Over The Knee Spanking

Over The Knee Spanking

ChristianDomesticDisciplineLife says:

ChristianDomesticDisciplineLife says:

ChristianDomesticDisciplineLife says:

ChristianDomesticDisciplineLife says:
I had numerous discussions with people that wanted to begin or improve their Christian Domestic Discipline relationship. Many want a "guide", a manual to show them how to do it. I have neither the time (nor the talent) to write an entire book, so I'll recommend instead the following book. It's not a book on Christian Domestic Discipline, but on Domestic Discipline and was written by a woman. Her perspective clarifies a lot.

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If you have ever wondered why over the knee (OTK) is frequently used to describe the most common position in which to administer a spanking – when bent over lap (BOL) or across the thighs (ATT) would provide a more accurate description for the popular image – the following may provide some insight. The short answer is that the use of OTK may have originated when mothers lectured children at their knee and then laid them prone atop one thigh – rather than bending them across both thighs – to receive traditional disciplining.
It should also be remembered that, until fairly recently in human history, the most common implement used in discipline was some version the lowly switch. Even in the hands of the most inexperienced disciplinarian, it is very safe.
The original OTK is one of the few positions that allow a switch – or similar implement benefiting from leverage – to be freely used while maintaining control of the situation. As explained below, the buttocks of the penitent are prominently presented and may be almost totally immobilized until the necessary application is completed.
A version of the original OTK is actually depicted in a nineteenth century Collier & Ives political cartoon. It shows failed presidential candidate “Little Giant” Stephen Douglas being birched fully-clothed *over the knee* of a maternal Columbia – the traditional goddess-like symbol of the United States until the early twentieth century – in the presence of a fatherly-looking Uncle Sam.
The following OTK position for disciplining wives is adapted from a method used and recommended by a registered nurse to paddle high school and college aged daughters. It is suggested in this forum because, as experienced husbands and fathers are aware, there is not much difference in paddling a rebellious teenager or her difficult mother. The preliminaries, procedures and product can be quite similar.
A common problem is finding a suitable alternative to lap positioning with taller females. When compared to over the lap – which older women often despise because, unless the woman is petite, it can be anything from awkward to precarious – the original OTK is safe and comfortable.
Over the lap positioning, with the husband seated on a couch or bed, attempts to duplicate the original OTK for the wife’s torso, but fails to resolve the difficulty of what to do with about the legs. For reasons explained below – i.e., wedged positioning and leg pinning if necessary – the original OTK does away with distracting concerns over *making* the wife stay in *position*.
It also all but eliminates the chances of anything other than the necessary hindquarter to be stuck. At the same time, it does facilitate smarting the upper backs of the wife’s thighs should she otherwise be reluctant to cry or if her behavior has been such that she requires punishment.
When used for *domestic discipline*, the original OTK allows the wife to feel that she is being closely held. Even in disciplining, this is the ultimate therapy for a woman.
Using the original OTK position resolves the question of what to do about panties since, for reasons of practicality, removal of all clothing from waist down makes the arrangement more manageable. Disrobing from the waist down is also the preference of most women before being taken in hand by their husband for disciplinary purposes.
Rather obviously, given the way humans are constructed, longitudinal (parallel) positioning on the top of the thigh requires going *over the knee* first before the torso of one person is able to lie on the thigh of another.
An added benefit – most probably because spread thighs and bent hips made it more difficult to tighten their profoundly exposed buttocks – comes in not have to paddle as arduously to achieve the desired results. A rapidly applied lightweight *stinging* paddle or similar implement is quit effective under the circumstances. In this regard, the original OTK is ideally suited for paddling a single buttocks cheek.
The original OTK may have fallen out of favor because, given the pressure exerted on the pubic region – since situating on the thigh of maturing individuals is best achieved by spreading of the legs – the position seems exclusively suited for use with females after the spanking of males loses its desired effect and placement of exposed external genitalia becomes particularly problematic for mothers with older sons.
Also, because the original OTK can resemble some sexually explicit positions, Victorian politics may caused it to be replaced by lap positioning – which allows the upper legs to be pressed together. However, anyone familiar with disciplining a female knows that, unless she is the exception, the legs naturally separate as the legs curl. This is one reason why, once they became fashionable, female underwear was often intentionally positioned at knees or ankles – to keep the legs from flailing apart!
Likewise, the ubiquitous across the thighs position may have become the recommended *safest* position precisely because of the practical limitations of physical size which it accommodates. After a certain size, leveraged rocking, squirming, and *ironing boarding* (defiant rigidity) over the lap bring additional difficulties. This often occurs about the time teenage girls think they are too old to spank and, to the detriment of society, far too many women carry this adolescent attitude into their first, second, and even third marriages!
In the future, as currently less controversial solutions are found to be less suited for straightening out domestic difficulties with problematic wives, the use of the original OTK may once again become common.
Positioning using the original OTK begins with the husband on the edge of the bed or similar flat surface with knees and thighs spread enough to allow one thigh of a wife to slip between them.
The wife is then guided – or, if reluctant, pulled over – so that she straddles the knee of the husband on the side opposite the hand that will be used to administer the punishment. Positioning the wife on his left thigh would by typical for a right-handed husband.
The comparatively smooth transitioning from lecture to punishment positioning eliminates the need to move the wife to the side before bending them over. A towel on the husband’s thigh can both alleviate hygienic concerns as well as minimize the effect of unforeseen stress incontinence.
Nevertheless, unless the constraints of time are a paramount consideration, as might happen when privacy is scarce and something must be done immediately to correct the state of affairs, it is a good idea to insist a wife to use the restroom before presenting herself for disciplining.
Due to the wedging effect of the disciplinarian’s knee, the knees of the wife will either naturally part or will eventually separate as her hips and thighs settle into a semi-seated position that approximates the bend in the husband’s knee as her upper body lies parallel to the husband’s thigh.
Although the back of the far thigh is not always visible, with a little twisting of the husband’s upper body should make the buttocks visible. The positioning also allows monitoring as paddled skin progresses through predictable shades of pink, red, and white (which minimizes the potential for bruising when a good paddling is necessary), or to ensure that the bright red lines produced by a rapidly flicked switch leave no part of the buttocks untouched.
The wife has her shoulders and head behind her husband so that she is facing rearwards.
Although her outside arm is free, the wife’s arms will most likely fold under her breasts like a crouching lioness. Providing a pillow will allow the wife to further support her torso, or to bury her head when desirable muffle her crying.
Because females generally lack upper body strength, any attempts to rebel by raising the upper body are minimal. Nevertheless, if the wife attempts to use her free hand to protect herself or otherwise interfere, it can be pinned to her back or side with the hand that would otherwise wrap around her waist. If more control is required, it may be achieved by the husband leaning more of his torso weight on her back.
Otherwise, the arm not used to paddle the buttocks is then wrapped around her waist.
For uncooperative wives, the calf of the lower leg on the same side as the spanking hand can then be used to pin the back of the calf of the wife. Usually pinning one leg is adequate to prevent the other from swinging wildly.
Pinning a rebellious wife’s inside leg also prevents assuming a mulish *ironing board* position – with the legs extended – since it is almost impossible to do with one leg. As the spanking withers any rebellion, the woman’s legs will naturally relax as her resistance fades and she accepts her fate.
Despite the opposite facing positioning, there should be no difficulty with verbal communication within the confines of a typical bedroom or similar private space.
Although best employed with the wife stripped from the waist down, pants and panties at the knee or ankle do not necessarily preclude using the above position since it holds the wife’s knees against the husband’s leg.
If a wife absolutely refuses to cooperate in allowing the necessary area to be exposed, the sting of a firmly applied doubled man’s belt or solid wood paddle (resembling the width and thickness of a man’s hand and about twice as long) will sufficiently penetrate jeans, slacks, or skirt to get deliver the desired message if given sufficient time to sink in. An old-fashioned oval-shaped solid wood hairbrush might also prove adequate for the purpose.
Sometimes it might be necessary to apply a few firm smacks while a wife is still standing before she agrees to assume a more traditional position and more cooperatively accept the rest of her punishment. Most women would rather take a paddling while reclining rather than while than standing up. The above version of OTK may prove to be among the more useful positions when the unpleasant become necessary.
It’s the best way (OTK) to punish a desobediant wife. Sorry for my poor english
We are new to this lifestyle- and love the article- it is something to refer back to from time to time. We would like to add that we are finding practice spankings are useful, as spanking with the right force doesn’t come that naturally to a man. I know it is hard for a girl to encourage this, especially if they are new to this world- but keeping still and thinking correctly while pain is being inflicted takes a bit of practice.
I’m writing again- revisiting this, after posting a few months ago. Things are going well- although the time Al and I get together can be limited because of work pressure, particularly on my side. My flat and the care I take over appearence is better, and Al gets some inventive meals and a good breakfast when he is with me. In exchange I’m more comfortable getting spanked and our routine, and my sense of where to put myself means that he can strike me quickly. It is winter now- but we both think that it is important for me to have “bad girl marks” under the bikini area in the summer- so that’s something to work on- which older girls and male readers maybe see as a lesser priority.
My first response got posted in the wrong place. Apologies.
I do like the idea of “bad girl” marks under the summer bikini area for her. Let me know how you plan to do it.
Hey Rex- its ‘Chelle back again. Things are going well, but it is Spring and girls supervised as home will be thinking about looking great for summer. There does seem to be enough guidance online to supplement any head of household’s “trial and error”. Warm ups are important, use of the hand instead of sharp-edged instruments, consider tactical strikes on other vulnerable parts of the body such as breast, between the legs and on the legs- if the lady or ladies in your life get a little frightened by this- maybe that’s not a bad thing, it may even achieve the right sort of correction without too much effort. And do remember alternative punishments- corner time, “grounding” your belle, getting sent to bed, mouth washing- be creative, but especially remember the hugs afterwards- cuddling the love of your life in duvet, holding her, letting her clutch a teddy or a pillow- it really helps her to do her best..
I do very much like the idea of “bad girl” marks under the bikini line. Let me know how you plan to do it.
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The over-the-knee position , often abbreviated OTK , is one of the most popular spanking positions . The spanker is seated and lays the spankee sideways over his/her lap , face down and bottom up. This position leaves the spankee entirely at the spanker's disposal and in close body contact. The spankee can be kept in position well; once in position, he/she normally cannot get away or up until the spanker permits it. The spanker can use one arm and hand to hold the spankee in place while he/she spanks with the other hand. The spanker can also lift one leg over both legs of the spankee, thus further restraining the spankee, particularly in regards to kicking , and causing a sharper upward bend of the spankee's body at the bottom.

OTK is the classical position for hand-spankings and spankings with a short implement such as a hairbrush , a ping-pong paddle or a slipper . It is not good for long implements such as whips or canes , which require greater distance.

For erotic spanking , this position can be desirable because of the close body contact between the spanker and the spankee.

The "bottoms up" aspect of the OTK position should be considered key when preparing to administer an OTK hand spanking. The most important function of the spanker's lap is to act as a platform that ensures control for the spanker and a proper angle of "presentation" of the spankee's bared bottom . All of the usual aspects of control and reaction in OTK spanking are heightened, with this "bottoms up, head lower" positioning. This is done by creating a narrow platform, with spanker's knees held close together, and one leg dropped and one leg elevated. This usually results in the spankee's bottom jutting out and being elevated higher.

The arc of travel of the slap from the spanker's hand should fit well with the heightened presentation of the spankee's bottom. The arc of travel is neat, tight and a true arc, oval or circular in direction, hopefully arriving in a slight "up-swing" when making connection with elevated bottom cheeks. Coupling the arc of travel with a fluid wrist makes for an effortless "applauding" of the bottom, creating quite a sting . The spanker should strive to remain in control, sitting erect over the spankee, and enjoying their control from both an operative and visual aspect. Spanking in a calm controlled manner, yet with measured enthusiasm, will ensure proper control and could possibly be more memorable for the spankee than a severe spanking.

The two drawings below depict the "bottoms up" presentation method and its results. They feature F/m and F/M spankings respectively and one of them is labeled.

Bottoms Up, Enthusiastically Spanked, a labeled diagram of a F/m spanking

Short Man's Delimma, an example of a F/M spanking with a "Bottoms-Up" posture

Vintage M/F OTK spanking photo (c. 1900).

French photo, Ostra Studio (c. 1930s)

Scene from Two Lesbians Paddled ( Southeastern Woodshed ).

Susan Anne punished by her husband (2017).

F/F OTK spanking photo by Asa Jones (2022).

Hairbrush spanking (photo by Asa Jones, 2022).

Corporal punishment ( birching ) illustration, artist unknown.

Der nachlässige Zögling, anonymous drawing.

F/f drawing by Louis Malteste showing a schoolgirl getting a birching.

Illustration by Georges Topfer for the novel Les Malheurs de Colette (1928).

Illustration by Eric Galton for the Enlish translation of the same novel ( The Misfortunes of Colette , c. 1930).

Illustration by Georges Topfer for the novel Esclaves Modernes .

Illustration by N. Carman from the novel Journées chaudes (1931).

An example of spanking in advertising ( F/m slippering): Royal Crown Soap .

Christmas card from video producer Raven Hill Studios .

Miho-Hime and Tomoko-sensei from Kagaya Hime Miho-Chan , drawing by Gauis Marius .

Matron figure in red yukata, drawing by Gauis Marius .

From the series "After Curfew" by Salalo (2013).

Rendered art by Little Dragon Kid (2020).

Rendered art by Little Dragon Kid (2020).

Rendered art by Little Dragon Kid (2020).

Rendered art by Arnulf of Flanders (2022).

A young man spanked by Asian governess (by OTTO ).

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