POWER FUCKING 💪🏿

The key to fucking hard is ditching everything you think you know from porn. You cannot just grab a bottom and immediately penetrate them—at least, not if you want them to speak to you again.

It’s not just about the penetration; it’s everything that comes before (the foreplay) and afterward (the aftercare and feedback).

Fucking hard means different things to different people, as the speed, intensity, and rhythm will vary substantially from partner to partner. For example, some bottoms crave doggy style with their face pushed into a pillow, and others only want a little hair pulling.

This article will guide you through five simple steps to help you become an expert in bed and give your partner the most amazing time of their life. So get ready for a wild ride as we teach you how to fuck hard like a professional pornstar!

HOW TO HAVE ROUGH SEX

Fucking hard and rough sex go hand in hand, and you can’t have one without the other. Fucking hard is a physical action, but rough sex is the entire experience. It’s raw, animalistic, and passionate, but don’t rush in with guns ablaze.

If you want to have satisfying rough sex, you need to establish some short and simple rules of engagement.

• Communicate with your partner. Find the best ways to get them in the mood and more.
• Build anticipation. Make them wet with lube and foreplay long before you ever set foot in the bedroom.
• Accept that they will not always be down for a wild tumble in the sheets. One week, they may crave the hardest pounding of their life. Next, they'll want a candlelight date with some flowers and chocolates, followed by gentle lovemaking.

1. Communicate

Communication is sexy, although it does not sound that way. People emphasize the emotional, mental, and physical connection between themselves and you. When you fuck a bottom, you’re meeting their physical needs, but you haven’t even touched the emotional and mental ones yet.

You might get them to have an anal orgasm once if you’re lucky. However, that’s not going to make them crave you more. When you unlock all three parts, you permit them to open up about their sexual desires. You might find they have the wildest fantasies and kinks that no one has ever asked them about.

When your partner feels safe, they can open up. You might be the first person that has ever asked them what they like and encouraged them to embrace their sexuality. They might be too timid to speak openly. It’s your job to be patient. Keep an open mind and maintain a safe and non-judgmental environment. If you’re the first person that has ever done that for them, I can guarantee they’ll crave sex with you.

Great sex is never about the size of your penis.

Some bottoms claim that nothing less than six inches will do, but that can’t be true. Otherwise, how would billions of men less than six inches have devoted partners? Don’t waste your time focusing on the size of your penis. Focus on the factors you can change—your attitude towards sex, knowledge of sexuality, and skills.

Better communication = better connection = better sex overtime

Establish whether they enjoy hard sex. They might be willing but apprehensive. Maybe they are completely down for it and already know what they like.

Rough sex is a paradox. From the outside, it appears that the bottom is entirely powerless; in reality, they are in absolute control of the situation. When that’s the case, they will be ten times more willing to engage in intercourse.

Think about these questions.

• What are your and their limits?
• What do you need in the bedroom to feel satisfied?
• What do they need to feel satisfied?
• What depth of penetration are they comfortable with? Some bottoms want it deep enough to hit their colon, and others will tend to withdraw or pull back when it’s that deep.
• Do they want it harder or softer? Faster or slower? Talk about your needs throughout intercourse as they might want it softer at the beginning but hard as they get comfortable. Safe words are necessary because, in the heat of the moment, a no might sound like a yes.

Safe words are not optional in rough lovemaking or BDSM. Choose a word that can not be misunderstood, and you will remember. Discuss the safe words before sex every time, as they or you might have forgotten if it has been a while since things got that hot and heavy inside the bedroom.

We recommend the following safe words because they are easy to remember.

• Yellow: Slow down
• Red: Stop and talk about what’s wrong

2. Build a Connection and Increase Anticipation

Sex for a bottom is more mental than physical; this is even more true when you want to fuck hard. Bottoms need to build up to rough sex. What does that look like—anticipation!

• Give them time to get ready for the action. Send them dirty text messages throughout the day. Lovingly command them to do something. Say, “I'm coming home at 6:00 PM. Wait for me on the bed with your ass in the air.” Rough sex starts long before you ever enter the bedroom. The bottom's most prominent sexual organ is the mind. When you give their mind time to get ready, you allow their sexual organs time to get ready for pleasure too.
• Dirty talk throughout sex. Dirty talk does not end at foreplay. When fucking bottom, tell them what a dirty little ___ they are and how much you enjoy their body. Constantly reinforce how good-looking try are, how good they smell, and how fucking good they feel.
• Use dominant role play. A lot of bottoms fantasize about being taken by a confident, dominant top. Any role that places you in a dominant position is what you want. Student/Teacher, Boss/Employee, or even Werewolf/Helpless Maiden are excellent choices. Many bottoms fantasize about being taken by force (with consent!). Tell your partner that you will barge into the home at a particular time, grab them, and force them into the bedroom. Prearrange the time and discuss what is going to happen. They'll eagerly await your arrival in extreme horniness. It could also work the other way around where you, the top, are to be submissive.

3. Find the Right Timing​

Sex for bottoms is nearly entirely psychological. Without trust and a feeling of safety, they won’t want to let go completely. Work on building trust and a connection with your partner first.

As we mentioned, they’re not always going to enjoy a hard fuck. They’ll go from begging you to pin them against a wall to wanting to be held and cuddled in a soft fuzzy blanket.

It's important to have some self-control. When they complain of cramps, an upset stomach, or just overall wellness, do not force them into having sex. Chances are you won't even enjoy it.

4. Find the Right Technique

The key to a pleasure-filled experience is consent. Know what your partner likes. If both of you have never tried fucking hard before, always start slow and work your way up because you might not know how far they’re willing to go.

Start with the hair-pulling test. With one hand, gently pull their hair (if they have hair). On the next pull, use a little more strength. Ask them, “Do you like that? Want me to go harder?” We can not stress enough that every bottom is different, so always gauge their reaction and understand their body language. When in doubt, stop and ask.

Incorporate some biting and scratching. Adjust the intensity of both according to her reaction. Start with little bites along the neck with light pressure, and proceed downwards. With your head buried between their thighs, lightly run your fingers down their legs. While eating their bussy, take a break from the main meal to devour their thighs with small bites.

Give them a little spank before and during penetration.

Tie them up. You can purchase handcuffs, ropes, and ties from anywhere. Alternatively, you can find a necktie and use it as a soft restraint to tie their hands to the bedpost, behind their back, or any location in the house.

You can also try choking. Choking is a kink for many bottoms, but you have to get the amount of pressure right. You never want to use too much force when choking a bottom. Make sure they can use their safe words while being choked. If they are unable to talk, use non-verbal communication. Great non-verbal safe words include the shoulder tap and hand wave. They can tap you on the shoulder or wave their hands to signal you to stop or slow down.

5. Find the Right Position

The proper position is essential to fucking hard. Some positions are better than others and allow for deeper penetration.

The key to rough sex is pinning them down, grabbing their thighs, and taking complete control of their body with their consent. These are beginner-friendly sex positions that will drive her wild!

• Missionary: Ask your partner to raise and hold their legs by placing both hands under their thighs. Have them tilt their lower body towards you. Put a pillow under them to assist with getting the right angle. If you have a smaller penis, this position will help with deeper penetration.
• Bent Over: Bend her over the kitchen or sofa as you take them from behind. Bonus points if you spank, pull their hair, or tie them up.
• Legs Over the Shoulders: This position is also excellent for readers with an average or less-than-average penis size. Ask them to lie on their back while you take both their legs and place them on each of your shoulders. Alternatively, you can place both legs on one shoulder. Tilt their body upwards and forward.

• Doggy: Classic doggy style is fantastic, but go one step further. Push them deep into the bed as you fuck them hard and tie their hands behind their back.
• Stand and Carry: Sit on a chair, and after fucking them for several minutes, stand up and lift them. Continue fucking them and pin them against the wall. While pinning them down, kiss, bite, and scratch them.
• Kneeling Soldier: Ask them to place both hands against the wall while laying on their back. Get on your knees and kneel between their legs. Grab their lower body and angle it upwards against you. Begin moving it up and down, allowing their bussy to slide against your dick. This movement stimulates multiple parts of the ass, which will help them orgasm. (You can do this from behind as well)

Fucking hard doesn’t have to be intimidating or overwhelming. It can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your sex life and explore new fantasies with your partner.

Always communicate, set boundaries, and use safe words if needed. With the right attitude and preparation, you both will have an amazing love-making session!

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