Peging

Peging
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What is pegging? 4 reasons why it’s on everyone’s sex bucket lists these days
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Ever since we watched Abbi Jacobson try it out on Broad City , we have been fascinated with pegging . In case you missed it, or this is the first time you’re hearing about this empowering sex act, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often reserved to describe the act between heterosexual couples , so it’s a woman flipping the traditional gender dynamic and “banging” the man. But there are tons of lesbians out there who also never leave for a date without their strap-on in their bag so that they can penetrate their partners both vaginally and anally.
So, really, anyone can peg or be pegged . It’s an equal opportunity sex act.
Some feminists are conflicted about pegging. Like, is it about penis envy? We don’t need a penis to have an orgasm, so why try one on? Like so many other sexual acts , we say try not to think about it too much if the idea of it turns you and your partner on. But let’s not ignore the fact that there is definitely a power dynamic between a bottom and a top , or the one doing the penetrating and the one getting penatrated, and being able to flip the roles now and again is sort of tempting — for some! But there are all kinds of reasons you might want to float the idea of pegging with your partners. Let’s get started.
It’s been a rough year to be a woman and no one is going to blame you if the idea of taking charge and being the one to penetrate your boyfriend is the main reason you want to peg him. Seriously! Not in an ANGRY way (you should never, ever have rough sex unless that’s something you and your partner agree to) or in the name of “screwing” all of mankind, but to reclaim some power, at least in the bedroom. It’s a thing.
One woman told Vogue about her pegging journey , “It’s such a shift in the power dynamic. I kept thinking, I’m literally penetrating someone right now. Plus, it’s a vaginal workout because you have to grip the dildo with your vagina while you use it. It’s basically exercise, which I love.”
With heterosexual couples, there aren’t a lot of ways the woman gets to control the pace and pleasure factor . Sure, we’re active partners in penetrative sex, and yes we can be on top, but there’s a vulnerability that comes with being the person on the receiving end of penetration. If the feeling of control and providing pleasure is one of the main draws for you when it comes to blowjobs , you might be into pegging. Plus, rumor has it that the strap-on can often provide clitoral stimulation , so there’s something for everyone.
Because of these traditional gender roles we’re all stuck in, bringing up pegging with your partner is a big deal. Broaching the subject will take some confidence, no doubt. As women, we’re often taught that the mere act of enjoying sex — let alone some kinky sex — makes us “sluts.” It doesn’t. It’s healthy to like sex, just like it’s healthy to know that you don’t like sex. Whenever you can identify and own your desires, you’re on the right track.
Talking about what you want in bed, before, during, and after the act, is so important and makes for better sex in the long run. Having the confidence in the bedroom to talk about your needs is not an easy skill to learn, so kudos to you for trying. Keep at it: Once you start to feel comfortable telling your partners what you need to get off, your entire sexual life will change.
And you shouldn’t just be talking about what you want before sex, but during it, too. With most of your partners, it probably wouldn’t be a great idea to whip out your strap on mid-sex and tell them to roll over. Pegging is something you should go over before you take your clothes off and make sure everyone’s on board with. As you might know, anal sex takes a lot of getting used to. So while you’re pegging someone, you’re going to have to ease into it and communicate with your partner until you find the right flow — just like you should be doing when they’re penetrating you.
Again with the gender roles, right? A lot of men are really not into the idea of butt play at all during sex, even though they’ve never tried it. (Even some gay men , despite the stereotypes!) So your hetero boyfriend might be totally against even thinking about the idea of pegging. However, you might find that your man has introduced some anal action into his own masturbatory routine, since a lot of men can enhance their orgasms with a prostate massage.
The prostate is a gland in the anal canal that only men have. In reality, it’s a walnut sized reproductive gland that helps men make sperm. However, if massaged correctly from the outside (it’s right under the perineum, or the area of skin between the testicles and anus) or stimulated by pegging, it can lead to a phenomenal orgasm . Pegging is one way to get a man off without any other work involved, much like how some women enjoy their orgasms more through anal sex. This should go without saying, but obviously, if a guy says he doesn’t want you near his butt, respect his wishes, much like he should as soon as you say “no” to something.
Your partner might not be into pegging, but the mere act of asking could lead to a better conversation about what they do want. Like, maybe he’s not okay with a strap on, but is totally into trying a prostrate massage with your fingers. Or literally anything else you two might want to try together.
If you do decide to try pegging and are in a relationship with someone who’s down, taking a trip to the sex shop to pick out a strap on and lube together (never forget the lube!) is a super fun bonding activity. When you get back to the house, we guarantee your sex will be way hotter than usual. There’s something about sharing sexual fantasies with your partner that almost always ends up bringing you closer together. Pegging is definitely not for beginners, but it’s something to think about for sure. If anything, it’s worth trying just to get in touch with your sexual fantasies and learning how to talk about them.
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| March 24, 2021
| Natasha Weiss

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Are you and your partner looking for new ways to spice up your sex life? Ready to take your sexual exploration to the next level? Want to play with gender dynamics and power roles, while exploring new worlds of pleasure and sensation?
Well buckle up, we’re about to take you for a wild ride, and learn all about the world of pegging.
If you haven’t heard of pegging, it’s time you learn.
“Traditionally”, pegging is the act of a woman wearing a strap on harness and dildo, in order to penetrate or have anal sex with her male partner.
But pegging is not exclusive to heterosexual couples. Because guess what? Everyone has a butt, and almost anyone can use a harness.
That means that no matter the gender dynamics in your sexual partnerships, pegging is an option.
There are so many reasons why people are into pegging!
The first and most obvious being pleasure.
For people with penises or those assigned males at birth, pegging stimulates the prostate , which is sometimes known as the “male G-spot”. This pleasure-packed gland is located right below the bladder and can be stimulated through the anus, either externally or internally. Prostate stimulation can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.
Even if someone doesn’t have a prostate, the anus is packed with pleasure sensing nerves. If the person doing the pegging has a clitoris, this motion can allow for stimulation for them – humping is fun!
Even if the pegger does have a penis, using a harness and dildo allows them to elongate the length of time that they can pleasure their partner, or offers them another option if they don’t want to put their penis in someone’s butt.
For those interested in exploring the world of kink , pegging offers an incredible opportunity to play with power dynamics.
Anal penetration requires a certain amount of vulnerability, trust, and surrender. If the pegger is usually penetrated by the person being pegged, this change in dynamics can be a rush!
Power play is an integral part of BDSM, and let’s you explore new areas of your relationship, your sex life, and yourself.
Still interested? Now you get to learn just what to do, to begin your pegging journey.
You’re going to need a strap on harness, and an appropriate sized dildo that will fit in said harness. Be sure the harness fits comfortably, and stays put, without any materials that may chaff or irritate your skin.
When choosing a dildo , you’ll probably want to pick a smaller one at first, opting for medical grade silicone.
For people who may have difficulty wearing a harness and/or thrusting, some sex toy companies are making arm harnesses, and other more accessible options.
If anal play is new to the person being pegged, you probably won’t go straight to a dildo.
You may start with finger play, oral stimulation, before working your way up to anal plugs or beads, and eventually a dildo.
Pegging requires the person to be very relaxed in order to receive comfortably.
You may want to take a warm bath or shower together first, spend lots of time kissing, caressing, and whatever else gets you juiced up.
Again you can start with finger stimulation or other toys, before moving onto pegging. Proper arousal can make a world of difference when it comes to pegging. It can also help prevent injuries and potential tearing.
We can not say this enough – lube , lube, lube!
The butt is not a self lubricating organ, and lube is essential for a good time, and to prevent tearing. Be sure to choose a lube that is body safe, and compatible with whatever material dildo you’re using.
When in doubt, reach for more lube!
Here are some extra tips and tricks to help you on your new sexual endeavor.
Sexual aftercare is especially important after an act like pegging.
You’ll want to check in with your partner to see how the experience was for both of you. What came up, what they’d like to try again, and what they don’t want to do in the future.
Natasha (she/they) is a full spectrum doula, reproductive health content creator, and sexual wellness consultant. Her work focuses on deconstructing the shame, stigma, and barriers people carry around birth, sex, and beyond, to help people navigate through their lives with more pleasure, softness, and sensuality. You can connect with Natasha on IG @spectrumoflovedoula.
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"What I like most about pegging is the intensity of the orgasm for my partner."
It makes a lot of sense that some men like being pegged (aka, having a woman enter them using a strap-on dildo). Guys have a prostate—commonly known as the male G-spot —which is a walnut-sized gland 2-3 inches inside the anus. The prostate is full of nerve endings, and the right kind of stimulation can lead to powerful, full-body orgasms . Enjoying prostate stimulation has nothing to do with being straight, gay, or bisexual—it's simple human anatomy.
But why do women like pegging men? What do they get out of it? They're not experiencing any internal or clitoral stimulation , so unless they're using a toy at the same time , it's unlikely that they'll orgasm through pegging a man. Besides, how does one even get into pegging? Did they just ask their boyfriends, "You know how you like sticking it in me? Well, I think it's time I stick it in you!"
Well, we spoke with 14 women who love to peg dudes to find out.
Rose: "My boyfriend expressed an interest in wanting to be pegged. I was very supportive but also intimidated because I don't have a lot of experience with ass play on men. But I went ahead and bought a 5-inch strap-on. It felt really strange to wear the dildo, like, awkward with this purple appendage protruding from my pelvis, pointed at my boyfriend’s poised ass. Once the dildo was inside, I checked in with him to make sure I wasn't hurting him, and he replied, 'Are you in all the way?' After I began thrusting, he said, 'I don't think this is working, it's not big enough!'”
Amber: "My first pegging experience was both intimidating and exhilarating. It was with a long-time sexual partner who knew he really wanted it. I was so apprehensive because I didn’t understand what pleasure I would get out of it, and I was super nervous because I’m typically more of the submissive partner. He finished after two quick pumps, but the power I felt in those few seconds rocked my world."
Kellan: "My first pegging experience was one of the most intimate sexual experiences I've ever had. It was with a close friend/lover, and we had been talking about trying it for a few weeks, and I felt completely comfortable and open with him. After a couple of glasses of wine, I put on the sexy, leather harness and black dildo along with a Victoria's Secret corset top. I don't think I've ever felt sexier."
Shira: "I was young; it was almost 20 years ago, and it was exciting. My boyfriend at the time had gifted me a strap-on set for my birthday and asked me to peg him."
Daya: "My first pegging experience felt like coming into my body for the first time as a vulva-bodied trans male."
Kelley: "My first pegging session was with a long-term partner, so we were very comfortable with each other and took it slow. He had been using it by himself already too so it wasn't completely new to him."
Ashley: "My first pegging experience was actually with one of my sex educator colleagues, which was great because he was very clear in his requests, and off
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