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^ Robyn (6 June 2019). "Mummification Bondage Master Guide – Learn How to Wrap Safely" . Lovense . Retrieved 24 October 2021 .

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This glossary of BDSM (an initialism for bondage , discipline , domination , submission , sadism , and masochism ) terms defines terms commonly used in the BDSM community.

BDSM activities are described as play in BDSM terminology. [1]

BDSM abbreviations have their origins in classified personal advertisements , where euphemisms for paraphilic and socially-disapproved practices were required by periodical editors to circumvent censorship and obscenity law .

The term BDSM is a portmanteau of initialisms intended to encompass all of the following activities:

Some people in the BDSM community begin dominant terms with an upper case, for example: Top, Master, Dom, Domme, etc., as well as to begin submissive terms with a lower case, even where normally incorrect, chiefly in acronyms and abbreviations, such as D/s for Dom/sub. Some extend this to honorifics and capitalization: for example Master Rob's slave, linda, may refer to him as Sir and herself as i (or as "this slave", restricted from referring to themselves in the first person). Others are highly dismissive of this "slashy speak".

In addition, high protocol refers to groups or individuals that adhere to strict roles and role-based rules of conduct, whereas low protocol refers to groups or individuals that are more relaxed. Old Guard now usually refers to high protocol groups, particularly gay leather BDSM groups; people who use this phrase may be romanticizing a perception of leather history: see Old Guard leather . [ citation needed ]

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