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Sexual fantasies, impure thoughts, dirty daydreams—whatever you wanna call the sexy scenarios that haunt the horniest corners of your mind, we’ve all got ’em. Maybe you’ve had a fantasy about hooking up with a professor. Maybe Bridgerton has got you absolutely obsessed with the idea of a bodice-ripping romp in a four-poster bed. Or, hey, maybe you’ve just been thinking about trying out a new toy with your partner. Whatever your sexual fantasies may look like, the first thing to know about them is that they are completely normal—yes, even the super freaky ones.
“People have sexual fantasies for the same reason they have other fantasies: Sometimes it’s a form of escape and other times it’s the wondering of ‘what would happen if…,’” says certified sex therapist Donna Oriowo , PhD, founder of AnnodRight .
Some of the most common sexual fantasies among women include threesomes and group sex, sex in public , sex with a friend, and cuckolding . “Currently, there is also a high prevalence of wanting to act out kink fantasies , which include everything from basic impact play [aka spanking , flogging, etc.] to rape scenes ,” adds BIPOC sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer.
While some fantasies may be more common than others, what we fantasize about sexually is as diverse as people themselves, and those fantasies can change all the time. “What people fantasize about can be influenced by what is trending in mainstream television or movies,” says Angie Rowntree, Founder and Director of the award-winning ethical porn site Sssh.com . For example, maybe you got caught up in the 50 Shades BDSM craze a few years back, or maybe you thought, "Oh, that’s hot," when you heard Doja Cat sing about getting freaky with a mirror on the ceiling on “Freaky Deaky.” The point is, “sexual fantasies do not exist in a vacuum, nor are they static,” says Rowntree.
It’s also important to note that just because you fantasize about something, that doesn’t mean you necessarily want to do it IRL. Sometimes fantasies are just that: fantasies, and that’s totally fine. “It is actually completely normal to have sexual fantasies that are smoldering hot, but that you also do not want in real life for any number of reasons,” says Rowntree. “No matter how you choose or choose not to express your fantasies, your feelings and reasons are perfectly valid.”
That said, if you *are* interested in making those fantasies a reality, there are certainly ways to make your horniest dreams come true. Below, a few tips from the experts on making your sexiest fantasies a reality.
1. Make sure it’s something you actually want to do.
Again, it’s totally fine and normal to fantasize about things you wouldn’t actually want to do, so the first step in acting out a sexual fantasy is making sure you really want to. “First, take a step back and consider whether or not you actually want your fantasy to become ‘reality,’” says Rowntree. “Make sure that you are acting out this fantasy because you are truly an enthusiastic participant, not because you are trying to please someone else.” If you’re not sure, try testing the waters with other ways of exploring that fantasy, like watching porn or sexting about it with a partner.
Check in with your partner to see if this is a fantasy they’d be interested in fulfilling with you. In an ideal world, of course, broaching the subject of a new sexploration would always be easy and fun, but if you’re feeling anxious about it, have no fear. “Nothing really beats straightforward and honest communication,” says Rowntree, who adds that bringing it up might be as simple as saying something like, “I was so turned on when you did X last night, what would you say if we tried out Y?” Or: “Is there something new you’d maybe like to try together this weekend?” Or: “I was reading this article about XYZ…and well, what do you think about that? Is it something that turns you on?” (PS: If you’re feeling extra nervous, Stewart adds that there’s nothing wrong with going with the old “asking for a friend” approach at first to test the waters.)
3. Bring it up in a low-pressure environment.
“When bringing up the idea of exploring a sexual fantasy with a partner, do it in a place that doesn't have sexual pressure,” says Stewart. In other words, don’t drop a brand new fantasy on your partner in the middle of sex. “Bring up the conversation when you are being casual with one another, whether that’s at dinner time or TV watching time, or even while you go for a walk.” Introducing the idea of exploring a new sexual fantasy in a low-pressure environment is key to making sure everyone is on the same page and has the time and space they need to make sure they can give their full, enthusiastic consent. “Sex is always best when it comes from a place of integrity and affirmative consent, and you are free to be transparent at all times about what you do and do not want,” says Rowntree.
Depending on what kind of fantasy we’re talking about here, there may be certain safety or legal concerns to be aware of, equipment to purchase, or skills to master. Stewart recommends taking a class, doing some online research, and even scheduling an appointment with your friendly neighborhood sex educator before jumping in. If your fantasy involves kink, you may also benefit from reaching out to relevant communities that practice the thing you’re into, adds Rowntree. Also, make sure you understand the risks that may be involved in your fantasy—e.g. getting caught if you’re into public sex —and have a plan in place for mitigating those risks and/or dealing with the potential fallout. “If you’re feeling the urge for outdoor or public ecstasy, perhaps a couples’ resort or swinger’s club will allow you to enjoy the open air together as you wish,” says Rowntree. “If you want to try bondage, start off by learning the literal ropes from professional BDSM educators before you attempt to stage a scene on your own.”
As is true of all sex all the time, safety and consent are paramount when it comes to exploring new fantasies. “Make sure you and your partner(s) know and agree to the limits, are vetted, tested and safe for play, and that you have an “ aftercare ” plan to debrief and reflect,” says Rowntree. And remember, staying safe is supposed to add to the fun, not take away from it. “If you’re feeling safe and secure and you're with a lover who is supportive of your exploration and sexual wants and needs, it makes it a lot easier to have your fantasies fulfilled,” says Stewart.
Now, the fun part. For all of you looking for inspo (or, hey, maybe you’re just super into voyeurism ), 30 women share their sexual fantasies with us, below.
“I’ve always wanted to watch a partner have sex with someone else. I’m not sure why (and honestly I’m not sure if I’d actually enjoy it in the moment) but there’s something about being out of the equation that excites me. Sex is such a private, intimate thing and watching a partner get it on with someone else is even more private, but something about it just turns me on.” —Olivia*, 23
“My hottest sexual fantasy is to silently mess around with someone at a library. It starts off with some heavy tension between us while we’re sitting next to each other, trying to focus on our work but we keep catching each other’s eyes. Then one of us would get up to look for books while the other would want to play, and so we’d play hide-and-seek with each other between the dozens of bookshelves until we finally spot one another. We’ll walk toward each other from opposite ends of the aisle, finally meeting in the middle, and you know the rest….” —Chloe*, 22
“I’m not ashamed to admit that there’s this one scene in The Boy Next Door that seriously turns me on! It’s like my go-to porn scene for sure. If you’re not familiar with the movie, it basically entails a hot, charming teenager who moves in next door to a newly separated high school teacher (played by Jennifer Lopez). The teacher’s son is best friends with the ‘boy next door’ and one night she’s seduced by said boy and proceeds to have sex with him. The seduction scene was actually so hot and there’s something about ‘wife who has sex with next-door neighbor’ that’s just so sexy.” —Kristina, 21
“I’ve always wanted to be a part of an orgy . I would want to have one with all women and then another one with a combination of women and men. Something about swapping partners with different people, at once, seems so sexy and hot.” —Charlotte*, 34
“It’s been a lifelong fantasy of mine to throw a party where everyone is not only there to see me, but to fuck me. My fantasy would be to host a big orgy where all of my guests agree to participate in the wildest sex party where anything goes (as long as it’s consensual!). Imagine this wild, colorful party full of music with loud bass, dark moody lighting, and plenty of space and time to hook up. The guest list is jam-packed with beautiful people of all genders, sexual identities, body types, and backgrounds, but the one thing they have in common is they’re all there for a chance to fuck me. I take my time selecting the lucky ones as I walk through the crowded private home we have rented for the evening, and I mark the people I wish to engage in sexual activities with, then we all go to a private room. This private room fits 20 people easily and includes a large tub, shower with multiple showerheads, and a large bed with all the BDSM toys you can dream of. The lucky winners and I start by stripping down and taking a communal shower where everyone engages in a massage train (in which each person takes a turn at massaging me, allowing me to feel their hands on my body and sense where their energy is at). After we’re all clean, soft, and relaxed, those who wish to stay and play in the shower or bathtub do, and those who decide to come with me to the bed begin to have our own fun. Our time together would last as long as it needs to and we would take turns engaging in different sexual scenarios with each other. Honestly, writing about it is making me feel like now I have a blueprint for how to make it ~cum~ to life!” —Danellia, 32
“I fantasize about my partner being sexually involved with other women all the time! I don’t think I’d ever want to recreate this fantasy IRL, but it’s exciting to think about in my head. I’ve always wanted to get a bit more into role-playing , actually. I think it could be fun and really take me out of my head and into another’s. I also think taking on a more demanding, dominant role could be super hot since it’s the complete opposite of what I’m normally like in bed.” —Avery*, 24
“I have this fantasy of having a steamy role-play rendezvous with my partner by every major beach/ocean (we’re water lovers). These role-plays won’t be standard; we’ll try various kinks (fire play, wax play, flogging, consensual rape play, and so much more) and take on different personalities. During one trip, I’ll be the maid at the hotel or a foreigner who doesn’t speak the language and needs help getting around town. We just want to pretend to be strangers every time.” —Dawn, 27
“The theme of this fantasy is ancient orgy, so think of the orgy scene from 300 or playroom scenes from period pieces based in ancient Rome. The scene is set in the play quarters of the palace where every carnal desire is fulfilled. I’m talking rich foods, expensive wines, live entertainment, and, of course, sexual activity. In this fantasy, I’m handcuffed or even chained . It feels like sexual labor, but in reality, I’m the one being pleased in every imaginable way. It’s like I’m a toy that others enjoy seeing orgasm.” —Naomi*, 28
“I had a professor who I definitely had some sexual tension with in college, and ever since, the idea of having sex with him in his office has been a fantasy of mine. We would specifically have sex on the desk, in secret, while other people are around so we have to be very hush-hush. I love the power dynamic of a student-professor relationship too!” —Bella*, 23
“I’ve always had this desire to have a MFM threesome . I imagine lots of BDSM, tying up, blindfolds, exploring each other’s bodies, and me (being the female) receiving most of the attention from two extremely hot guys of my liking. Bonus points if I get consent to film it all!” —Sarah, 23
“My hottest sexual fantasy would be for my partner to take absolute and total control of me in a public space. I would want to be wearing vibrating panties , and they’d have total control of what happens. Then when we get a chance to go somewhere more private (bathroom, closet, etc.), I’d have them go down on me to clean up said ‘mess.’ After that, I would want them to have sex with me until they’re pleased as well. I think for me it’s about control and power. I’m making decisions all day long, so my fantasy involves my partner making all the decisions in our sex life (with consent, of course!).” —Zoey*, 26
“As someone who is curious and open to spicing up their sex life, one of my most reoccurring fantasies is having sex on a roof (whether it be an apartment complex’s common area rooftop or a plain ol’ roof of someone’s house). I’m intrigued by the idea of having sex in a place where you might get caught but a place that’s not as common as a public bathroom. There’s just something about the thought of having sex at a higher altitude, with a nice view, and having to be sneaky and quiet (I’m typically pretty vocal during sex) that gets me going. You know that Ariana Grande lyric ‘Let’s put them topics to bed and go / Fuck on the roof, just to say that we did it’ from her song ‘Better Off’? Yeah, that’s me. I feel like having sex on a roof is something that’s pretty outrageous yet still attainable enough for everyone to do, and I want to be able to say I’ve at least done it once.” —Mikayla, 24
“I fantasize about visiting an actress in her dressing room after a show, getting on my knees, and just worshipping her. I wonder how she’ll feel going home to her husband afterward. ‘The show was fine, honey!’” —Ellie*, 32
“I find myself daydreaming about having sex with my ex . I daydream about us finding our way back to each other from wherever and making our way to my apartment (where we both lived) and having sex in all the places we used to have sex—the kitchen, the shower, the bathroom, the couch, the rug, the dinner table, just everywhere. I daydream about having endless orgasms until my mouth dries up.” —Karla, 35
“I’ve always wanted to have sex in a public bathroom but I’m afraid of getting arrested. I’ve also always been a fan of being choked during sex (it’s a huge turn-on for me!). Taking it a step further, I want to be tied up and spanked while being choked.” —Ava*, 24
“I don’t know why but it’s always the laundry room! I imagine myself getting my laundry done, waiting on a chair while the dryer is going, when suddenly this super-hot person walks in. I start staring at them while they put their clothes in the washer. A piece of underwear falls on the floor and it’s a very sexy pair. I giggle, they look at me and blush a bit, but the more we look at each other, the less shy they become until they tell me something along the lines of, ‘You should see how they look on me,’ and I’ll say, ‘I’d love to.’ We’ll end up chatting a bit more and then I will sit on top of a washing machine, they’ll spread my legs open and go to town on me while that machine keeps moving, and I’m in absolute heaven.” —Paola, 33
“My hottest sexual fantasy would be to hook up with someone in a house of mirrors (you know, the ones you see at carnivals). Imagine how trippy and erotic it’d be to see yourself having sex from literally all angles.” —Natalie*, 23
“Listen, we all love a sexy-time playlist . And for me, good music is the difference between an amazing sex session and a holy-shit-this-is-going-to-make-me-orgasm sex session. For this reason, I’ve always wanted to wear headphones and listen to my favorite beats while a dude goes down on me. I tend to get distracted easily, so I think by closing my eyes and listening to the music on full blast, the sensations would feel absolutely amazing. I just haven’t had the confidence to bring this up to any of my partners because it feels a bit like a selfish sexual act, but maybe one day!” —Michelle, 26
“I can’t remember what specific show I was watching, but I remember this young couple sneaking off into the woman’s parents’ laundry room and fucking right on the washer itself. The man turned it on so that it was rumbly, and he bent her over so that her whole body was shaking. I’ve always thought about that moment and wanted to explore what it feels like to be fucked on a washing machine, ha!” —Isabella, 23
“A happy ending massage. I just know how relaxed and amazing I feel after a massage anyway, so the thought of experiencing an orgasm too right after is almost too much.” —Rachel, 34
“My wildest sexual fantasy is being spit-roasted (penetrated both orally and anally/vaginally at the same time with multiple partners) by two other trans girls in a public place. I’m both an exhibitionist and a voyeur so I’ve always been turned on by the idea of people watching me submit, and I’m a trans lesbian myself so of course it has to be a damn near shameful, sinful encounter. It could be in a park or an Applebee’s, for all I care.” —Hazel, 20
“My wildest sex fantasy would be pretending to be enemy spies trying to get information out of each other. My partner and I watch a lot of action and rom-com movies, and I’ve been obsessed with the idea of being an assassin from the show Killing Eve . In my fantasy, he’s tied up and I have to tease him and edge him as torture, and he’s not allowed to orgasm until he tells me what I want to know. On the flip side, when I’m tied up, he’s constantly pleasuring me and alternating between teasing and fulfilling me. Of course at one point, we’re both free and it’s a wrestle for dominance position-wise, as almost punishment for how the captor treated the captive.” —Angel, 19
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