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My partner seemed to pass urine while ejaculating. Is this normal and what would be the cause of it?
The male body has a system that keeps it from being able to ejaculate and urinate at the same time. During sexual arousal, muscles at the base of the bladder contract in order to close off the passageway from the bladder into the urethra, the tube through which urine and semen leave the body. This makes it impossible for urine to be released during ejaculation.
It is not likely that the fluid is urine, but it might be either pre-cum or ejaculate:
Of course there's always the health mantra of "When in doubt, check it out." It's a good idea to have annual health exams, so your partner may wish to see this as a good excuse to go in for a check-up. Questions your partner needs to think about and be prepared to answer during his appointment are:
Your partner can speak with his health care provider who can check to see if what he is experiencing is normal, or whether he needs to get checked out by a specialist, called a "urologist." The provider may also take a swab of the fluid to identify its makeup. If your partner does not have a clinician he sees regularly, he can visit the closest Planned Parenthood health center and ask about the services they offer to men. Also, he can check with his local health department to learn which health clinic offers men's health services.
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I have some concerns regarding masturbation. I'm 20 and I've recently started masturbation (I've done it before but now I know how to make it more pleasurable).

A few days ago I was very horny and turned on, so I decided to masturbate at night. Everything was going amazing and after a while, I felt like I was about to explode in pleasure (I'm pretty sure I was about to have an orgasm, because I had never went that far in masturbation), so I relaxed my muscles and then a warm fluid came out and it felt exactly like If i was in the bathroom urinating and no, it wasn't squirt.

After that, I panicked and went to the bathroom and pee came out. Then I went to my room and mattress had been stained so I confirmed that it was, in fact, pee. So, my problem is, how do I prevent it from happening again? I don't want something similar happening the next time and ruin it.
Welcome to the boards, Flyaway.

It can definitely be surprising and sometimes stressful when our bodies do something we don't expect, but it does happen sometimes during sex (whether that's masturbation or with a partner), and unexpected fluids are a part of sex. If you don't want this to happen again, one thing you can try is to urinate before you start masturbating, so that your bladder is empty; if this was in fact urine then that should help. Putting a towel down before you start will also prevent any fluids from soaking into your mattress. Too, over time you'll likely notice a pattern in the kinds of stimulation that lead to this kind of response from your body.

However, it's important to note that there is actually very little chemical difference between urine and the ejaculate produced by people with vaginas, so while it might have felt like you were peeing, it's also possible that you ejaculated. Either way, it sounds like you were uncomfortable with this experience: can I ask why you feel like it would ruin masturbation or sex if it happened again? What makes this different than any other kind of fluid bodies produce?
"Where there is power, there is resistance." -Michel Foucault
Thank you so much for replying. Next time I'm going to pee before masturbating so I can feel more relaxed. I think this happened because I drank too much water that day. It felt uncomfortable because it was unexpected and I was afraid to make a mess and then other people would notice, it didn't occur to me that I could put towels on my bed. Also, since it smelled kinda like pee, it turned me off.

After reading your reply, you made me feel more relaxed about this. Thank you
"Where there is power, there is resistance." -Michel Foucault

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by Yana Tallon-Hicks | Apr 10, 2017
I started masturbating when I was in high school and there would be times where something would feel good, but then I would feel my muscles relax and suddenly my bed would be wet with pee — sometimes a lot of pee. It was like in certain positions I had no control over keeping pee in my body. Sometimes it even happened if I peed before I masturbated! Then it happened in partner sex. I was having sex with someone with a penis, I was on top and suddenly I was peeing all over him. That time I did really have to pee so it made some sense. Much more recently I was having sex and my partner was fingering me, and it felt good and I was wet, but then I was really wet and when I moved there was a large wet spot on the bed. I had peed again!
Is this just a part of the way my body works? Does this happen to others? I’m trying not to be too embarrassed about it, but both times it felt pretty mortifying. I already have a lot of problems feeling comfortable when having sex with others and this worry that I will randomly pee isn’t helping.
Many people hand over their hard-earned dollars for me to teach them, in my sex educational workshops, how to do what you’re doing which, to me, sounds a lot like vaginal ejaculation — “squirting,” as the mainstream, XXX-rated world might say.
This isn’t to say that you should automatically turn that frown upside down. As with all things sexual and erotic, there are a million different strokes for just as many folks, and if squirting is one person’s holy grail and your total pain in the ass, that’s okay, too. But I wonder if connecting this damp phenomenon to your sexual pleasure rather than your perceived urinary incontinence will provide you with a wee bit of relief. (Couldn’t help myself.)
There’s one dreaded study that just keeps recirculating on my social media timelines “proving” that vaginal ejaculate is “just pee.” This unimpressive study was done on a small sample — seven people. During analysis of the sample ejaculate, researchers found three substances that are also common in urine: urea, creatinine, and uric acid. They then promptly jumped to the conclusion that all female ejaculate is JUST PEE, Y’ALL. Phew! For a minute I was worried that vaginal pleasure could stand apart from reproductive or penis-pleasing purposes. GOOD THING IT’S JUST PEE and we can go back to shaming women for enjoying their sexual bodies.
The G-spot (which is rightly more like an area), is located about two-knuckles deep on the inside front wall of the vaginal canal and is most easily reached and stimulated with a curved object or position that angles your penetrative object towards that area — like when you were on top of your partner that one time and being fingered the other time. I’ve written extensively about how to find the G-spot, how to ejaculate, and even how to prevent yourself from vaginally ejaculating on yanatallonhicks.com (just search “G-spot.”)
The main takeaway from your question for me, PP, is the repetition of you saying “it felt good” before you “peed.” If your sexual activity is bringing you pleasure and is consensual between you and your partners, then who even cares if it’s pee, or ejaculate, or lemonade. Plenty of people ejaculate vaginally, it’s completely healthy, and someday you’ll probably even find a partner who’s, like, really into that sexual response. So, throw down a towel and enjoy your body!
Yana Tallon-Hicks is a pleasure-positive writer and educator living in the Pioneer Valley. She has a website bursting with sex advice, resources, and workshops at valleyadvocate.com.
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