultimately satisfied. Having a safe word is highly recommended.
After primal play, aftercare is just as important whereby partners comfort each other, have open communication about their scene, and make sure that both feel seen and appreciated rather than discarded and used.
At the end of the day, being primal and/or engaging in primal play is a highly imaginative and mostly cathartic experience. When discussed beforehand for optimal comfort and satisfaction, it can result in ultimate release from societal pressures and everyday roles, and a highly arousing bout of play between lovers.
Helena is a sex-positive freelance copywriter in her early 30’s from Cape Town, South Africa. She’s travelled and lived in various countries in Asia and Europe for almost a decade, and continues to live her dream — traveling the world independently as a copywriter. Having written for various companies and magazines within the industry, she has extensive knowledge in the field of sexual health, the escort industry, and sex toy marketing.
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