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But can a penis really be too big to take? Let’s be honest here. It is a common belief that BIGGER IS BETTER for us gals when it comes to penis size. But what if your partner is absolutely huge, to the point where you are seriously worried that you may end up with an injury engaging in any form of sex?
An average penis in its resting state is roughly 9cm and when erect between 12 to 14cm. The circumference (again for an average) is 9cm when resting and can expand to 10-10.5 cm when erect.
If your fella is sporting a absolute beast below the belt you may wish to take notes….
There are many stories of women who have felt like they were literally being torn, not being able to fit the penis in their mouth during oral sex , bleeding, or having the sensation that their cervix was being pushed up through their throat! Scary stuff indeed. Almost enough to put you off sex for good isn’t it? Well, almost.
Physically speaking, all vaginas can accommodate all penises. After all, us gals are built for giving birth! However, that doesn’t mean that sex with a big schlong is comfortable or even pleasurable. In fact, I have heard of relationships ending because the man is too well endowed and the woman struggles to have regular sex when she is sore. So bigger certainly does not mean better!
In 2015, a Nigerian woman filed for divorce after one week because her new husband’s penis was too large.
She even resorted to taking medication to try and endure the pain during sex.
It all comes down to taking your time and getting a little creative. Let’s explore some options to assist you to start enjoying sex:
This may mean a taking a little longer to get you fully aroused allowing for vaginal lubrication to do its thing. Foreplay also relaxes the vagina, so it is more ‘willing’ you could say, to play the game. If you are feeling tense or even frightened, your body won’t be ready fully for intercourse so take your time.
Really, what better excuse for a little more attention on your lady bits?! Win-win. Using water-based lubrication may also assist with making sex more comfortable and less painful. Don’t forget that lubrication may need to be re-applied during intercourse to avoid chafing down there ain’t no body got time for that!
You can pick up water-based lubricant at all shopping centres and service stations. Or you can be creative and think of different ways to lubricate *wink wink*.
If you’re planning on partaking in some horizontal tango with your partner, consider which sexual position will work best for you both. If your man is well endowed, often the positions which allow the woman to be more ‘in control’ of the action such as being on top are less painful. Sideways think spooning with fries on the side is a great position as penetration can be controlled easily by the woman.
Missionary position although commonly knocked for being boring is a great option, as it allows slow thrusting and the woman can limit the depth of penetration simply by keeping her legs closer together – just don’t go throwing your legs over his shoulders though as there is absolutely no depth control and may lead to some pain if strong thrusting is happening.
Positions such as Doggy Style are a ‘oh hell no-no’ as they provide deep penetration and that is really not advisable or pleasant if you’re dealing with a particularly large member.
Take it slowwwwww. Don’t go hell for leather from the get go. This could seriously shock and hurt, which is not going to make for a pleasureable experience for either of you. The man should enter carefully and slowly very slowly build intensity so the woman is not caught off guard.
Before, during and after sex tell each other what is working and what isn’t. By all means, don’t stop mid-thrust to do a 15 debrief with notes just gentle indicators to let your partner know that ” yes that is freakin’ awesome, we can definitely go with that” or a simple ‘not so deep’ or ‘slower’. Remember the idea of sex is to both enjoy yourselves. If you’re enjoying it you’re going to do it more often, who couldn’t be happier with that?!
If you have persistent pain during or after intercourse, it is recommended to speak to your gyno to rule out any medical conditions such as cysts or infections. So, with a little imagination, a little time, some understanding and a LOT of fun, being faced with the T-Rex of all penises doesn’t have to be that scary.
Here are a couple of stories we found on the internet (so they all must be true lol!).
“Right after graduating from high school, I was hooking up with an ex who was pure Italian. He had a massive Italian sausage. We were fooling around and it was getting intense. We switched to doggy-style, and I made the terrible mistake of yelling ‘harder.’ As he violently thrust his sausage into my ziti, he went so deep that I immediately puked everywhere. We never spoke again.”
“One night I went home with this guy I’d met. We basically stumbled into his place, not even bothering to turn a light on anywhere. I get a glimpse of his cock in the light of a lamppost outside and it’s huge… Just long and thick and ridiculous. My drunk self decides I can take this and I’m so drunk and so horny that we get to it and he goes in dry. Hurts at first and then I’m getting wetter and wetter and it’s crazy.
Anyways, everything reaches its conclusion and he gets up to go for the inevitable post coital piss. On his way out he flicks on the light. There is blood everywhere. Between him splitting me open and the lack of foreplay his bed has turned into that hallway from The Shining. And I’m so drunk and embarrassed I throw on my clothes and thirty seconds later I’m running out of his house barefoot with blood down my legs.
“This top honor would have to go to my dear husband. I was a 20 year old sweet little thing when I met him. After a few weeks we finally did the deed, at that point I had only been with one other man.
He whipped it out and I was visibly shaken, but tried to keep my cool. IT WAS ENORMOUS. I’d never seen something so big.
It was one of the most painful nights of my life, and 8 years later… I can’t get enough.”
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In a perfect world, your boyfriend/husband/fiancé/hookup would have the Goldilocks of penises: not too big and not too small— juuuust right for you. But this is not a perfect world, and the truth is that size can sometimes be an issue. His penis and your vagina might not always match up perfectly. We checked in with gynecologist Lauren Streicher, M.D., author of Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever , to find out if a penis can ever be too big for your vagina—and what to do if you find yourself dealing with the papa bear of penises.
Good news: In general, most vaginas are able to fit all shapes and sizes of penises. "Given appropriate arousal and lubrication, most vaginas can expand to fit whatever size penis," says Streicher.
It’s also pretty rare for women in their twenties and thirties to have problems accommodating more well-endowed men. "It becomes more common as you get older, though, because the likelihood of your having medical or hormonal issues increases," she says.
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That said, there are exceptions. "Sometimes, it can seem like a penis is too big for a woman's vagina. And if that's the case, the important thing is that you need to figure out why it's happening—because it can be solved," says Streicher.
There are two big reasons that his man-parts can seem too large. First, you may not be turned on enough. Really. "If a woman is not aroused, it's very possible that a penis may not go in," says Streicher. Or if it does, it could hurt or bleed or cause tearing. To fix this problem, be sure you are lubricated enough before he enters you. Ask him to engage in some serious foreplay before the main act, or use lubricant to get things going.
Another possibility is that certain medications could be making your vagina a little dehydrated—and you may not even realize it. "Many low-dose birth control pills cause vaginal dryness, as well as antihistamines and even cancer treatments, like radiation," says Streicher. So if you continue to be dry down there—even if your guy is all about foreplay—check in with your doctor or gyno to see if one of the medications you are taking may be messing with your sex life.
The important thing to focus on here is that this is a solvable situation. As long as you follow the above advice, you are not doomed to a sex-less existence if your boyfriend's penis seems too large. "I have not once seen a patient who hasn’t been able to successfully have intercourse after taking the proper steps to fix the problem," says Streicher.
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My boyfriend is well endowed and curved as well. It can be quite painful. I find missionary is one where you can control the depth. We've tried doggy style but it's only good on nights that my cervix is all the way up and I'm super turned on. You could try spooning or laying on your stomach or side. I also find that the more turned on i am at the beginning the more likely it won't hurt. Try lubes, you can opt for regular plan jelly lube or flavored, there are also some with warming and cooling sensations. Go for K-Y yours and mine NOT fire and ice. I've heard on multiple occasions where people get "burns" or discomfort from fire and ice, and these are people that aren't so sensitive to these types of oils. I suggest that you are also careful when you are on top and happen to be short or have short legs. It's not so easy to contol depth. Have fun with it and be safe! And learn to laugh.
I have the exact same problem with my bf, intercourse and real oral are pretty much out of the question.. What I usually do is lick along the shaft and head while massaging him with my lubricated hands. I grip it with both hands one above the other and knead and stroke it, up and down, sometimes while sucking on the head and flicking the tip of my tongue in his pee-hole, or taking his balls in my mouth and tonguing and sucking gently. I try to keep him going as long as I can before he cums, to give him the biggest possible orgasm, He loves it :)
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I have encountered a problem I never expected; my boyfriend is quite simply very large. I am unable to perform oral sex except for the first couple of inches due to the girth, and vaginal sex is not totally satisfying for him because he is too long and cannot fully penetrate without causing me significant pain. I've seen my doctor, and am reassured that there is physically nothing wrong with me — no infections or scarring, but am finding it difficult to come up with a solution. Any suggestions?
Contrary to the popular belief that "bigger is better," oral sex, anal sex, or vaginal intercourse with a particularly well-endowed man can present challenges. The great thing about being intimate with someone else, though, is that there are endless amounts of ways to get down and dirty. You and your boyfriend will just need to take some time to communicate and get creative. If you do that, you are sure to stumble across a few (or a bunch) of mutually satisfying solutions. Make note of these four words: arousal, lubrication, position, and technique. Let’s discuss a few different suggestions to try:
As you experiment and play, tell one another how you feel, what is uncomfortable, and what feels
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