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There are a lot of people who say that watching porn videos isn’t cheating. However, this issue has a lot of pitfalls, so let’s consider this question in details. In the contemporary world, watching porn videos is a real trend among men. Let’s find out why their women need to feel nervous about this fact.
Today, the porn industry is developing intensively. This is a sex act shared via video records or via Youtube channels and intended to promote masturbation. In the majority of cases, men use porn videos in order to enjoy masturbation. However, isn’t it cheating?
Let’s consider several different popular scenarios of cheating and why different intentions can lead to one end result. The main and the most generally accepted way of cheating is purchasing a prostitute. This is indisputable cheating.
In conclusion, different contact active or passive with participants of the porn industry can be considered as cheating because breaks marriage vows that require faithfulness. It doesn’t matter whether your partner cheats you with a prostitute in a real life or makes it at home via the Internet.
A lot of people want to get married and get all the benefits provided by the marriage, including different holidays and weekends, spent together, the support provided by the spouse in difficult situations, and so on but don’t have a serious attitude to marriage vows. When it comes to the faithfulness, they shy away from the responsibility and use different channels of the porn industry in order to entertain. So, they enjoy the convenience of solo-sex in front of their laptop. They want to combine the benefits of marriage and single life.
However, this is dishonest regarding your spouse. People who are in the couple don’t want their partners to cheat in different ways, including viewing other women in order to satisfy themselves.
One more issue is that other people are blinded by the difference between the real and virtual world and think if their husbands don’t visit a brothel they don’t cheat. Indeed, the truth is that they only replace a brothel with a sofa in front of the screen of the laptop. In fact, they cheat on their wives in their mind by thinking about a porno actress on the screen.
This is a real problem in our contemporary world that can bring about a divorce. And one of the ways to solve this difficult problem is supervising your spouse. Due to the possibilities provided by spying applications, you are able to look through all the browsing history of your cheating spouse and block inappropriate content, including porn websites, videos, chats, and so on.
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by Luke Gilkerson
Jan 19, 2015|5 min
I’ve heard it said that there are men who don’t look at porn, and then there are men who are breathing. If recent surveys are any indication, porn use has become the norm among men, not the exception.
Still, I get a lot of questions from women who are feeling the heartbreaking impact of porn on their marriages. To them porn feels like cheating, and for good reason.
I understand why many don’t think this is true (reasons I’ll address below), but first it is important that I define some terms.
By “using porn” I don’t mean merely seeing it. It’s hard not to walk about in public places or go online without seeing something that is at least meant to titillate the eyes of men. When I say “using” I mean intentionally taking porn in through one’s senses with the intention of being turned on and then, most likely, masturbating or at least getting sexually aroused.
By “cheating” I mean that using porn is breaking a vow—either implicitly or explicitly—made to one’s spouse. This is because marriage is, in part, about sexual exclusivity; it is about “forsaking all others.”
Take some steps with me down a morally slippery slope.
Step 1: Let’s say I were to visit a prostitute and have sex with her. That would be cheating on my wife. I assume no one would debate me on this point.
Step 2: However, let’s say that when I met with the prostitute we didn’t actually touch each other: I just watched her have sex with someone else while I masturbated in the same room. (Weird, I know. But just go with it.) Would that be cheating? Both in this case and in the previous case I am seeking the services of a prostituted woman for sexual pleasure—seeking out and enjoying the body of a woman who is not my wife in order to be sexually gratified.
Could a man rightly say, “Yes, I pleasured myself in front of a hooker, but we didn’t touch each other. I stayed faithful to you”? I don’t think so. The pretense of no physical contact doesn’t matter because the action still violates the spirit of the sexual exclusivity.
Step 3: However, let’s say I didn’t visit the prostitute in person but only interacted with her online through erotic video chat. Let’s say I masturbated during the chat session while using the video image as the source of my fantasy. Is this cheating? Has the lack of physical proximity suddenly changed the situation that it is no longer breaking my marriage vow? I don’t think so.
Step 4: Now let’s say that instead of engaging in the video chat live, the prostitute recorded herself for me so I could masturbate at my convenience. Is this still cheating? Am I now suddenly remaining faithful to my marriage vows because someone hit the record button? No. That’s just stupid.
Step 5: Now let’s say the prostitute has a business card with a fancy title on it: “Pornographic Actress.” She even has a website with a resume listing of all the films she’s been in. Her pimp—I mean, agent—pays taxes and everything. Totally legit. Let’s say I reach out to this prostitute and pay her to view her recorded videos which she gladly sells me. Is this cheating? Does the change in title and the veneer of professionalism change the nature of the act? No.
Step 6: Now let’s say that this entire enterprise is industrialized so that this woman is part of a large network of other prostitutes who are doing the same thing. Much like walking into a brothel, I can pick the woman I want when I want, pay my fee, and enjoy her body for my lustful purposes. Is this cheating? What about the industrialized nature of the product changes the nature of the act? Nothing.
And on this last step we have arrived at what the modern porn industry is. This is why using pornography is cheating. It is engagement with a digital prostitute despite one’s vow to forsake all others.
I can hear the screeching of mental breaks right about now. Many are thinking, “Wait a second. Something major has shifted between the first scenario and the last. No one sees porn as digital prostitution. If this was the way our culture understood porn, it might be one thing. But very few people who watch porn go online thinking, ‘I can’t wait to get sexual gratification from a digital prostitute.'”
This is a good objection. After all, motive and intention count for something when it comes to the promises or vows we make. If I sign a contract saying I will not share proprietary information from my employer, but then forward a work e-mail along to a friend, not knowing it counts as “proprietary,” I’m not guilty of intentionally breaking my promise (even if my employer has grounds to fire me). Someone who uses porn might think along the same lines: “I’m just watching video clips made by actors and actresses, not intentionally seeking digital interactions with a prostitute.”
I agree, but motives only carry some of the weight when it comes to our moral decisions. The above slippery slope is not as much about motives as it is about the nature of the actions. Behind the making of pornography are real people really selling themselves for the sexual gratification of viewers. The medium doesn’t change the fact that a prostituted woman was used for her body and sex appeal, no matter the viewer’s understanding of the act.
This is why so many women say using porn feels like cheating: the act of seeking out another woman for sexual pleasure—even if she is hidden behind a veil of pixels and a sleazy acting agency—is not a movement towards faithfulness, but away from it.
However, by saying that using porn is breaking a marriage vow, I am not prescribing a specific reaction we should have to it. The six-step slippery slope presents six different scenarios, each having their own gravity of offense. They may all be cheating, but they all show different levels of intensity.
We need to turn the tables on those who ask, “Is using porn cheating?” and address why it matters.
Two facts lie at the heart of the issue.
First, people often desire the perks of marriage, but marriage vows are not taken seriously. As such, we find ourselves straddling two worlds. In one world, we embrace an idyllic picture of finding “the one,” growing old together, loving and serving another person until death we do part. In the other world, we enjoy the convenience and self-centeredness of solo-sex in front of the computer screen. These two worlds mix like oil and water in our miry hearts. Before long, you will either have to abandon pornography or abandon a genuine spirit of monogamy.
Second, people have been blinded by the sense of distance the digital world places between ourselves and the real world. We believe something doesn’t count as much if it is “online” or “on television” or “just fantasy.” We rename offenses: stealing becomes downloading, cruelty becomes speaking one’s mind, and exploitation becomes entertainment. We have settled for what Chris Hedges calls an empire of illusion. “Pornography does not promote sex, if one defines sex as a shared act between two partners. It promotes masturbation,” Hedges writes. “It promotes the solitary auto-arousal that precludes intimacy and love. Pornography is about getting yourself off at someone else’s expense.”
If your husband (or wife) is engrossed in porn, you are right to feel like this is cheating. He is defrauding you of something that should be your exclusive domain. You are not a prude for thinking this. You just take your vows seriously, as everyone should.
But where do you go from here? Start by getting educated about the addictive nature of pornography and the steps other couples have taken to take a new direction. Read, “6 Common Questions Asked By Wives of Porn Addicts.”
I agree with the fundamental concept you address: viewing pornography violates the sanctity of marriage. It moves away from intimacy versus moving towards it, every time.
There is a recurring motif on this website of employing theatrics. In a round-about way, you admitted this in a separate comment for an article on this website that covered this idea from the adultery angle. Articles with spooky Halloween font on the photos, titles and premises saying porn is cheating, porn is adultery, or comments saying digital prostitution, he is defrauding you, etc. – all of these may feel true to many, especially the spouses harmed. But I think you’re doing a disservice to those seeking help and betraying the spirit of help you aim to offer by using these theatrical and dogmatic techniques designed to illicit strong (and negative) emotional responses.
Fear, outrage – these are the easiest emotional responses to illicit in an audience. Topics of fear are children (i.e. “Protect your children”). Then there is the topic of sex. Mix together and you have your 10 o’clock news.
Pornography addiction is an epidemic and software services such as yours are helpful for many. It’s disheartening to see the accompanying articles with surface-level language that moves towards fear and outrage, instead of moving away from it. Don’t be another news channel. You can validate, empathize, and support emotions and thoughts of husbands and wives struggling with this without using haughty rhetoric. Become the center of neutral, objective, evidence-based solution for the millions in search of answers and support. You can do this. We need it.
Thanks for the word of encouragement. I don’t disagree with you. I will say, however, that each article has its own intended audience. This article, for instance, is geared more to the gentleman who has turned a deaf ear to his spouse, the man who will go on viewing pornography under the pretense that he’s actually doing his partner a service by not cheating on her and is trapped in a cycle of auto-erotic pleasure. (Unfortunately, I read comments from their wives every day, and it is heartbreaking.) Such men need to see things in a new light, and I don’t mind telling these men they are flat-out wrong—even if it means invoking strong emotional language.
Other articles that have much more encouraging and positive language are meant to lift the reader out of a state of self-condemnation and toxic shame.
In short, not every article is intended for every audience.
As you said, I would be doing a disservice if I meant this article for those who are truly struggling and seeking help. But that is simply not the intended audience here. Perhaps I need to do a better job of making that crystal clear.
you’re wrong….and here’s why. like eve did in the garden, you’re adding to God’s word. God did not tell adam that he couldn’t look at, touch, or smell the fruit of the tree. he said that he couldn’t EAT it. what you’re saying is effectively, that looking at, smelling, or touching is in the same SPIRIT of God’s command as the letter. and sometimes, the LETTER is actually what it MEANS. what if a woman kissed another man? what if she only had lunch with another man? what if she only fell in love with another man? is that cheating? unfortunately, NO, although if my wife did those things i would be jealous and demand she repent or i’d wish i could divorce her. the PROBLEM is people like you are never satisfied with what the bible ACTUALLY says… you feel the need to add-to or take-away in the name of being in the same spirit. is pornography sin? YES…. but does it break the marriage covenant? NO. the bible draws a very clear line, because people like you don’t want to walk in the spirit, you need to not only use God’s word as a club, but add additional rules to follow as well. and that LINE is sexual immorality. you cannot commit sexual immorality if you do not have SEX. that involves two people and their genitals in some way-shape-or form. pornography is in the same category as what bible calls an uncleanness. like smoking or drugs that pollute the body. it also has the added effect of hurting a woman’s fleshly ego and pride. but most christian couples engage in sex prior to marriage. (fornication) so it cannot be that the wife legitimately is concerned for purity. in fact, she probably wishes her husband would do some of those things he’s watching to HER…or that she could do some of those things with another man. DEUT 23:10 says “If there is any man among you who becomes unclean by some occurrence in the night, then he shall go outside the camp; he shall not come inside the camp. 11 But it shall be, when evening comes, that he shall wash with water; and when the sun sets, he may come into the camp. ” it’s referring to masturbation and ejaculation outside of sex. it is a sin of uncleanness…. but it does not break the marriage covenant. you can’t be ‘of the Spirit’ when you don’t even agree with God’s word.
James, you might want to read this blog post about how Luke’s opinion changed regarding porn as grounds for divorce. I also want to point out that Jesus himself calls the simple act of lust adultery (Matthew 5:28); while we would not advocate divorce on the grounds of walking past another person on the street and thinking a lustful thought, what is pornography if not digital prostitution? What is masturbation to porn if not two people (or, realistically, two performers and an observer) performing sexual acts with their genitals?
If my boyfriend watched porn about cheating will he cheat on me why does he watch this type
Well, Ana, porn use is one of those things that often escalates over time. It often includes things that seem “risky” which helps it be more exciting. But yes, it’s also true that men who watch a lot of porn are more likely to cheat. I’d say you need to think about your boundaries and what you want in the relationship, then talk with him about it and see if you’re on the same page. Blessings, Kay
So then by this any wife that reads 50 shades of grey and other such porn books are also cheating correct
In Matthew 5:27–28, Jesus did not say that “lust” is the same thing as adultery. That is a misunderstanding of the text based
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