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There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? Anal.
There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of (albeit sexy) taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least.
What the heck are you supposed to do down there? Is it painful? Enjoyable? And most of all: Is it actually possible to have an anal orgasm?
For starters: Yes, anal sex can be enjoyable. And yes, anal orgasms are totally a thing.
Simply put, an anal orgasm is a climax achieved by stimulation of high-density nerve spots in the anus. "Orgasms are essentially the sudden release of sexual tension," says Sheila Loanzon, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist, and a fellow of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology. "And there are different ways that an orgasm can be reached." Including anally.
"There are shared nerves from the anterior wall of the rectum to the vagina," Dr. Loanzon explains, "so for vagina owners, it may be possible for sexual arousal to occur from rectal stimulation." Plus, the legs of the clitoris extend all the way back into the anus, so it could result in some clit stimulation, too. And for anyone with a penis, anal stimulation triggers pleasure in the prostate area (that walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis).
Kimberly Langdon, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist at Medzino , breaks it down further, noting that anal intercourse stimulates the region called the P-spot in men and produces an orgasm. For women, anal intercourse applies pressure to the anterior wall of the vagina (located right beneath the bladder), deeper and closer to the cervix, in an area known as the anterior fornix. “This is the A-spot and produces similar wave-like contractions.” For both men and women, Dr. Langdon says prolonged pushing in one place versus continual thrusting can help some people achieve orgasm.
To locate these sensitive areas, try pushing up towards the belly button (with a finger, dildo, or penis) the same way you'd target the G-spot in the vagina, says Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator and the CEO of b-Vibe. "You have the same possibility of stimulating that central nerve area."
Whatever way you slice it, "an orgasm is an orgasm," says Sinclair, "but they may feel different if they originate from different parts of the body."
Also worth noting: If one method isn’t working for you (sex toys, fingers, tongue, penile penetration...), others may still be enjoyable!
When you’re traveling to the back door nether regions, here are some solid tips for hitting that anal "O."
A lot of times, when it comes to anal play and sex, we put a lot of stress and strain on ourselves, but as somatic sexologist Jaiya Ma puts it, “as soon as pressure enters the scene, arousal usually goes down.” Taking some deep breaths, playing relaxing music, or even picturing calming scenery can make a world of a difference before you journey south.
"It helps to feel comfortable in terms of cleanliness, body position, and your own mindset,” says Ma. To that point, Ma recommends her Erotic Blueprint™ quiz, which can help each partner zoom in on what makes them the most comfortable and aroused in bed.
Sinclair strongly cautions against going from "zero to penis" (or dildo). Instead, start small and solo, something she refers to as "anal training."
"The best place to start is always your own finger so you can be the giver and receiver," Sinclair says. Alternatively, you can use a slim plug or anal beads.
Invite a partner to join once you've accustomed yourself to the new sensations, having pinpointed what you like and what you don't, says Sinclair.
You stand the best chance of anal orgasm if you incorporate the routine that usually gets you to the finish line. Do you like vibration on your clit? Great, keep that vibrator stationed between your legs while your partner stimulates your anus. Do you like getting tied up before being penetrated? Grab the handcuffs and have your partner do their thing.
While it's great to stick with what you know, it also doesn't hurt to add new things to your sexual repertoire. For example, try incorporating anal play into penetrative sex, recommends Sinclair. A butt plug or finger can feel pleasurable to both partners too.
The anus doesn’t self lubricate (more on that in a bit), so it’s vital you take it at a tortoise pace when you start any penetrative play so you can make certain your partner is comfortable. “Talk about what feels good, and most importantly, get consent to continue in specifically desired ways, or stop,” says sexuality educator Ericka Hart, MEd .
Even with anal masturbation, lubrication is key: You need to keep things slick, Sinclair says, because unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate. Without lube, "you will experience friction that doesn’t feel good, and it may also cause small tears inside the anal canal." While these aren't necessarily serious sex injuries, they're certainly not comfortable: If anal orgasm is the goal, you're going to want (read: need ) to lubricate liberally.
Just make sure your lube doesn't contain a numbing agent, Sinclair cautions. For anyone who's anxious about an anal experience, a product that promises to spare your sensitive sphincter probably sounds great. But numbing your anus not only means you won't experience any of the orgasmic pleasure, it also means you won't register a rough session until it's too late. Ouch.
For non-heterosexual duos, or straight couples who want to try something different, Ma says lying on the belly with one leg frogged up and a pillow underneath your torso is a solid option. “It can make it easier for your partner to access your back door.” Other great options? Lying on your side with your knees curled into your chest, or doggy-style.
The hottest sex is safe sex. Some guiding principles from our experts:
The bottom line: Anal sex can be fun, pleasurable, and O-worthy—and you have plenty of options in terms of toys and positions. As always, be safe!

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Learn how to harness the power of your butt.
It should be fairly common knowledge (at least to readers of Men's Health ) that people with penises can stimulate the pleasure-inducing prostate gland to create earth-shattering orgasms. But did you know that women can have anal-based orgasms, too?
Yup, anal orgasms are open to anyone down to explore them. If you and your partner are down to unlock a whole new realm of pleasure, you might both want to do some exploratory butt stuff.
Here, we’re going to break down the male and female anatomies that lead to anal orgasms—basically, how the heck these things work—and provide some tips to help you and your partner(s) achieve that monumental climax.
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland tucked roughly 2-3 inches inside the anus, between the bladder and rectum. Its main function is to produce fluid that is expelled as part of semen during ejaculation. The prostate is surrounded by thousands of nerve endings that feel very good when stimulated just right. In fact, some people can ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone .
“The parasympathetic nervous system is active during arousal and erection,” explains Michael Ingber , MD, a urologist and urogynecologist at Garden State Urology. “After stimulation of the prostatic nerves, this can result in the activation of the sympathetic nerves, resulting in a powerful orgasm and seminal emission (cum).” Really, the mechanism by which it happens isn’t that important to understand fully. Just know that it feels damn good when stimulated, and you can have a really amazing orgasm.
The prostate—a.k.a. the "P spot"—can be stimulated in a number of ways, Ingber explains. Direct stimulation via manual massage can be done by gently inserting a finger roughly two inches into the rectum. “Make sure your nails are trimmed and that your hands are clean or use a glove,” suggests Ingber. The last thing you want is to actually scratch the inside of your anus with your nails.
If you're lucky enough to have a partner helping you out, just lie on your back and have your partner insert a finger inside you, making a “come hither” motion. Another way to stimulate the prostate is if you’re on your hands and knees. Then have your partner insert their finger gently (make sure to use lots of lubrication) and pressed downwards toward the floor, says Ingber.
There are a few possible ways for people with a vulva to experience an orgasm through their butt.
One possibility is through stimulating the sensitive nerves around the anus, including the pudendal nerve. These nerves tend to be located near the sphincter—which is why rimming can feel so good. We'd recommend blending anal and external clitoral stimulation for a mind-blowing blended orgasm experience.
Another path to anal orgasm involves stimulating parts of the internal clitoris through the back door. The so-called G-spot (on the front wall of the vagina) and A-spot (also on the front wall, but closer to the cervix) are both reachable through anal penetration. It's a good idea to ease into it gradually, starting with external stimulation around the anus, Ingber says: “Work up to a finger, and you can also use toys to help.”
If your partner is enjoying stimulation from a sex toy and/or your fingers, then maybe you can think about inserting your penis. Of course, always use a lot of lube— silicone lube is typically better for anal sex because it’s thicker—and go slowly . And remember, if your partner is into it, keep the external clitoral stimulation coming, whether it's via a toy or your fingers.

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It’s a long-standing misconception that women don’t enjoy anal sex. While some of us don’t, those of us that do often feel unable to be vocal about it due to the specific stigma attached to anal penetration. But plenty of us are having it: a study found that participation in receptive anal sex for women was the same across most demographics, with higher education and higher income all correlating with a greater likelihood of anal sex. 1
According to the same study, women who participate in anal sex are more likely to be irreligious, and married or living with a partner. They are also more likely to have engaged in sex with other women, to have started engaging in sexual activity before the age of 16, and to have experienced an unintended pregnancy. 2
A 2017 study by SKYN found that 36% of millenial women engage in anal sex “at least some of the time”
Other research indicates that the uptake in anal sex is on the rise, with PornHub reporting that searches for anal-focused content rose 120% between 2009 to 2015, while a 2017 study by SKYN found that 36% of millenial women engage in anal sex “at least some of the time”. 3 But it has also found that pain is a significant barrier to receptive anal sex for women, with even those that enjoy it reporting that they prefer vaginal sex. 4,5 So for those women that enjoy anal sex to the point of reaching orgasm, what makes these experiences pleasurable for them?
Valerie, an illustrator in her mid-twenties, says that for her, anal orgasms are “more of a physiological thing than a physical thing”, and that she only started to enjoy anal sex with her current partner, having initiated it with ex-partners and felt underwhelmed or uncomfortable.
“He’s [current partner] so relaxed about it,” she says. “There’s no pressure at all to participate, but also no pressure to be perfect, and no shame involved in the process. With ex-partners, some of them would constantly worry that they’d get something on them — this created a sense of shame and put pressure on me, causing me to become self conscious.
“One partner would constantly stop and pull out to check his dick — it was so off-putting and made me feel horrible.”
With her current partner, it’s the “lack of shame” and “openness” that make anal sex so enjoyable for Valerie, increasing her chances of reaching an orgasm from penetrative anal stimulation. She generally orgasms quite easily, both clitorally, vaginally, and anally — though anal orgasms happen less often than the former two. She says when they do happen, anal orgasms bring her and her partner closer together.
“My partner actually encourages me to push into the feeling of ‘needing to go’, and it’s more pleasurable when I do”
“When they do happen, they happen spontaneously,” she says. “It does hurt a little bit to begin with, but the pain has never been the issue for me, but more the fear of feeling ashamed of what my body might do.
“My partner actually encourages me to push into the feeling of ‘needing to go’, and it’s more pleasurable when I do. He’s not bothered if accidents happen, which allows me to fully let go.”
Alice, a 24-year-old hairdresser, echoes this sentiment about trust, being comfortable around the other person, and an environment without shame being key to enjoying anal sex and reaching orgasm.
“The stigma around accidentally shitting yourself during anal sex has never held me back,” she says. “This is because my boyfriend also enjoys having anal sex and understands the risks. I also have friends that enjoy anal too and that are more experienced than me with it. They openly talk about how to use enemas to prepare beforehand.
“It’s not something I’d do with someone I was just dating, or casually.”
Some like to use devices that flush out the anal passage before anal sex, using water or a liquid solution
While steps can be taken to minimise accidental contact with feces, if anal is a regular part of your sex routine, it’s likely that the person you’re having sex with will come into contact with it at some point. Some like to use devices that flush out the anal passage before anal sex, using water or a liquid solution. This is completely down to personal preference and isn’t an essential step. It won’t completely prevent an accident from happening, and can disrupt the body’s electrolyte balance if done too often.
Using condoms can prevent contact with anal secretions more effectively, as well as the transmission of STDs and other infections.
For both Valerie and Alice, foreplay is essential for gearing up to anal sex, both emotionally and physically. Alice isn’t able to reach an orgasm anally without clitoral stimulation at the same time, while Valerie is able to, but clitroral stimulation beforehand makes the initial entry point less painful for her, as well as resulting in a more intense anal orgasm later on.
“If I am already extremely aroused, the whole process is heightened in a pleasurable way,” says Valerie. “It means I am more receptive to anal physically too, they’ll still be that initial pain but I can lean into it and enjoy it if there’s been foreplay before.”
“Being penetrated anally results in the most intense orgasms for me, but I have to be clitorally stimulated at the same time to actually get there”
Alice says a partner that understands her body and what she likes is the most important step when preparing for anal sex.
“Being penetrated anally results in the most intense orgasms for me, but I have to be clitorally stimulated at the same time to actually get there,” she says.
For advertising executive Leila, who’s in her late twenties, anal orgasms aren’t a common occurrence. She can only recall ever having one, and it took her by surprise.
“There was no other kind of other stimulation going on at the time, and at first his strokes were quite slow and steady because I’m not generally a huge fan of anal sex, so had limited expectations,” she says. “Suddenly, he started going deeper and deeper and then I realised I was about to cum.”
“During the build up, there’s this ticklish, tingling sensation deep inside the G spot area”
She says the person she was participating in sex with had a curved-shaped penis that felt like it was “stimulating her G spot through her walls”, even though it was inside her anal passage. Like Leila, Valerie also recalls feeling a sensation in her G spot area during the build up to an anal orgasm, as well as feeling
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